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........ and some women will still be giving 'terms and conditions', 'you must attend my church', "you must stop alcohol", by the time they hit the mid 30s, terms and conditions will disappear........

I suggest single people attend this crusade

APC has destroyed the economy.

No comment.

darkmarky:
Mchew... When I am ready to marry, I will look for a wife in the neighboring countries.. Nigerian women are something else

but when you give birth to a female she will be a nigerian. and one day she will something else.

After hooking them up now, na them go begin misbehave.. Abeg make them go rest jor do better things with their live instead of waiting for man

Almost all the people interviewed are Igbo. Strange? All agadi nwanyi and agadi nwoke..

When all shoud unite and hold those bastards in power responsible everybody they form e no concern me when in every respect we all are affected.
Bad governance shapes destiny for bad

And

A married woman is stalking my friend. If u want to marry don't go about courting for 9years. it will cost u more

Anumba said she quickly relocated to Lagos from Abuja when she realized that she was gradually turning into prostitute because of the drive for marriage.


@ d bolded up there. Thats exactly what a Nairalander waz tryna explain here on his thread the other day. He said and i quote " Every lady who is frustrated and eager to get married cos she z runnin out of Age wil become a Sex Object in the hands of Men"

Esere826,mathewbriggs. Remember when we talked about the dwindling pool of male lovers in Nigeria on that thread, few years back? I remember telling people that until we revert back to how it was in the pre-2000s where the plum jobs were given to men, we'd continually grope with these challenges. These days, the best jobs in the society are being handed out to the ladies and the result is evident in our lives. Give the jobs to the men and you'd solve most of these problems.

deji17:
Almost all the people interviewed are Igbo. Strange? All agadi nwanyi and agadi nwoke..

Yoruba are single n married at the same time. Their married women are available. Their men still available always

pocohantas:
The main reason our youths are not getting married is the poor economy as highlighted. Some men are ready to take this risk, but the woman they want to take this risk with, isn't willing to do same.

Some women are ready, but the men are not. The average Nigerian man is a provider, if he doesn't see himself playing that role well, he maintains his lane.

One NLder's girlfriend left him for a more eligible suitor. Some ladies are falling for the pressure and hopping on the next available bus in their prime. That's the cycle now. Many guys will be heartbroken in 2018

No be lie u talk Poco babe.. There was a night i checked ur profile and saw an eerily looking dark figure with an equally scary pose.. I had a hard time sleeping that night.. What was that?

There are still matured and "ready to marry men around" but the main issue is getting a decent and responsible lady. If u are a lady ready for such men, Holla me on zero-eight-one-2-five-six-7-three-two-42

yeyerolling:
Unneccessary high standards forgetting that there are more women dan men. Cost of marriage rites. Intro dat oyinbo does over dinner, we go sow cloth cook food. Do trad and white wedding con rent hall join do reception. With every tins costing 1m or more. The babe will say dey hv to rent 2 bedroom flat and also get her a car. Na dem sabi o dey wont wanna spend der money too. Once saw d akkant balance of a babe at work looking for husband. I was shocked to my bones o. She no.get car, shes 31 and had 13m in her akkant. How many 31 year old guys hv 2m self.

Stop perpetuating this myth, there are no more women than men.
However, there are fewer financially stable men than eligible women.

Franzinni:
No scarcity of sex partners ....but marriage partners? ... Men done wise ! ....nah baby mama dey reign ..


No quote me I am a happily married man with kids biko!

At the bold,
does it mean you didn't apply wisdom when getting married when you could
have had a baby mama instead?

if u are not business minded please don't go into Marriage. It is very tasking n requires lots of future planning ahead of time. U must have streams of income. Surprise income is what will make marriage stable.

most ladies of this era are more about fun & money & the guys have also learnt to play along with that.


when the lady only wants to live in Lagos, PH or Abuja, the happening towns where they can club 24/7 & always hang out with yahoo boys, then they should be prepared to wait for such a man in that location...


ladies, learn to expand your horizon...

Denko2721987:
No be lie u talk Poco babe.. There was a night i checked ur profile and saw an eerily looking dark figure with an equally scary pose.. I had a hard time sleeping that night.. What was that?

That was me...
I think I said that severally.

ivolt:
At the bold,
does it mean you didn't apply wisdom when getting married when you could
have had a baby mama instead?

now adays to get married you need a considerable amount of foolishness bruh and to stay married you still need to apply some amount of it...but now all men done wise so the result is a world of players ...now if you are married you will know why I wrote the initial comment ...but let me explain.. the fantasy of marriage ends at the reception ...then reality kicks in .... Most people of the facebook and Instagram age are not ready for that ...things are moving so fast that a smart phone is more than enough company ...it won't nag ...it won't bikker ...you can turn down the volume ...you and simply smash it on a wall and get another ...

Now I am happily married because I chose to go the old school route ... As well as millions of others ... My choice tho... We all have one.

Jayz wasn't joking when he said 30 is the new 20.I pity Nigerian women sha, their pride and stubbornness has practically destroyed them...

pocohantas:
The main reason our youths are not getting married is the poor economy as highlighted. Some men are ready to take this risk, but the woman they want to take this risk with, isn't willing to do same.

Some women are ready, but the men are not. The average Nigerian man is a provider, if he doesn't see himself playing that role well, he maintains his lane.

One NLder's girlfriend left him for a more eligible suitor. Some ladies are falling for the pressure and hopping on the next available bus in their prime. That's the cycle now. Many guys will be heartbroken in 2018

Poor economy has nothing to do with getting married .People are becoming more materialistic and are not willing to make sacrifices .

As far as am concerned, the major reason why men have refused to get married is because the society has made premarital sex legal. Ban premarital sex for six months and see whether men would not get married.And having different relationships prior to marriage would not allow them to progress, they have to spend so much sustaining their girlfriends, so business would go down or they can't save their salary.

Orgym:
There are still matured and "ready to marry men around" but the main issue is getting a decent and responsible lady. If u are a lady ready for such men, Holla me

Holla

People Need to stop blaming the economy. That is nonsense.

The reason are people choices.

A young man will earn a salary and spend most of it on fooling around, buying "fresh clothes", clubbing. Where will he find money to provide for a family when he doesnt save? If you earn a modest salary must you go out? If you have friends that make you feel bad for not coming out...omo you dont have friends. If they know you want to settle down a good friend will push you to do the right thing. Lastly many young men cant put their ego/immature mindset away and thats why they dont marry or if they do the marriage fails.

A young woman will be make money and be spending it on materialistic things and doesn't save. If you feel that as a woman you have a right to a relationship/marriage because you are simply a woman you are very far off. In my limited experiences ive been involved with women who expected the world but yet will not call unless you do, will not come to see you unless you pick them or give them money beforehand etc etc

If people treated other as they would want to be treated then you would see things change. The real reason for this dearth is that people want to take as much as they can with the least of effort....Do you know what kind of people have that mindset THIEVES AND CRIMINALS.

Wise up. If you want to get married know that everyone has weaknesses. Work on yourself. Look for people who are willing to change. Lastly stopped being fooled by only looks (They will fade, especially if the person is a**hole) and money (can be made and lost)....the really dont mean sheeet.

Peace

and I'm here very single with no suitor yet, chaii. e no go better for President Buhari boohaaree