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Fucktensei:
chai, you can lie for Africa!

cyndy1000:
Tell that to you sisters

gypsey:
well... hurry up and become a lawyer, charge and bail lawyer i.guess.

gypsey:
why you dey shine teeth like dis?

ekensi01:
Real Parent are still working not all those spoiling their children.

Shebi she no die.

That's good.

I love such parents

gypsey:
makes sense, but this kinda punishment doesn't deter children from going astray sometimes, because if the parents carry on with this kinda punishment at some point the child will be Absorbed into it, children can also become rebelious.

some times talking to the children works more, they are not Animals and they aren't stupid either.

If an adult gave Another Adult this kinda whipping would they accept it? i doubt they would. so why give it to a child? is it because they can not defend themselves?

if my father gave me this kinda whipping i would knock him out cold.

been too strict with children makes them more wayward, disrespectful and rebelious.

The western style of raising children isn't as bad as it seems. believe it or not i know!

Denko2721987:
Dont tell me u are justfying this brutality becos this is all shades of wrong and not discipline in any form. What if she died in the process of been brutalised?

apharm:
isn't this child abuse/battery?

chuksbogus2001:
child abuse how?? This is that rubbish u watch on television. If the girl turn out to be ashawo for brotel name u go still say " chei!! name mama born this one" the story said "just because she step out" step out to where ?

chuksbogus2001:
child abuse how?? This is that rubbish u watch on television. If the girl turn out to be ashawo for brotel name u go still say " chei!! name mama born this one" the story said "just because she step out" step out to where ?

Blackhawk01:
Wrong wrong wrong! I've got few neighbours that got this kinda discipline from their parents and they are nothing close to being responsible now, I know of two of them that had abortions, not sure if others got so deep into the irresponsible life too. I'm not against using the rod but let it be done in love and not anger.

If you as a parent know you tend to overuse the rod when angry, please stick to punishments, just few minutes of "pick pin" changed some nuts in my brain as a teenager and it's working effectively for my little cousins too. That up there is beastish!

ekensi01:
Shebi she no die

Benita27:
Are you speaking of the same saner climes that a child would look at the father/mother and say...fùck you?. FYI, there's no law in Nigeria that's against a parent spanking her child.

It's discipline and not abuse. She's a teenager and at this stage they usually develop high threshold to be rebellious that if it's not toned down with spanking and words she may end up doing things with grave repercussions in the future. The society at large is a product of home values and I've heard people said "If only I listened to my mum". She may feel abused now but later in life, she'd understand why her mum kept beating her if she doesn't amend her ways.

My brothers usually tell us what my dad does to them when they misbehaved, now they laugh off their actions during childhood and understand that the man was just being a father who doesn't tolerate rubbish from his kids. Which I'm sure helped them in life.

jagugu88li:
....and just look what you have turned you have turned out to be.

Good day

gypsey:
what are you trying to say? that i turned out wrong? you haven't even met me! and you just concluded.

gypsey:
your so called bible also says forgive, it's funny how people let a hyporcritical book written by unknown humans 3000 years ago (atleast that's what you have been brainwashed to believe) run their lives, bible my butt!

this is child Abuse!

Denko2721987:
ooo, so she should have been stone dead before you classify their act as evil abi? And when the news hits frontpage you and everyone here saying this is discipline would be the first to type 'evil parents'. Stop giving what is outrightly wrong a cool colouration..We have seen severally even here on nairaland where adults die from even the lightest of physical abuses, them how much more a child who is most probably experiencing a raging hormonal change like every teenager experiences in their life time and in which several harmless means of correcting that child could be employed to point them in the right direction and put them in the right frame of mind..

We can as well justify a man beating his wife who errs since all na discipline na abi Make una stop they support bad thing becos most of una they go church and mosque everyday..

jagugu88li:
The power of compression.

Enjoy!!