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I am a normal hustler, without a decent job. I just hustle by trading different stuffs and i realised in a week i make between 30k to sometimes 100k. But because am single, i just spend carelessly on drinking and helping fake friends that are only there when they need your money.
I have thought deeply that it might benefit me more to get married and know i have a family to take care of instead of drinks and fake friends.

But with the way things are, every decent lady i meet wants a guy with a decent job. I dont want to go to the village and pick just any lady that will be ready for marriage. As a sharp guy, i also want a lady that is focused and hustling or working as well.

Why is it so hard to get those kind of ladies for marriage because i dont have an office job?

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Ask yourself if you can sustain a family with such, perhaps you would realize that maybe its not that stable enough to solely rely on... how about you save and start up something worthwhile.

Trust me when you meet her, your wife' you will know and then your Job wont be an xcuse.
Godspeed.

Is this "decent job" illegal?

Maybe because it seems like your job is not secure.

Ladies like security.

makydebbie:
Is this "decent job" illegal?

I dont get that question.

What type of business are you dealing on

Your motive of going into marriage is wrong (my opinion )
You need to discipline yourself and cut some habits before you go into it.. don't be in a haste, be calm and work on yourself, everything will fall in place

rebirthforgoody:
What type of business are you dealing on

I buy and export stuffs to Botswana and SA.

SimplyFabulous:
I dont get that question.

Your job, is it illegal?

amokeme:
Your motive of going into marriage is wrong (my opinion )
You need to discipline yourself and cut some habits before you go into it.. don't be in a haste, be calm and work on yourself, everything will fall in place

You are so wrong. Am a very disciplined man. Spending on drinks and fake friends doesn't mean am not disciplined.

SimplyFabulous:
I buy and export stuffs to Botswana and SA.

Then explain to them.ladies likes to be sure that what their hubby is doing in genuine.

makydebbie:
Your job, is it illegal?

Am a trader. I buy stuffs and sell in other countries. I dont think thats illegal

rebirthforgoody:
Then explain to them.ladies likes to be sure that what their hubby is doing in genuine.

The few i have met know what i do. I dont know why its not enough security for them because i dont wake up in the morning to wear suit and say am off to work.

SimplyFabulous:
The few i have met know what i do. I dont know why its not enough security for them because i dont wake up in the morning to wear suit and say am off to work.

Nawa oooh don't worry the right woman that will stay will come.

Seems I've come across this post before, are you the guy that wrote about earning 5k+ in a day..

rebirthforgoody:
Nawa oooh don't worry the right woman that will stay will come.

Thanks. I like that.

Tosinex:
Seems I've come across this post before, are you the guy that wrote about earning 5k+ in a day..

Definitely am not. Check when i registered.

Tosinex:
Seems I've come across this post before, are you the guy that wrote about earning 5k+ in a day..

I don't earn daily, but something comes in weakly

SimplyFabulous:
Definitely am not. Check when i registered.

OK are you a Nigerian living in Nigeria or Botswana.

SimplyFabulous:
Thanks. I like that.

Uwc

Tosinex:
OK are you a Nigerian living in Nigeria or Botswana.

Am a Nigerian.

rebirthforgoody:
Uwc

I will take not of your username.

SimplyFabulous:
Am a trader. I buy stuffs and sell in other countries. I dont think thats illegal

My Guy. You haven't answered their question ooo?

You know women are inquisitive...if you give them reason to doubt they will run even if your hustle is legal.

They are asking what kind of stuff.

Shoes, Bags, Cars...

Op please connect me on how to relocate to Botswana.

This name Nigeria gives me headache. Coupled with their dumb ass president.

I anticipate your good response.

P.s. I can also manage Lesotho.

SimplyFabulous:
I will take not of your username.

Don't get what you typed.

SimplyFabulous:
I dont get that question.

is it yahoo yahoo or drugs?

BiafranBushBoy:
Op please connect me on how to relocate to Botswana.

This name Nigeria gives me headache. Coupled with their dumb ass president.

I anticipate your good response.

P.s. I can also manage Lesotho.

tu peux va à cameroon ?

Whatever business you are into, even if it is trading, you should try to give it some structure. See what comes in on the average, and decide what you can afford to pay yourself as a regular salary. Your salary, just like your shop space (if you have one), transport/shipping, form part of the overheads that determine the prices of your products. It will also guard you against overspending, leaving you free to plough back and expand your business. If you don't do this, you would continue to live from hand to mouth, and before you realize it, you would find yourself broke. Women need security; you don't seem like you are there yet. You just need better business management and you will be able to assess your situation better.

rebirthforgoody:
Don't get what you typed.

Sorry i meant i will take note of your username.

SimplyFabulous:
Sorry i meant i will take note of your username.

Ok

SimplyFabulous:
The few i have met know what i do. I dont know why its not enough security for them because i dont wake up in the morning to wear suit and say am off to work.

I'm so sure you're getting it wrong, you still haven't figured out y they're leaving.
or its d kind of ladies you pick. IJS