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Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Nobody: 7:35am On Nov 09, 2017
I spend money on MADNESS, but today is the first day of the rest of my life. I am going to complete a spending tracker and will monitor my spending habits, no more WASTING MONEY.

Also what do you think about this? Can you give me advice please.

I am obsessed with things being brand new.

I always want to be brand new, infact, I envy babies and small children and I wish that I could go back to the day I was born and start a new life.

I have changed my number so many times, in the space of 1 year I have had 12 numbers.

I am constantly changing email address, because I want a ‘new’ one – I have even run out of email name combinations for my email address with the email provider, with multiple email providers

I have even changed my name at one point but changed it back

I always wants to re-invent himself, and be a new person

Always doing factory reset on my phone, always cleaning my house, always writing things and when it looks messy throwing it away - spent so much money on note books

Always changing school and jobs

How can I stop this behaviour?

Church hasn’t worked for me, counselling did not work..

I remember when I bought a brand new laptop but because I felt I had contaminated it – I sold the laptop for 2nd hand on the day I bought it, because I wanted a brand new one!
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by dingbang(m): 7:48am On Nov 09, 2017
Stop lying
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Nobody: 7:51am On Nov 09, 2017
dingbang:
Stop lying
lying about what?
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by dingbang(m): 7:55am On Nov 09, 2017
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Nobody: 8:15am On Nov 09, 2017
dingbang:
https://www.nairaland.com/4165173/what-think-friend-how-overcome
I lied and said it was my friend because I was too ashamed to say na me get am

Please advise me
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by dingbang(m): 8:55am On Nov 09, 2017
faridaije:
I lied and said it was my friend because I was too ashamed to say na me get am

Please advise me
I think you need to make someone in charge of your finances...
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by thorpido(m): 9:01am On Nov 09, 2017
You know you have an obsessive compulsive disorder .Why don't you visit a psychiatrist?
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Nobody: 9:03am On Nov 09, 2017
thorpido:
You know you have an obsessive compulsive disorder .Why don't you visit a psychiatrist?
no time

can i just decide to stop doing what ocd is telling me to do
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by thorpido(m): 10:14am On Nov 09, 2017
faridaije:
no time

can i just decide to stop doing what ocd is telling me to do
You need therapy.It won't just go like that.
You need to make out time to take care of your health.
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by ImaIma1(f): 1:02pm On Nov 09, 2017
Eleyi gidi gan o. You need to see a shrink. It has passed the point of advice. If you haven't listened to the advice of family and close friends, what can we on Nairaland do?
Pls go for psychiatric evaluation.
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Richy4(m): 8:18pm On Nov 09, 2017
I am just curious... You said u were changing schools too. ..when u said school, is university included too? ...if yes Maybe u should explain to me how u managed to change Uni each semester... huh
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Nov 09, 2017
Richy4:
I am just curious... You said u were changing schools too. ..when u said school, is university included too? ...if yes Maybe u should explain to me how u managed to change Uni each semester... huh
not university, just school
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by mrphysics(m): 8:38pm On Nov 09, 2017
Seems like I crash landed in this thread. Instead of responding to this large jointed......, I will be spend quality time commenting on snake threads
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Nov 09, 2017
You have posted this in how many sections now?
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by jashar(f): 7:38am On Nov 10, 2017
Gluhbirne:
You have posted this in how many sections now?
She was led to creating new topics in different sections. grin

OP, better go for psychiatric evaluation. This one that is doing you is strong...
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by Florblu(f): 8:19am On Nov 10, 2017
And don't you think you need a brand new life?
Re: Can You Confirm The Bolded With Me And Give Me Advice? by edoman2016: 11:59am On Nov 10, 2017
Are you in a relationship? I just pity your girlfriends. Cause you would have been changing them like cloth.
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