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According to statistics 1 in 3 women (35%) have experienced either physical, sexual or verbal abuse in their life time, but there is one form of abuse that is usually ignored by most of us which is ''emotional abuse'' people who go through this form of abuse are not aware of it even when it's been pointed out. The truth is a man that leave you high and dry countless times and comes back apologizing after each ordeal is as quilty as the one who hits another, therefore no matter how soft hearted you think you are i suggest it's about time you question the person's intention.

If you have to stay up all night worried if he is going to return your calls then he does not deserve you, you don't have to stay in a relationship where you do all the show off to your family, friends, colleagues and on his part no time is ever right to introduce you to the important people in his life, you don't have to stay in a relationship where he is your number one priority, but you're not considered a priority, you don't have to stay in a relationship where you're not appreciated for who you are, you don't have to stay in a relationship where the only time he notice you is when he is Hot, and after satisfying his sexual desires you become a total stranger lying next to him.

You don't have to stay in a relationship where you're been disrespected, you don't have to stay in a relationship where he compares you with other girls, you don't have to stay in a relationship where he flirts with every girl he comes across, you don't have to stay in a relationship where you can't be yourself around him, and you don't have to stay in a relationship where your interest differs. Do yourself a favour of a lifetime by leaving.

My point is most of us are so scared of being alone that we prefer to be in relationships where we are being disrespected, but the truth is it is better to be alone than with someone who does not appreciate you. You might be considering the time you spent in building the relationship, but it is better to be out of a 'ship' that is sailing nowhere.


Source : eneazi..com

RETIREDMUMU:
do we need to be told to walk out of toxic relationship

No you don't, but someone somewhere needs this as a wake up call