Please keep an open mind.

A friend in dilemma.

There are two guys.

One was contented and very shy. When he finishes school and couldn't get the job he wanted which is a government job his family persuade in to go into business which he reluctantly agree. But the business was a disaster. He doesn't have the human relationship to make it work but he's still doing it for lack of the government job he want.

Don't get it wrong, he's a good person. very quiet and reliable, his quietness is what makes my friend likes him until she saw how its affecting some other part of his life. My friend said she can't deal and want to leave him. There are other complaints too which include,

* The sex life is boring. and The kiss is horrible
* Not innovative
* His future is bleak according to her
* No self development

what my friend like about him is that he's FAITHFUL

The other guy was innovative And got a good human relationship. When he finishes good school and couldn't get job, he went into I.T since he study computer science . He started his own company and do a lot of self development. Within months he started, he has align himself with customers that needs his service. He now works with people in film production and other I.T related. He was hitting on my friend and my friends saw potential in him than the other guy. The sex was great and it's a good kisser. My problem with this guys is

* He checks out girls
* My friend has to always go extra mile to meet up to his standard which I think it's good thing. You should be with someone that makes you a better person but she saw it as a problem.

The problem now is my friend has break up with too shy guy but his family has called my friend and were begging her that their son were feeling down and she should tell them the reasons for the break up. She couldn't tell them especially the sex part.

Now she was at place last night lamenting on which guys to go with.

So I decide to throw it to the house

Your friend this, your friend that. When you are ready to own up lemme know

I'll remain single. Meeting up to a guys standard oshi. And he's not still faithful.

makydebbie:
I'll remain single. Meeting up to a guys standard oshi.

if you are single, I will shoot my shot

All These Dumb Boys Be Using Their Friends Name To Cover Up Their Own Poo! Dumb Neggars!

ChiefPiiko:
if you are single, I will shoot my shot

Lol, shoot.

teresafaith:
Your friend this, your friend that. When you are ready to own up lemme know

Lol,we all know the real thing,just overlook the coverup and give ur advice my dear

Abeg follow I.T guy

teresafaith:
Your friend this, your friend that. When you are ready to own up lemme know

Hi, my friend said I should tell your friend that he likes you. So....

Go with the guy that has a future and a successful business if you have to choose between both. What is so special about you that a successful guy will be looking at only you? You better wake up and face reality. Rich, successful, outgoing guys will smash anything smashable.

Your options now are:

1. Boring, faithful, broke dude, with poor tombeying skills.

2. Motivated, successful, fun dude, who knows how to tombey.

3. Pick neither. Look for someone with the best of both guys' features.

Choose wisely.