all her attitudes displays that she is tired and fed up of the relationship but she always want breakup talks from me like trying to put words into my mouth

jibs4lv:
Good day to you all nairalanders, am writing this to seek for advice from you people, pardon my likely errors , no one is perfect and please no too abuse me abeg , I just need mature advice from matured minds.

It’s about my girlfriend, I love her and she loves me too, our relationship has always been distance and she do comes around .

She got admission when I graduated, she did a lot of dirty things while in school of which many are known to me but despite all are flaws, I still accept her because I love her and for her good side towards me because she really stood by me while in school.


She is too lovely and jealous but I know it’s a woman things so recently, she just started misbehaving , very proud and full of herself, she never give me any respect again like she use to , if i say a single word to her what she will reply with me is always unimaginable, all her attitudes displays that she is tired and fed up of the relationship but she always want breakup talks from me like trying to put words into my mouth by asking me to tell her if am not interested in relationship so that she will hold on with it to gain people’s mind like after all, he’s the one that broke up with her .


Any time I talk about her to my uncle , he always calm me down that women are all the same but this is my life am talking about the woman am going into a life journey with, till I graduated, served and now , I have never date any other girl ever since I met her (she never believe this but actually it’s true, I don't womanize. In her mind , she always thinks am with lady especially if I missed her calls) despite the distance and I do give her the attention she want so please what can I do .


Please kindly help move to the permanent site .
Cc lalasticlala
Cc mynd44

samtinx:
You have a good heart bro,my own advice is to sit her down,tell her about her recent attitude make sure you communicate with heart then make her understand you really want the relationship as much as she do,but she sould'nt allow her recent attitude chase you away from her,and if there is something you were doing before that you no longer do,she should let you know

greatnaija01:
BRO I feel your pain BUT this is not love... THIS IS LACK OF SELF WORTH.

You are dating a CHILD whose diapers is not far... she needs ROUGH SEX and MAD MONEY to respect you... I know you may call it LOVE but ple LOVE IS NOT BLIND... if you BOTH GET MARRIED do you think you will have sensible children? Your children will hear their mom insult you and reply you rudely.

Please study books on relationships and get a mature counselor who can help or a couple who has a very good relation even at elderly age... they should sit you both down and counsel you.

LET HER GO... such ladies ONLY and I repeat ONLY LEARN BY LOSS.
Get a lady who respects you... that is what is called a WIFE.... this small girl you are with is either a WOLF or a KNIFE.... but is not a WIFE. PLS FOR YOUR HEALTH AND WEALTH AND FUTURE.

MARRIAGE is not a charity organisation, BOTH PARTIES CONTRIBUTE EQUALLY...
Marriage is not about SEX its about making a HOME filled with the essence of your single-hood.

I pray God opens your eyes to see that you are wasting your time trying to make a LIONESS a SHEEP.

there is NO BENEFIT in DOUBT so do not even consider giving her a BENEFIT OF DOUBT.

May you not regret in Life.

RETIREDMUMU:


and why u still come here to seek advice

dump her asss, you guy are only gf and bf shittt

tosyne2much:
The road is very clear... Either sooner or later, you will surely be dumped because you obviously belong to the waste bin

NwaAmaikpe:



You want to open your eye and marry Jezebel.

You know all the bad things she did in school but you don't mind,
She is very rude to you and you are cool with it.
She preempts you to call it off and its okay by you.

In simple English;
You are minus 1.

Uyi168:
..gbam!..the sad truth..op,prepare for the worst..

NwaAmaikpe:


You want to open your eye and marry Jezebel.

You know all the bad things she did in school but you don't mind,
She is very rude to you and you are cool with it.
She preempts you to call it off and its okay by you.

In simple English;
You are minus 1.

NwaAmaikpe:



You want to open your eye and marry Jezebel.

You know all the bad things she did in school but you don't mind,
She is very rude to you and you are cool with it.
She preempts you to call it off and its okay by you.

In simple English;
You are minus 1.

tosyne2much:
Don't mind the OP.


When you're bent on marrying a lady that is rude and lashes out to you at any radius, your family member will have their own share if it and the home is turned upside down

jibs4lv:
but actually , it's was not like that before.

jibs4lv:
thanks bro

jibs4lv:

tosyne2much:
The road is very clear... Either sooner or later, you will surely be dumped because you obviously belong to the waste bin

greatnaija01:
BRO I feel your pain BUT this is not love... THIS IS LACK OF SELF WORTH.

You are dating a CHILD whose diapers is not far... she needs ROUGH SEX and MAD MONEY to respect you... I know you may call it LOVE but ple LOVE IS NOT BLIND... if you BOTH GET MARRIED do you think you will have sensible children? Your children will hear their mom insult you and reply you rudely.

Please study books on relationships and get a mature counselor who can help or a couple who has a very good relation even at elderly age... they should sit you both down and counsel you.

LET HER GO... such ladies ONLY and I repeat ONLY LEARN BY LOSS.
Get a lady who respects you... that is what is called a WIFE.... this small girl you are with is either a WOLF or a KNIFE.... but is not a WIFE. PLS FOR YOUR HEALTH AND WEALTH AND FUTURE.

MARRIAGE is not a charity organisation, BOTH PARTIES CONTRIBUTE EQUALLY...
Marriage is not about SEX its about making a HOME filled with the essence of your single-hood.

I pray God opens your eyes to see that you are wasting your time trying to make a LIONESS a SHEEP.

there is NO BENEFIT in DOUBT so do not even consider giving her a BENEFIT OF DOUBT.

May you not regret in Life.

AryEmber:
This is how bitches end up with good men when good ladies end up with shitheads