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Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by makydebbie(f): 9:50am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Papiikush:Me too. No shame sef. She enjoyed the thing con dey tell us rubbish. 2 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by makydebbie(f): 9:51am On Nov 26, 2017 |
misspicy:Awwn, hope it went well? Don't leave us like that again okay? I'll not stone your fine head again. 1 Like |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Gofwane(m): 9:53am On Nov 26, 2017 |
makydebbie:Happy Sunday to you too. Erhm.... this one that you are online by this time, it means you didn't go to church. Right?? |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by lenghtinny(m): 9:55am On Nov 26, 2017 |
I'm not mad at the olodo boy or the girl for her stupidity but the boyfriend needs to be shot if he accepts her back when he should playing Anne Marie's Ciao adios, I'm done for her. Imagine letting a guy that you don't know his sexual history Bleep you raw without protection. That's how these so called girlfriends goes about getting stds and now infecting their poor boyfriends who no send them work .... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 9:55am On Nov 26, 2017 |
makydebbie:Why are you blowing kisses to your fellow woman? Please direct those kisses to me ASAP 1 Like |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 9:59am On Nov 26, 2017 |
lenghtinny: The boyfriend needed to know. 1 Like |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by zicoraads: 9:59am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Well, the lady's story has holes in it. This is the first time I'll hear of a rape story, where 'head' was given . That being said, I have had this experience several times. Some days I try, other days I don't. This lady visited me once, removed her clothes, wore my singlet and shorts. We both slept on the same bed. Tried the move. She removed my hands. Tried again, same thing. I just respected myself and left the bed for her. Went straight to the parlor and slept there. A week later, she called that she wanted to come again. There and then, I told her straight forward. Told her you and I cannot sleep in the same house without 'The do.' She just said OK. Still came and the rest as they say, is history Other days, I just practically fall asleep and wake up the following morning before realising you were there. Has happened to me several times. Tiredness from work is sometimes overwhelming to even think of pussay. Point is, guys are very different. Just like ladies too are. But for you to say a guy gave you head and you still want to call it rape? Sister, puh-lease This one just wants to trend! 5 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by naijaboiy: 10:00am On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva:If you stay in your house you wouldn’t be arguing consent and all what not. You have a boyfriend and you carry your stanky legs and itchy vagina to spend the night at a stranger’s house that you don’t even know his history. What was she expecting to happen? She may have been actually raped, whether subtly or directly. It doesn’t eliminate the stüpidity and naïvety of such a girl. Because of free wi-fi and free food see what young girls are putting themselves through. And in her parents mind their child is in school not knowing she’s collecting dick because of free wi-fi and pizza. If you can not control your urge to always flock around men and eat off of them don’t expect the randy ones to have mercy on you when they want to eat their cake. It’s that simple. Only foolish girls come up with this kind of story to whip up sympathy and sentiments from their folks after actually Fücking up! 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by naijaboiy: 10:06am On Nov 26, 2017 |
makydebbie:A wiser and more sensible opinion bereft of sentiments. You’re smart. 2 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Blackhawk01: I am her boyfriend..Oya Talk |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:10am On Nov 26, 2017 |
True the girl messed up big time but I don’t believe in blaming “rape” victims no matter how much they supposedly fuçked up. The vibe I’m getting now is, a greater percentage of Nigerian men cannot and will not control their urges. As long as they see what they perceive to be the green light from a girl, they’d go ahead and do whatever they want to do to the girl whether she truly wants it or not. And remember they had an understanding that nothing would happen, and they’re supposed to be two mature adults. Even if they made out and got touchy, she refused the penetration aspect but he went ahead to do it anyways because she had eaten his pizza and enjoyed his WiFi and he felt indebted. To be honest, you cannot in anyway justify or exonerate the man for what he did. He was wrong on a greater level. Unfortunately, in this part of the world, it’s always the girl that’ll bear the brunt. naijaboiy: 5 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by zicoraads: 10:10am On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva, you are both right and wrong. Yes, a lot of people don't know the line between rape and consent. The debate about this same topic that went viral some months back made me realise alot of men need alot of orientation. Most times, the victim gets the blame. Someone I deeply loved was a victim, so I know this all too well. Still, we should also be careful in always wanting to put the blame on the man. I have also seen a man who was convicted of rape at 17 and spent 50 years in prison before it was discovered the girl lied. So how do you compensate him? All your life wasted for what you didn't do. Some ladies only cry rape when in truth, nothing of sorts actually happened. But I also don't want to believe a guy gave you head and you still call it rape. And he didn't even tie her down or anything. No, this one is a lie. There was consent. 4 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 10:11am On Nov 26, 2017 |
naijaboiy: You have a boyfriend and you still went to sleep over. What for? And someone will say she shouldn't be blamed cause there was no consent. |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:13am On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva: Hahahaha mehn I like you, You are tooo funny. she refused the penetration aspect --- He gave head, but she refused the penetration aspect? Are you kidding me right now , Honestly its either you are an hypocrite or just trolling us here 7 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:13am On Nov 26, 2017 |
You’re right. This story is not verifiable because there’s no proof whatsoever, but it doesn’t mean we should be quick to discard her story as lies. This kind of situation can play out itself again and it’s good people know what constitutes as rape. zicoraads: 1 Like |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:15am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Laveda: There was no consent, And she gladly received head? The sleeping part does not even annoy me. Na the "HEAD" part i dey vex for. 3 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by zicoraads: 10:15am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Laveda:It's even not about having a boyfriend or not. Having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is not why we are having this talk. The point of this is: was there consent or not? |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:16am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Lol don’t get me wrong. She didn’t even want the orals to happen either from what I understood of the story, but he did it anyway. My point is, even if a guy is getting intimate with a girl, with kissing and handling, if she says she doesn’t want sex, then he should leave her be. Just because she allowed herself to be kissed and touch doesn’t give him any right to go on and have his way with her. It’s all about consent. cruchenutii: 2 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by naijaboiy: 10:16am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Blackfyre:Oral rape? So it’s no longer penetration again? Very soon I’m sure if a man shakes just the hand of a woman it will regarded as “handy rape” 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by zicoraads: 10:16am On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva:Tell me though, do you believe a guy can forcefully give you head? 2 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:19am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Laveda:thanks for that piece. She's to be blamed more for not telling her boyfriend too before spending a night in a Guy's house...I personally won't allow that. |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 10:20am On Nov 26, 2017 |
zicoraads: Lol. We have to take note of everything. The fact she received without trying to stop him is really what I don't understand, the whole oral thing shouldn't have taken place at all to start with. |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:20am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Look, I’m trying as much as possible to understand that particular situation. He weakened her defenses, she might have enjoyed it oh lol but he did it without her approval. Or he might have held her down. Or she might have been protesting as he was doing it but she liked it anyway but still didn’t want it to happen. It’s possible to give orals to someone who doesn’t want it and it’ll still constitute as rape. Whether it’s touching someone or outrightly having sex with them against their wish. zicoraads: |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:21am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Papiikush: I wonder o Honestly her story made me weak. She's not serious. Go to a guy's house that's not your boyfriend, and don't be shocked if he rapes or have sex with you. It comes with the territory Some babes sha. She's deceiving herself She no deceive me. Lol |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 10:24am On Nov 26, 2017 |
But with the comments here, is it safe to say men are potential ràpists? 1 Like |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by zicoraads: 10:24am On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva:Your default mindset is to always blame the accused. Something you are trying to caution us against. You've said a lot of 'might.' You know the story has too many holes. But in trying too hard not to blame the lady, you are blaming the guy. Keep an open mind. No matter how small a lady is, I don't honestly think I can force her down and give her head without her bashing my nose or eyes with her legs. And I know it's same for a lot of people. 8 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:24am On Nov 26, 2017 |
naijaboiy: Was just making a joke at that part.... I think females are coming up with this idea that they can only allow a man as far as they want with him on their body.....like...they could both do MouthAction and leave it at that and no penetration....or kissing and grabbing and no penetration....even anal sex and he dare not try going vaginal with her... It makes it seem the intercourse is only so far as I want it despite how turned on he may be. Now nothing is wrong with this but we can't expect all men to have that sort of control over their urges especially bodies is naked and turned on....you now saying he can only do this and not that.... Anyways....21st century and their problems...if people just adhered to how God wants it....there will be no problem... *Sips water* 4 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Nobody: 10:24am On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva: See ehn, logically what you say might make sense. But Pratically, It does not. You can't receive ORAL & then refuse penetration. Immediately he tries to give you ORAL, you are suppose to refuse & fight back, So what happens next is either you fight, get beaten OR break his head with anything you deem fit in that house. Kissing & handling is different from ORAL, Lets just make that clear. 3 Likes |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by zicoraads: 10:25am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Laveda:You are on your own. Bye |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by Laveda(f): 10:26am On Nov 26, 2017 |
zicoraads: Lol. Tell me |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by naijaboiy: 10:27am On Nov 26, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva: [b]When we were younger our parents always told us not to go out at night and for many of us, we grew up with that. If for example you disobey your parents and go out late and something happens to you, say you were robbed and harrassed, the robbers have committed a crime, yes! But it doesn’t change the fact that you as a child was stubborn and disobedient and your strong headedness is probably what led you to being robbed. It’s the same case here. He is accused of raping her subtly, as can be seen from the story. If the case is taken up and he is found culpable he will be convicted and justice will be served. Right? But all those things will not remove the stupïdity from that girl because it’s very obvious she hasn’t learnt her lesson. It’s these same girls that accuse men of rape in this type of way who wouldn’t mind becoming baby mamas just because of a few buckz a nigga’s got. There’s no way you wanna put it miss, this particular “victim” was foolish and she deserves to be shamed too! [/b] 1 Like |
Re: UNILAG Girl Recounts Her "Rape & Beg" Experience With A Man, Unilagolodo by naijaboiy: 10:30am On Nov 26, 2017 |
cruchenutii: Girls who know themselves will not ever let you go DOWN THERE if they’re not ready to have sex with you. And I also don’t think they’ll think of spending the night and decide to wear just a boxer short at that, when they don’t want anything to go on. 1 Like |
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