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1. Learn Conversation Skills:

Dear Nigerian Girls, their is no virtue in being boring. Their is nothing fascinating in using words(you say words?) like ‘K’ for Okay, ‘Fyn’ for Fine, ‘Nthn’ for Nothing and ‘nd’ for And in conversations. You should not be proud of boring people in conversations. These are not words or acronyms or exist anywhere in grammar. It is something you should be ashamed of. It is something you only find in the lexicon of poorly educated people. To add salt to injury, these collection of K’s, Fyn’s, and Nthn’s are what you bring to conversations. How are you doing? Fyn. What is happening? Nthn. Are you alright? Yes. Why are you answering me in monosyllables? Wateva. You don’t bother to ask the dude doing all these asking how he feels, how his life is going or how his day went. Improve on your conversation skills, please. Some of you even start a conversation you are not prepared to see through. Why chat up anyone when you know you are not willing to say anything?

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http://www.mortalpoet.com/dear-nigerian-girls-stop-things/

ododo Oro....Na men dey carry all the blame for relationships...Man dey suffer oo...

You know this thread won't change anything. Deep within you,you know.

dollyjoy:
You know this thread won't change anything. Deep within you,you know.

Tell him sis

Forming slay queen.

dollyjoy:
You know this thread won't change anything. Deep within you,you know.

No, I don't. People are different, choose and learn differently.

Op, no3 should be "There" not "Their".

I endorse this post. I find no fault with it. None whatsoever.

A very nice post.

There and Their. OP, what is doing you

dollyjoy:
You know this thread won't change anything. Deep within you,you know.

How would you know that?

No.4 is what I don't understand in all this ladies, later they will shout #menarethrash or #Iamafeminist. Well it's their choice, not my business.

a well written article.

lollz, this almost made the Op 98.9% correct o. Are you women affairs' male minister?

Blackhawk01:
Op, no3 should be "There" not "Their".

Corrected.

1. Learn Conversation Skills:

Right on the money

2. Marriage Is Not An Achievement:

It takes some ball to get married and make it work. That's an achievement to me.

3. There Are Broke Girls Too:

Yes there are.

4. Stop Worshipping ‘Hard’ Men:

They can't help it it's biology. You might as well tell them to stop breathing.

5. Virginity Is Not Enough:

Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable if the woman is a virgin. Society has good reasons for rating virgins high.

I'll take a good virgin instead of a good non virgin who's been with 40 guys.

6. Quit Bleaching:

Let's hope they listen.

Sapiosexuality

You Almost Satisfied Me With Your Post. WELDONE

True

Sapiosexuality:
Corrected.

Beautifully presented

I endorse this message

nicely written

JacksonD7:
Right on the money




It takes some ball to get married and make it work. That's an achievement to me.

Yes there are.

They can't help it it's biology. You might as well tell them to stop breathing.

Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable if the woman is a virgin. Society has good reasons for rating virgins high.

I'll take a good virgin instead of a good non virgin who's been with 40 guys.

Let's hope they listen.

Sapiosexuality

You did a good job. Let's hope someone listens.

this post need to be on front page

Sense making

Nice.

Not all Nigerian girls though and as someone said, this can't change who they are.

Let them be with what they choose to believe in.

So on point, can't be faulted.
This article speaks to my friend, but she's not on Nairaland. I'm tired of trying to change her for her own good. In no time she goes back to her old self and mentality again. Too bad!

richardoz:
lollz, this almost made the Op 98.9% correct o. Are you women affairs' male minister?

Lol. Just a good observer.

Dimples129:
Beautifully presented
I endorse this message

thanks. You can help share it.

IBBG:
this post need to be on front page

It's complicated.

olujastro:
So on point, can't be faulted.
This article speaks to my friend, but she's not on Nairaland. I'm tired of trying to change her for her own good. In no time she goes back to her old self and mentality again. Too bad!

You can share it with her.