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hello everyone am Dr. Al-amin, am in a serious doubt and have seen alots of scenarios where people in different sort of problems ask questions via Nairaland and get some reasonable advice's and solutions to their problems.
am a fresh Doc doing my housemanship and my Gurlfrnd wants me to get married to her asap am Nat paid well (more than 170k)... I love her buh am skeptical about my income I dnt want her to come and suffer in my house so I told her dat after my service if I secure a much better job which pays better I will marry her buh she always said she doesn't care about my income she only cares about me so plsss people advice me on wah to do is it OK to marry and afford for all her expenses with 174k monthly ?? becos am afraid thank you all for ya kind advice.....

Don’t do it man. Make sure you’re ready! She will be the first person to put all the blames on you if anything goes wrong

aladon10:
hello everyone am Dr. Al-amin, am in a serious doubt and have seen alots of scenarios where people in different sort of problems ask questions via Nairaland and get some reasonable advice's and solutions to their problems.
am a fresh Doc doing my housemanship and my Gurlfrnd wants me to get married to her asap am Nat paid well (more than 170k)... I love her buh am skeptical about my income I dnt want her to come and suffer in my house so I told her dat after my service if I secure a much better job which pays better I will marry her buh she always said she doesn't care about my income she only cares about me so plsss people advice me on wah to do is it OK to marry and afford for all her expenses with 174k monthly ?? becos am afraid thank you all for ya kind advice.....

is she working?

From a fellow Doc, getting a doctor job after housemanship is challenging and the pay might not be so fantastic so save Your HOUSEJOB money,, no buy car,, no buy land,, no marry and start gathering funds for UK IELTS ukvi and Plab 1 and Plab2....to practice in the Uk

Laird:
From a fellow Doc, getting a doctor job after housemanship is challenging and the pay might not be so fantastic so save Your HOUSEJOB money,, no buy car,, no buy land,, no marry and start gathering funds for UK IELTS ukvi and Plab 1 and Plab2....to practice in the Uk

Dr. St...I sight u.

Doc,
pls Doc don't do anything to please her,
please yourself first by gathering resources and making investment, if may ask you, do you want after your practice you still depend on your colleagues ahead of you to pay you?
so make sure you save and start it all on your own and make your society proud,

remember women can be tricky,
so Bleep the love and pursue your dream

I see she's doing all these things to please herself, in other to settle down but you haven't settled down man,
if she really loves you make she wait for you to get what it takes to take care of a woman.

DM: whatsapp:08063968513

yomi007k:
Dr. St...I sight u.

Boss on D Low..... Key

I greet

sunnymighty:
is she working?

no she's a medical student in part2

chukwuma0000:
Doc,
pls Doc don't do anything to please her,
please yourself first by gathering resources and making investment, if may ask you, do you want after your practice you still depend on your colleagues ahead of you to pay you?
so make sure you save and start it all on your own and make your society proud,

remember women can be tricky,
so Bleep the love and pursue your dream

I see she's doing all these things to please herself, in other to settle down but you haven't settled down man,
if she really loves you make she wait for you to get what it takes to take care of a woman.

DM: whatsapp:08063968513

thanks I really appreciate the advice

Laird:
From a fellow Doc, getting a doctor job after housemanship is challenging and the pay might not be so fantastic so save Your HOUSEJOB money,, no buy car,, no buy land,, no marry and start gathering funds for UK IELTS ukvi and Plab 1 and Plab2....to practice in the Uk

thank ya doc ...I appreciate ya professional advice

internetgangste:
Don’t do it man. Make sure you’re ready! She will be the first person to put all the blames on you if anything goes wrong

sure that can happen thank you very much