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My name is Gift and I just got married three months ago but I am already fed up because my husband's manhood is so big I suffer tear every time we make love.

I know many women will read this with a pinch of the salt while others, like some of my friends, will say I should be lucky that my husband is so endowed and can satisfy me in bed.
But it is not about sexual satisfaction here, it is about the pain I go through during sex. I grew up in a strict home where our parents monitored us and any discussion of the opposite sex was seriously frowned at. I did not have a boyfriend until I was in my third year in the university and even at that, I never had sex till my youth service, at 25, and it was not a pleasant experience. After the first time, I had sex not more than five more times before I met Joseph who later became my husband. I met him during a seminar I attended in Port Harcourt and was swept off my feet at first glance.

Since he was based in Abuja, we managed to maintain a long distance relationship and only got to see each other whenever he came to Lagos, which was not often.

Our first night together was quite horrible but he reasoned that it was because I had not been exposed. He told me never to worry, as I would get used to it with time. We managed to cope till we got married and that was when my nightmare started. Sex with my husband has been hellish and I always dread such moments. We have tried lubricants to make me wet but it seems my tight private part is not just made for him.

We are both living like strangers and I dare say it is just a matter of time before the marriage crumbles.

What do I do to make my marriage work?

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what about your doctor, have you been to him/her?

In 6 months come back and read about this your post, you yourself will laugh

IkpuMmadu:
My name is Gift and I just got married three months ago but I am already fed up because my husband's manhood is so big I suffer tear every time we make love.

I know many women will read this with a pinch of the salt while others, like some of my friends, will say I should be lucky that my husband is so endowed and can satisfy me in bed.
But it is not about sexual satisfaction here, it is about the pain I go through during sex. I grew up in a strict home where our parents monitored us and any discussion of the opposite sex was seriously frowned at. I did not have a boyfriend until I was in my third year in the university and even at that, I never had sex till my youth service, at 25, and it was not a pleasant experience. After the first time, I had sex not more than five more times before I met Joseph who later became my husband. I met him during a seminar I attended in Port Harcourt and was swept off my feet at first glance.

Since he was based in Abuja, we managed to maintain a long distance relationship and only got to see each other whenever he came to Lagos, which was not often.

Our first night together was quite horrible but he reasoned that it was because I had not been exposed. He told me never to worry, as I would get used to it with time. We managed to cope till we got married and that was when my nightmare started. Sex with my husband has been hellish and I always dread such moments. We have tried lubricants to make me wet but it seems my tight private part is not just made for him.

We are both living like strangers and I dare say it is just a matter of time before the marriage crumbles.

What do I do to make my marriage work?

your moniker

Aunty why are u confusing ur life cos i dont understand again o

do you want to "leave him" or you want to "safe the marriage"?

Aswear I no even know wetin I go talk 4 ur mata...

Maybe d pesin below wee hep u out

Aswear I no even know wetin I go talk 4 ur mata...

Maybe d pesin below wee hep u out

Go and complain to your Doctor/gynocologist, he/she can help u out

Buy a big dìldo and usr it regularly to expand your pussy.

Hope you are not fully circumsied

IkpuMmadu:
My name is Gift and I just got married three months ago but I am already fed up because my husband's manhood is so big I suffer tear every time we make love.

I know many women will read this with a pinch of the salt while others, like some of my friends, will say I should be lucky that my husband is so endowed and can satisfy me in bed.
But it is not about sexual satisfaction here, it is about the pain I go through during sex. I grew up in a strict home where our parents monitored us and any discussion of the opposite sex was seriously frowned at. I did not have a boyfriend until I was in my third year in the university and even at that, I never had sex till my youth service, at 25, and it was not a pleasant experience. After the first time, I had sex not more than five more times before I met Joseph who later became my husband. I met him during a seminar I attended in Port Harcourt and was swept off my feet at first glance.

Since he was based in Abuja, we managed to maintain a long distance relationship and only got to see each other whenever he came to Lagos, which was not often.

Our first night together was quite horrible but he reasoned that it was because I had not been exposed. He told me never to worry, as I would get used to it with time. We managed to cope till we got married and that was when my nightmare started. Sex with my husband has been hellish and I always dread such moments. We have tried lubricants to make me wet but it seems my tight private part is not just made for him.

We are both living like strangers and I dare say it is just a matter of time before the marriage crumbles.

What do I do to make my marriage work?

don't worry when u give birth to one child u will enjoy it better

I don't believe your story,you had sex more than 5 times and still it does not master you.......just endure it and try again with your hubby .do not leave him cos of his big dick.the next person you may come across after leaving him maybe a man that Bleep girl like crazy .some men hide there sex skills during courtship.ENDURE THE PAIN PLS

Shewrite should cum and complete her story...Gift ur mata na spritual issue ohh, u need to go and see eye of the gods for solution

U need to have sex more frequently with him, the pain will stop with time.