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So yesterday,I wrote a piece for my single ladies. I would like to do a little one for my single fellas as well (so no one will call me biased..lol)

So Uncle,how market na? The year is almost over. What Happened? You Still dating Titi,its over two years and you are yet to fix a date for the wedding. Your excuse is : I never blow!..Haba,na,Oga…na only you waka come?

Dude,you have been friends with this babe since January this year and you have not gathered enough liver to ask her out or say how you feel about her? Why dying in silence? Worst that can happen is,she will say no. And so,the world wont come to an end na.




Ok,my brother, you have three babes as bae throughout this year. All of them thinking they are the only bae in your life. My friend,God is watching you oooo.

Fellas,as we wrap up the year,its time for some self evaluation. Its time for some deep reflections. It would be very stupid to go into the new year with the same attitude that you had this year. Especially if these attitudes are very bad habits.

So you have a zillion and one excuse why you didn’t put a ring on it

Let me ask you a question: In the midst of the zillion questions,if you have taken action,what would have happened?

The Only thing that could have happened is: LIFE!

Yes,Life happens. People go through up and downs. It does not and should not stop any one from reaching their highest potentials or fulfilling their goals.

Take my advice,if you see a bae that you like,someone who has potentials to be the kind of wifey and partner that will support your life,please by all means,stop all the games and go for it.

You might say but Jzhane,I am not financially stable yet. Question is: Do you have the basic requirements to get married? i.e: do you have at least a job or business? Do you have your own apartment? Do you have SMART goals? Is She working as well?Are you both passionate,hardworking and ambitious?

If your answer to the above is yes,then I dont see a problem. Come on,what you need to really get married is faith!. Faith In Gods word,faith in yourself and faith in your future!

And for those of you friend zoning a girl. You like her,you give her mixed messages but in your heart,you know shes not the one,please grow up and cut her loose.

On the contrary there are not many fishes in the water,so lets get this straight,if you are not ready for a relationship that will lead into marriage in a short while,repent now!

What are you looking for in a Wife material (how many yards mbok).? The truth is,you have a huge role in building what you want to see in your future wife.

You want a loyal,humble,respectful wife? A good cook? A Sexy babe? One who can ”wrestle” well in bed?…You can have all of these and more. You just need to be ready to invest the time,love and effort needed into the woman of your dreams.

Some of us are with this babe because she is loaded with cash. Forget feminism and all,a man should always be able to bring something to the table. Even if she does not rub it in your face,one day,you gonna wake up and feel less of a man. Dont stick to her for her wealth. Bring your own. Let her assume her role as help mate not source or sustainer: that is your role!

My prayer for you is that.in the coming year,you will find what you are looking for. That you will have the courage to take it.And that you will be a man enough to make that bold step.

This yuletide,resist the urge to break hearts. Stick to one babe. And please,put in a ring on it (soon abi?)

Have a fabulous season!



Jzhane



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