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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Alexgeneration(m): 11:56pm On Dec 17, 2017
Ok
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:57pm On Dec 17, 2017
queenfav:
Even the men a woman lies stark naaked in bed for, will still cheat if they want to.... It takes a lot of self discipline and the fear of God for a man to be a good husband, it's not a function of what his woman does or doesn't do!A woman should however try to stay attractive for her man.
Abeg u don marry? If no marry me. U too get enuf oil for ya head! As for the Op, one thing he must know is that, the human mind or behavoiur can never be known, it is always subject to constant change.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by PastorLucifer: 11:57pm On Dec 17, 2017
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

I saw like 15 feminists viewing this thread just now.

Only 3 left now. grin grin

The truth is truly bitter.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Okoyeeboz: 11:57pm On Dec 17, 2017
PastorLucifer:


Instead of listing all these, just type her name - Pocohantas.

Simple.

Is she your wife?

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by b3llo(m): 11:57pm On Dec 17, 2017
MrHistorian:
6.)Total disregard for body/beauty maintenance.

I don't know if this is peculiar to Nigeria but once a woman is married,she pays little attention to her looks with the ridiculous belief that "Who is looking at me?".. Though a married woman is not expected to portray herself as a slut but at the same time must make herself presentable at home and in the public.
Some Married women put less efforts to maintain their selves because they are already Madams. This is very dangerous and terrible to their marriages.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Macgreat(m): 11:58pm On Dec 17, 2017
Good one OP
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Emeritus001(m): 11:59pm On Dec 17, 2017
O.k...U try
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by ImaIma1(f): 11:59pm On Dec 17, 2017
If the man only gets close or acts nice only when he wants sex,it is a problem. Withholding sex by either party is a marital crime cheesy.

Rudeness comes with "arifin"...taking your spouse for granted. You should treat your spouse with special attention.

Respect is hard for a lot of women because you are wondering why you need to respect this guy that has been your boyfriend. Someone has to be the head and it is him. Not holding on to every little wrong he does will go a long way to help.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by PastorLucifer: 11:59pm On Dec 17, 2017
safarigirl:
Not putting a tracker on their husbands grin

In case you marry a dog, you need to be sure he hasn't been eating shiiit outside before coming to you, lest he gives you a disease




Auntie, only Bobrisky can rival your bleaching.

Can I see your childhood pics? grin

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 12:00am On Dec 18, 2017
ImaIma1:
If the man only gets close or acts nice only when he wants sex,it is a problem. Withholding sex by either party is a marital crime cheesy.

Rudeness comes with "arifin"...taking your spouse for granted. You should treat your spouse with special attention.

Respect is hard for a lot of women because you are wondering why you need to respect this guy that has been your boyfriend. Someone has to be the head and it is him. Not holding on to every little wrong he does will go a long way to help.


You spoke well. May oil not lack on your head

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by MrEdimulo82(m): 12:02am On Dec 18, 2017
Totally agree.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by safarigirl(f): 12:02am On Dec 18, 2017
PastorLucifer:





Auntie, only Bobrisky can rival your bleaching.

Can I see your childhood pics? grin
lol...that's the work of a photo editing app...does that even look natural to you abi eye dey pain you?

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Okoyeeboz: 12:04am On Dec 18, 2017
PastorLucifer:

Auntie, only Bobrisky can rival your bleaching.
Can I see your childhood pics? grin
It's like you want these girls to pour you acid before you comot here?

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by maureensylvia(f): 12:04am On Dec 18, 2017
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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by PastorLucifer: 12:05am On Dec 18, 2017
safarigirl:
lol...that's the work of a photo editing app...does that even look natural to you abi eye dey pain you?




Just making sure your face doesn't look brighter than your future.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by sunkieisland(m): 12:10am On Dec 18, 2017
safarigirl:
Not putting a tracker on their husbands grin

In case you marry a dog, you need to be sure he hasn't been eating shiiit outside before coming to you, lest he gives you a disease

Must you be negative in your thinking? There are faithful men out there that have got other issues with their wives other than s*xU@l related wahalas.

Just be careful the kind of men you attract with your words....

Shalom
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by mickeymimi: 12:12am On Dec 18, 2017
Sometimes it could be problems conceiving a child..... neglect ,,, stress from work......,money issue . If she is avoiding you ....please dont ignore her ..it is a sign that she is not happy and upset about something she expected you to do or know. Just keep your cool and try to talk to her in a calm manner .....dont show anger even if you are angry so you can get to bottom of the matter.....

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by safarigirl(f): 12:16am On Dec 18, 2017
sunkieisland:


Must you be negative in your thinking? There are faithful men out there that have got other issues with their wives other than s*xU@l related wahalas.

Just be careful the kind of men you attract with your words....

Shalom
I am not even trying to attract any kind.

The difference between a thief and an innocent man is that one has been caught and the other hasn't. Even the men who aren't whoring around are either smokers, drunks, gamblers or some other funny character.

Virtually every man has a vice and same goes for women. Just pick the comfortable evil

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by ImaIma1(f): 12:16am On Dec 18, 2017
b3llo:
Some Married women put less efforts to maintain their selves because they are already Madams. This is very dangerous and terrible to their marriages.

It is not like that anymore. Women are slay mums these days. Besides that is not really what keeps a marriage, if not, Caroline Danjuma would still be married and Jay-Z wouldn't have cheated on Beyonce cheesy.

The relationship and communication between the couple is important. You guys would be so close that your husband will help you get back to shape and look good not just complaining and demanding.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by safarigirl(f): 12:17am On Dec 18, 2017
PastorLucifer:





Just making sure your face doesn't look brighter than your future.
It takes a special kind of stupid to bleach. I haven't quite attained that level, thanks for looking out though

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by safarigirl(f): 12:20am On Dec 18, 2017
ImaIma1:


It is not like that anymore. Women are slay mums these days. Besides that is not really what keeps a marriage, if not, Caroline Danjuma would still be married and Jay-Z wouldn't have cheated on Beyonce cheesy.

The relationship and communication between the couple is important. You guys would be so close that your husband will help you get back to shape and look good not just complaining and demanding.

and the most annoying thing about such men is that thwy are not in shape.

It's one thing to wantg your wife to look good, buy you cannot expect her to look like Rihanna when you're looking like Rick Ross.

A marriage is a partnership that requires two people to constantly pull each other up whenever one person is down, not to beat the person down.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by PastorLucifer: 12:25am On Dec 18, 2017
safarigirl:
It takes a special kind of stupid to bleach. I haven't quite attained that level, thanks for looking out though





I want to believe you... I really want to

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Antipob777(f): 12:26am On Dec 18, 2017
Touching there husbands phones
Reading there husbands messages.
I did this and it almost killed our marriage.
I advice ladies to move on and avoid touching there husbands phones.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Target12: 12:29am On Dec 18, 2017
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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by alexyanalysis(m): 12:29am On Dec 18, 2017
safarigirl:
Not putting a tracker on their husbands grin

In case you marry a dog, you need to be sure he hasn't been eating shiiit outside before coming to you, lest he gives you a disease
Grow up!
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by safarigirl(f): 12:31am On Dec 18, 2017
alexyanalysis:

Grow up!
and end up as grumpy as you are? I think I'll pass sad

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Icon79(m): 12:32am On Dec 18, 2017
Very well said, bruh!

And may I add, Sleeping with other men thinking that they are hurting their husband. Anytime a married woman sleeps with another man, she's disrespecting herself much more than she can ever disrespect her husband. Mark my words!


O pari

Chuks9000:
Women (married) have their overwhelmingly great sides. But their are some behaviours that could be detrimental to the relationship.

1. Lack of sex.
Having sex once in a month! She will always
come up with excuses like: I have a headache, I'm not in the mood, you only come to me when you need sex...
Sex is one of the cheapest things to get out there! But when the man holds those quality time with his wife as sacred, lack of sex can be a spoiler in the relationship.
The funny thing is that most time when he presses on, you tend to submit. Why then make him labour?
The worst is when you never initiate sex. No words to describe this torture.
Again, why will your husband walk into the room just for you to begin to adjust your top to conceal your boobs or bum? If you can't display the resources for him freely, then don't fault him if he thinks you are having an affair outside.

2. 'Disrespectfulness'.
Not acknowledging your husband at appropriate moments.
Imaging not saying good morning when you see him in the morning. Maybe after a fight. But making it a habit. Hmmm.
She will say you are on leave and still you don't have time to call. But when she is on leave, she will pretend to be asleep until the man leaves the house. Sometimes, he remembers he left his phone or something behind. He comes back to get it and relises that she was only waiting for him to leave the house before she gets up. What a shame.
Your husband gets home, rings the bell. You go unlock the door and return to what you were doing without receiving him at the door.
Funny when you always think his going out to have a drink is a sin. It's part of a man's DNA. Please get use to it.

3. Love for money.
Money makes the world go round.
But if the only time you are happy is when your palm is greased with money or gift, then, there is an issue.

4. 'Rudeness.
This is a little different from number 2.
"Baby, it's not done that way. See how it's done." When you take offence anytime a correction is suggested, you create a gap in the relationship. The husband cannot even ask if you have seen his wallet without you taking offence.

5. Pouring your annoyance on the kids always.
No illustration needed here.
If you have an issue bothering you, why not discuss it amicably?


These have been the order of the day and I just need your mature contribution.

Please if you cannot relate with the topic, you should take your joke(s) else where.

Thanks in advance.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by safarigirl(f): 12:33am On Dec 18, 2017
TimeMod3:
self-acclaimed virgin, you sef dey yarn ba ? wait until you taste am first before talking about a dog. we shall see how you will be able to put a leash on your dog.


#NoBitchAttitude
no, thanks.

Not likely to ever happen.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Skillfull1: 12:33am On Dec 18, 2017
LOL
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Toks2008(m): 12:33am On Dec 18, 2017
queenfav:
Even the men a woman lies stark naaked in bed for, will still cheat if they want to.... It takes a lot of self discipline and the fear of God for a man to be a good husband, it's not a function of what his woman does or doesn't do!A woman should however try to stay attractive for her man.

Must it always be about cheating?

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