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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by hobermener: 10:49am On Dec 18, 2017
EsotericMonk:

You , my friend , are overrated. Sounds like the product of a broken home.
You can use the same arguement for having a gf, for having a nation, for anything that brings people together to work towards a common goal.
Bottom line: You are overrated.
The poster below me though: zero sense made.
When shallow minds like yours can't stand people critiquing conventional wisdom that has been held sacrosanct for years, you come out with dumb arguments like the one above.
You know why the world has evolved over the years
People asked simple questions!! And challenged foolish dogmas that have been handed down for countless generations!!
But what should i expect from a closed minded african with an iq of -5 who is too dumb to think rationally
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:53am On Dec 18, 2017
Blessograo:
Things men do that are not mistakes
1. Cheating on their wives
2. Taking them for granted and not appreciating their little efforts
3: expecting them to do anything that involves the house, children and taking care of them like kids.
4. Leaving everywhere dirty and waiting for their wife to come back from work to clean and cook even when they've been home all day or earlier and ask for sex from the tired woman
5. Taking care of everyone when they are sick including inlaws but even her husband is not home he's with side chick.
Infact men have begin to define wifes as
W: wife
I: incubators
F: food tunnels
E: excessive
S: sex
Next time someone complains about ladies again think twic.
You too get sense.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:55am On Dec 18, 2017
Gracesofar:


Probably coz the woman own the home. No matter wah goes wrong nd who z @ fault, the community doesn't care buh easy blame or lemme say pin the success or failure of the home on the woman.

I hope u get my point
It doesn't make sense.This is the 21st century it really doesn't add up.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Gracesofar(m): 11:01am On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
It doesn't make sense.This is the 21st century it really doesn't add up.


Oh. I guess dz just d way it is
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Jrevelation(m): 11:01am On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I can cook very well,if only i can see you and you have the honour to taste my food you won't be talking like this.My family is not the village type they are very liberal.All the men can cook in our house it is no joke.And my husband would most definitely know how to cook and it would not be only during pregnancies or sicknesses.Truth is times have changed and some of the best chefs in the world are male and they are seen in Nigeria i have male cousins who went to catering school.And by the grace of God my in laws won't complain if my sweetheart is domestic.Times have truly changed dear and we have some domestic men as well and they are more than special.

Truth be told i understand you
mordern days girls think more than twice
The invention of new ideas and style we are killing culture and principle
Your duty is to cook at home
Chef is a job dont miss the two together
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by TimeMod1: 11:02am On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I can cook very well,if only i can see you and you have the honour to taste my food you won't be talking like this.My family is not the village type they are very liberal.All the men can cook in our house it is no joke.And my husband would most definitely know how to cook and it would not be only during pregnancies or sicknesses.Truth is times have changed and some of the best chefs in the world are male and they are seen in Nigeria i have male cousins who went to catering school.And by the grace of God my in laws won't complain if my sweetheart is domestic.Times have truly changed dear and we have some domestic men as well and they are more than special.
who be this na?, abeg make I hear word jare.
times have changed, na you change am?
bitches been tryna bury their hubby's head in between their toto... spits

#EraOfTheHoes
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:04am On Dec 18, 2017
hobermener:

When shallow minds like yours can't stand people critiquing conventional wisdom that has been held sacrosanct for years, you come out with dumb arguments like the one above.
You know why the world has evolved over the years
People asked simple questions!! And challenged foolish dogmas that have been handed down for countless generations!!
But what should i expect from a closed minded african with an iq of -5 who is too dumb to think rationally
Oil dey your head.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:05am On Dec 18, 2017
TimeMod1:
who be this na?, abeg make I hear word jare.
times have changed, na you change am?
bitches been tryna bury their hubby's head in between their toto... spits

#EraOfTheHoes
Please mind your business and get lost.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:15am On Dec 18, 2017
Jrevelation:


Truth be told i understand you
mordern days girls think more than twice
The invention of new ideas and style we are killing culture and principle
Your duty is to cook at home
Chef is a job dont miss the two together
Oh please Mr man mind your business but the truth is not everybody believes in your pre historic view culture evolves and it is not static dear.My duty is more than that, my duty is to go to school,get a job be empowered and contribute to society and so much more.One of my friend who is a chef also cooks at home for his wife and children and she still respects him and they are married.If you are not married marry a lady that shares and believes your view of things.people like you ought to be in the 12th century which one is principle all these are man made laws that are always subject to change.I am sure you have not heard of something called the "age of enlightenment"when people began to question some things,truth is we learn everyday and life is not static just as the earth rotates life also evolves.Thank you.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:25am On Dec 18, 2017
TimeMod1:
bitch throwing dil.do, Lol.
i pity the pussy nigga, an unlucky cunthead.

#HoesCanNeverBeHoly
I don't mean to disrespect you sir.But your use of language shows how uneducated you are,please learn to talk and do not ever use that word "nigga"again only lowlife people use that.And my wonderful husband is not unlucky he is blessed. He is more than lucky he is special.

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Jrevelation(m): 11:30am On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
Oh please Mr man mind your business but the truth is not everybody believes in your pre historic view culture evolves and it is not static dear.My duty is more than that, my duty is to go to school,get a job be empowered and contribute to society and so much more.One of my friend who is a chef also cooks at home for his wife and children and she still respects him and they are married.If you are not married marry a lady that shares and believes your view of things.people like you ought to be in the 12th century which one is principle all these are man made laws that are always subject to change.I am sure you have not heard of something called the "age of enlightenment"when people began to question some things,truth is we learn everyday and life is not static just as the earth rotates life also evolves.Thank you.

Madam
hmmm....lol
12th century
Lol
Lol funny you
the truth will set you free
Lets do some chat on
Zero81fivefiveonetwozerothreesixfive
Wazzup
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:32am On Dec 18, 2017
Jrevelation:

Madam hmmm....lol 12th century Lol Lol funny you the truth will set you free Lets do some chat on Zero81fivefiveonetwozerothreesixfive Wazzup
Leave me alone.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by shaybebaby(f): 11:40am On Dec 18, 2017
TimeMod1:
I am the slut shamer, you already know what that means to you.
bitch, check your ass in the mirror, what do you remember?
stay in your gutter.

#BitchSmells
Better than the stench of your poverty cool

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Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:40am On Dec 18, 2017
TimeMod1:
Cum teach me how to talk bitch.
If your hubby had chosen to be a pussy, pls do not infiltrate a public forum with your spell. Stay in your gutter & enjoy your spell without you bothering us.

#KneelDown&BeHumble
I don't like to insult people but silence is the best answer given to a fool.Quote me again at your own peril just learn to mind your business better still do us a favour and go to the nearest transformer in your area and hug it,make sure there is light.Sorry for the insults.At least not all men reason so low like you,so there is hope for our ladies.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Jrevelation(m): 11:41am On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
Leave me alone.
Come and pay my bride price
So that i can be cooking for you
In our own house na man dey cook
Na man dey sweet
Our ancestors na scam
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 11:44am On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I can cook very well,if only i can see you and you have the honour to taste my food you won't be talking like this.My family is not the village type they are very liberal.All the men can cook in our house it is no joke.And my husband would most definitely know how to cook and it would not be only during pregnancies or sicknesses.Truth is times have changed and some of the best chefs in the world are male and they are seen in Nigeria i have male cousins who went to catering school.And by the grace of God my in laws won't complain if my sweetheart is domestic.Times have truly changed dear and we have some domestic men as well and they are more than special.

No wahala, can you please post your details and location & how much it takes you to make Banga soup, Nkwobi with Goat meat, Afang & Ogbono soup. Just 4 soups, Thanks.

Don't worry, I will send you cash via Gtbank *737* shortcode transfer. Iyam waiting for your response oh ! Please hurry.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by ImaIma1(f): 11:45am On Dec 18, 2017
emmie14:

Keep your kitchen bathroom and bedroom neat. Your duty before going to work. I doubt you type can maintain employment.

I don't think her comments were feminist. Nobody is superhuman. Couples help each other so that ones does not breakdown. There is absolutely nowhere that states that a woman should be the one to do all the housework.

My husband is very domesticated and it makes me focus more on him. He is the first to notice if I am stressed and tries to relieve the burden. There are some particular chores that I am not allowed to do like ironing...even my clothes.

Don't make men seem like gods that sit on a throne and dish out orders. Marriage works when the two people involved have the interests of each other at heart.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:47am On Dec 18, 2017
eyinjuege:
Divorce will continue to be on the increase until people practice what they preach.
You want respect? Do you also respect your spouse?
You want a clean nice home? Please do you bother to vacuum daily?
You want to eat good food? Can you cook good food?
Life is give and take.
Women also want all those things listed and more. They equally want good sex, and not just bang, bang , bang. They don't want a smelly blob of fat over them with putrid breathe, no wonder they keep having headaches every night.
For anyone to enjoy a marriage ( both man and woman) all hands have to be on deck. Nothing kills faster than a bad partner.
God bless you.oil true true dey your head.You ought to be a marriage councillor,people like this are neutral.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:52am On Dec 18, 2017
Jrevelation:

Come and pay my bride price
So that i can be cooking for you
In our own house na man dey cook
Na man dey sweet
Our ancestors na scam
I will gladly pay.I am sure your worth is 20 naira,I hope they don't charge much in your place oooooo.And who says it who pays brideprice that doesn't cook mentality is really weird,it is people like you that see women as properties and in his lifetime i don't want to know you.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:57am On Dec 18, 2017
ImaIma1:


I don't think her comments were feminist. Nobody is superhuman. Couples help each other so that ones does not breakdown. There is absolutely nowhere that states that a woman should be the one to do all the housework.

My husband is very domesticated and it makes me focus more on him. He is the first to notice if I am stressed and tries to relieve the burden. There are some particular chores that I am not allowed to do like ironing...even my clothes.

Don't make men seem like gods that sit on a throne and dish out orders. Marriage works when the two people involved have the interests of each other at heart.
Madam you are really blessed and so is your husband.You guys should both continue to be best friends and make yourselves happy.God has really blessed you with a husband like that.Congratulations.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:01pm On Dec 18, 2017
cruchenutii:


No wahala, can you please post your details and location & how much it takes you to make Banga soup, Nkwobi with Goat meat, Afang & Ogbono soup. Just 4 soups, Thanks.

Don't worry, I will send you cash via Gtbank *737* shortcode transfer. Iyam waiting for your response oh ! Please hurry.
So sad that i don't do this i would have love to do it but it is totally impossible.And i was not joking or lying when i said i can cook very well.You can go to a restaurant and have that.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:02pm On Dec 18, 2017
TimeMod1:
fuçk off & go get laid.
#NoBitchAttitude
ooozzzzuuuuooooooo.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Jrevelation(m): 12:09pm On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I will gladly pay.I am sure your worth is 20 naira,I hope they don't charge much in your place oooooo.And who says it who pays brideprice that doesn't cook mentality is really weird,it is people like you that see women as properties and in his lifetime i don't want to know you.
Madam it is well
None gonna decrease my B.alert
To be sincere self na 5# be my worth
Oya come n beat me in my house
Baba God remember me o

See insult
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Nobody: 12:10pm On Dec 18, 2017
shaybebaby:

Better than the stench of your poverty cool


stench of his poverty..Kikiki grin grin grin
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:14pm On Dec 18, 2017
Jrevelation:

Madam it is well
None gonna decrease my B.alert
To be sincere self na 5# be my worth
Oya come n beat me in my house
Baba God remember me o

See insult
I am so so so so so so sorry if you took it as an insult please sir do not be offended it is nothing personal.The other guy(time mod1)really annoyed me.Please do not be offended i hate to look for trouble please don't take it the wrong way i am truly sorry sir.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by ImaIma1(f): 12:15pm On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
Can't you cook yourself?you can still teach her.And there are women who can't cook and they are happy in their marriages.Cooking is an art and also a skill.Everybody can cook but not everybody can cook tasty meals.If you can eat why can't you cook?

This cooking that some men carry on their head...nothing is cast and stone. There is nothing wrong with a man knowing how to cook. I love to cook...in fact cooking is a hubby. If you don't like a good and I cook it, you will change your mind. I am that good but my husband cooks better (I haven't told him to his face angry )

He taught me to how to wrap moimoi in leaves. I love the way his edikaikong tastes and I learnt it from him....so many things plus international foods. And he is not a house husband. He works.

I just laugh when I read men making funny rules and laws about cooking and chores just to massage their egos and promote their laziness.

Marriage is not supposed to be a death sentence or house girl job for a wife. It is supposed to make your life better...both parties.
Re: Mistake Married Women Make by Jrevelation(m): 12:20pm On Dec 18, 2017
Ladyhippolyta88:
I am so so so so so so sorry if you took it as an insult please sir do not be offended it is nothing personal.The other guy(time mod1)really annoyed me.Please do not be offended i hate to look for trouble please don't take it the wrong way i am truly sorry sir.
Its okay ma

Just take care of yourself

I wish you well with your self determined mindset

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