if her pussy loses interest while you're still on the go, then something isn't right. She's probably too much in her head, having been in charge of her own pleasure for so long. You've got to get her to surrender control to you. Get her to trust you and PAY ATTENTION to you. Blind fold her and touch her, and ask her to give you feed back on exactly what she feels, so that she learns to connect with you better.

lefulefu:
haha! this advice won't work oo.a number of naija guys have this old fashioned stance to sex.their own na just to slot in d cassava and after some few humping dem withdraw their tin.MouthAction or kissing na taboo for some.

@ op.. When next u notice her finger inside dat place pleasuring herself u slide ur own fingers inside dere too na.is she not ur wife?

I don't see the problem here

At bolded... help me ask him

Dimples129:


I don't see the problem here

At bolded... help me ask him

some guys are so prudish.wont be surprised if he hasnt reported his wife to his pastor .

Dimples129:
She has a very high sex drive... It's not a problem, enjoy her as much as possible and let her enjoy herself by herself, when she wants...

In fact buy her mad bunny vibrator

Why do African men make something out of nothing when it comes to a woman's sexual behaviour

What did you just said?
He should buy her kini?

lefulefu:

some guys are so prudish.wont be surprised if he hasnt reported his wife to his pastor .

Humans... too little, too much, we never happy

I hope he doesn't do that, that would be soo embarassin

Be a man and ignore. Would you prefer catching her with your gateman?

Dimples129:


Humans... too little, too much, we never happy

I hope he doesn't do that, that would be soo embarassin

believe me some couples do it.any small wahala na pastor.she loves to kiss too much...i will tell Daddy O(pastor) ...my husband always try to go down on me..he can't get over the demonic habit... I will report Daddy O etc.everything for home u table am to daddy o.why won't d marriage collapse. Yea when we have little we complain..if it gets too much we also complain...but then couples should know their sexual compatibility before marriage.if u are a prudish man then marry a prudish woman.

Lovetinz:
Tell her that her children will have plastic brain.
She will stop.

Winch man be you

lefulefu:
believe me some couples do it.any small wahala na pastor.she loves to kiss too much...i will tell Daddy O(pastor) ...my husband always try to go down on me..he can't get over the demonic habit... I will report Daddy O etc.everything for home u table am to daddy o.why won't d marriage collapse. Yea when we have little we complain..if it gets too much we also complain...but then couples should know their sexual compatibility before marriage.if u are a prudish man then marry a prudish woman.

Exactly marriage should be more of privacy!

Dimples129:


Humans... too little, too much, we never happy

I hope he doesn't do that, that would be soo embarassin

One of the reasons I dread this question is
because there is no clear answer. I could take
the easy road and just say, "If in doubt, don't
do it." The fact is that many Christian women
masturbate and feel horribly guilty about it.
I've met women who feel more shame about
masturbation than they do about having an
adulterous affair. Yet the Bible is silent on the
issue of masturbation and says a whole lot
about adultery.
_____________

Masturbation is a complicated issue that
doesn't lend to a clear black and white answer.
I want to be realistic about the struggle without
giving freedom that God perhaps hasn't given.
Let's start with the basics

_____________

At a purely biological level, masturbation isn't
that much different than other things we do
with our bodies—like picking our noses.
Toddlers do both. They are wired to touch their
bodies everywhere and repeat touching where
they find pleasure. Little boys and girls quickly
discover that their "private parts" feel really
good to touch. As children grow, wise parents
gently teach that touching some places of our
bodies isn't appropriate to do in public. And
they teach their kids not to pick their noses in
public either.
_______________

But why does picking your nose have an
embarrassing but non-moral stigma, while
masturbation has become laden with
tremendous guilt and shame? While there is
nothing inherently wrong with touching
yourself to experience pleasure, masturbation
becomes a moral issue ..

I don't see anything wrong in masturbation..

Lefulefu do You know my Ex do masturbate!

Sometimes my friends do say am moving with an olosho but then there is a reason is to why she does that especially when am absent!

Immature comments everywhere.

@op,there's is a high percentage chance you're dealing with a bisexual wife.The idea of touching herself shows some hidden fantasy. And for a woman who claims she kept herself from other men doesn't mean she kept herself from other females.

Martin0:




One of the reasons I dread this question is
because there is no clear answer. I could take
the easy road and just say, "If in doubt, don't
do it." The fact is that many Christian women
masturbate and feel horribly guilty about it.
I've met women who feel more shame about
masturbation than they do about having an
adulterous affair. Yet the Bible is silent on the
issue of masturbation and says a whole lot
about adultery.
_____________

Masturbation is a complicated issue that
doesn't lend to a clear black and white answer.
I want to be realistic about the struggle without
giving freedom that God perhaps hasn't given.
Let's start with the basics

_____________

At a purely biological level, masturbation isn't
that much different than other things we do
with our bodies—like picking our noses.
Toddlers do both. They are wired to touch their
bodies everywhere and repeat touching where
they find pleasure. Little boys and girls quickly
discover that their "private parts" feel really
good to touch. As children grow, wise parents
gently teach that touching some places of our
bodies isn't appropriate to do in public. And
they teach their kids not to pick their noses in
public either.
_______________

But why does picking your nose have an
embarrassing but non-moral stigma, while
masturbation has become laden with
tremendous guilt and shame? While there is
nothing inherently wrong with touching
yourself to experience pleasure, masturbation
becomes a moral issue ..

I don't see anything wrong in masturbation..

Lefulefu do You know my Ex do masturbate!

Sometimes my friends do say am moving with an olosho but then there is a reason is to why she does that especially when am absent!

lol don't let the prudish guys come after u oo. Wow one of ur ex did the sweety thang? Tell me, did u help her out? Noo don't answer dat question . Wetin matter in a relationship na communication b/w the couples.

Martin0:



Exactly marriage should be more of privacy!

not nigerian marriage wey everything dem go table am to pastor .and the funny thing is dat most of the pastors are under 25 with no marriage experience.but hey wat do i know.the pastor probably gets his inspiration in a vision which he uses to advice the couples.

lefulefu:
not nigerian marriage wey everything dem go table am to pastor .and the funny thing is dat most of the pastors are under 25 with no marriage experience.but hey wat do i know.the pastor probably gets his inspiration in a vision which he uses to advice the couples.

No mind dem,somtimes I dey see those kin pipu as pipu wey nor even surpose marry sef

Martin0:




One of the reasons I dread this question is
because there is no clear answer. I could take
the easy road and just say, "If in doubt, don't
do it." The fact is that many Christian women
masturbate and feel horribly guilty about it.
I've met women who feel more shame about
masturbation than they do about having an
adulterous affair. Yet the Bible is silent on the
issue of masturbation and says a whole lot
about adultery.
_____________

Masturbation is a complicated issue that
doesn't lend to a clear black and white answer.
I want to be realistic about the struggle without
giving freedom that God perhaps hasn't given.
Let's start with the basics

_____________

At a purely biological level, masturbation isn't
that much different than other things we do
with our bodies—like picking our noses.
Toddlers do both. They are wired to touch their
bodies everywhere and repeat touching where
they find pleasure. Little boys and girls quickly
discover that their "private parts" feel really
good to touch. As children grow, wise parents
gently teach that touching some places of our
bodies isn't appropriate to do in public. And
they teach their kids not to pick their noses in
public either.
_______________

But why does picking your nose have an
embarrassing but non-moral stigma, while
masturbation has become laden with
tremendous guilt and shame? While there is
nothing inherently wrong with touching
yourself to experience pleasure, masturbation
becomes a moral issue ..

I don't see anything wrong in masturbation..

Lefulefu do You know my Ex do masturbate!

Sometimes my friends do say am moving with an olosho but then there is a reason is to why she does that especially when am absent!

I don't understand all the fuss... It's an ignorant school of thought in today's world. That nonsense up there was needed 1000's of years ago... not today.

We should respect eachother's space and decisions, and not table every fart they make!..

At first it was to stay faithful for you

And this has gone on for 8years

It's has turn into a psychological problem but the question is ; is been addicted to mastubation healthy in marriage ? If that's the case we should equally say Bleep with any other person other than ur partner is ok, Afterall it saves the same purpose to satisfy ones urge or craving
For me it's the same as saying a sex addict, a glutton etc. these are habits that drugs addict equally experience....that craving!

Well for advice
I've read a few good comments up, like she hinting you when the urge comes so you can replace that self satisfaction to my hubbys own the best

It's gonna be a long process and team work cuz it takes patient and grace to break a long time habit

lefulefu:
believe me some couples do it.any small wahala na pastor.she loves to kiss too much...i will tell Daddy O(pastor) ...my husband always try to go down on me..he can't get over the demonic habit... I will report Daddy O etc.everything for home u table am to daddy o.why won't d marriage collapse. Yea when we have little we complain..if it gets too much we also complain...but then couples should know their sexual compatibility before marriage.if u are a prudish man then marry a prudish woman.

You crack me up!

Screaming Daddy-O

Here we Scream Police!

Or... I don't know anyone who tables their private sector issues with family and religious members. Unless maybe it's serious, like fighting and adultery, but not about sex and it's quality and quantity
Ain't na-bady wanna hear dat

Slowpoke:
Hello folks, please I really need advice here,I just got married like 2 months away and every thing has been beautiful,have been dating my wife for like 8years and we only start having sex early this year when we are sure of really settling down,although she rarely spend the night at my place before marriage. My problem now is no matter how much I try to satisfy my wife sexually,I still see her masturbating,sometimes I wake up at night and would find her hand at her private part while she has slept off,av confronted her and she said she started the act while in school so that she can remain faithful to me. It's really disheartening to me because I try to satisfy her sexually,I have done all sexual experiment you can think of,I give her Mouth Action for many minutes before penetrating, make sure she cums before havng sex with her,I f**k her so hard till she gets dried and start feeling pains,we have sex almost everyday,but she still masturbates. I just don't like the sight because it makes me feel am not doing well but it seems its an addiction not about satisfying her or not.please I want to know if am the only one experiencing this, please married folks in the house I need your advice....
What can I dohelp a brother

Like you said its an addiction. Its not you at all. You are doing a good job. Like every addiction its difficult to stop. She needs a combination of Time, love, care, Bible, prayers and moral support. Make sure she is never alone, at night advise her to wear pant, tight and a jean. She really needs your help.

lefulefu:
lol don't let the prudish guys come after u oo. Wow one of ur ex did the sweety thang? Tell me, did u help her out? Noo don't answer dat question . Wetin matter in a relationship na communication b/w the couples.

Hahahahahah na wa oo

Me and my Ex had the best communication I can ever imagine...

And till date we are best friends despite she's married to my friend

Biacan1:
You're not a man

nawa 4 u o....u no see sey the woman gt serious problem. the guy issa man joor. u think its easy ni

Pyrusdrago:
At first it was to stay faithful for you

And this has gone on for 8years

It's has turn into a psychological problem but the question is ; is been addicted to mastubation healthy in marriage ? If that's the case we should equally say Bleep with any other person other than ur partner is ok, Afterall it saves the same purpose to satisfy ones urge or craving
For me it's the same as saying a sex addict, a glutton etc. these are habits that drugs addict equally experience....that craving!

Well for advice
I've read a few good comments up, like she hinting you when the urge comes so you can replace that self satisfaction to my hubbys own the best

It's gonna be a long process and team work cuz it takes patient and grace to break a long time habit

I don't think she's an addict men are looking at this from a man's POV...
Women orgasm and have multi orgasms... This man can't physically make her come 4/5/6 times a night and she can do that in 10 min intervals... it ain't an addiction because he didn't say she locked up in the bedroom like a teenage boy for hours on end... So, plays with herself after sex! Big deal! I don't understand the problem here.

She needs a nigga that can put her to sleep! Knock her lights out lol sadly life doesn't give sisters that treatment so she knocked her own lights out.

Hefay:
Why not enjoy it with her, watch her do it a couple of times and it's will probably turn you on to finish what she started. To curb the habit, you have to help her stop, not stop her. Tell her to call your attention whenever she feels like mastubating and have wild sex with her while she does it or after, make her feel that mastubation is boring without the dick as final destination, with that she will slowly stop given some time. Mastubation is a one time thing as you can't have it everytime unless you are addict, and luckily if she's not, she's gonna love the dual satisfaction psychologically. It's wild world, just thinking out loud.

nawa o

Martin0:




Hahahahahah na wa oo

Me and my Ex had the best communication I can ever imagine...

And till date we are best friends despite she's married to my friend

married to ur friend?

Dimples129:


I don't understand all the fuss... It's an ignorant school of thought in today's world. That nonsense up there was needed 1000's of years ago... not today.

We should respect eachother's space and decisions, and not table every fart they make!..

Exactly you ve spoken well!

Martin0:




Hahahahahah na wa oo

Me and my Ex had the best communication I can ever imagine...

And till date we are best friends despite she's married to my friend

Martin why must you cheat on me

lefulefu:
married to ur friend?

Yeah she's married to my friend

Hefay:
Why not enjoy it with her, watch her do it a couple of times and it's will probably turn you on to finish what she started. To curb the habit, you have to help her stop, not stop her. Tell her to call your attention whenever she feels like mastubating and have wild sex with her while she does it or after, make her feel that mastubation is boring without the dick as final destination, with that she will slowly stop given some time. Mastubation is a one time thing as you can't have it everytime unless you are addict, and luckily if she's not, she's gonna love the dual satisfaction psychologically. It's wild world, just thinking out loud.

oil dey ur head

lefulefu:
oil dey ur head

Lefu shei you see waiting the man I promise to spend my life with is up to

Martin0:


Yeah she's married to my friend

u dey try ooo.anyway be careful old feelings don't spark off .if any babe i did something with in the past get married i always move far away.

Biacan1:
Martin why must you cheat on me

See this girl oo

Martin0:


See this girl oo

So you think I'm joking

lefulefu:
u dey try ooo.anyway be careful old feelings don't spark off .if any babe i did something with in the past get married i always move far away.

Hahahahah mehn e nor easy with me this time ooo,I be don forget those tinz year's ago oo but e jus con dey enter my head now coz na she be the best wey me don see ooo

Hahahah that na ur way,we nor get any problem that why we still dey very close till date