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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by nezzar: 6:34pm On Jan 10, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Marry the type that can beat you you won't say this nonsense.
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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by WilsonMayowa(m): 7:17pm On Jan 10, 2018
This is one thing I have vowed not to do
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by PSTEMMA1960(m): 7:34pm On Jan 10, 2018
sirBLUNT:
so yesterday precisely arround 11:36pm i heard voices and woman crying i came out my flat and found out that it was my neighbour who seriously beating his wife, he even injured so badly,when i saw the man i felt so accrimonious as to why a man will beat his wife as if she was his daughter and even if she was you don' even have the right to beat her anyhow i'm not here to justify any woman here because i know that women can be so annoying but at thesame time i believe that there are morethan 100 ways to deal with a woman instead of hitting her i don't just get it why do men beat their women because when they do they will still come back and ask for forgiveness but what happens to thinking about the END first before hitting her?
bia op, modify ur topic, why do some men beat thier wives?
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by parkerchuks(m): 8:30pm On Jan 10, 2018
its not good to beat a woman

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Richardabbey(m): 8:31pm On Jan 10, 2018
Becoz Dey Are Drum
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by darkid1(m): 8:31pm On Jan 10, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:




really really


woman: you think you are strong

man: i am just not in this mood

woman: you can't do anything, useless man

man: i am warning you ooo

woman: woeeeeeee

man:

There is no way you want to put it. If a man is so tired of a woman to a point to wanting to cause her harm, just divorce. Beating someones daughter ; an adult just like you. Haba . It makes no sense . Some stupid men even have that mentality of installing discipline into their wives by beating them. Thats just stupid .

Check well, most men that beat their wive come from messed up families with lack of proper up bringing.

Mothers , teach your sons not to hit ladies as the grow up. Its a very important part of growing up.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:36pm On Jan 10, 2018
It makes no sense to me. Some say respect but she's not a child and adults don't respect people who terrorise them, they fear and hate them. Just like Nigerians fear and hate the police.

It's difficult to be the same around a guy who does that. A neighbour lost me for that attitude. I consider you stupid, crude, dumb, brute, etc, in that order, once you do that and can't be the same with you again.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by mcyemite(m): 8:36pm On Jan 10, 2018
Thats the only language some of them understands.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by pawesome(m): 8:37pm On Jan 10, 2018
Women are meant to terrorize men but certainly beating them isnt part of it...they are naturally like that
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by aspirebig: 8:39pm On Jan 10, 2018
Most of you saying ...your wife to be is 'perfect"

People change. I dont support beating .

Marriage is not 'girl friend and not friend ' you just buy airtime for, I take to eatery for that plate of food and drinks .....

Marriage is understanding and tolerance.


Misunderstanding, lack of money, inferiority complex, lies and infidelity are mostly the reason why relationships have issues.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by engrjacuzzi: 8:39pm On Jan 10, 2018
we must do a survey here to know those who indulge in beating their wife or husband

click like if you don't beat your spouse and click share if you beat your spouse.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by AnthonyAk(m): 8:39pm On Jan 10, 2018
Real men dont fight people they know are weaker especially their wives

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Constantiney: 8:40pm On Jan 10, 2018
Smh
Many people here deserves to be in jail.
Beat someone else's daughter.

I will personally locate you and shoot you.
Animals.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by HeyCorleone(m): 8:41pm On Jan 10, 2018
donstan18:
MEN don't beat their wives, BOYS does.

Get the difference.
Being intelligent is my own definition of a complete MAN, not age.

Feel free to convince me if an intelligent man will beat a woman up.

I'm very sure you're not married. That is why you'd think up such trash.

Because you've managed to be in a relationship for couple months you feel you have the right to decide "it's only boys that beat women".

I don't blame men who beat women. Women wear your nerve thin and expect you to be all smiles with them? How? Aren't you human? They call you all sorts of names and mock you and do all sorts. No one ever addresses that. But the moment the man lifts his hand against the woman, he's a beast no matter what his wife may have done.


What a very stupid way of thinking.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Ask087(m): 8:42pm On Jan 10, 2018
So, I was at the ATM to withdraw when a drama ensued.
The married guy who's turn it was to withdraw refused to insert his ATM card because a lady was standing BESIDE him and could "..steal his ATM card's pin."

"Madame, abeg shift make I withdraw," the guy calmly told the lady. "Oga, I'm not blocking you please withdraw let other people withdraw," the lady replied as she sarcastically threw her face away while STILL standing there.

The guy made it clear that he wouldn't proceed unless the lady stepped aside.

At this point, they started exchanging words while some people in the queue started throwing words at the lady as she was obviously wrong.

She finally accepted to move behind when the bank's security personnel ordered her to do so but madame refused to give up without a fight. How can I lose this fight like that? How can this bros shame me like this so she started insulting the guy, "useless man abeg do and get away".. "good for nothing man, how much you wan collect sef?"

The guy, who had just inserted his ATM card, turned and looked at the lady but ignored her and proceeded with his withdrawal, "please wait while your transaction is processing," the ATM beeped.

Meanwhile, madame was still blabbing until she said, "I pity the kind woman wey you marry keep for house."

The guy still didn't utter a word until he was done withdrawing. He walked straight to the lady and gave her a dirty slap which landed her on the ground. Madame was still on the ground when the guy boarded a bike and left.

Slapping the woman was so WRONG! I personally condemned it but..

This is my question...

Why do some ladies insult and talk to men anyhow because they know it's wrong to hit a woman?

Yes! Hitting a woman is so wrong and nothing justifies it but please, women should bridle their tongues.

Some men are very impatient and have limits to what they can tolerate. Men are also humans and not every man has the ability to tolerate a woman's 'blade' mouth. Some men are not normal, some are mental -- they walk around looking for who to slap, beat or fight (fact).

Don't talk down a man because you believe everyone will be against him if he hits you.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Fulaman198(m): 8:42pm On Jan 10, 2018
The woman chooses the wrong man, simple as that. No man worth his salt would ever lay a hand to a woman.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by fauziej31(f): 8:42pm On Jan 10, 2018
You are a disgrace to living things. Even your mom should be beaten up if she mess up.... Fool

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by AkpaMgbor(m): 8:42pm On Jan 10, 2018
solasoulmusic:
Under no circumstances are you justified to hit another person

Sometimes it’s background that brings all these violent traits I’m still a avid supporter of walking away for a while and returning when things are cooled of not dosing the fire
You all like making illogical blanket statement..wtf do you mean by “under no circumstances “..so if my life is threatened by someone I shouldn’t defend myself in the name of being a gentleman? If I see a ruthless man or woman brutalizing a defenseless child in the name of housemaid I shouldn’t give the hideous monster a resounding slap at the least? Abeg make una just park well jor!

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by oluwasegun007(m): 8:45pm On Jan 10, 2018
am not married yet and I don't intend to beat my wife...
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by buchai: 8:46pm On Jan 10, 2018
why? maka their "onu" and over "sabi".
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Deicide: 8:48pm On Jan 10, 2018
Am not in support of any kind of physical abuse its Hypocricy for women to be complaining about physical abuse when if it comes to physically abusing a CHILD that cant defend themself they are no1! call it decipline i guess thats the logic men who beat their wives use too.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by killsmith(f): 8:48pm On Jan 10, 2018
Marcelo290:
Forget that shii about a real man bla bla bla. some women can be annoyingly irritating.

Take this scenario. A man returns from work worried, tired and frustrated as a result of pressures from the office. He comes home sad and wasted, the woman on the other hand who is nagging and inconsiderate doesn't bother to know what's wrong. She enters the living room where the husband is resting and thinking away his sorrows, she starts her usual nagging and booing the poor man. He leaves the room for her and enters the bed room, she follows him and continues her ignoble behaviors, the man now enraged still kept still. She goes and drags his shirt, challenging him to do his worse. She had previously set the kids against their dad. As a result of the accumulated anger, considering the law in physics that states that when an object reaches it's elastic limits is bound to break, he could no longer take it and begins to unleash his anger on the woman, who then is to be blamed?

I'm not justifying the act but it takes a great level of self control to hold oneself considering the rate of nagging women around. Most persons commenting here don't know what people face in marriage, some women are the devil's incarnate, forget the fake smiles.

Some men on the other hand are just assholes that love mistreating women no matter how good she is.
my ex girlfriend was always doing this. There's a scar on my back. She pushed me and I hit my back on the burglary. I beat craze comot for her head....

I will not tolerate any physical assault from my partner.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jan 10, 2018
Inferiority complex
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by Lifeisunfair: 8:51pm On Jan 10, 2018
From a sexual point of view

1. Some men beat their wives because the wives enjoy the beating. It makes sex sweet and helps them reach orgasm. Some women in this category purposely provokes men into beating them.

2. Some men beat their wives because the men enjoy the beating. It makes sex sweet and helps them reach orgasm. Some men in this category purposely beats their wives with or without provocation. Then pets and gives her good sex

3. Some couples enjoy fighting as it makes their sexual life interesting.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by sirBLUNT: 8:54pm On Jan 10, 2018
fauziej31:
You are a disgrace to living things. Even your mom should be beaten up if she mess up.... Fool
madam you and who?
Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by seedsower(m): 8:55pm On Jan 10, 2018
It's a mindset and a man with that mindset will always have a reason to beat his wife everyday because will will always TALK.

I have a settled mindset that come what may, that it's a-no-do-activity, therefore nothing will my wife do to make me beat her.

I would rather pack out of the house for her.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by cappinjerry(m): 8:56pm On Jan 10, 2018
i understand you very well. a lot of persons here are not even married so they can't understand why
HeyCorleone:


I'm very sure you're not married. That is why you'd think up such trash.

Because you've managed to be in a relationship for couple months you feel you have the right to decide "it's only boys that beat women".

I don't blame men who beat women. Women wear your nerve thin and expect you to be all smiles with them? How? Aren't you human? They call you all sorts of names and mock you and do all sorts. No one ever addresses that. But the moment the man lifts his hand against the woman, he's a beast no matter what his wife may have done.


What a very stupid way of thinking.

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by killsmith(f): 9:02pm On Jan 10, 2018
If a man beats a woman, he's a weakling but a woman beats a man she's a strong woman.

Men should not beat women but women can beat women and kids


Yeye!

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Re: Why Do some Men Beat Their Wives? by chieni(f): 9:02pm On Jan 10, 2018
Tallezt:
I am a woman beater oo. They can't get enough Of it. They do things to keep the beating coming. She is not your equal. She is an underling. Don't beat her and watch her walk over you like doormat except you a nice guy which she would dump soon
so your father beat up your mother right?

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