Report him to the police for having sexual intercourse with a minor. He's been sleeping with your sister since she was 14 years.

I don't even know what to say men

Marriage is for better for worse the say.

You are still well and alive! Thank God for that. Leave the bastard for your sake.

NgeneUkwenu:
Marriage Is Overrated!

This man again

Even our own Benue? I thought it was only in Zimbabwe and Kenya that things like this happen

Wetin dey pain me most for this matter n.a. say all these girls who read this news won't learn anything from it.

Some Men are goats


The wife even fine pass the sister

Dick don't know sister oh,take hearts sister the lord is your strength,.

This is sadenning and sickening!


Family not even ready to take her in, in the event that she runs away from her husband

Here2day:
he's been having sex 3 times a week with a 16 year old..
3x4 weeks =12 times in a month
12x12months = 144 times In a year?!
144x2years = 288 times in 2 years.!!
Are you kidney me?!
That man must be totally crazy!!!

lol you're very funny

Are parent shouldn't have chased her when she sought refuge.

Once had a neighbour, daughter got married at 19...the husband would come home in the middle of the night and beat the girl to a pulp. What I'm not sure is if the girl denies him sex at the time because most men always want to ease off when high, hence the beating.

She ran home one Saturday morning around 6am...dude came to beg at her father's house around 10am...they left together around 1pm....she ran back around 2pm.

The father being a rich man threatened his daughter never to return again else he will disown her for life. He threatened the dude that he doesn't mind selling all his investments to put him in prison for life if he ever calls or comes close to his house.

Different folks different yokes!

Foolish girl.
No skill but to PHOCK at 19 trying to escape poverty.

As you took your legs into that marriage, you get out of it.

As for your 16 year-old sister, I don’t blame her at all. It is the life you ALL are accustomed to.

Opening your legs for any DUNCE who promises you a bag of “goody-goody”!

Nor be “BENUE STATE”?
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

Yeligray:
This is why i suggest prayers before marriage

What is prayer before marriage?
Does it mean the marriage will be void of issues? My father was not a believer when he married my mother but they're 32+yrs in marriage. Even the Eve that God gave Adam how did it end? Everything una go say pray!

sorry

How can a man be this callous ? Well, I'd advise her to put in for a divorce by getting a sound lawyer. In addition to it, the man should pay for damages and if possible be jailed.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
haaaaa the mango weh full your brain na serious Opiolo mango, so those that sleep and wake up every day in church yet marriage no last Upto big brother Africa, wetin you go come suggest for them?

Wicked your are, chills you have not!

please, run away before you die

abokibuhari:
This man again

I agree with him though

Send me mail on Bedotfarms@gmail.com

What is with parents telling their daughters to go back to husband house even in face of severe life threatening abuse ?

PrettyCrystal:
A woman identified as Rosalyn from Benue state has narrated her ordeal at the hands of her husband whom she claims abuses her both physically and emotionally. The unhappy wife also revealed how she found out that her husband had been sleeping with her sister for 2 years to the extent of getting her pregnant and aborting it.

Read her story below;

Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue state I need help so I don't take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn't want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn't visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..

I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn't want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nearly killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..

I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.

One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he'll change..But he never changed, at times he won't talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he'll insult me and call me and my family names.

I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who's 16. She told me that they've been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..

So i stayed bearing it all..He still hasn't changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he starts beating me for no reason... I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/01/victim-of-domestic-violence-narrates-her-ordeal-at-the-hands-of-husband.html

Contact women for women International, They will help you.

Thank God For Ur Life

hmmmmmmmm please some should draw the attention of the appropriate authority before we hear another case of abusive death...



the way some parents think thought.

One condom could have avoided such Man from existing

Blackhawk03:
When I complain bitterly about women getting married with no source of income of their own, no skill, no savings to fall on and no certificate to bail you out in this kinda maddening case, they mostly think I'm just being paranoid. The greatest undoing of any woman is to be at total mercy of a man. Most women that stay back in abusive relationships are those who can't run their lives without the help of their husbands, the dependent ones. Ladies should stop this madness, marriage is enough risk already, don't complicate it further by going in unprepared.

This is another reason why I'm pro choice, please be very sure of the kinda man you want to move in with because of pregnancy or else, he ends up getting rid of you and that baby you're trying so hard to protect.

Lastly, I could possibly ignore or endure anything done to me by anyone but if you so as lay a finger on any of my siblings, I'll fight you with all I have. I mean, everything.

Lol...What do u have to fight...U talk too much...

I think she's the same person popular Facebooker Olu Bunmi shared her story sometime last year. The said lady was 25 then and both ordeals faced are too similar to be a coincidence, he also impregnated her teenage sister. She ran to their pastor but the pastor scolded her and told her to return to her husband and remain submissive, her parents refused to let her run home even after they found out what their daughter was going through and that their son in-law impregnated their other daughter. As at last year, she had fled (or wanted to flee) and people were contributing money for her to start her life afresh. I don't know why she went back to him. I'll contact Olu Bunmi to find out if she's the same person.

dingbang:
Take heart dear.. The lord will fight for you

The Lord she never consulted before getting pregnant out of wedlock?

Hmmmm....datz y u need to pray fervently b4 marriage ...

Rubbiish:

Lol...What do u have to fight...U talk too much...

Try it and see.