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Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by tossie101(f): 8:54pm On Jan 20, 2018
Angy55:
Hhhmmmm, sisi are you serious? Tell me more about them please.
Luminuoz come and defend your people.
They are deceitful.. very very deceitful.
And very Lazy..always leaves the Load of feading the family to their wives.
This is whre igbomen and hausa men are very better.. especially igbomen.. not because im igbo.
But an igbo man may not spend much on u... but when he marries u my dear u are in paradiese whether he is rich or not..
Atleast he wont ask u to go hussle while he stays at home... rather its d other way round.
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Angy55(f): 9:59pm On Jan 20, 2018
tossie101:
They are deceitful.. very very deceitful.
And very Lazy..always leaves the Load of feading the family to their wives.
This is whre igbomen and hausa men are very better.. especially igbomen.. not because im igbo.
But an igbo man may not spend much on u... but when he marries u my dear u are in paradiese whether he is rich or not..
Atleast he wont ask u to go hussle while he stays at home... rather its d other way round.
Okay dear. Thanks for the explaination.
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by tossie101(f): 10:32pm On Jan 20, 2018
Angy55:
Okay dear. Thanks for the explaination.
Yea dear where are u from?
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Angy55(f): 12:11pm On Jan 21, 2018
tossie101:
Yea dear where are u from?
Delta state
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by enabledgoddess(f): 3:54pm On Jan 21, 2018
is not a thing of tribe, but mindset. you Inlaw is a lazy person, and your sister is no different. you mean to tell me that she has been married to that man for thirteen years with no regular income, yet birthing continued. the kids have been out of school yet she kept on birthing. she is no different from her husband. she should stay and let religion kill her
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(op): 7:36pm On Jan 21, 2018
u
enabledgoddess:
is not a thing of tribe, but mindset. you Inlaw is a lazy person, and your sister is no different. you mean to tell me that she has been married to that man for thirteen years with no regular income, yet birthing continued. the kids have been out of school yet she kept on birthing. she is no different from her husband. she should stay and let religion kill her
U speak ignorantly about my sister someone that refuse my sister to work, the last job she got a month he stop her and she refuse, this man have to fight her by holding by the skirt refuse the children to school even public school, they try to get him job he will turn it down, so what is she suppose to do...that is an enemy not a husband
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Nobody: 12:33am On Jan 22, 2018
tossie101:
They are deceitful.. very very deceitful.
And very Lazy..always leaves the Load of feading the family to their wives.
This is whre igbomen and hausa men are very better.. especially igbomen.. not because im igbo.
But an igbo man may not spend much on u... but when he marries u my dear u are in paradiese whether he is rich or not..
Atleast he wont ask u to go hussle while he stays at home... rather its d other way round.
You are right dear. Only Igbo men and Hausa men are working in all the companies in Lagos because Yoruba men are lazy. They sit at home, play loto and use their wives as slaves. They are deceitful. Please marry an Hausa/Fulani/Igbo man so you can be a full time house wife and enjoy your hardworking husband's money.
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Nobody: 12:57am On Jan 22, 2018
tossie101:
Yoruba men?
Thats how they behave oo.. talking from experinces...I live and work with them.

There are good ones but just rare VERY RARE!.
Initially they pretend to be good just to get what they want. But later u see their true colors.
Because you keep moving with Yoruba Yahoo boys Islamaila & Kazeem, ofcourse we know your type.
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Bigsteveg(m): 3:42am On Jan 22, 2018
CaptainGOOD:
Majority of them are like that. I tell u.
Idiot
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Bigsteveg(m): 3:42am On Jan 22, 2018
tossie101:
Yoruba men?
Thats how they behave oo.. talking from experinces...I live and work with them.

There are good ones but just rare VERY RARE!.
Initially they pretend to be good just to get what they want. But later u see their true colors.
mumu
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Bigsteveg(m): 3:44am On Jan 22, 2018
NIGHTMAREOO7:
Go to every betting shop in Lagos and see many of playing gambling.
Thats what they know how to do best.
They like to make it through shortcut they dont like working for it.
Thats why u see them here Laffing at hustling igbo boys selling gala.
While they stroll lazilybin groups in the street
I guess those are the kind of people u roll with, which says alot about you. #Ode
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Bigsteveg(m): 3:51am On Jan 22, 2018
psalmistkakah:
Am sorry to say this about Yoruba men, but so piss up, my elder sister got married to a Yoruba man who claimed to be a born again Christian till date. over fourteen years with four children the most senior is over 13 years old, he has never send any of them to school, he owned a small private school, some how the school fold up over ten years ago, he refuse to get a job, all he keep saying he want to be a pastor by owing his own church but never want to be a sheep of an established pastor before establishing his, he made my sister to burn all she acquire while she was single saying she got them in a sinful way, aquising his mother to be witch, never allow his family to visit his parents, till the dead of his dad he wasn't in good term. My sister feed from hand to mouth, we do send money and bag of rice to her and my mum family have been of help to her.
The last that just happened now and we ask my sister to come back home and leave him, we gave her money to sent the children to school and she manage to get a job, just last week he asked my sister to stop work and the children should stop schooling, that he is going to open his school, he has no kobo. He is depending on the money my sister will get because my uncle out of his good will farm ginger for my sister and asked her to go and harvest it, which she did and on process even the transport for her to go and harvest he doesn't have I have to send it, imagine he told my sister to asked my uncle to do harvesting sell produce and sent the money to them. My sister and the children are now with us. Are Yoruba men this lazy, I have a neighbour too she is Yoruba and the husband's too, the man refuse to work just lazing around, learn hand work he refuse, the woman got angry and kick him out..Abeg make una reason am, because am thinking of arresting the man for negligence of family responsibility after all he physically fit and can work.
The moment you begin going tribalistic, i knew u wouldnt have any thing good to say, so expect no good advise from those that will comment.
Contrary to your belief, yoruba men are hardworking and dont take nonsense, and being lazy is not about a tribe or religion or a colour, its about the personalty of the person.
The question is, was your sister forced into the marriage?
Didnt she see this traits in him beofre they got married, why are you now taking panadol for your sisters issue?
This your story does not even add up at all, u said the man is a school owner, tell me...what kind of school owner will not send his children to school, not even his own school before it pack up?


Abeg, go park well and lets move on to reasonable things.
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by biggieoflife: 10:03am On Jan 22, 2018
@OP, laziness is a personality trait. It’s not about tribe.

The yorubas are probably the hardest tribe to stereotype. This is because they are very liberal. You see a family where some are Christians and some are Muslims. I have a Christian friend whose uncles are all Muslims. They are probably the ones who marry across tribal lines the most. You will notice that during the last elections, they were the only tribe that did not vote enmasse for a candidate. Every one does not sleep and face the same direction in yorubaland.

This answers your question. Yoruba men are not lazy. But a lazy man can be Yoruba. Your sister married a lazy man who is Yoruba. Simple
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by tossie101(f): 9:08am On Jan 23, 2018
Angy55:
Delta state
Ok
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by tossie101(f): 9:09am On Jan 23, 2018
truthsayer009:
Because you keep moving with Yoruba Yahoo boys Islamaila & Kazeem, ofcourse we know your type.
Lolz move with who?
No yoruba man is qualified enuff to get close to me.. that can NEVA happen...
Yoruba men lack class
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by SIRTee15: 11:30am On Jan 23, 2018
tossie101:
Lolz move with who?
No yoruba man is qualified enuff to get close to me.. that can NEVA happen...
Yoruba men lack class
I wanted to reply....
But I went tru your post n realised there's no need....
It will simply be a futile effort....
But on serious note....
As a lady, u don't need these level of hatred n spiteful bile in u against a person, tribe or race.....
It's not healthy for u at all.....
U are going to be a mother n a home maker.....
Such venomous atmosphere is not ideal for raising kids....
Learning such things from their mum isn't proper....
Pls think about these things...
God bless u....
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by initiate: 12:52pm On Jan 23, 2018
if the guy wasn't doing well before why did your sister marry him in the first place?

im sure she brought him bad luck after the marriage

psalmistkakah:
u
U speak ignorantly about my sister someone that refuse my sister to work, the last job she got a month he stop her and she refuse, this man have to fight her by holding by the skirt refuse the children to school even public school, they try to get him job he will turn it down, so what is she suppose to do...that is an enemy not a husband
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by tossie101(f): 3:20pm On Jan 23, 2018
SIRTee15:
I wanted to reply....
But I went tru your post n realised there's no need....it will simply be a futile effort....
But on serious note....
As a lady, u don't need these level of hatred n spiteful bile in u against a person, tribe or race.....
It's not healthy for u at all.....
U are going to be a mother n a home maker.....
Such venomous atmosphere is not ideal for raising kids....
Learning such things from their mum isn't proper....Pls think about these things...
God bless u....
Lolz im sorry o..
Dont take it personal. kiss
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by SIRTee15: 3:39pm On Jan 23, 2018
tossie101:
Lolz im sorry o..
Dont take it personal. kiss
Hmmm....
Just work on ur mindset....
its not healthy.....
A lady for that matter......
Know that we are first human beings b4 race, tribe, colour, gender etc.....
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(op): 10:48pm On Jan 23, 2018
initiate:
if the guy wasn't doing well before why did your sister marry him in the first place?

im sure she brought him bad luck after the marriage
I pray for your sister to marry such person, somebody that could not pay bride instantly, after two years, the wedding was a cut and join wedding. That guy is lazy period. May you life be like his own since you know him beta than me..
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by IkpuMmadu: 6:55am On Jan 24, 2018
SIRTee15:
I wanted to reply....
But I went tru your post n realised there's no need....
It will simply be a futile effort....
But on serious note....
As a lady, u don't need these level of hatred n spiteful bile in u against a person, tribe or race.....
It's not healthy for u at all.....
U are going to be a mother n a home maker.....
Such venomous atmosphere is not ideal for raising kids....
Learning such things from their mum isn't proper....
Pls think about these things...
God bless u....
But you are replying her
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by enabledgoddess(f): 6:26pm On Jan 24, 2018
psalmistkakah:
u
U speak ignorantly about my sister someone that refuse my sister to work, the last job she got a month he stop her and she refuse, this man have to fight her by holding by the skirt refuse the children to school even public school, they try to get him job he will turn it down, so what is she suppose to do...that is an enemy not a husband
I'm sorry if I have misjudged; if that is the case then truly something is wrong with the man. refusing to allow even public school, turning down job offer, and refusing your sister to work. the man needs some checking
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Nobody:
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Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by enabledgoddess(f): 7:11pm On Jan 24, 2018
AllforJesus7:
Are you yoruba?
nope, I'm not Yoruba. I believe people shouldn't be judged based on their tribe
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by zed7: 6:35am On Jan 25, 2018
psalmistkakah:
I pray for your sister to marry such person, somebody that could not pay bride instantly, after two years, the wedding was a cut and join wedding. That guy is lazy period. May you life be like his own since you know him beta than me..
Even though I'm not one of the 3 major tribes, I think your sister too is lazy and daft.
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by initiate: 1:34pm On Jan 27, 2018
stop ranting like a frustrated self-servicer. why did she marry him in the first place. she probably had ulterior motives for marrying a man she knew to be lazy.
psalmistkakah:
I pray for your sister to marry such person, somebody that could not pay bride instantly, after two years, the wedding was a cut and join wedding. That guy is lazy period. May you life be like his own since you know him beta than me..
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by psalmistkakah(op): 11:09am On Jan 28, 2018
initiate:
stop ranting like a frustrated self-servicer. why did she marry him in the first place. she probably had ulterior motives for marrying a man she knew to be lazy.
I no get ur time, but u will also end up like him...
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by thorpido(m): 12:09pm On Jan 28, 2018
Your sister married a lazy Yoruba man.Something is wrong with your sister too no doubt.She made a poor and wrong choice.Someone that could not pay your bride price?
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jan 28, 2018
psalmistkakah:
Am sorry to say this about Yoruba men, but so piss up, my elder sister got married to a Yoruba man who claimed to be a born again Christian till date. over fourteen years with four children the most senior is over 13 years old, he has never send any of them to school, he owned a small private school, some how the school fold up over ten years ago, he refuse to get a job, all he keep saying he want to be a pastor by owing his own church but never want to be a sheep of an established pastor before establishing his, he made my sister to burn all she acquire while she was single saying she got them in a sinful way, aquising his mother to be witch, never allow his family to visit his parents, till the dead of his dad he wasn't in good term. My sister feed from hand to mouth, we do send money and bag of rice to her and my mum family have been of help to her.
The last that just happened now and we ask my sister to come back home and leave him, we gave her money to sent the children to school and she manage to get a job, just last week he asked my sister to stop work and the children should stop schooling, that he is going to open his school, he has no kobo. He is depending on the money my sister will get because my uncle out of his good will farm ginger for my sister and asked her to go and harvest it, which she did and on process even the transport for her to go and harvest he doesn't have I have to send it, imagine he told my sister to asked my uncle to do harvesting sell produce and sent the money to them. My sister and the children are now with us. Are Yoruba men this lazy, I have a neighbour too she is Yoruba and the husband's too, the man refuse to work just lazing around, learn hand work he refuse, the woman got angry and kick him out..Abeg make una reason am, because am thinking of arresting the man for negligence of family responsibility after all he physically fit and can work.
I won't comment so they don't come for me. I will just laugh and pass grin
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by Nobody: 12:48pm On Jan 28, 2018
I am not igbo o, but see why i love my igbo brothers. Even if it's slippers, they rather slave than bring dishonour to their family. Majority of them anyways, not all. My igbo brothas, Igbo Kwenu !
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by prettyangel10(f): 8:08pm On Jan 28, 2018
Zykod:
I am not igbo o, but see why i love my igbo brothers. Even if it's slippers, they rather slave than bring dishonour to their family. Majority of them anyways, not all. My igbo brothas, Igbo Kwenu !
Re: Are Yoruba Men Like This?? by prettyangel10(f): 8:09pm On Jan 28, 2018
Zykod:
I am not igbo o, but see why i love my igbo brothers. Even if it's slippers, they rather slave than bring dishonour to their family. Majority of them anyways, not all. My igbo brothas, Igbo Kwenu !
Who ask you whether you r Igbo or Fulani? And why are you all doing as if it's a competition between tribes?. I'm sure you all know that every tribe has its own good, bad and uglyside. I just weak at the responses.
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