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mr man..i put it to you that your woman has been unfaithtul to you all these years only you just got to know this 2% of her escapades and its so disheartning, i feel your pain, pls dont cover up, forgive her which i know its not easy to do but let her pay for the consequences of her failing marital vows, as a man you should take the bull by d horn, big hug bro

Take her to MFM. If she doesn't repent she will pack her load by herself because I can't imagine any real man living with such rubbish and still remaining sane and productive. If your marriage together is not happy you can only transfer that attitude to your children, and they will become bitter and heartless adults. Nothing wrong with divorce in such situation. Better to live separate than for both of you to go to hell because that is where bitter people end up when they die.

Be her manager and control the cash flow. Cus if u try to stop her she will still leak it anyways

Let her explain the reason why she was doing that. Take time to talk to her in a cool manner and get the fact. Digest it and give her a sound warning..... It really hurt but let face the fact, the deed has been done.

Counsel her and if she ask for forgiveness genuinely, forgive her and move on with your family bro. Remember consider not the former things nor the things of old.

For behold he will do a new thing. Renew and Reignite your vows.

Make your marriage as sweet as never before by committing it in God's hands.

Upload tge pic here!
Also, sell yours

TrulyHis:
This is quite pathetic but he will just have to forgive her since divorce is not an option. They should sit, talk and settle whatever led her to that.

I also saw this one on the same site, the world is gradually going to an end. https://dailyfamily.ng/my-husband-is-not-the-biological-father-of-one-of-our-four-children-woman-tells-court/

Divorce is the solution to this problem.

Forgiveness means this man is digging his grave

Mallied woman. Anambra girl.

Amarabae:
Divorce immediately.
Simple.
I hate it when some people don't respect their marital home.
A mallied woman sending nudes to other men.
Tufiakwa

At least it wasn't give for free

Segzee1:
Below is a true life story of a man who caught his wife of 18 years and a mother of two sending her own nude pictures to other men in exchange for money.

Hello,

I believe this is the right place to share this burning issue that has been giving me sleepless nights for some time now.

My name is Joseph but I’m popularly known as Joe especially where I live here in Lagos. I got married to this lady Bolatito 18 years ago and we are blessed with two lovely children, a boy and a girl (ages 16 and 13).

I’m a businessman and my wife is a hairdresser (she owns her business). We are doing fine both in business and family life. My wife is very submissive, caring and loving but never knew she is a wolf-in-sheep-skin until the recent incident which revealed her true identity.

As a businessman, I’m always busy during the week but my weekend is for my family, I always create time to spend nice time with my family (wife and children).

Lest I forget, the only bad habit I see in my wife is that she is addictive to phone (social media). She is always on different social media platforms chatting, at times she will just burst into laughter while pressing her phone, even when we are discussing something serious. Of course, I do complain about this, but her excuse has always been “I’m using it to promote my business”. So, I decided to hold my peace.

Last Saturday, we were having a nice time in our sitting room with the children when I noticed a strange reaction from my wife. First, she was smiling while pressing her phone then she ran to the bathroom and after about 5 minutes she joined us in the sitting room. Not too long her phone rang and she picked and all I could hear was “I’m fine” “Nice doing business with you”. For a while, I was thinking about the “Nice doing business with you” phrase but later discard it as I remember she is also into selling of cosmetics and jewellery.

Not too long just as I was about to forget the first drama another one showed up. She received a call and immediately asked the caller (I didn’t know the caller’s sex, since the phone was not on speaker) to chat her on (Whatsapp), then after 10 minutes she stood up and say to me “honey I’m coming” and I replied her with “No problem dear”. That moment I became suspicious of her movement.

After about 2 minutes she left the sitting room, I quietly walked to our bedroom she was not there then I noticed she was in the bathroom talking to someone on phone about price. I heard, “that is the last price for your demand ” and she ended the call with “I will send it now”.

I moved closer to the bathroom door and spied through the keyhole, I almost fainted with what I saw. Guess what, my wife, Bolatito mother of two was naked, snapping her private parts and sending it to someone.

I couldn’t take it anymore and since I don’t want to have someone’s blood on my hands, I left the place, took the car key and went out in anger.

I later returned home that evening, she asked where I went to without leaving any message but I lied that I received an urgent call from a friend. I even said sorry to her because I don’t want her to suspect anything.

I later got hold of her phone that night when she was fast asleep, thank God she didn’t password it (maybe it is because of the trust and respect we have for each other). My heart bled as I opened her Whatsapp messenger. It was full of different pictures of my wife’s private parts sent to other men (her clients), with payment details.

I quickly forwarded all of them to my phone as evidence, and then woke her up and confronted her, at first she wanted to deny it but I showed her the evidence immediately she saw it she burst into tears and started asking for forgiveness.

Please, my people, I don’t know what to do as I can’t withstand seeing her and remembering this stuff. I also don’t want my children to suffer by sending her packing. I don’t think I can forgive her…

Please advise me….


Dear readers to advise Joe on this issue, kindly click the link below:


https://dailyfamily.ng/i-caught-my-wife-selling-her-nude-pictures-to-other-men-what-should-i-do/

Get her a Nokia touch light phone and if she refuses, then marriage over.

Marriage is a sacred union, you have no right to reveal such sensitive information
to outsiders let alone the world nigeria. What will happen when u and your wife make up. You will
forgive and forget, but social media will never forget.

THERE IS MORE TO THIS .

Divorced immediately...

Money money money! To her she hasn't cheated and I quite agree.

efesodje:
These are all lies. Don't mind them. They fabricate stories so they can trend.

Buy pictures when I can download as much as I want free of charge online- young girls pics, milfs pics etc

they there make pant dey wear u...u really dont know wats happening in dis world

Rozaytee:
they there make pant dey wear u...u really dont know wats happening in dis world

Normally I suppose start to vex for you now, but as I see your picture I say make I relax .

Fine girl

Segzee1:
Below is a true life story of a man who caught his wife of 18 years and a mother of two sending her own nude pictures to other men in exchange for money.

Hello,

I believe this is the right place to share this burning issue that has been giving me sleepless nights for some time now.

My name is Joseph but I’m popularly known as Joe especially where I live here in Lagos. I got married to this lady Bolatito 18 years ago and we are blessed with two lovely children, a boy and a girl (ages 16 and 13).

I’m a businessman and my wife is a hairdresser (she owns her business). We are doing fine both in business and family life. My wife is very submissive, caring and loving but never knew she is a wolf-in-sheep-skin until the recent incident which revealed her true identity.

As a businessman, I’m always busy during the week but my weekend is for my family, I always create time to spend nice time with my family (wife and children).

Lest I forget, the only bad habit I see in my wife is that she is addictive to phone (social media). She is always on different social media platforms chatting, at times she will just burst into laughter while pressing her phone, even when we are discussing something serious. Of course, I do complain about this, but her excuse has always been “I’m using it to promote my business”. So, I decided to hold my peace.

Last Saturday, we were having a nice time in our sitting room with the children when I noticed a strange reaction from my wife. First, she was smiling while pressing her phone then she ran to the bathroom and after about 5 minutes she joined us in the sitting room. Not too long her phone rang and she picked and all I could hear was “I’m fine” “Nice doing business with you”. For a while, I was thinking about the “Nice doing business with you” phrase but later discard it as I remember she is also into selling of cosmetics and jewellery.

Not too long just as I was about to forget the first drama another one showed up. She received a call and immediately asked the caller (I didn’t know the caller’s sex, since the phone was not on speaker) to chat her on (Whatsapp), then after 10 minutes she stood up and say to me “honey I’m coming” and I replied her with “No problem dear”. That moment I became suspicious of her movement.

After about 2 minutes she left the sitting room, I quietly walked to our bedroom she was not there then I noticed she was in the bathroom talking to someone on phone about price. I heard, “that is the last price for your demand ” and she ended the call with “I will send it now”.

I moved closer to the bathroom door and spied through the keyhole, I almost fainted with what I saw. Guess what, my wife, Bolatito mother of two was naked, snapping her private parts and sending it to someone.

I couldn’t take it anymore and since I don’t want to have someone’s blood on my hands, I left the place, took the car key and went out in anger.

I later returned home that evening, she asked where I went to without leaving any message but I lied that I received an urgent call from a friend. I even said sorry to her because I don’t want her to suspect anything.

I later got hold of her phone that night when she was fast asleep, thank God she didn’t password it (maybe it is because of the trust and respect we have for each other). My heart bled as I opened her Whatsapp messenger. It was full of different pictures of my wife’s private parts sent to other men (her clients), with payment details.

I quickly forwarded all of them to my phone as evidence, and then woke her up and confronted her, at first she wanted to deny it but I showed her the evidence immediately she saw it she burst into tears and started asking for forgiveness.

Please, my people, I don’t know what to do as I can’t withstand seeing her and remembering this stuff. I also don’t want my children to suffer by sending her packing. I don’t think I can forgive her…

Please advise me….


Dear readers to advise Joe on this issue, kindly click the link below:


https://dailyfamily.ng/i-caught-my-wife-selling-her-nude-pictures-to-other-men-what-should-i-do/

She's sorry cuz she got caught. But it all depends on u. If it's something u can forgive then forgive and let it go but if not, bro end it with her now and allow her continue with her life. As for me I always like option 3 which is torment u psychologically. That's my style

I think there is more to this than selling her nude pictures as claimed by her husband. I guess it is a case of see what you want to buy (u understand ).

The guy should make more findings to this issue.

Meanwhile, am available to help him investigate the matter.

really

You have to forgive her, marriage is for better for worse, since she has apologized forgive her and make sure she does not do it again.

Well u have to 4give,atleast she's nt having sex with her client.

Segzee1:
Below is a true life story of a man who caught his wife of 18 years and a mother of two sending her own nude pictures to other men in exchange for money.

Hello,

I believe this is the right place to share this burning issue that has been giving me sleepless nights for some time now.

My name is Joseph but I’m popularly known as Joe especially where I live here in Lagos. I got married to this lady Bolatito 18 years ago and we are blessed with two lovely children, a boy and a girl (ages 16 and 13).

I’m a businessman and my wife is a hairdresser (she owns her business). We are doing fine both in business and family life. My wife is very submissive, caring and loving but never knew she is a wolf-in-sheep-skin until the recent incident which revealed her true identity.

As a businessman, I’m always busy during the week but my weekend is for my family, I always create time to spend nice time with my family (wife and children).

Lest I forget, the only bad habit I see in my wife is that she is addictive to phone (social media). She is always on different social media platforms chatting, at times she will just burst into laughter while pressing her phone, even when we are discussing something serious. Of course, I do complain about this, but her excuse has always been “I’m using it to promote my business”. So, I decided to hold my peace.

Last Saturday, we were having a nice time in our sitting room with the children when I noticed a strange reaction from my wife. First, she was smiling while pressing her phone then she ran to the bathroom and after about 5 minutes she joined us in the sitting room. Not too long her phone rang and she picked and all I could hear was “I’m fine” “Nice doing business with you”. For a while, I was thinking about the “Nice doing business with you” phrase but later discard it as I remember she is also into selling of cosmetics and jewellery.

Not too long just as I was about to forget the first drama another one showed up. She received a call and immediately asked the caller (I didn’t know the caller’s sex, since the phone was not on speaker) to chat her on (Whatsapp), then after 10 minutes she stood up and say to me “honey I’m coming” and I replied her with “No problem dear”. That moment I became suspicious of her movement.

After about 2 minutes she left the sitting room, I quietly walked to our bedroom she was not there then I noticed she was in the bathroom talking to someone on phone about price. I heard, “that is the last price for your demand ” and she ended the call with “I will send it now”.

I moved closer to the bathroom door and spied through the keyhole, I almost fainted with what I saw. Guess what, my wife, Bolatito mother of two was naked, snapping her private parts and sending it to someone.

I couldn’t take it anymore and since I don’t want to have someone’s blood on my hands, I left the place, took the car key and went out in anger.

I later returned home that evening, she asked where I went to without leaving any message but I lied that I received an urgent call from a friend. I even said sorry to her because I don’t want her to suspect anything.

I later got hold of her phone that night when she was fast asleep, thank God she didn’t password it (maybe it is because of the trust and respect we have for each other). My heart bled as I opened her Whatsapp messenger. It was full of different pictures of my wife’s private parts sent to other men (her clients), with payment details.

I quickly forwarded all of them to my phone as evidence, and then woke her up and confronted her, at first she wanted to deny it but I showed her the evidence immediately she saw it she burst into tears and started asking for forgiveness.

Please, my people, I don’t know what to do as I can’t withstand seeing her and remembering this stuff. I also don’t want my children to suffer by sending her packing. I don’t think I can forgive her…

Please advise me….


Dear readers to advise Joe on this issue, kindly click the link below:


https://dailyfamily.ng/i-caught-my-wife-selling-her-nude-pictures-to-other-men-what-should-i-do/

Let me see the nudes first before I tell you what to do

TrulyHis:
This is quite pathetic but he will just have to forgive her since divorce is not an option. They should sit, talk and settle whatever led her to that.

Are you to decide if divorce is an option or not?

Akinzo2121:
Well u have to 4give,atleast she's nt having sex with her client.

You can't be too sure dude

Its obviouse she has been cheating on you. Before she had to gut to sell her nude pictures, she must have been offering them her body for money. Do the needful, divorce her, and move on with your life.