Anugod:
Really? Hope say no be the same place we collect? Make e no be say na expired vaccine dem give us o

Are you in Abuja?

Lol
Nope. Am in Jalingo. Taraba state

zaynie:




Coachie-lala toh tah lenu bi spicy suya!
Put hand down ke? Let us borrow hands from people to join sef!
Owo mewa feyan kan!
Fat shredder toh bad!
Wearer of the one eye spectacle!
Waker of the sleeping fatties!
Ekun tohn mu green tea lori biscuit!
Awon eleyii won je ugu bi eni je chewing gum!
Awon eleyii won shey jumping jacks lori expressway!
Awon temi tonh mu smoothie bi eni mu coke.
Coachie-lala!!!!
I hail o.







Bounces off with my sagging jeans.



I know,I'm razz laidat

this woman eh

MercyMercy:
Look who is 4months today!
My precious son, I bless God for giving you to me. These four months have been so memorable and I look forward to many beautiful months to years ahead. God bless you my dear son,keep shining. Your dad and I love you so much.

Your son is so fine

lady25:
Hello mamas biko i need help. I will be 6 weeks postpartum on tuesday.i had episiotomy. Have been doing sitz baths regularly . But for about 2 weeks i noticed i have a peppery feeling on my epistiomy site if i sit or walk a certain way. I then took up courage to look at it in the mirror. I found out that there is a red flesh hanging somewhere on the episiotomy site. It really painful to touch. I have closed up/healed well its juat that red thing. Biko sabi mamas who knows what this red thing is. I intend going for check up if it doesnt go soon

Had this same issue too. Doc said it wasn't stitched well. I was given some pills and it dried up. The pain might be as a result of infection.

Glowprincess:



Had this same issue too. Doc said it wasn't stitched well. I was given some pills and it dried up. The pain might be as a result of infection.

My fear has been 'not been stitched well". I hope this is not the case.

Glowprincess:


Your son is so fine

Thanks my sister

Zheemub:

Lol
Nope. Am in Jalingo. Taraba state

Wooooooowww

Bread with tea

Giddyperson:
Since you've now eaten Sunday rice on Saturday, what are you going to eat on Sunday

Dear Mamas,

I am member of this thread, but had to use this moniker to conceal my identity. I have a serious issue and I need sincere advice.
Dear Mamas,

I am member of this thread, but had to use this moniker to conceal my identity. I have a serious issue and I need sincere advice. This is an epistle.

My brother-in-law has been staying with my husband (on and off) before we got married. Our marriage is 2 years old. He started living with us fully by time we were married.

My husband left for the U.S to acquire Masters / P.hd degrees in August 2016. Our plan is to join him (including my BIL) by December this year.

Ever since he left, my BIL has been putting on some attitude that I don't like. All these he did not do when my husband was around. He brings in all manner of friends to the house everyday till late in the night. Atimes, I walk to the sitting room at night and meet strangers lying on the couch. Some cook indomie in the kitchen when am off to work. Some even sleep over for days and he won't let me know. He brings them in immediately I retire to bed at night and sneak them out. I once confronted his friend I saw in the house around 11pm and he simply told me that the guy is sleeping (without informing me prior).

He will go out and come in with friends around 9-10pm and those ones will not leave until 11pm or more. Some days ago, some strange faces came in with him around 8pm and they simply walked to the bedroom area (in the dark as there was no power supply at that time. We only kept light in the sitting room).

He entertains his friends with all these gin (ogogoro) brands when am off at work. The only time I asked him about it was when I saw an empty bottle of gin under the couch (he forgot it there). I kept it and asked him about it when I got back from work. He "repectfully" told me that he used it to entertain his friend.

An issue cropped up 4 days ago, he left with the house with his friends around 9pm and around to 11pm, I heard him open the main door. Thus, I assumed he is back. I told my House Help to put all the bolts on the door and go to bed that I will re-check the doors before I sleep.

I was baffled when my husband's elder sis called me at work and asked why I locked my BIL outside yesterday. I argued with her that the statement is not true, until she told me that it was my BIL that said I locked him outside and he had to trek to a friend's house around 12pm. From BIL's explanation to her, he opened the door briefly to take phone charger "to 11pm" and he ran out immediately.

I was bitter and angry that why is this guy trying to give me a bad name? That I chased him out because my husband is not around? The question now is; Why can't he knock the door harder when he discovered all the bolts were locked from inside? Or call my phone lines? Or shout my name by my bedroom window (we stay on the ground floor)? Or know my window frame? Or wake my HH help up through her bedroom window? My BIL simply called his parents and siblings that I have locked him outside, and that I don't want him to stay in our house again.

For the very first time, I told my mum abt an issue in my home. She called my MIL to please put my BIL in check and that ordinarily an adult (my BIL) is not supposed to be staying with new/young couples in the first 2 years of marriage...and that she kept quiet because I said my BIL is a good guy. She also told my MIL to him to saying he'll still scatter my HH's head with wood one day. This is a girl that does not talk to him at all. I have also warned him about these in the time past, but he still persisted with the utterance. All these talks between my Mum and my MIL intensified the heat. My DH people blamed me for telling my mum about the "locking my BIL outside" incident.

When I got back from work that day, my BIL came to me and said it was not my fault that he was locked outside...that my househelp said I was the one that locked him outside and it got him angry. This was a girl that was fast asleep that period cos she'll be going to school  the following day.

AND TODAY, I told him that he must not bring friends to this house again and he must not bring ogogoro to this house again. He simply told me that I don't have the right to tell him that. I said it is my house and he said who told me that.  He said he has been bringing friends to his brother's housee before he got married and I can not stop him now. I said he should come to terms with the fac that his brother is now married. He insisted that I don't have right  to tell him not to bring people into the house or HIS ROOM. This conversation has caused serious issues and my DH's siblings has told him to leave our house.

I want you all to sincerely point out my faults cos they are all on my neck that I don't have a right to tell my BIL to stop bringing ogogoro (gin) and friends to the house again.

NOTE: My BIL is 26 and an unemployed graduate. I am also 3 years older than him.


Cc: All Mamas.

I saw this article & thought to share it.

Home remedies for blocked milk duct
eskimi.com Jan 27, 2018 4:02 PM

If you are a nursing mother and you constantly experience reduced milk supply in your boobs, redness, and soreness, pain around a breast or both. You might just be suffering from blocked milk duct which is caused by stress, lack of sleep, tight bras or clothing, certain sleeping positions and many other factors. To get rid of the pain real quick here are some effective home remedies that would prove effective.

Massage

This you can do yourself right before breastfeeding your baby. Massage the affected breast with both hands and try to squeeze out the blockage by using your index finger and thumb.

Garlic and honey

A blocked milk duct could easily result in mastitis, to prevent this eventuality crush some garlic cloves and mix with honey. Drink this mixture regularly.

Take a hot shower

With coconut oil in hand direct hot water onto the affected breast and massage with coconut oil for fast relief from clogged milk duct.

Pineapple juice

Pineapple contains Bromelain that works effectively in reducing inflammation and blockage found in the clogged milk duct. Drink a cup or two of freshly squeezed pineapple juice on a daily basis to fix this, you should also take foods rich in vitamin C like broccoli, tomatoes, kiwi fruit, orange, grapefruit, etc.

Jina24:


Wooooooowww

Ur village Abi?

Giddyperson:
Countdown to bbn, who is with me

Am wit u o... I follow jare.

Naomi14:
Bread with tea

bread with formula ok

Jina24:


Wooooooowww

This your wooooooww get as it be oo.
You dey Jalingo too ma?

@greenpenwriter I dey come

Lol. Greenpenwriter where does your husband stand in all of this? In any case anybody that cannot abide by the house rules is free to go and rent his own house. Afturoh he's a grown man shebi? Except he is paying rent with you sha

You people are very patient in this place sha, very calm and loving wives. I need to learn at your feet

enque:


Ur village Abi?

Zheemub:

This your wooooooww get as it be oo.
You dey Jalingo too ma?

Abeg, help me greet my uncles and aunties over there

So you were one of those Efe goons...

Giddyperson:




Grachiouscharis you were saying?

Hubby is about to get so jealous, last year he was so jealous of me and team Efe that he started forming bossnation when he couldn't even easily identify Tboss . I hope we get fine guys this year. I also watched last nights' reunion show, Gifty busy disgracing herself as always, it was entertaining.

According to my paed you shouldnt deworm babies under 1 or less than 10kg (1 year old weight)
Take him to the hospital let them check him out. He could have a sore throat or inflamed tonsils making it hard to swallow
Also benylin or any cough syrup isn't appropriate for children under one. Was it prescribed for him?

eksbabe:
Mamas can i deworm my 6 month old son?
I ask this because he has lost interest in food. He has been on cereal since 4 months and he’s been taking it well till about a week ago.
I have checked his body well and no sign of discomfort. No fever and he is playing well.
He takes water well but breastmilk not so well(he doesnt really call for it)
I force him to eat, spank his mouth open and lock him in my arms so he can eat. This i’m getting tired of cuz he keeps wailing and the cycle goes on and on.
I have tried another kind of cereal and even pudding. Also tried indomie and egg yolk but once he takes a little he will just shut his mouth.
What can I do again pls?
Yes let me add he has been on benylin(cough syrup) for a week now, he uses abidec and also Vit.c
Please what else could be the issue? Helllllpppppp

When it comes to in-law matter ehn, the case is always tiring. Every step you take is always read with one meaning or the other and its usually in the negative.

Okay, if I were in your shoes I just might not have confronted my BIL directly not because I can't (my head dey touch too sometimes) but I will rather channel all the hurts I feel on my hubby till he takes the right action and caution his brother.

For everything he does I don't like I will so yell at hubby after all, it was he who encouraged such behaviour in the first place.

I might not say direct words to my BIL but my countenance and rapor with him will definitely send my message.

You know its easier to handle your own people then in-laws.

May God see you through all this.

Cc: greenpenwriter

greenpenwriter:
Dear Mamas,

I am member of this thread, but had to use this moniker to conceal my identity. I have a serious issue and I need sincere advice.
Dear Mamas,

I am member of this thread, but had to use this moniker to conceal my identity. I have a serious issue and I need sincere advice. This is an epistle.

My brother-in-law has been staying with my husband (on and off) before we got married. Our marriage is 2 years old. He started living with us fully by time we were married.

My husband left for the U.S to acquire Masters / P.hd degrees in August 2016. Our plan is to join him (including my BIL) by December this year.

Ever since he left, my BIL has been putting on some attitude that I don't like. All these he did not do when my husband was around. He brings in all manner of friends to the house everyday till late in the night. Atimes, I walk to the sitting room at night and meet strangers lying on the couch. Some cook indomie in the kitchen when am off to work. Some even sleep over for days and he won't let me know. He brings them in immediately I retire to bed at night and sneak them out. I once confronted his friend I saw in the house around 11pm and he simply told me that the guy is sleeping (without informing me prior).

He will go out and come in with friends around 9-10pm and those ones will not leave until 11pm or more. Some days ago, some strange faces came in with him around 8pm and they simply walked to the bedroom area (in the dark as there was no power supply at that time. We only kept light in the sitting room).

He entertains his friends with all these gin (ogogoro) brands when am off at work. The only time I asked him about it was when I saw an empty bottle of gin under the couch (he forgot it there). I kept it and asked him about it when I got back from work. He "repectfully" told me that he used it to entertain his friend.

An issue cropped up 4 days ago, he left with the house with his friends around 9pm and around to 11pm, I heard him open the main door. Thus, I assumed he is back. I told my House Help to put all the bolts on the door and go to bed that I will re-check the doors before I sleep.

I was baffled when my husband's elder sis called me at work and asked why I locked my BIL outside yesterday. I argued with her that the statement is not true, until she told me that it was my BIL that said I locked him outside and he had to trek to a friend's house around 12pm. From BIL's explanation to her, he opened the door briefly to take phone charger "to 11pm" and he ran out immediately.

I was bitter and angry that why is this guy trying to give me a bad name? That I chased him out because my husband is not around? The question now is; Why can't he knock the door harder when he discovered all the bolts were locked from inside? Or call my phone lines? Or shout my name by my bedroom window (we stay on the ground floor)? Or know my window frame? Or wake my HH help up through her bedroom window? My BIL simply called his parents and siblings that I have locked him outside, and that I don't want him to stay in our house again.

For the very first time, I told my mum abt an issue in my home. She called my MIL to please put my BIL in check and that ordinarily an adult (my BIL) is not supposed to be staying with new/young couples in the first 2 years of marriage...and that she kept quiet because I said my BIL is a good guy. She also told my MIL to him to saying he'll still scatter my HH's head with wood one day. This is a girl that does not talk to him at all. I have also warned him about these in the time past, but he still persisted with the utterance. All these talks between my Mum and my MIL intensified the heat. My DH people blamed me for telling my mum about the "locking my BIL outside" incident.

When I got back from work that day, my BIL came to me and said it was not my fault that he was locked outside...that my househelp said I was the one that locked him outside and it got him angry. This was a girl that was fast asleep that period cos she'll be going to school  the following day.

AND TODAY, I told him that he must not bring friends to this house again and he must not bring ogogoro to this house again. He simply told me that I don't have the right to tell him that. I said it is my house and he said who told me that.  He said he has been bringing friends to his brother's housee before he got married and I can not stop him now. I said he should come to terms with the fac that his brother is now married. He insisted that I don't have right  to tell him not to bring people into the house or HIS ROOM. This conversation has caused serious issues and my DH's siblings has told him to leave our house.

I want you all to sincerely point out my faults cos they are all on my neck that I don't have a right to tell my BIL to stop bringing ogogoro (gin) and friends to the house again.

NOTE: My BIL is 26 and an unemployed graduate. I am also 3 years older than him.


Cc: All Mamas.

if I talk na they will say I'm teaching you bad thing....

well me I would have actually locked him out of the house since since, what is your husband's stand in all of these? is he in support of his brother's behaviours?? does your husband also agree with you that the moment he married you the house belongs to you??.. this answers will determine the type of advice you will get..

but that ur brother in law get luck oooo, I would have locked him outside or mistakenly pour hit water on his guests that sleep on ur couch and claim I thought it was a mid night thief, by the time I pour hot water on 2 people ehn, his friends will refuse to come and visit in the daytime....no no no,i would have just simply locked him outside and turn deafter ears to what the in laws will say..

katchycouture:



if I talk na they will say I'm teaching you bad thing....

I spoke with my husband some hours ago and he started by saying it's not good for his brother to bring friends and all to the house. We had a break in converstation (phone call) and during the next conversation, he was indirectly blaming for giving his brother rules on not drinking and bringing friends home. I'm just so disappointed at him. I cried bitterly.

Meanwhile, I have repeatedly told my husband to call his brother to order on this issue in the time past. I guess he did not, because the guy intensified his misdeeds. I had to resort to telling my BIL calmly about what I expect from him. Things actually got worse. I had to tell him with all seriousness and firmness today, but he told me I cannot tell him not to bring friends into the house.

katchycouture:



if I talk na they will say I'm teaching you bad thing....

I spoke with my husband some hours ago and he started by saying it's not good for his brother to bring friends and all to the house. We had a break in converstation (phone call) and during the next conversation, he was indirectly blaming for giving his brother rules on not drinking and bringing friends home. I'm just so disappointed at him. I cried bitterly.

Meanwhile, I have repeatedly told my husband to call his brother to order on this issue in the time past. I guess he did not, because the guy intensified his misdeeds. I had to resort to telling my BIL calmly about what I expect from him. Things actually got worse. I had to tell him with all seriousness and firmness today, but he told me I cannot tell him not to bring friends into the house.

Jina24:
When it comes to in-law matter ehn, the case is always tiring. Every step you take is always read with one meaning or the other and its usually in the negative.

Okay, if I were in your shoes I just might not have confronted my BIL directly not because I can't (my head dey touch too sometimes) but I will rather channel all the hurts I feel on my hubby till he takes the right action and caution his brother.

For everything he does I don't like I will so yell at hubby after all, it was he who encouraged such behaviour in the first place.

I might not say direct words to my BIL but my countenance and rapor with him will definitely send my message.

You know its easier to handle your own people then in-laws.

May God see you through all this.

Cc: greenpenwriter

@Bolded1, these has beeen done on several ocassion. I mean a million times and it yielded no result. Rather, he wants to start seeing me as a nag and that I don't like his brother.

@Bolded2, it was with this option that they said I don't like his stay in my house and they held on to it. They even told my husband that I don't play or laugh with them. That I'll rather stay on my own than talk to them.

hunniesuzie:
Lol. Greenpenwriter [b]where does your husband stand in all of this? [/b]In any case anybody that cannot abide by the house rules is free to go and rent his own house. Afturoh he's a grown man shebi? Except he is paying rent with you sha

You people are very patient in this place sha, very calm and loving wives. I need to learn at your feet

Initially, he said his brother's actions are bad and suddenly (perhaps after talking to his peeps) , he started blaming me for telling his brother not to drink and bring friends to the house. That since I wanted him to leave the house for me, he will leave. I felt so disappointed in my DH. None of them is even talking about the main issue or reprimanding him for giving me so much stress.

Giddyperson:
Countdown to bbn, who is with me

.

Meeeeee ,I and DH being counting down since... We even Filled up the generator tank already, can't afford to miss the Live show today

Thanks Anugod and kelizosuy, she is better now !!

LholarB:
.

Meeeeee ,I and DH being counting down since... We even Filled up the generator tank already, can't to miss the Live show today

Giddyperson:
Countdown to bbn, who is with me

Please don't make start crying. Am trying not to feel pained that I can't watch till mid show.

greenpenwriter:


I spoke with my husband some hours ago and he started by saying it's not good for his brother to bring friends and all to the house. We had a break in converstation (phone call) and during the next conversation, he was indirectly blaming for giving his brother rules on not drinking and bringing friends home. I'm just so disappointed at him. I cried bitterly.

Meanwhile, I have repeatedly told my husband to call his brother to order on this issue in the time past. I guess he did not, because the guy intensified his misdeeds. I had to resort to telling my BIL calmly about what I expect from him. Things actually got worse. I had to tell him with all seriousness and firmness today, but he told me I cannot tell him not to bring friends into the house.

then you have to over look your brother in law because your husband is not fully on ur side, don't do what will create problems between you and ur husband.. if he is in support of his brother's life style then so be it, just make sure ur room is kept locked all the time and ur househelp is kept far away from rape and other form of abuse... my advice to you is to just ignore your brother inlaw and don't threaten to send him away from the house againecessarily, let him do as he pleases in his brother's housee..

kpele, all will be well

katchycouture:


then you have to over look your brother in law because your husband is not fully on ur side, don't do what will create problems between you and ur husband.. if he is in support of his brother's life style then so be it, just make sure ur room is kept locked all the time and ur househelp is kept far away from rape and other form of abuse... my advice to you is to just ignore your brother inlaw and don't threaten to send him away from the house againecessarily, let him do as he pleases in his brother's housee..

kpele, all will be well

Thanks mama, but I never for once said he should leave the house. My offence is telling him to stop drinking in the house and bringing friends in. They have all agreed to let him stay in my SIL in-law's place henceforth. I tolerated more than enough, I need to protect myself, my baby and my Hh too.

greenpenwriter:


I spoke with my husband some hours ago and he started by saying it's not good for his brother to bring friends and all to the house. We had a break in converstation (phone call) and during the next conversation, he was indirectly blaming for giving his brother rules on not drinking and bringing friends home. I'm just so disappointed at him. I cried bitterly.

Meanwhile, I have repeatedly told my husband to call his brother to order on this issue in the time past. I guess he did not, because the guy intensified his misdeeds. I had to resort to telling my BIL calmly about what I expect from him. Things actually got worse. I had to tell him with all seriousness and firmness today, but he told me I cannot tell him not to bring friends into the house.

to me it's ur husband that supposed to caution him and set d rules for him

omotolanibaby:
to me it's ur husband that supposed to caution him and set d rules for him

He refused to do that for reasons best known to him.