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Many ladies believe this or have this mindset that they are doing a guy favour by agreeing to marry him. Ladies and gentlemen i want you to air your views on this. Personally i don't subscribe to that.

Why think such? Who told you so sef

blezzy080:
Many ladies believed this or have this mindset that they are doing a guy favour by agreeing to marry him. Ladies and gentlemen i want you to air your views on this. Personally i don't subscribe to that.

Yes and No.


Yes if you're broke, No if you're rich

Its like lalasticlacla asking seun for the post of a Mod on Nairaland website..

blezzy080:
Many ladies believed this or have this mindset that they are doing a guy favour by agreeing to marry him. Ladies and gentlemen i want you to air your views on this. Personally i don't subscribe to that.

She's doing herself a favour not the man. A man never stays alone.

That's d same mentality they apply for valentine..that d man must be the spender and they must be the receiver. Valentines day means lovers day not a day of feminine favour and extortion.

we men are just doing them good by marrying them with their wahala.

Tallesty1:
Yes and No.


Yes if you're broke, No if you're rich

After all the abortion? She shd count herself lucky.

Being With The Right Woman Makes A Man Feel Good As No Man Deserves To Be Lonely...Neverthless, Men Of Nowadays As A Matter Of Urgency Need To Develop Their Sense Of Self worth.

Think Of Marriage As An Economic Alliance Or A Partnership Business For Mutual Benefits.

Although One Party May Have To Be Sacrificing 'More' For The Partnership To Be Sustained. The Other Party However, 'Must Not' Take Adavantage Of That To Make Exploits.

Which kind of stupid mindset is that?

If both sides don't feel lucky to have each another then the marriage is doomed.

Tallesty1:
Yes and No.


Yes if you're broke, No if you're rich

LOL. Still No, even if he is poor.
Except by favour we're considering some value she is bringing, not taking the word FAVOUR literally.

A broke guy has something a woman would see him. So, no broke guy should allow any woman blackmail him into believing she did him a favour marrying him, despite his financial status.

pocohantas:
LOL. Still No, even if he is poor.
Except by favour we're considering some value she is bringing, not taking the word FAVOUR literally.

A broke guy has something a woman would see him. So, no broke guy should allow any woman blackmail him into believing she did him a favour marrying him, despite his financial status.

Rich guys think they're doing a woman a favor by marrying her, that's exactly what the OP believes. Check the mention I ignored and you will understand.

So if he's poor then he's the one receiving the favor because he's worth nothing.

Savvy?!?

Which kind yeye favour It goes both ways... I dont just know wats wrong wit some ladies

Tallesty1:
Rich guys think they're doing a woman a favor by marrying her, that's exactly what the OP believes. Check the mention I ignored and you will understand.

So if he's poor then he's the one receiving the favor because he's worth nothing.

Savvy?!?

That wasn't the OP.

kalufelix:
Being With The Right Woman Makes A Man Feel Good As No Man Deserves To Be Lonely...Neverthless, Men Of Nowadays As A Matter Of Urgency Need To Develop Their Sense Of Self worth.

Think Of Marriage As An Economic Alliance Or A Partnership Business For Mutual Benefits.

Although One Party May Have To Be Sacrificing 'More' For The Partnership To Be Sustained. The Other Party However, 'Must Not' Take Adavantage Of That To Make Exploits.

And u think a woman been wit d right man dosent make her feel good abi I believe its a mutual sontin