WHY MEN SHOULDN'T MARRY WOMEN ABOVE 30 ‏

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Royallife

Feb 11, 2018 3:14 PM





"Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these old donkeys be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child.

2. When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ joysticks she's had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She's always just angry

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value... She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs.

Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used car 1Km short of its 120,000km servicing. The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line that is dotted is signed her true colours come out.

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32. ��

Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men & marriage are bad for their academic & career advancement. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.

This is a fact of life, don't come here with your Nywe Nywe Nywe misogyny... VOETSEK

Very few men would marry a 35+ woman when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides.

It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price? Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. My experience of having observed women 30+ has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets.

They are coming for your head o...

Nice Guys will always have differing views
good work OP. but that disclaimer was kinda gay

No problem,we will all try and marry before 30.
But when your gf or any guy's gf dumps him to marry a more stable and ready to commit man, let's try not to insult her or say Naija girls are parasitic.

Please, bear with her and understand that she is trying to avoid all those things in your list. We will all be fine last last.

Op u just said nothing but d gospel truth

For me I can't. Alexialin is a good example of why I can't marry a woman above 30!!

Papanwamaikpe:
For me I can't. Alexialin is a good example of why I can't marry a woman above 30!!

Werey

pocohantas:
No problem,we will all try and marry before 30.
But when your gf or any guy's gf dumps him to marry a more stable and ready to commit man, let's try not to insult her or say Naija girls are parasitic.

Please, bear with her and understand that she is trying to avoid all those things in your list. We will all be fine last last.

beautiful observation from u, miss

And u think ur observations or wherever u brought this crap 4rm makes it a universal truth?
Shallow thinking marvels me atimes.

These women shouldn't entirely be blamed for their woes as attraction is primarily a function of the neuro transmitters.

To break this down, nature has designed women in such a way that they are attracted and will submit only to the best of species and this is the brutally efficient way that nature uses to weed out it's genetic cockups. It is done to preserve the best of species and to ensure that only the healthiest, represented by good looks (manly heights, good body shapes and perfectly symmetrical facial structures) get the chance to pass on their genes.

However, the women who eventually go against the grain and bow to societal pressure or, worst still, settle with schmucks with the lure of money, would most likely end up becoming bitter, angry and caustically unfeminine because they just couldn't cheat nature.

I don't know if there is a way out of this cruel fate, but I will advice men and women to always trim their checklists and not try to go overboard. Every man/woman needs to know their place and the kind of partner they can attract and keep long enough for a sequel if they truly desire to be in stable and committed relationships.

But going for the very limited top genetics when you are not much of a looker yourself will only ensure the vicious cycle continues to rinse and repeat till you are past your prime and left to hope for a dive even far worse than you could have had while you were still in your youth.

Curvinus:
These women shouldn't entirely be blamed for their woes as attraction is primarily a function of the neuro transmitters.

To break this down, nature has designed women in such a way that they are attracted and will submit only to the best of species and this is the brutally efficient way that nature uses to weed out it's genetic cockups. It is done to preserve the best of species and to ensure that only the healthiest, represented by good looks (manly heights, good body shapes and perfectly symmetrical facial structures) get the chance to pass on their genes.

However, the women who eventually go against the grain and bow to societal pressure or, worst still, settle with schmucks with the lure of money, would most likely end up becoming bitter, angry and caustically unfeminine because they just couldn't cheat nature.

I don't know if there is a way out of this cruel fate, but I will advice men and women to always trim their checklists and not try to go overboard. Every man/woman needs to know their place and the kind of partner they can attract and keep long enough for a sequel if they truly desire to be in stable and committed relationships.

But going for the very limited top genetics when you are not much of a looker yourself will only ensure the vicious cycle continues to rinse and repeat till you are past your prime and left to hope for a dive even far worse than you could have had while you were still in your youth.

Nice comment

farem:
WHY MEN SHOULDN'T MARRY WOMEN ABOVE 30 ‏

[NOTE: THE OPINIONS EXPRESSED BELOW ARE THAT OF THE AUTHOR AND DOES NOT REFLECT THAT OF THE OP.

This is just to facilitate an intelligent discussion. Thanks]
Royallife

Feb 11, 2018 3:14 PM





"Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these old donkeys be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child.

2. When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ joysticks she's had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She's always just angry

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value... She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs.

Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used car 1Km short of its 120,000km servicing. The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line that is dotted is signed her true colours come out.

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32. ��

Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men & marriage are bad for their academic & career advancement. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.

This is a fact of life, don't come here with your Nywe Nywe Nywe misogyny... VOETSEK

Very few men would marry a 35+ woman when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides.

It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price? Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. My experience of having observed women 30+ has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets.

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pocohantas:
No problem,we will all try and marry before 30.
But when your gf or any guy's gf dumps him to marry a more stable and ready to commit man, let's try not to insult her or say Naija girls are parasitic.

Please, bear with her and understand that she is trying to avoid all those things in your list. We will all be fine last last.

In as much as you are right, if you by any chance as a lady is 21 should have weighed in by 25 to get married and or leave though painful, i believe any boy who have u as a gf for 5-6 years should plan on marriage. This is d more reason u should understand a man's dream and help to archive and not to be there for greed.

I can't even marry a lady above 23 and yet you guys are here talking about 30+.
HABA!

Grayjoy:
And u think ur observations or wherever u brought this crap 4rm makes it a universal truth?
Shallow thinking marvels me atimes.

True talk. Getting tired of these constant female shaming.

efesodje:


True talk. Getting tired of these constant female shaming.

the points are jst crappy, it doesn't work for every lady, whatever has and advantage always have a disadvantage and vice-versa.

OP, you're so miserable.

gals over 30 right nw

Papanwamaikpe:
For me I can't. Alexialin is a good example of why I can't marry a woman above 30!!

How is she

Onisokuso1:


How is she

She's so bitter and desperate at same time. You can confirm by checking out her posts

Papanwamaikpe:
She's so bitter and desperate at same time. You can confirm by checking out her posts

Hmm really

farem:
WHY MEN SHOULDN'T MARRY WOMEN ABOVE 30 ‏

[NOTE: THE OPINIONS EXPRESSED BELOW ARE THAT OF THE AUTHOR AND DOES NOT REFLECT THAT OF THE OP.

This is just to facilitate an intelligent discussion. Thanks]
Royallife

Feb 11, 2018 3:14 PM





"Firstly women over-30 have a lower fertility. If you want to build a family with these old donkeys be prepared to possibly have a downs syndrome child.

2. When you marry a 30+ woman, you’re marrying her 30+ joysticks she's had over her long life on earth. She has more bodies than a grave yard.

Women over-30 are very bitter from the wasted prime spent on failed relationships she hoped would lead to marriage. Now that you’re marrying her, she should be grateful, but she’s not. She's always just angry

By marrying a woman over 30+ you are investing everything in a rapidly depreciating pleasure provider that has already lost a lot of its aesthetic value... She will be wrinkled in the next 5 years and already having back problems.

Many guys these days are marrying early 30’s women, and then, almost immediately – Bam!. It’s over almost before it began. Its because you are trying to make ancestors housewives. Leave these dinosaurs.

Marrying an over-30 woman is like buying a used car 1Km short of its 120,000km servicing. The over-30 woman can fix herself up enough to fool the prospective provider/hubby for a short while, and once the line that is dotted is signed her true colours come out.

Many women who are not married in their late 30s today never saw it coming. They had a plan: finish their first degree, masters, a job, a promotion, make money, be independent and settle down by 30, latest 32. ��

Over the years, they turn down potential husbands, go on a partying spree like they have frozen time, only to arrive at 35 with nothing to show for it other than a dead end job, a car, and sometimes a child from a relationship that never quite worked out

So, now they are stuck in a phase where they will never find a man of their dreams and have to settle for any man who will be gracious enough to even suggest marriage. By now, all those flimsy and shallow standards they used to have are gone, humility is their second name.

I have seen many women on Twitter in their 20s buy into the misguided, feminist belief that men & marriage are bad for their academic & career advancement. What feminism does not factor in is that the older a woman get, the less a chance she stands of marrying someone desirable.

This is a fact of life, don't come here with your Nywe Nywe Nywe misogyny... VOETSEK

Very few men would marry a 35+ woman when we live in a highly hypergamous (act of marrying someone wealthier than you) society. There are plenty of young and hot beautiful women ready to settle into a marriage where they play the second fiddle as long as the man provides.

It is good to be ambitious, even better to break the stupid glass ceilings, but at what price? Bottom line, at some point, you will need a man in your life. My experience of having observed women 30+ has proven that they mostly live a life full of regrets.

Complete rubbish either way you copied this and the person who wrote this needs a mental evaluation who are you to decide or tell a person when to marry and not to?Nairaland babies everywhere what an insult to compare a woman to a commodity.

What a load of bs.

Some women in their 30s are single not because they parties in their 20s or were slay queens but the opposite. Know a well behaved lady who's single at 30, very simple lady, besides work she rarely goes out to mingle. I tell her how will you find a man when u never go out? She has been like this since I've know her for years now. If u see her u think she's 23 too, she looks young for her age.