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Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by BdorianGray(m): 8:14pm On Feb 14, 2018

I perceive the bad ass stench of acrimony, animosity and bitterness between folks who have had St with each other in the past and it turned out a farce..a fiasco..

Come on now! Y'all shld do better than acting like little kids here...

And as for the OPs topic... I think its very funny and silly. In any case, what applies to 90% of romancelander ladies is more or less applicable to romance lander Guys...

What lopsided sick carp is all dis..

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Feb 14, 2018*

I didn't remember to ask you yesterday, especially with our theses-bond we share, when you made this comment :

Well my own observation really is that 90% of the most active females on NL are not WIFE MATERIALS

Care to elucidate and expantiate how you reached your own observation, can we improve on ourselves and become better, male and female alike?

What's the way forward ?

Thank you for calling my attention to my opinion which indeed is INCORRECT. The fact is, i dont even know 1% of females on here how can it then be true my observation with respect to 90% of active females on NL. What i meant to say is 90% of the most active females I HAVE COME ACROSS ON NL are not to me wife materials. I dont find the passion which powers their activism reasonable. IT IS FULL OF CHAUVINISM AND IRRATIONAL AT ITS COURSE. *Note that i have only stated my perspective which doesnt mirror yours but only seems to be a reflection of your assertion. 90% of females on NL is no joke according to your title which of course IS NOT TRUE, (you asked the question true or false). Anybody who insist its true owns not a lucid mind. What is true is that there are indeed some really TOXIC FEMALES here going through some kind of emotional trauma inflicted on them by guys who had treated them WORTHLESSLY mostly because these ladies themselves have NO VALUE. And then as well as guys who because of certain unfortunate experience in their life have choosen to remain at one spot not choosing to move on. The see the female folks through the lense of their bitter experience, hence trying to infect us with their bitterness by opening threads that ignites gender wars. TEACHING THE MALE FOLKS ALL KINDS OF NONSENSE.

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Shawnnn01: 9:49pm On Feb 14, 2018

AryEmber:
A divorce with loads of cash I hope, it's all about the money oh!

You don’t divorce n get paid for it in Nigeria.

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Nobody: 9:49pm On Feb 14, 2018

WORDWORLD:
Thank you for calling my attention to my opinion which indeed is INCORRECT. The fact is, i dont even know 1% of females on here how can it then be true my observation with respect to 90% of active females on NL. What i meant to say is 90% of the most active females I HAVE COME ACROSS ON NL are not to me wife materials. I dont find the passion which powers their activism reasonable. IT IS FULL OF CHAUVINISM AND IRRATIONAL AT ITS COURSE. *Note that i have only stated my perspective which doesnt mirror yours but only seems to be a reflection of your assertion. 90% of females on NL is no joke according to your title which of course IS NOT TRUE, (you asked the question true or false). Anybody who insist its true owns not a lucid mind. What is true is that there are indeed some really TOXIC FEMALES here going through some kind of emotional trauma inflected to them by guys who had treated them WORTHLESSLY mostly because these ladies themselves have NO VALUE. And then as while as guys who because of certain unfortunate experience in their life have choosen to remain at one spot not choosing to move on. The see the female folks through the lense of their bitter experience, hence trying to infect us with their bitterness by opening threads that ignites gender wars. TEACHING THE MALE FOLKS ALL KINDS OF NONSENSE.

Who are you please?

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Feb 14, 2018

carolndidi:
Who are you please?

How do you mean?

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Feb 14, 2018

WORDWORLD:
How do you mean?

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Sagamite(m): 12:01am On Feb 17, 2018*

Jupxter:
If i can make an accurate forecast of events, i can predict that over 90% of the marriages of ladies that read and apply the comments on this forum will end up crashed, i.e. even if they marry it won't last.

I can't help thinking when i read up comments here to observe how selfish, intolerant, self-centered and myopic the understanding and mental posture of ladies that visit this section are. I see them being set-up for divorce, heart-break, disaster, divorce, victims of wrong partners in future, unhappiness, depression etc.

So, i'll rate it that 90% of romancelander females that belong to that " me " clique, have a 90% divorce expectancy. Same goes to any ladies in their cliques they indoctrinate with their armageddon and voodoo relationships principles... Am i wrong or just stating the fact guys ?

Some of my reasons are :

Over inflated sense of self

The oozing sense of entitlement

Lack of understanding

Myopic views about life

Distorted reasoning

Concotted indoctrination being imbibed from their fantasies to say the least belies some of the reasons i feel this generation should prepare for 9 divorce out of ten marriages

Untested doctrines imbibed from movies and fantasies

What do you think fellas?

Ubunja

Belafonte

Sagamite

Gungnir

No shadow of a doubt!

As a matter of fact, marriage is an institution of failure of which about 40-50% is evidential (i.e. ending up in divorce) and a significant other fraction is covert failure (i.e. miserable and smiling).

I have repeatedly suggested that only about 20% of marriages are successful and that success is not based on the modern, romantic nonsense notion of "what a marriage should be". If we attempted to use that notion as a metric, the proportion of successful marriages would fall below 10%.

As for many NL females, yes you are right. Many are set for divorce, heart-break, disaster, divorce, victims of wrong partners in future, unhappiness, depression etc.

Many black people (men and women) lack self-development. Marriage wouldn't work well with them and the woman would be the most miserable at the end because they lack the qualities, skills and lifestyle to manage the relationship with the man.

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Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Belafonte(m): 9:49am On Feb 17, 2018

WORDWORLD:
Thank you for calling my attention to my opinion which indeed is INCORRECT. The fact is, i dont even know 1% of females on here how can it then be true my observation with respect to 90% of active females on NL. What i meant to say is 90% of the most active females I HAVE COME ACROSS ON NL are not to me wife materials. I dont find the passion which powers their activism reasonable. IT IS FULL OF CHAUVINISM AND IRRATIONAL AT ITS COURSE. *Note that i have only stated my perspective which doesnt mirror yours but only seems to be a reflection of your assertion. 90% of females on NL is no joke according to your title which of course IS NOT TRUE, (you asked the question true or false). Anybody who insist its true owns not a lucid mind. What is true is that there are indeed some really TOXIC FEMALES here going through some kind of emotional trauma inflicted on them by guys who had treated them WORTHLESSLY mostly because these ladies themselves have NO VALUE. And then as well as guys who because of certain unfortunate experience in their life have choosen to remain at one spot not choosing to move on. The see the female folks through the lense of their bitter experience, hence trying to infect us with their bitterness by opening threads that ignites gender wars. TEACHING THE MALE FOLKS ALL KINDS OF NONSENSE.

The only parts of this post I agree with are,
1. Correcting the statistical error from 90% of NL females to reflect active females.
2. That the women here have given themselves to fuvkboys out of a lack of values for their own selves and are now damaged.

Other than those two opinions of yours above, I disagree with the rest of your post.

Yes, many guys here are angry at women because they've been done dirty by them. The question is why is this? Refer to my second agreement above.
While women continually say they want nice, caring guys thy really don't, do not find them attractive and would rather opt for the bad boys. These bad boys do them bashu-bashu and then they begin to think "hmm, badboys are really bad o, let me look for one nice guy that will take me as I am". If course, they have a long list of friendzoned nice guys they pick from in hopes of being in a wonderful relationship.

Here's the rub, Mr. NiceGuy has moved over to the dark side because obviously that's what gets pûssy, and mans must get pûssy. Now, babes is saying all men are scum, blah blah blah. Why won't all men be scum when you want to carry worthless article and pass off as pristine and valuable! Mr. NiceGuy has woken up to smell the coffee and knows how shît works and he's not about to be the loser. He's refused to settle for less than be deserves, and he certainly doesn't deserve a woman who has been used and abused and has acquired demons and enough baggage to fill an ocean. She only has herself to blame really.

You know what's funny? She herself is settling for the nice guy not out of love for him but because she knows/thinks he's dependable. He won't do her dirty like the badboys crew did. In her heart of hearts, though, it's the bad boy that gets her pûssy wet. Mr. NiceGuy is only there as a safety net, nothing more.

The guys who speak her about female bullshit do so out of experience and wisdom, and yes some bitterness. Because who wouldn't be bitter when they find out they've been scammed?

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Belafonte(m): 9:51am On Feb 17, 2018

Toks2008:
Let them marry first before we talk about divorce.

Lol. Ouch.

Re: 90% Romancelanders Ladies Will End Up Divorced - True Or False ? by Belafonte(m): 9:58am On Feb 17, 2018

Jupxter:
If i can make an accurate forecast of events, i can predict that over 90% of the marriages of ladies that read and apply the comments on this forum will end up crashed, i.e. even if they marry it won't last.

I can't help thinking when i read up comments here to observe how selfish, intolerant, self-centered and myopic the understanding and mental posture of ladies that visit this section are. I see them being set-up for divorce, heart-break, disaster, divorce, victims of wrong partners in future, unhappiness, depression etc.

So, i'll rate it that 90% of romancelander females that belong to that " me " clique, have a 90% divorce expectancy. Same goes to any ladies in their cliques they indoctrinate with their armageddon and voodoo relationships principles... Am i wrong or just stating the fact guys ?

Some of my reasons are :

Over inflated sense of self

The oozing sense of entitlement

Lack of understanding

Myopic views about life

Distorted reasoning

Concotted indoctrination being imbibed from their fantasies to say the least belies some of the reasons i feel this generation should prepare for 9 divorce out of ten marriages

Untested doctrines imbibed from movies and fantasies

What do you think fellas?

Ubunja

Belafonte

Sagamite

Gungnir

Leave them. They think they know what's up but they don't. The dating world is filled with older women who cannot find a man and are desperate for one. There's a reason matchmakers are making millions of dollars in their line of business and guess who use their services the most, women. Most of them are young and so still have suitors coming by the boatload. Whem they hit their thirties they begin to realise they've been foolish.

As for me, I'm seriously considering surrogacy. Today's woman is not just worth the hassle. If shes not an olosho, she has numerous dîck she's collecting or she has a stinking attitude, or she has silly expectations. They can miss me with that shît. In the near future, a successful marriage would be regarded as one that lasted a certain period if time, say 15-25 years.

Marriage itself is not a natural phenomenon, mating is. Marriage was designed for the safety of women. Women no longer need marriage, hence its high failure rate. Men would be wise to know what kind of risk getting married now is. I think it's necessary for children to develop but at this rate I'm not so sure. Let's just get it on and bounce, I can get my chikdren from the lab.

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