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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Gaddafithe2nd(m): 7:16pm On Feb 16, 2018
Jakumo:


Single dad self nogo gree carry wettin another man chop remain, put for house, in Jeeesus name, amen.
Haha... Who go kan marry the single mothers? when single dad dey avoid them. This is serious.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 7:18pm On Feb 16, 2018
jashar:


ankhesenamun. hehehe....

don't mind me, i'm only responding to your name. grin
What does ankhesenamun mean
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by FluidQueen(f): 7:20pm On Feb 16, 2018
Raiyell:


Don't be harsh. I only wanted you to take a day off.
I wouldn't. And I'm not harsh. smiley
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by delivryboy: 7:25pm On Feb 16, 2018
[quote author=FluidQueen post=65123952]I wouldn't. And I'm not harsh.
"Fluid"Queen is her name, Hope it's not the fluid the comes out of the loins? I say no more.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 7:25pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
I wouldn't. And I'm not harsh. smiley


Are you like a feminist freedom fighter? That thing will fill your heart with bitterness. Best you just rest and enjoy life.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by gidgiddy: 7:26pm On Feb 16, 2018
I got nothing against single mum's, thats the way the cookie sometimes crumbles. What Im against is when a woman intentionally sets out to be s single mum for selfish reasons.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by delivryboy: 7:26pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
I wouldn't. And I'm not harsh. smiley
"Fluid"Queen is her name, Hope it's not the fluid the comes out of the loins? I say no more.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by ivanalimi: 7:27pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
I would react same way I would if my Son Gets knocked at age 17. smiley
u didn't answer my question. advocate and solicitor for single mothers.women are earth. lolz..its easy to praise shit until it happens at ur backyard. what will u do if u discover ur 17 yr old daughter gets knocked up by a stupid boy in her class and she is just one month pregnant?
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by dominique(f): 7:27pm On Feb 16, 2018
delivryboy:


Call them cowards as you like, they will continue to pure their fluid into any careless vessel they see, a key that can open every lock is a master key, a lock that can be opened by every key is useless. Single motherhood will continue to be a thing of shame no matter the level of civilization.

Single parenthood is here to stay, but if we're going to blame one party the other should be blamed as well. I have nothing against single parents because absentee parents are worse.

Nnaabros:

Why would a responsible woman allow a Coward to impregnate her when he has not even show enough commitment to take responsibility for any possible pregnancy. The guy was probably just having his fun and she allowed him to have his way.

By allowing a man free unhindered access to her without any form of commitment, she was obviously saying she's willing to accept whatever comes out of it. I believe that's why most guys bail when a girl gets pregnant.

She did good by not aborting the child. She should know it was likely going to happen and you can't force the guy down with it if he refuses to. But don't expect society to be proud of you and hail you for it.

I usually don't like giving long preaching like this. You girls need to learn to protect your bodies and your dignity. I'm sorry to say this, the fact is that men usually get away with what they do but its not always the case with woman. That is why you should take more responsibility for what is done go your body. Because you're the one that would live with the stigma of it.

The sad and bitter truth is that it's a mans world

They no dey write coward for forehead oga. If you can have unprotected sex with a person then go ahead and flee from the responsibility that results from it, you're nothing but a COWARD. Keep your advise in your pocket and save it for your fellow men that put pressure on females to sleep with them only to escape the resulting consequences.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by FluidQueen(f): 7:27pm On Feb 16, 2018
Raiyell:



Are you like a feminist freedom fighter? That thing will fill your heart with bitterness. Best you just rest and enjoy life.
I would. Thank you.


And yes, I'm a feminist. smiley
But No, it's just Stereotypes that but hurt males use to Stroke their ego with. Feminists aren't bitter.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by FluidQueen(f): 7:29pm On Feb 16, 2018
ivanalimi:
u didn't answer my question. advocate and solicitor for single mothers.women are earth. lolz..its easy to praise shit until it happens at ur backyard. what will u do if u discover ur 17 yr old daughter gets knocked up by a stupid boy in her class and she is just one month pregnant?
I would condemn them both, neanderthal.


Do I need to spell it for you? lipsrsealed
It is irresponsible for any teenager to bare responsibilities of parenthood, irrespective of whichever gender they belong to
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Jakumo(m): 7:30pm On Feb 16, 2018
dominique:


Single parenthood is here to stay, but if we're going to blame one party the other should be blamed as well. I have nothing against single parents because absentee parents are worse.



They no dey write coward for forehead oga. If you can have unprotected sex with a person then go ahead and flee from the responsibility that results from it, you're nothing but a COWARD. Keep your advise inyour pocket and save it your fellow men that put pressure on females to sleep with them only to escape the resulting consequences.



One can only hope that being labelled a coward by a total stranger never becomes the basis for shedding any tears of anguish ha ha.

Sticks and stones...
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
I would. Thank you.


And yes, I'm a feminist. smiley
But No, it's just Stereotypes that but hurt males use to Stroke their ego with. Feminists aren't bitter.

Well I don't know if y'all feminists have different personas. All of you claim to be happy online yet bitter and floundering in real life. Why?

While you are at it, please stop being a sucker for kisses. You think you are strong abi?
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Cromagnon: 7:36pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
She's cute. Cute son too. smiley


I don't get why the society frowns at single moms but praise single dads. I can't even fathom the hypocrisy, and outright sexism. Every single mom deserves to be celebrated. Women are Earth.
cos single moms have fish brain.easier to manipulate to destroy socity
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by johncallidon(m): 7:37pm On Feb 16, 2018
Who is this MASCULINE TERMITE??

What kind of #fuckery is this? No shame all??

Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by FluidQueen(f): 7:39pm On Feb 16, 2018
Raiyell:


Well I don't know if y'all feminists have different personas. All of you claim to be happy online yet bitter and floundering in real life. Why?

While you are at it, please stop being a sucker for kisses. You think you are strong abi?
lol. grin


You should meet more feminists then
Maybe you'd get to see we're actually the happier sets. smiley

That's where you got it wrongly. I'm a feminist, I love boys. I'm emotional and is Like every other lady there is. wink
The only difference is, I feel like I'm not beneath anyone. And my gender shouldn't make me feel an iota of inferiority to anyone. smiley man or super man.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by FluidQueen(f): 7:40pm On Feb 16, 2018
Cromagnon:
cos single moms have fish brain.easier to manipulate to destroy socity
Regarding your brain as that of a fish would be an insult to fishes. smiley

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Cromagnon: 7:41pm On Feb 16, 2018
PrettyCrystal:
‎A young lady identified as Nkechinyerem Chima‎, has urged fellow single mothers like her to be proud and not allow themselves to be shamed by others. The proud mother of one who revealed that she's not up to 28-years-old - shared pictures of her 9-year-old son as she hit out at those criticizing people who have kids outside wedlock.

The beautiful lady who says she's a boss lady took to Facebook to share her story. Read below;

A lot of people say that the can't marry a single mother!!! Yes!!!

Its your choice..... I am a proud single mother of a nine years old dude. I've no shame ..CU's I didn't murder him. Yes I know that in our culture many detest having kids outside wedlock.

But honestly I do not care.... If its not the will of God it won't come to pass....

I am never a second handed Lady....A proud boss lady...A proud God fearing mother...

My son is not a dummy. He's my joy. He's always maintaining 1st position. A lay reader. A chorister

Am not even 28yrs old sef....I HV got my degree....sef..I will stop at nothing to tell the world that abortion is evil....

Fellow single mothers.....Be proud and work Harder....He who laugh last ...laughs best...


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/02/proud-single-mother-shares-pictures-of-her-9-year-old-son.html
failed wife

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by iRepNaija1: 7:49pm On Feb 16, 2018
xynerise:


Maybe you don't know the meaning of being rude

I'll explain what she meant. She's referring to the fact that when single dad takes care of his child or children, a lot of people would applaud his efforts, say that he's "stepping up" and taking responsibility, when in actuality, he's doing what any should do. On the other hand, when someone is a single mother, she's seen as loose, immoral, stupid, and etc. Look at it this way: some men are less likely to marry and single mom because she's a single mom than woman who would marry a single dad and think nothing of it.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by ivanalimi: 7:53pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
I would condemn them both, neanderthal.


Do I need to spell it for you? lipsrsealed
It is irresponsible for any teenager to bare responsibilities of parenthood, irrespective of whichever gender they belong to
smiles.....Neanderthal.. what are u? 12?lolz
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by kpokposky(m): 7:54pm On Feb 16, 2018
cast yourself nau...okrika..u already a 2nd hand,if u like coat it with sugar

Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 7:54pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
lol. grin


You should meet more feminists then
Maybe you'd get to see we're actually the happier sets. smiley

That's where you got it wrongly. I'm a feminist, I love boys. I'm emotional and is Like every other lady there is. wink
The only difference is, I feel like I'm not beneath anyone. And my gender shouldn't make me feel an iota of inferiority to anyone. smiley man or super man.

You sound like one of the sensible ones in your fold. At the heart of it, you are not a feminist. Feminists hate men and wish to see a world whereby women are the only sexes, and procreation is achieved through asexual means. Like laying eggs and sh*t.

Being confident is not a consequence of gender, but rather, the solidity of self-belief. You can hold yourself in high-esteem and walk with unmatched confidence without labeling yourself with that devilish term, or worse still, identifying with the group of people who want to destroy civilization.

See image below for further reading.

Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by FluidQueen(f): 7:56pm On Feb 16, 2018
ivanalimi:
smiles.....Neanderthal.. what are u? 12?lolz
add another 8 to the mix. smiley
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by FluidQueen(f): 7:58pm On Feb 16, 2018
Raiyell:


You sound like one of the sensible ones in your fold. At the heart of it, you are not a feminist. Feminists hate men and wish to see a world whereby women are the only sexes, and procreation is achieved through asexual means. Like laying eggs and sh*t.

Being confident is not a consequence of gender, but rather, the solidity of self-belief. You can hold yourself in high-esteem and walk with unmatched confidence without labeling yourself with that devilish term, or worse still, identifying with the group of people who want to destroy civilization.

See image below for further reading.
lol. grin

It's not a devilish term. It is what it is. Feminism. There is only one meaning. It can't be twisted. Can't be rephrased.
Anyone not adhering to the true meaning of the word isn't a feminist. smiley
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 8:12pm On Feb 16, 2018
yea? tell us were the boy's father is? you might be a brilliant single mother but the boy needs his father, only she didn't bother asking the child what he needs.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Midastorch(m): 8:15pm On Feb 16, 2018
In as much as nothing is wrong with being a single mom/parent,i can identify an attention seeker when I see one......
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Myde4naija(m): 8:24pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
She's cute. Cute son too. smiley


I don't get why the society frowns at single moms but praise single dads. I can't even fathom the hypocrisy, and outright sexism. Every single mom deserves to be celebrated. Women are Earth.
are you planning to be a single mom too?



Feminism will aid ur dream
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Lordspicy(m): 8:47pm On Feb 16, 2018
OneCorner:
Is that d name of d runaway father

off me grin
OneCorner:
Is that d name of d runaway father

off me
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Saintmary(f): 8:52pm On Feb 16, 2018
buffalowings4:
Wetin consign me,

Carry your cross o aunty
As for me I will say let's keep educating our girls about contraceptive's
We don't want 'mistakes'
let's also keep educating our boys about condoms.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Saintmary(f): 9:06pm On Feb 16, 2018
I'm using this medium to implore every female reading this: Take charge of your body. Be responsible.

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Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Beorn: 9:17pm On Feb 16, 2018
What a small world. I personally know this lady, even knew her hostel and room back in university and we've chatted many times in the past. So shocked seeing her on Nairaland front page.
Re: I'm A Proud Single Mother Of 9-Years-Old Dude; Lady Reveals On Facebook. Photos by Nobody: 9:34pm On Feb 16, 2018
FluidQueen:
lol. grin

It's not a devilish term. It is what it is. Feminism. There is only one meaning. It can't be twisted. Can't be rephrased.
Anyone not adhering to the true meaning of the word isn't a feminist. smiley


It isn't what it is is. Women who subscribe to feminist ideology, especially in this part of the world, are angry and bitter. I stand to be corrected, but the amount of vitriol and bad-blood women who identify as feminist have is detrimental to the well-being of women themselves; especially these new breed of fourth-wave feminists who hop onto the bandwagon because they can't very well create their own identities.

I like you already. Please stop all the feminist bullcrap and run away from kisses. You are not as strong as you think.

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