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fayded:
Hey y'all, I gat this problem.
I met a girl on Monday,it was just coincidental, she needed help finding her h.o.d's office and I helped her.He was around sha,so unlike my usual self,I decided to just talk a lil with her.it was just one of those convos where it seemed like you guys have met before in the past,things just flowed easily between us and I didn't even lie to impress her or something,but she was.I took her number and on Wednesday,I invited her to my dept's valentine fiesta.
at the event,we were just chatting,we didn't even enter d hall again.we just stayed outside ate pop corn and all.and ever since then,we always hang out after school.
she started bringing in stuffs like"who am I to you?".."what do you want from me?".."I never thought I'd ever meet someone like you,its like a dream".
Now the point is I love her,I dunno why or how and I am scared because I just met her on Monday but I see myself doing things that I normally don't do..Now,I'm not a baby in love matters,I've had my own more than enough share of relationships.my point of writing this is that I'd like to know what y'all think bout this.
she is in her 100level,fresher. she is 17yrs.she is sooooooo responsible and soft-spoken.just pure and innocent and she is up to no games.just always honest,sometimes too honest.and she completely trusts me.and so godamn respectful.
I'm in 400lvl,med student(c1).we both wear glasses.she is ambidextrous,in fact she is everything I want,although,she needs some brushing up sha,cos she dresses funny sometimes.but there is no denying her natural beauty.
I've never been in this situation before,most girls I've been with,I always have my guard up in case of anything.but with this one,there's absolutely no danger anywhere.I'm in control of everything and I don't want to ruin it.I dunno whether I should just be myself or just be this dominating guy(alpha male ish).
I've always been repulsive to marriage but with this girl,sometimes I'm entertaining the thought.She is just like 80% what I want.
so,guys any advice??
ubunja
harddon

ubunja:
the girls we dont seek out to impress are the girls who fall for us coz when we are not trying to impress a girl thats when we are relaxed and girls intreprate this relaxedness as confidence and fall for us.
the girls we wanna impress are the girls who dont fall for us coz when we are trying to impress a girl thats when we are nervous and girls interprate that nervousness as weakness and are turned off.

ubunja:
the girls we dont seek out to impress are the girls who fall for us coz when we are not trying to impress a girl thats when we are relaxed and girls intreprate this relaxedness as confidence and fall for us.
the girls we wanna impress are the girls who dont fall for us coz when we are trying to impress a girl thats when we are nervous and girls interprate that nervousness as weakness and are turned off.

fayded:
word#..so what's d advice?..cos somehow I feel its too soon and not real