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| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Shaev7(m): 10:07pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
snowden9:Good. its not new, just that some teachers and corps members don't engage in counseling and understanding their students. Your encounter is exactly mine when I served, the only difference was, the girl lost her mum. So we need to understand pupils and students behaviours in class. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by KennedicalEnergy(m): 10:07pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Good one The great Stephen covey called it 'Seek first to understand, then to be understood.' Always diagnose before you prescribe. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Mypeople2(m): 10:08pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
pharmagba:Men! This your story,cold catch me oo See students o |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Joislim(f): 10:09pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
You can't help using the cane at some point. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by nuggarito: 10:14pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Chukazu:I agree with you on the part that flogging a child at will is bad but I totally disagree with you on flogging demeaning Flogging to me is the last resort to any punishment in essense flogging is the last bustop, back to the topic a child disrespecting a teacher or his elder ,there is no excuse to that irrespective of what has happened that's why you go to the military and they tell you obey before complain. Those words alone simply means you should put your sentiments aside and obey then after you can complain. If it had happened this way that the student stood up and do what others did, a sensible teacher would ask questions why she had internal problems and not disobeying before the student starts giving reasons. Obedience is important no matter what, same as discipline. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by BIXYBABE: 10:22pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
okay |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by DrMuzungu(m): 10:23pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Touch my kid, and I will touch you. If my kid misbehaves, report it to me, and I will handle it. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Gettreadyy(m): 10:24pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
pharmagba:you for continue... lol |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by being(m): 10:25pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
nanizle:It scarred you?- Why are you so ridiculous? |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by highbee02: 10:26pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
snowden9: |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by being(m): 10:28pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
DrMuzungu:So you want every little irrelevant wrong doing that needs a simple smacking to be reported to you?- Hope you don't spoil your child unnecessarily!!! |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Nobody: 10:29pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
I flog pupils if they disobey. I do that with caution though. Some of them are more stubborn in school than at home. Flogging must be involved |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by highbee02: 10:29pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by SEMO007(m): 10:30pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
makydebbie:Wickedness ![]() |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by MAJORBANKZ(m): 10:30pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
makydebbie:just look at how u showed ur stupidity in a public domain. Your parents must have mistaken to have sent u to school |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by snowden9(op): 10:33pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
MhizzAJ:AFSS PH 06/07 session. what about you? |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Originalsly: 10:33pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
@Op...I'm not saying teachers shouldn't flog... but guy...you got furious?...because the girl didn't stand to greet? I do hope this incident will make you really think it thru before ever flogging a kid...and change your approach as a teacher. I salute you for having this one experience change your approach and not just continue Hmmm....I'll have to open a thread on a related matter. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by makydebbie(f): 10:42pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
MAJORBANKZ:Your English fit wake dead person. I can't deal.
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| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Kennydoc(m): 10:44pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
snowden9:Since her head was bent down, I'm sure if you had called her out to punish her, you would have seen her teary eyes which would have made you probe further. Ultimately, you wouldn't have punished her except you were a beast. You made a good point sha. It's all about being understanding and considerate. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by being(m): 10:53pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
I wonder what the thought process is in concluding children should not be beaten. The Bible says if you spare the rod, you will spoil the child!! it's that simple. How many adults will look back and regret that they were beaten? Don't we forget it and joke about it? Sometimes the ONLY language of correction a child understands is usually beating. the punishment is fast and lesson is learnt swiftly. Pain is there- only for a moment but you have transmitted lifelong lessons. You won't beat your children- don't destroy their lives. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by MAJORBANKZ(m): 10:53pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
makydebbie:oya grammarian correct my english |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Nobody: 10:58pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
makydebbie:cane is a weapon to the body of students,it shouldn't be used. On tem,it like torture to their skin,there are other correctional means to use rather than flogging. It is modern day slavery to our selfs. Give the child punishment,corpral punishment like frog jump,school/community service, etc. Cane destroys the emotion of a child,they become broken. We are Africans but must we be Africans? |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by MhizzAJ(f): 11:01pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by makydebbie(f): 11:02pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
IjeleNwa:Go and teach for one month and come back to quote this. I can't argue. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
makydebbie:I thought during NYSC,I thought for 1year after school...believe me,it is in you to decide what to do,I have this idea before I began teaching. I never flogged a child,even when icaught one making out in toilet. Its because you saw it as a tradition,an african phenomenal that's why you flog. My dear,u can change the status quo |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by naturefellow(m): 11:11pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
jc4real::-)))
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| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by MAJORBANKZ(m): 11:16pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
makydebbie:why make gest of urself since you can not correct my spoken english. Just incase u not conscientize that english is just a language and not a measure or test for intelligence. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by DonMekino(m): 11:22pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Please if u have not dealt with teenagers n kids stop commenting...we talk of flogging and punishment as if the teacher enjoys it. I am a teacher n I hate flogging... But there r situations where u are forced to use it. Its just about the intensity n control applied. To the poster...tomorrow another child will do the same thing n tell u the neighbors at home lost their dog n if u dara punish d child....d students will see it as partiality n u r eyeing d girl....be careful ooo especially with the behavior of d female students... Nice one though |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by churchee: 11:24pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Spare the rod, spoil the child. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by femipraiz(m): 11:32pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Do you know that you just made me remember what happened when I was teaching at Ogbomoso. There is this student that is so dull academically and I remembered flogging the hell out of Him one day... A day came that he wasn't in school, I asked after him from his colleagues and I was told something show about this young boy. His classmates told me that He at the market(That day was the market day) they told me he is doing what Yoruba people call "Alabaru"(those that assist with carrying of load to get stipend from you) I was told he is the one paying his school fees has no one wants to assist Him. I was told how he has been trying hard to know what i have been teaching and this almost brought tears to my eyes... Teachers we are the parents of this young ones in school, let us have a listening ear.. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by femipraiz(m): 11:37pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
Do you know that you just made me remember what happened when I was teaching at Ogbomoso. There is this student that is so dull academically and I remembered flogging the hell out of Him one day... A day came that he wasn't in school, I asked after him from his colleagues and I was told something shocking about this young boy. His classmates told me that He was at the market(That day was the market day) they told me he is doing what Yoruba people call "Alabaru"(those that assist with carrying of load to get stipend from you) I was told he is the one paying his school fees has no one wants to assist Him. I was told how he has been trying hard to know what i have been teaching and this almost brought tears to my eyes... Teachers we are the parents of this young ones in school, let us have a listening ear.. |
| Re: Teachers, Before You Flog That Child....Listen by okenwaa(m): 11:43pm On Mar 06, 2018 |
We chop cane wella Na why we get sense 2day Kids of nowadays.....smh!! |
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It is physical assault. 
