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My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by z11111: 10:09pm On Mar 07, 2018
Dear Admin,

I am a young man of thirty two. I deliberately searched for a wife to marry from my village because I fear women from the city here. So when I was ready a year ago,I sent my parents to help me find a wife.

Uru my wife just finished her NCE and everybody know here in the village as a very good and quiet, I was very happy when my parents chose her for me. Even when I was courting her (we courted for like 2 months before our wedding),she used to be very shy and reserved and I was impressed by how homely and godly she was.

Our wedding came and I was very much satisfied when I found out on our wedding night that Uru was a virgin. Because of this,I didnt fear or have any cause to fear or suspect my wife. She moved to join me here in the city but what I am seeing after the marriage is......


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-pretended-to-be-innocent-but-i-am-scared-of-what-she-will-do/

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Pat081: 10:20pm On Mar 07, 2018
U nid prayer so u can nt finish wot u start?Wu do u think will go to dat site next person may go dia because he /she may b jobless

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by MissRaine69(f): 10:33pm On Mar 07, 2018
Being a virgin does not guarantee anything when will men learn this?

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by z11111: 10:33pm On Mar 07, 2018
He really needs prayer indeed.
Do people still think this these days?
Good and bad ladies are every where .
For a lady to be a virgin doesn't make her good.


Pat081:
U nid prayer so u can nt finish wot u start?Wu do u think will go to dat site next person may go dia because he /she may b jobless

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by BabbanBura(m): 10:59pm On Mar 07, 2018
MissRaine69:
Being a virgin does not guarantee anything when will men learn this?

Same goes for a non virgin, therefore i go with the lesser evil - Virgin

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by CAPSLOCKED: 11:02pm On Mar 07, 2018
BabbanBura:


Same goes for a non virgin, therefore i go with the lesser evil - Virgin


LESSER EVIL IN WHAT SENSE?


I HOPE YOU DON'T MARRY A V THAT'LL TURN OUT THE WORST PUBLIC BED GRACER.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Mikypaul247(m): 11:08pm On Mar 07, 2018
z11111:
Dear Admin,

I am a young man of thirty two. I deliberately searched for a wife to marry from my village because I fear women from the city here. So when I was ready a year ago,I sent my parents to help me find a wife.

Uru my wife just finished her NCE and everybody know here in the village as a very good and quiet, I was very happy when my parents chose her for me. Even when I was courting her (we courted for like 2 months before our wedding),she used to be very shy and reserved and I was impressed by how homely and godly she was.

Our wedding came and I was very much satisfied when I found out on our wedding night that Uru was a virgin. Because of this,I didnt fear or have any cause to fear or suspect my wife. She moved to join me here in the city but what I am seeing after the marriage is......


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-wife-pretended-to-be-innocent-but-i-am-scared-of-what-she-will-do/
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by MissRaine69(f): 11:17pm On Mar 07, 2018
BabbanBura:


Same goes for a non virgin, therefore i go with the lesser evil - Virgin
The state of ones hymen should not be used to gage character, personality and the future
But then that’s your problem
To find out later.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by gulfer: 12:46am On Mar 08, 2018
She ain't no virgin on your wedding night, you've been played bro...... angry angry angry

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by lampard01(m): 3:36am On Mar 08, 2018
My wife Uru is always hungry for sex. I mean,when we first got married,I thought its because she wants to get pregnant quick. And she got pregnant the next month after our wedding. This woman did not stop until she put to bed. I used to count myself lucky to have a woman who can match my sexual needs but its seems her own is even more than me and that is making me to begin to suspect her now.

She gave birth two months ago and everyday,everyday,she want me to make love to her several rounds. I ask her if she is not tired,she said she is a stallion. Honestly,as a man,I am getting discouraged by her appetite for sex. Once we wake up,she wants it,I come back from work,she wants it. I am now fearing that if I am not at home,she might even be going behind my back to satisfy her urge. I say this because,anytime I tell her I cannot male love maybe because I am tired,she will be angry and make comments that it is a man’s duty to satisfy his wife otherwise,the woman should not be blamed if she goes outside to satisfy herself.

See eh,I was mad the day she made that comment but taking a closer look at this my village wife,she is not as naive as I take her. She seem more exposed than she was pretending to be. I dont know,I havent seen her but she is too sexually experienced for a village virgin that I was thinking. Now,she is always on facebook and chatting. Her dressing sef is looking very revealing these days. I have been talking to her but she say I am being paranoid because I cannot perform. Which kind of wife did I marry now?

Now,I cannot live up to her expectation,what can I do to ensure this woman does not go outside and cheat on me?

Pascal,

Onitsha

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by mukhcech(m): 3:40am On Mar 08, 2018
lampard01:
My wife Uru is always hungry for sex. I mean,when we first got married,I thought its because she wants to get pregnant quick. And she got pregnant the next month after our wedding. This woman did not stop until she put to bed. I used to count myself lucky to have a woman who can match my sexual needs but its seems her own is even more than me and that is making me to begin to suspect her now.

She gave birth two months ago and everyday,everyday,she want me to make love to her several rounds. I ask her if she is not tired,she said she is a stallion. Honestly,as a man,I am getting discouraged by her appetite for sex. Once we wake up,she wants it,I come back from work,she wants it. I am now fearing that if I am not at home,she might even be going behind my back to satisfy her urge. I say this because,anytime I tell her I cannot male love maybe because I am tired,she will be angry and make comments that it is a man’s duty to satisfy his wife otherwise,the woman should not be blamed if she goes outside to satisfy herself.

See eh,I was mad the day she made that comment but taking a closer look at this my village wife,she is not as naive as I take her. She seem more exposed than she was pretending to be. I dont know,I havent seen her but she is too sexually experienced for a village virgin that I was thinking. Now,she is always on facebook and chatting. Her dressing sef is looking very revealing these days. I have been talking to her but she say I am being paranoid because I cannot perform. Which kind of wife did I marry now?

Now,I cannot live up to her expectation,what can I do to ensure this woman does not go outside and cheat on me?

Pascal,

Onitsha

Those her comments should not be taken to heart. Engage her in other activities. She might demands less if she has something that drains energy. Buh wait how about the kids and the house. Is she taking care of them very well.. On man's poison Sha is my food.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by mukhcech(m): 3:41am On Mar 08, 2018
BabbanBura:


Same goes for a non virgin, therefore i go with the lesser evil - Virgin

God go bless you.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by BossLaifay(f): 4:35am On Mar 08, 2018
lampard01:
My wife Uru is always hungry for sex.....
One mans meat they say.... Lol. What is scaring you is what 99.9% of married men now long for because they probably get placed on a time table topped with excuses of headache and body ache and tiredness and whatever the hell else is in the book of excuses.... Ekpele

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by BossLaifay(f): 4:38am On Mar 08, 2018
BabbanBura:

Same goes for a non virgin, therefore i go with the lesser evil - Virgin
But are you a virgin? Will you provide your wife with the lesser evil option?
Oh I forgot men are entitled to the world.... Forgive me for even asking those crazy questions.... wink

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Cutehector(m): 4:49am On Mar 08, 2018
Why do men think all village girls are the best for marriage?


Don't you know that most of the prosttitutes you see in brothels migrated from their villages?

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by PlaybooyGANG(m): 4:51am On Mar 08, 2018
As for me, bad bitches any day!

Take heart bro!


I lorr you bro!

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by ubunja(m): 5:36am On Mar 08, 2018
BossLaifay:
But are you a virgin? Will you provide your wife with the lesser evil option?
Oh I forgot men are entitled to the world.... Forgive me for even asking those crazy questions.... wink
if i must be a virgin to marry a virgin then you must be a millionaire to marry a millionaire.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Godslove2018: 6:48am On Mar 08, 2018
Being a virgin does not mean its either good or lesser evil ohhhh.

Virgin or no virgin does not tell how righteous or holy a lady can be.

There are ladies who non virgins but they have calm down coz they have known what life is compared to someone who doesnt have a feel of life.

BabbanBura:


Same goes for a non virgin, therefore i go with the lesser evil - Virgin

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Lionessza(f): 7:03am On Mar 08, 2018
LOL, there are still men out there that believe hymen equals good wife ? cheesy. Anyway , you make marriage sound like purchasing a car. " I asked my parents to look for a wife for me". Basically you are a lazy man. You wanted a robot for a wife , " she must come in to my house and do what is expected of her , no deviating from the script ". You sound like you didn't even want a wife but felt the pressure from society * time to marry*, hence you married a total stranger all because she had a hymen and is from the village (guaranteed to be obedient and grovel when you start shytting on her grin). It seems like your purchased slave has turned you into a slave yourself grin. Shut up and get to work lol.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by b0rn2fuck(m): 7:15am On Mar 08, 2018
In life everything has pros and cons,even the water we drink if too much can kill us, God is a jealous and give a damn about refusing to worship him may end ones in hell, all that are cons, all lady try to pretend and some can even pretend to hide are cons for 5 years and the who shown are cons are those will condemn knownly everyone has its own side of a devil side and no one is perfect, it's now depends on percentage of level of craze that live within them, for this I will say you need prayer .a wife can fat 3 times in a week right in your presence but she will never fat twice in 3 years dating her

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by liquidlove2018: 7:19am On Mar 08, 2018
There is truth in what you said.

Man and lady can pretend while dating but cant do it for ever in marriage.

There is a saying that love is blind but opens up in marriage. loooool

b0rn2fuck:
In life everything has pros and cons,even the water we drink if too much can kill us, God is a jealous and give a damn about refusing to worship him may end ones in hell, all that are cons, all lady try to pretend and some can even pretend to hide are cons for 5 years and the who shown are cons are those will condemn knownly everyone has its own side of a devil side and no one is perfect, it's now depends on percentage of level of craze that live within them, for this I will say you need prayer .a wife can fat 3 times in a week right in your presence but she will never fat twice in 3 years dating her
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by BossLaifay(f): 7:31am On Mar 08, 2018
ubunja:

if i must be a virgin to marry a virgin then you must be a millionaire to marry a millionaire.
Oh sure why not? But it may interest you to know that more Nigerian women chip in more than 50% in marriages. How many Nigerian men are self sufficient?
You that is talking are you a millionaire?The poster that talked virgin is definitely no millionaire!

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by liquidlove2018: 7:36am On Mar 08, 2018
If we all wait to be millionaires before we get married , then, people will wait for a life time. Some women help their husband become millionaires.

BossLaifay:
Oh sure why not? But it may interest you to know that more Nigerian women chip in more than 50% in marriages. How many Nigerian men are self sufficient?
You that is talking are you a millionaire?The poster that talked virgin is definitely no millionaire!

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by ubunja(m): 7:41am On Mar 08, 2018
BossLaifay:
Oh sure why not? But it may interest you to know that more Nigerian women chip in more than 50% in marriages. How many Nigerian men are self sufficient?
You that is talking are you a millionaire?The poster that talked virgin is definitely no millionaire!
im just 1 guy with high standards.there are billions of Martin0s with zero standards. i dont even know why you obsessing over 1 man out of 4 billion.
if you cant afford me just pass. no need for yapp yapp

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by BossLaifay(f): 7:49am On Mar 08, 2018
ubunja:
im just 1 guy with high standards.there are billions of Martin0s with zero standards. i dont even know why you obsessing over 1 man out of 4 billion.
if you cant afford me just pass. no need for yapp yapp
Obsessing? Jeez! U must really be delusional. I didn't talk to you? You jumped into my mentions.... Now talking about 1 in 4 bn. Many are mad few are roaming.....

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by ubunja(m): 7:54am On Mar 08, 2018
BossLaifay:
Obsessing? Jeez! U must really be delusional. I didn't talk to you? You jumped into my mentions.... Now talking about 1 in 4 bn. Many are mad few are roaming.....
takes a roaming to know a roaming.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by BossLaifay(f): 7:55am On Mar 08, 2018
liquidlove2018:

If we all wait to be millionaires before we get married , then, people will wait for a life time. Some women help their husband become millionaires.

That's why I asked how many of them actually marry as millionaires? Men that women help to save face and cover their shame in this Nigeria. Only struggling men complain about women leeching on them and their hard earned pennies

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by BossLaifay(f): 7:57am On Mar 08, 2018
ubunja:

takes a roaming to know a roaming.
No it actually doesn't take "a roaming" to know a roaming. Sane people are the only ones that can identify "a roaming" as "a roaming" would not be roaming if he knew he was roaming!

Peace. I shouldn't be caught arguing with a delusional 1 in 4bn man!

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by ubunja(m): 8:04am On Mar 08, 2018
BossLaifay:
No it actually doesn't take "a roaming" to know a roaming. Sane people are the only ones that can identify "a roaming" as "a roaming" would not be roaming if he knew he was roaming!

Peace. I shouldn't be caught arguing with a delusional 1 in 4bn man!
to the roaming the sane are the roaming ones. we all believe what we see.if you know you sane then dont let me bother you. if i bother you then you doubting your own saneness.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by oPPOSEE: 8:14am On Mar 08, 2018
lol.
You re lucky to marry tightpussy.
so shut the crap up and learn how to fu c k.



Dunce.

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Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by Zamad(m): 8:26am On Mar 08, 2018
BAD GYAL
Re: My Wife Pretended To Be Innocent Until I Married Her by tivta(m): 8:49am On Mar 08, 2018
see them forming feminists here,if it is time for rent they will say its a mans duty, time for school fees its a mans duty, time for feeding, its a mans duty. only western women have the right to be feminists cause they most often than not contribute nothing less than 50% of the cost of running the family. hardly does this happen in nigeria, instead you here woman killing their husbands cause he refused to give feeding money. hate it or love it, most nigerian women of toady are nothing more than commodities hence the reason why men buy and discard them at will...

nairaland has given invisible voice to the women above who make it seem like they are the best thing since slice bread but forget that it is women that first brought sin into the world and for that reason, women will always be second class citizens....

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