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“I Got A Child At 19,Did 15 Abortions, Got 14 Heartbreaks And Now Married”- Lara Kudayisi Tells her Story. It was a shocking thing over the weekend when one of the top Nigerian Match-maker, recognised as Lara Kudayisi, took to the stage at a self-development conference in Lagos to tell the audience she had a child at the age of 19, got 14 heartbreaks from different men and had 15 whopping abortions.

"I Got A Child At 19,Did 15 Abortions, Got 14 Heartbreaks And Now Married"- Lara Kudayisi Tells her Story

While speaking to the audience, Lara, said;

“Yes, you heard me right. I have said it times without number and I will continue to say it. Child at 19, 14 heartbreaks and 15 abortions. It is my story and my experience. I own my experience. You must own your experience and be self-aware”.

"I Got A Child At 19,Did 15 Abortions, Got 14 Heartbreaks And Now Married"- Lara Kudayisi Tells her Story

Lara further said that when she first made the confession on Facebook years back,some of her followers were shocked but as time went people began understanding her viewpoints and infact, she now gets paid by people who wants to learn from her experience.
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omo d Lord is ur strength

15 what?

Mama the mama!

Hmmm,
and you're proud of it, to you now, you're a record breaker. Don't forget,
your past will hunt you. Take it or take it. "Karma" somebody please help me with one "Odunlade Adekola meme"

I still can't understand how someone could have multiple abortions in one lifetime . It's the 21st century for fcks sake , we have contraceptives and condoms . And they are all free .

omg lord have mercy

Lionessza:
I still can't understand how someone could have multiple abortions in one lifetime . It's the 21st century for fcks sake , we have contraceptives and condoms . And they are all free .

It's stupidity imo. Sure contraceptives have their side effects, but it's still better than damaging yourself physically & emotionally with quadruple abortions. For sure after a while you become an empty shell, no soul.
Plus kuthiwa ziyabandisa

XhosaNostra:


It's stupidity imo. Sure contraceptives have their side effects, but it's still better than damaging yourself physically & emotionally with quadruple abortions. For sure after a while you become an empty shell, no soul.
Plus kuthiwa ziyabandisa

That's the scary thing about this , you cannot be a normal person after doing something like this over and over again. I think its self hatred. Lol , but yenza i sense leyobanda.

Lionessza:



That's the scary thing about this , you cannot be a normal person after doing something like this over and over again. I think its self hatred. Lol , but yenza i sense leyobanda.

Ngaba bephela belahla their kids in garbage bags. The maternal instincts are dead & gone, only a stone cold killer remains. Lol, utsho? Some of these beliefsnyana, mna I take them with a grain of salt. Umama wayethanda ukuthi when I'm bathing, intombi ayizigrumbi kangaka, uzobanda! LMFAO. I didn't understand it back then, but now sendiyenziswa sisiqhelo. Ndiya dry cleaner nje now so that ndingaboli. Don't judge meeee

XhosaNostra:


Ngaba bephela belahla their kids in garbage bags. The maternal instincts are dead & gone, only a stone cold killer remains. Lol, utsho? Some of these beliefsnyana, mna I take them with a grain of salt. Umama wayethanda ukuthi when I'm bathing, intombi ayizigrumbi kangaka, uzobanda! LMFAO. I didn't understand it back then, but now sendiyenziswa sisiqhelo. Ndiya dry cleaner nje now so that ndingaboli. Don't judge meeee

Lionessza:



That's the scary thing about this , you cannot be a normal person after doing something like this over and over again. I think its self hatred. Lol , but yenza i sense leyobanda.

Speak In Fvcking english pls!

Apina:

Speak In Fvcking english pls!

Mind your own business.

XhosaNostra:


Ngaba bephela belahla their kids in garbage bags. The maternal instincts are dead & gone, only a stone cold killer remains. Lol, utsho? Some of these beliefsnyana, mna I take them with a grain of salt. Umama wayethanda ukuthi when I'm bathing, intombi ayizigrumbi kangaka, uzobanda! LMFAO. I didn't understand it back then, but now sendiyenziswa sisiqhelo. Ndiya dry cleaner nje now so that ndingaboli. Don't judge meeee

Exactly. I think I would even be scared to live with someone like that, what if one day all of this comes back to her and she loses her mind and starts stabbing me in my sleep . Lol, I won't, my aunt used to preach the same but never really said why. But wayesithi akho need to ukuzigrombonca ,ikuku is a self cleaning oven . Anyway , it's true qha as a young woman ucinga izokwenza a difference. Lol@ ku drier . Don't know why that got me giggling.

Lionessza:




Exactly. I think I would even be scared to live with someone like that, what if one day all of this comes back to her and she loses her mind and starts stabbing me in my sleep . Lol, I won't, my aunt used to preach the same but never really said why. But wayesithi akho need to ukuzigrombonca ,ikuku is a self cleaning oven . Anyway , it's true qha as a young woman ucinga izokwenza a difference. Lol@ ku drier . Don't know why that got me giggling.

LMFAO @ self cleaning oven. But maybe that one is true to an extent because have you noticed that dirty ladies babhubhuzelwa ngamadoda. I remember another girl called Noxolo, a beauty (Miss Alphandale High School), washiywa nguGcobisa, iqothololwana that didn't even brush her hair. Ndancama lol.

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO @ self cleaning oven. But maybe that one is true to an extent because have you noticed that dirty ladies babhubhuzelwa ngamadoda. I remember another girl called Noxolo, a beauty (Miss Alphandale High School), washiywa nguGcobisa, iqothololwana that didn't even brush her hair. Ndancama lol.

LMFAO @iqothololwana. A sick friend of mine likes to joke around that, you will be sitting around comfortably in a nice home kanti indoda idla emkhukhwini strongo. She says dirty pussy is addictive . She says , go visit a place with shacks and you will see all sorts of nice cars parked outside shacks visiting them girls lol. Becareful .

Lionessza:



LMFAO @iqothololwana. A sick friend of mine likes to joke around that, you will be sitting around comfortably in a nice home kanti indoda idla emkhukhwini strongo. She says dirty pussy is addictive . She says , go visit a place with shacks and you will see all sorts of nice cars parked outside shacks visiting them girls lol. Becareful .

LMFAO. Exactly. This life will humble you in the worst way.

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Exactly. This life will humble you in the worst way.

Lol, you can say that again.

Lionessza:



Lol, you can say that again.

How would you feel though ukushiywa lixelegu? I'm sure it hurts a lot lol.

That man that married you must be very unfortunate.

Lionessza:



LMFAO @iqothololwana. A sick friend of mine likes to joke around that, you will be sitting around comfortably in a nice home kanti indoda idla emkhukhwini strongo. She says dirty pussy is addictive . She says , go visit a place with shacks and you will see all sorts of nice cars parked outside shacks visiting them girls lol. Becareful .

Many girls of that stratum of society can handle relationships that are almost just about sex. The more cerebral women are, in my experience, the more asexual they are. These men just want to get down.
I wish all women were like women in the shacks.

XhosaNostra:


How would you feel though ukushiywa lixelegu? I'm sure it hurts a lot lol.

Lol, gosh! . My first thought would be my health , ibikhona na i plastic in this whole thing . Lol, I don't know if I would be upset , I would probably think iyafana with him running off with a gay guy . I can't change to a dirty girl just like I can't be a guy , it's unnatural . It's better ahambe with his new taste lol.

Lionessza:


Lol, gosh! . My first thought would be my health , ibikhona na i plastic in this whole thing . Lol, I don't know if I would be upset , I would probably think iyafana with him running off with a gay guy . I can't change to a dirty girl just like I can't be a guy , it's unnatural . It's better ahambe with his new taste lol.

LMFAOOO.

WORLDPEACE:

Many girls of that stratum of society can handle relationships that are almost just about sex. The more cerebral women are, in my experience, the more asexual they are. These men just want to get down.
I wish all women were like women in the shacks.

LMFAO, . I knew you were that type of guy . So this is true? Lol.

XhosaNostra:



LMFAOOO.

Lol, what would you do?

Lionessza:



Lol, what would you do?

Ndingabukhathazeka lol. Like something is missing or something. Cheating kinda does that. When umntu is not even up to par, I'd have a mini heart attack

Reminds me of those Beyoncé lyrics that go something like: She took the other half of me (husband), but looking at her, she's not even half of me (hola )

Lionessza:
we have contraceptives and condoms . And they are all free .

they share free condoms in SA?

XhosaNostra:


Ndingabukhathazeka lol. Like something is missing or something. Cheating kinda does that. When umntu is not even up to par, I'd have a mini heart attack

Reminds me of those Beyoncé lyrics that go something like: She took the other half of me (husband), but looking at her, she's not even half of me (hola )

Lol @ mini heart attack.

@the bolded. See ego ? . Didn't Jay z get a hoodrat or something? Lol.

Lionessza:



Lol @ mini heart attack.

@the bolded. See ego ? . Didn't Jay z get a hoodrat or something? Lol.

Lol, he did allegedly.

Grayjoy:
they share free condoms in SA?

Yes , you don't have government condoms over there ?

She ain't bragging about the abortion, she's only trying to let us know about moving on. Don't get stuck thinking your life is a mess and nothing good can come out of you, brush yourself and start afresh and go get a life....