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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Bimpe29: 2:59pm On Mar 25, 2018
Watching porn brings no goodness, it's bad and sinful.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Akalia(m): 3:04pm On Mar 25, 2018
Nancy2018:
Porn is sweet
hide your face. I dey shame for you.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by dtrend(m): 3:07pm On Mar 25, 2018
[quote author=NothingDoMe post=66142214]Its wrong. The more you watch, the more you practice. Before long you'd be doing threesomes with your Neighbors wife or/and daughter.



what's 3some?
just curious.....

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by TonyRoland(m): 3:18pm On Mar 25, 2018
moscobabs:
Thank God for xvideo, leakpapa and exposed.ng. my marriage would have crashed.

I met my wife a virgin and she couldn't satisfy my sex urge cos I love sex too much. But to avoid adultery I have to train her but to get it right I used to buy handout which is sex movie so letter I changed it to the above sites and since then we have been enjoying our sex life.

I know some hypocrites will say it's wrong . Dey deceive yourself
Guy I too can testify to dat, I av a bro too same story u wrote above was his own case too he need to train his wife with sexy novel nd xmovies bt some pple are just hypocrite dey will go against it meanwhile wat dey do inside is worst than diz.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by nemynely(m): 3:22pm On Mar 25, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide.

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them.
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence.

Couples should be able to watch porn,
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences.

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage.

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery.
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin.
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.

I only wanted to read comments and leave till I read this mega warped thrash above. Every line is toxic! To think some people still reason like this means the church ain't doing enough in the area of sanctified sexuality.
First, porn is to condemned wholesale. It is not permitted, neither married nor single. There are books and verses in the Bible that reinforce my conviction that we have been pre- programmed to know what sex is all about and how to go about it without any lewd, unrealistic "sex instructional guide"

Pls continue scrolling down to see my full response. This was submitted before I could finish my composition. Thanks.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Kposkila: 3:32pm On Mar 25, 2018
internationalman:
if you say it's sin,

then it's also sin for them to change style

Slapping their wives big booty is a sin too.

it's also a sin for them to perform MouthAction and Cunnilingus..
Hmmm, I heard a preacher last week say all the above u mentioned is a sin, and that children concieved as a result of doggy style, grow up behaving like animals and promiscuous...,

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by nemynely(m): 3:51pm On Mar 25, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide.

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them.
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence.

Couples should be able to watch porn,
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences.

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage.

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery.
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin.
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.

I only wanted to read comments and leave till I read this mega warped thrash above. Every line is toxic! To think some people still reason like this means the church ain't doing enough in the area of sanctified sexuality.
First, porn is to condemned wholesale. It is not permitted, neither married nor single. There are books and verses in the Bible that reinforce my conviction that we have been pre- programmed to know what sex is all about and how to go about it without any lewd, unrealistic "sex instructional guide". The Song of Solomon, 2Pet 1:3 - "His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness", etc.
Have you ever wondered why you are naturally excited at the presence of a member of the opposite sex? Why your members get stirred up when you hear the voice of, perceive the cologne of, get unintentionally brushed by body parts of, etc the opposite sex?
It means we already have what it takes to enjoy sex and our sexuality, but must be bridled /kept in check, as Children of God, till the right time (1Cor 9:27 living bible translation -"Like an athlete, I punish my body, treating it roughly, training it to do what it should, not what it wants to. Otherwise, I fear that after enlisting others for the race, I myself might be declared unfit and ordered to stand aside"wink.
About different sex styles, you also do not need porn! If you are imaginative, you will arrive at these styles and more. This is not textbook stuff, I am talking from experience.
Till tomorrow, there are two funny things I still tell my wife about our wedding preps.
1. I cannot remember what the wedding day sermon centered on. (My best man kept passing the phone to me for instructions to those organising the reception!)
2. The only new thing I learnt from our marriage counselling classes is this: Every sex style is permissible, allowed, just ensure your partner is neither hurt nor uncomfortable by it.
Finally, Abstinence till marriage, remains the best policy. God's grace is more than sufficient to help us in any and every area of need.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by deebrain(m): 4:09pm On Mar 25, 2018
Please who will bet with me? Someone will come and say doing sex style with your wife is a sin...

5k.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Herrmes: 4:25pm On Mar 25, 2018
Pchizy:


Father!
What a generation.

"... if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin..."

Who has fed us?
Why the wind continues to blow many away is because we are full of religion. Only going to Church, fighting for denomination etc can never save a man. It will only feed you with such knowledge.
Note : Christ is the truth.
Only truth will make a man free from heresy.
You can be going to Church, even answer a Pastor, function in Church, yet you don't know the truth. Until you accept Christ as your Lord and personal savior,, evident in your lifestyle and not just saying it.
It is at this point that you will really understand that marriage is beyond physical, beyond child bearing etc.
I'm not surprise, because a carnal man will view anything with a carnal mind. But a man of the Spirit discerns the things of the Spirit.
It's pretty convenient you're the spiritual one, isn't it?
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by ImaIma1(f): 4:44pm On Mar 25, 2018
Pchizy:


There's a big difference between a Christian home and otherwise. If you really want to raise a godly family, then, you would have understood the post.
This generation waits to hear their Pastor condemn it before they agree. Some will still be looking for where it is condemned in the Bible.
They never want anything about the cross.
If you "really genuinely want to establish God in your life" as single or as couple,, nobody will dictate twice for you that Porn is devilish.

Or they will wait for Freeze to expatiate more or give a contrary view that supports porn. I think Freeze can use bible verses to back up a claim that.porn is good.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Maisamari1994: 5:08pm On Mar 25, 2018
this is really confusing, base on my experience watching porn is not encouraging... is even a sin to watch porn been you single or married...











no insult please...

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Nobody: 5:16pm On Mar 25, 2018
Confirm G’s no dey watch porn
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by yusman14(m): 5:17pm On Mar 25, 2018
Kotodoctor:
Era of enlightenment sha, you no go kill person. Bible warn us not to be wise in our own eyes. I don't think knowledge is the problem, now I think too much of it.

How is looking at another man and woman having sex not canal enough to be considered sin?. I mean you are starring at another person sexing. Ok! Let me break it down.

Jesus say just looking at a woman lust fully is already a sin. Just considering the thing ooo. With full clothes on..

Abeg make una use bible standard to judge as christians. Because if we wan reason things our way, error go full am.

Plus maybe if the church stop teaching less about tithes, and more about consecration, santifications, restitution and the rest.. we will stop having this senseless christian debates.
..wat if a woman is lookin @ a man..is it a sin??
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Kotodoctor: 5:22pm On Mar 25, 2018
yusman14:
..wat if a woman is lookin @ a man..is it a sin??

It's vice versa broda.
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by yusman14(m): 5:25pm On Mar 25, 2018
hmm....watching porn is bad...i am nt yet married...i watch it alot..after watchin i always feel lyk having sex...am so addicted 2 porn...bt am stil a virgin....
porn decreas one's level.of asimilation and memorizing.....i always feel.lyk practisin it.....

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by yusman14(m): 5:26pm On Mar 25, 2018
Kotodoctor:


It's vice versa broda.
hmm...ok
bt y much emphasis on female.....sum girls always admire male..infact rape...bt if a boy du so ..na jail straight..dey always feel lyk an angel..chai
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by eMJPossibility(m): 6:11pm On Mar 25, 2018
watching porn is not cool.

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Junny04(m): 6:39pm On Mar 25, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide.

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them.
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence.

Couples should be able to watch porn,
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences.

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage.

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery.
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin.
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.
To be candid, this is the most sensible thing have ever seen you write ever. You nailed it sir... But the concluding part, ain't really sure about it. Both adultery and formication are sins. No sin is bigger than another, they all lead to the same end. But all in all, nice knw from you
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Junny04(m): 6:52pm On Mar 25, 2018
Most comments have seen is on the fact that by watching porn, the partners would tend to cheat on each other. But take a look at this scenario:
When you watch a catering show on TV, do u have the urge to steal the food being cooked by chef or to go into kitchen and try it out.
This is same as porn. A person that wants to cheat, will cheat, regardless of watching porn or not. When a relationship is dead sexually, that's the end...
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Rozaytee: 7:50pm On Mar 25, 2018
in my own opinion porn is not too healthy for both single and married....
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by aragon4realz(m): 8:42pm On Mar 25, 2018
moscobabs:


Guy shut up, my wife and I are more than that.. I just shared what's working in my family, I don't need advise from you. Your comment is not mature... Go get life .
the truth is bitter right if e pain you go hug transformer
Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by Freeze007(m): 9:01pm On Mar 25, 2018
biggboy:

I strongly disagree that married couples should involve in it. The porn stars are demonized.

Why should you watch demons in action in order for you to enjoy your sex life? Sex is a

Beautiful gift from God to be enjoyed within the main institution. There are other ways you can enjoy your sex life with your spouse than resort to pornography. Most addicts eventually do not enjoy sex with their spouses because they have a superficial learning of sex in porn.



They expect their spouses to be wild on bed during all sorts of Gymnastics. When they're don't see this, they are disappointed. Some married couples watch pornography and they think it is ok. It is very wrong.



How can you look at another woman's unclothedness in order to make love to your own wife? Do they have the same body?

Some men watch pornography and begin to compare their wives body parts to the ones they watch or have seen.



That is why sexual abstinence remains the best. You will have no reason to compare your spouse in bed with your previous sexual partners.

Some women who watch pornography will begin to complain about the size of their husband’s manhood later. How did they know the size, whether it is too small or too thin, they have defiled their eyes before then. You will now see their husbands being concerned and begin to use things for penis enlargement or elongation; At the expense of their health.



The damaging effect of pornography is too much to be written, I pray God opens our eyes of understanding in Jesus name, Amen.



Some men after seeing other women's body parts while watching pornography becomes sexually frustrated with their wives.

This has led to many involving in adultery, they don't understand that those things they watch are not as real as they think.



If I get this question correctly, does it mean that you are watching porn and you have seen no side-effects? There is no way someone indulges in sin and will have no side effects.

Romans 6:23 Amplified Bible (AMP)’’23:For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God [that is, His remarkable, overwhelming gift of grace to believers] is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.’’

It does not change, you might not see the consequences immediately but it does not free you from its negative consequences.



Pornography it like a slow poison, it destroys gradually. It is like a time bomb; some might take time before they explode committing fornication or adultery, but one day, they might just fall into the sin except they repent. Besides, the time you spend watching it can be channelled to do something more profitable







On improving your spiritual and physical life. God expects each and every one of us to be His voice.

Preach the word. If God has delivered you from it, allow God to use you bring others out.



When Bathsheba was taking her bath, she would probably not have expected David to look but he looked. We must be good examples to unbelievers by dressing well. Men are attracted by sight.

There's no valid excuse for spiritual deficiencies.



Provision for cure has been made available in Christ. If you don't look at the CROSS and live, you'll look at the devil and die. If we must manifest, we must embrace holiness within and without.



In conclusion, married couples should not watch pornography, if we must attain sexual purity, it is both for the single and the married ones.



Don't be ashamed to share your testimony.

Remember that you are saved to serve.

Do not die in silence.

Be firm in your decision.

Be accounted to a minister of God or a matured believer.



If you are willing to come out of this bad habbit, pray: "Loud Jesus I accept you as My Lord and personal Saviour, come into my life"



After doing this, now tell God to release you from sexual addictions, burn the bridges that may want to take you back there



Don't allow the devil use you as a live pornography to make others fall!



May God bless us all.

Source: http://www.thebelievershub.com/2018/03/is-it-good-for-married-people-to-watch.html?m=1


Thank You Father.... This is informative!

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Re: Is It Good For Married People To Watch Porn? by gwama: 12:50pm On Mar 26, 2018
moscobabs:
Thank God for xvideo, leakpapa and exposed.ng. my marriage would have crashed.

I met my wife a virgin and she couldn't satisfy my sex urge cos I love sex too much. But to avoid adultery I have to train her but to get it right I used to buy handout which is sex movie so letter I changed it to the above sites and since then we have been enjoying our sex life.

I know some hypocrites will say it's wrong . Dey deceive yourself

Are you even a virgin ?? I guess no, otherwise you would enjoy your wife with all his innocence and both of you would have discovered sex together without the contribution of porn film. That's why we warn young people against sex before marriage, because it brings disillusionment into the marriage. cool cool

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