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Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by TheBlessedMAN: 11:21pm On Dec 07, 2018
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Dec 07, 2018
undecided




If you ask me, na who I go ask??
The matter wey you see so, e heavy for my mouth
If you ask me, na who I go ask??
(beating till faded)

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by TheBlessedMAN: 11:53pm On Dec 07, 2018
OceanmorganTrix:
undecided




If you ask me, na who I go ask??
The matter wey you see so, e heavy for my mouth
If you ask me, na who I go ask??
(beating till faded)
thanx 4 opening the thread with your lovely praise and worship song.

Next!

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by dollytino4real(f): 11:56pm On Dec 07, 2018
it add maggi to the forking tinz to spice it up 4 more forking

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by spongeisback: 12:59am On Dec 08, 2018
Why're you religious folks ALWAYS bothered about sex?! Yoooooooo don't you've Something else to contribute to this world?!

Always sex, sex, sex and more sex.
Mtchewwwwwwwww

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by TheBlessedMAN: 6:24am On Dec 08, 2018
spongeisback:
Why're you religious folks ALWAYS bothered about sex?! Yoooooooo don't you've Something else to contribute to this world?!

Always sex, sex, sex and more sex.
Mtchewwwwwwwww
Thanks for your contribution.


Neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeexxxxxtt ?

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by luvmijeje(f): 7:09am On Dec 08, 2018
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by TheBlessedMAN: 7:18am On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?
@bolded. Mind Mate.

So your point is, generally, watching porn is not necessarily necessary, talkless of being a Christian?

Thanks for sharing. Adupe gan ni o

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Martinez19(m): 8:12am On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?
I am so happy for you. I remember when you were still religious and we argued about "irrefutable miracles" then as I monitored you, I witnessed your gradual disassociation from religion and the nice views you developed about atheists. This life comes and goes and everyone should be happy.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by luvmijeje(f): 8:53am On Dec 08, 2018
Martinez19:
I am so happy for you. I remember when you were still religious and we argued about "irrefutable miracles" then as I monitored you, I witnessed your gradual disassociation from religion and the nice views you developed about atheists. This life comes and goes and everyone should be happy.

Thanks. But I believe in God. My life has been a journey of discovery and if not for Him, I will still be in darkness about a lot of things.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Eberechi24(f): 9:08am On Dec 08, 2018
it depends on the individuals, if they are OK with it, fine.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Martinez19(m): 9:16am On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:


Thanks. But I believe in God. My life has been a journey of discovery and if not for Him, I will still be in darkness about a lot of things.
Okay. Keep on seeking the truth and be honest about it. Be sure not to insist that a god must exist because there might be a god or there might not be. You conclusion should be a thorough and honest one.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by TruthinAction: 9:18am On Dec 08, 2018
It is wrong. Those acting porn are stimulating people to live in sin and it is therefore wrong to use their content to arouse your sexual pleasure with your partner. Sex outside marriage is fornication. So Christian couples shouldn't use content from those fornication to arouse their sexual pleasure. There are good books written by Christian authors that can guide married couples in their sex life.

Romans 1:32:.. knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are WORTHY of DEATH, not only do the same, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:50am On Dec 08, 2018
Bible scholars, Hypocritical Christians, are coming to quote bible verses for you. I'll make it short and simple. Watching porn is no big deal.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by wakes: 10:50am On Dec 08, 2018
no
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by HAROLDWILSON: 10:50am On Dec 08, 2018
Very proper
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by martineverest(m): 10:51am On Dec 08, 2018
computerly simulated (educative) porn that's produced by experts in sexual activities...not aggressive porn that encourages immortalities

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by HAROLDWILSON: 10:51am On Dec 08, 2018
Very proper indeed
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by tstx(m): 10:51am On Dec 08, 2018
Hehe
... As y'all watch porn make una dey careful... According to this study, porn addiction can ruin your brain

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by easynetsms(m): 10:52am On Dec 08, 2018
Wats d essence of watching porn.. Are dey learners

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:52am On Dec 08, 2018
grin

Revelation 2:34 says and I quote For no matter your relationship shall ye watch porn together; if ye must do so, ye shall anoint the device first and pray to thy lord thy god before and after watching. For inviting thy lord to such satisfactory view shall he bless thy with enough strength for thy main action

So my brother follow that verse well and thy good god would bless you with strength for the after party

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by SolutionsGuy: 10:52am On Dec 08, 2018
Silly question. If you want to watch porn, watch porn. If you want to have sex, pls do. And if you want to combine them, good for you.
Why bother people with your sexual choices? Your personal matter? Sex all the time, yet we want Buhari to do magic. mtchew

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by bknight: 10:52am On Dec 08, 2018
Is it proper? No, it’s not proper.

Is it a sin? No, it’s not a sin.

My opinion: Stay away from porn. There are subtle things that are communicated through porn that fvcks you up. And fvcks you up real bad. The world of porn is a world of perversion.

Just stay away from porn undecided

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by dammy207: 10:52am On Dec 08, 2018
dollytino4real:
it add maggi to the forking tinz to spice it up 4 more forking
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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by afroxyz: 10:53am On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?

please I'm curious to know how you would know God when you see him
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by KingLennon(m): 10:53am On Dec 08, 2018
Watching pornos is a sin on its own. It may lead to other kinds of sin grin.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by GRACEGLORY: 10:53am On Dec 08, 2018
TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.



So, ask the teacher next Sunday

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by seunlayi(m): 10:54am On Dec 08, 2018
Noooooooooooooo
Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by Gratefulheart01(m): 10:54am On Dec 08, 2018
luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?

Porn can't move a woman the way it does to a man, that's why porn has spoilt the lives of lots of men. It's a pathetic situation. 70% of men today are porn addicts but you wouldn't know. Young boys, clergy men, lonely men, married men, good boys, bad boys, old men are all caught up in the web of porn.

Best thing is to train your kids and loved ones to stay away from porn, never start it, because when you get caught up in it, it's hard to stop.

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Re: Is It Proper For A Christian Couple To Watch Porn Together Before Having Sex? by seunlayi(m): 10:54am On Dec 08, 2018
No good

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