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Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Lionblog: 7:55am On Apr 03, 2018
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Nollywood Actress, Helena Nelson has ignited an online debate about a rather weird topic.

Helena took to her facebook page to write ;

Anybody who thinks dads should not bathe their daughters have mental issues



On the comment section, facebook users bared their thoughts on the topic, see some of their comments below ;

Zeniat Abiri wrote;

My husband has always bathed my kids from when they were newborn. My daughter inclusive. She is now 20 months old and she adores her dad. Slap him or hug him and she will go commando on you. She loves him like that and till date, she will rather get her baths from him. Less work for me but I get jealous that the little diva does not even send me, considering my 9 months journey and all the stretched marks i got.

Chukwuba Chiluba wrote;

It’s because they know the useless man that they married .
And because they are stupid for marrying such men.

A particular comment from a male, Pahrousia Eko irked some users as he wrote ;

I strongly disagree abeg, we men cant be trusted � � � … We all are mad

Another user, identified as Prince Aladese Adewumi Adedoyin wrote ; My mum comes to my bathroom and gist with me most times while bathing cos she knows that the only time am fully ready to listen to anything it not a big deal for real �


Koton Mboba Jnr wrote ;

Las las, Nigerians are not alright. How can a level headed human be questioning his sanity and self-control around a blood sibling? As in, are you looking to be unfortunate in this life? With women presently doubling the numerical availability of men these days, so you can be bathing your daughter or baby sister and having erection?! Just wait, all the thunders meant for Buhari have been recalled. Biko, give me your address!

http://www.asonaija.com.ng/2018/04/men-shouldnt-be-allowed-to-bathe-their.html

Cc;Lalasticlala Mynd44

Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by directorXixXICK(m): 7:56am On Apr 03, 2018
Koton Mboba Jnr, On behalf of Nigerian men....we unanimously deny your being part of us.....so let only your manhood keep erecting while bathing your daughter

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Jochabed(f): 7:56am On Apr 03, 2018
It's ok when the are still babies. But when the are two years old..No No. Put in mind that there is something called INCEST. And it mostly starts from bathing!!
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by princechurchill(m): 8:00am On Apr 03, 2018
Tell that one that is mad that not all men are mad,its a pity his lineage is filled with mad men
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by vivypretty(f): 8:01am On Apr 03, 2018
prince aladese said his mum gists with him in the bathroom, while he has his bath cos that is the only time he listens.
Pls I want to know how old he is.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by vivypretty(f): 8:01am On Apr 03, 2018
prince aladese said his mum gists with him in the bathroom, while he has his bath cos that is the only time he listens.
Pls I want to know how old he is.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by donstan18: 8:04am On Apr 03, 2018
Jochabed:
It's ok when the are still babies. But when the are two years old..No No. Put in mind that there is something called INCEST. And it mostly starts from bathing!!

Did you say 2 years?, Are you normal atall?

So a father shouldn't help his wife bath their 3 years old kid just because of some stupid and evil mindset of yours?

Like, W'dafvq?

You type will come to social media to form holy, while in real, you use to squat like a urinating dog in the bathroom for your boyfriend to bath you.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Ahmed0336(m): 8:20am On Apr 03, 2018
I bath my kids when wiffy is abit busy if e pain anybody i dey my house come beat me undecided

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:20am On Apr 03, 2018
Point of correction not all men are mad some have functional brains.There is nothing wrong with a father bathing his daughter.I wonder why some people complain about it.Let me reverse it to some it's okay if a woman baths her son but some women could also be mad.I wonder why some people always think the worst of men not all men do that.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by CAPSLOCKED: 8:34am On Apr 03, 2018
Jochabed:
It's ok when the are still babies. But when the are two years old..No No. Put in mind that there is something called INCEST. And it mostly starts from bathing!!



BECAUSE YOUR INSANE DADDY ABUSED YOU AND YOUR SISTERS WHEN YOU WERE 2 YEARS OLD, DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE REST OF US SANE MEN WILL DO THAT TO OUR DAUGHTERS. smiley

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:42am On Apr 03, 2018
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BECAUSE YOUR INSANE DADDY ABUSED YOU AND YOUR SISTERS WHEN YOU WERE 2 YEARS OLD, DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE REST OF US SANE MEN WILL DO THAT TO OUR DAUGHTERS. smiley
Lovely response cool

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Jochabed(f): 8:47am On Apr 03, 2018
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BECAUSE YOUR INSANE DADDY ABUSED YOU AND YOUR SISTERS WHEN YOU WERE 2 YEARS OLD, DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE REST OF US SANE MEN WILL DO THAT TO OUR DAUGHTERS. smiley
Ok,thank u
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by sanpipita(m): 12:59am On Apr 04, 2018
Nigerians like dishing insults rather than focusing on the issue, why do we act like these things dont happen, is it because it under reported? no matter how it might sound you don't rule the paranoia as regards fathers bathing their girl child, there is this notion men will stick in their joysticks into anything once its erect, their daughters might not be an exemption, even good dads end up having sexual relationships their daughters not because they sort for it at first but their emotions overcame them, its like the theory of keeping yams close to goats, I will not be against dads bathing their daughters but again let's admit there are things it could lead to, its like most of you forget in today's world literally anything goes.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Nobody: 2:10am On Apr 04, 2018
With the exception of the perverted men out there, most fathers do the right thing when it comes to looking after their daughters and are excellent with them. If you don't trust the father of your child to bath her, then there's a problem and it might not be him, but you. IF he has never given you any reason for concern and has been a good father, then you're the one with the problem for thinking such thoughts about him.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by eyinjuege: 7:26am On Apr 04, 2018
Madness in high places..
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by thorpido(m): 8:42am On Apr 04, 2018
Most dads don't have issues with it
Yea,there may be a few perverted ones but I don't see it as bad as being portrayed.
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by ArinzeRaph: 11:34am On Apr 04, 2018
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BECAUSE YOUR INSANE DADDY ABUSED YOU AND YOUR SISTERS WHEN YOU WERE 2 YEARS OLD, DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE REST OF US SANE MEN WILL DO THAT TO OUR DAUGHTERS. smiley
Gbam !!!
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by ArinzeRaph: 11:36am On Apr 04, 2018
Jochabed:
Ok,thank u
taking a bow?
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Prognose: 2:52pm On Apr 04, 2018
IF YOU AS A MAN HAVE AN ERECTION WHILE BATHING YOUR OWN DAUGHTER WHETHER SMALL OR GROWN UP, MY FRIEND, YOU HAVE A MENTAL ILLNESS.
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Prognose: 2:59pm On Apr 04, 2018
It is sickness to be sexually attracted to your own blood. This has nothing to do with whether your daughter is small or grown up. Are you saying as a grown man if you come home and see your naked 16 year old daughter sleeping in the parlour, you will rape her or even have an erection? That is madness please! Your own daughter!

Please if you experience attraction for your own children, come to say teaching hospital and talk to a psychologist or psychiatrist. There is treatment for it and it is cheap and your secret will be protected.

Thanks.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by sanpipita(m): 9:41am On Apr 05, 2018
Prognose:
It is sickness to be sexually attracted to your own blood. This has nothing to do with whether your daughter is small or grown up. Are you saying as a grown man if you come home and see your naked 16 year old daughter sleeping in the parlour, you will rape her or even have an erection? That is madness please! Your own daughter!

Please if you experience attraction for your own children, come to say teaching hospital and talk to a psychologist or psychiatrist. There is treatment for it and it is cheap and your secret will be protected.

Thanks.

Which hospital can such be treated and cheap where? some of you like talking alot of nonsense, do you even know what GSA means or is the oedipus complex, by time a psychologist sits you down and explains all this, you will understand how ignorant you have been.
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Prognose: 10:03am On Apr 05, 2018
sanpipita:


Which hospital can such be treated and cheap where? some of you like talking alot of nonsense, do you even know what GSA means or is the oedipus complex, by time a psychologist sits you down and explains all this, you will understand how ignorant you have been.
Sigh.

I can't even laugh sef.

Oedipus was the Greek fellow who unknowingly married and slept with his own mother. Note the word "unknowingly". The Oedipus complex is a term used in psychiatry to classify men who have a sexual attraction to women that look like or remind them of their mothers. Just like the Electra complex is used to refer to women attracted to their fathers or father figures. All these are types of sexual abnormalities we classify as sexual arousal disorders alongside the paraphilias and other sexual dysfunctions.

Any good teaching hospital with a good psychiatrist or psychologist can help you out depending on your location. It won't cost you up to N5000 give or take, to get help. Some drugs, some CBT, and you can lead a normal healthy, unabominable life. And like I said before, they are very confidential so your "secret" won't leak out.

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Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by sanpipita(m): 10:12am On Apr 05, 2018
Prognose:

Sigh.

I can't even laugh sef.

Oedipus was the Greek fellow who unknowingly married and slept with his own mother. Note the word "unknowingly". The Oedipus complex is a term used in psychiatry to classify men who have a sexual attraction to women that look like or remind them of their mothers. Just like the Electra complex is used to refer to women attracted to their fathers or father figures. All these are types of sexual abnormalities we classify as sexual arousal disorders alongside the paraphilias and other sexual dysfunctions.

Any good teaching hospital with a good psychiatrist or psychologist can help you out depending on your location. It won't cost you up to N5000 give or take, to get help. Some drugs, some CBT, and you can lead a normal healthy, unabominable life. And like I said before, they are very confidential so your "secret" won't leak out.

Oedipus complex is a psychological term NOT a psychiatric term, its about kids developing attraction for their opposite sex parents which makes them see their same sex parent a rival, try read up before saying what you don't know

And really if I may ask have you been to any of these hospitals you talk about, maybe out of personal experience? you just keep making mythical statements, who will use drugs and CBT for GSA and Oedipus complex
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Prognose: 10:42am On Apr 05, 2018
sanpipita:


Oedipus complex is a psychological term NOT a psychiatric term, its about kids developing attraction for their opposite sex parents which makes them see their same sex parent a rival, try read up before saying what you don't know

And really if I may ask have you been to any of these hospitals you talk about, maybe out of personal experience? you just keep making mythical statements, who will use drugs and CBT for GSA and Oedipus complex

Where did i say oedipus complex was a psychiatric term? Are you saying because it is a psychological term it is not used in psychiatry?
Same-sex parent rivalry is just a part of oedipus complex, if it is well resolved, the child is deemed to have developed normally, if not, it could lead to abnormal behaviour. its like you just learned the term yesterday.

Its obvious you are the one "google"ing up before you type, your knowledge is shallow at best.

Why do you find the need to be insultive? Does it boost your low self esteem?

I have shown you where you can get help. I will not respond to any further idiotic comment.

When you have learned to be civil, we can talk.
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by sanpipita(m): 10:53am On Apr 05, 2018
Prognose:


Where did i say oedipus complex was a psychiatric term? Are you saying because it is a psychological term it is not used in psychiatry?
Same-sex parent rivalry is just a part of oedipus complex, its like you just learned the term yesterday.

Its obvious you are the one "google"ing up before you type, your knowledge is shallow at best.

Why do you find the need to be insultive? Does it boost your low self esteem?

I have shown you where you can get help. I will not respond to any further idiotic comment.

When you have learned to be civil, we can talk.

Lol you haven't discounted anything I said and best you can say is I'm shallow and full of low self esteem? and I never insulted you only said your claims are bogus and you are feeling hurt, there is nothing like treatment for GSA or Od complex, your claims are very wild, get a psychologist to sit you down and give you a proper education on this.
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Prognose: 10:55am On Apr 05, 2018
sanpipita:


Which hospital can such be treated and cheap where? some of you like talking alot of nonsense, do you even know what GSA means or is the oedipus complex, by time a psychologist sits you down and explains all this, you will understand how ignorant you have been.

What was the point of even being rude in this post? Are you supporting attraction for your own daughter or son?

How does GSA come into play here when the man has known his kids his whole life? You do know GSA involves strong sexual attraction between relatives who are meeting for the "first time" as Adults right? Even the Oedipus complex has to do with children development, not adults. The topic is about an adult being attracted to his child, not the other way around.

You made absolutely no sense.
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Prognose: 10:57am On Apr 05, 2018
sanpipita:


Lol you haven't discounted anything I said and best you can say is I'm shallow and full of low self esteem? and I never insulted you only said your claims are bogus and you are feeling hurt, there is nothing like treatment for GSA or Od complex, your claims are very wild, get a psychologist to sit you down and give you a proper education on this.

My friend go and sleep.
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by sanpipita(m): 11:08am On Apr 05, 2018
Prognose:


What was the point of even being rude in this post? Are you supporting attraction for your own daughter or son?

How does GSA come into play here when the man has known his kids his whole life? You do know GSA involves strong sexual attraction between relatives who are meeting for the "first time" as Adults right? Even the Oedipus complex has to do with children development, not adults. The topic is about an adult being attracted to his child, not the other way around.

You made absolutely no sense.


Read my first comment here, I practically said let people not rule out chances of a possible father daughter relationship be it as a child or adult, and yes I can be pro incest, if GSA and Oedipus complex exists why do we now act oblivious about incest possibilities? do you realize some fathers could groom their kids from young ages even at that do you think people just wake up and decide to go into incest, ever thought about the resultant possibilities of a father and daughter living alone in a one room apartment, I can give you many instances of what such situation leads to? again why do we act oblivious about these things?
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by sanpipita(m): 11:11am On Apr 05, 2018
Prognose:


My friend go and sleep.

If I respond strongly to this now, you will start crying rude, anyway I'm an adult, you can't tell me when to sleep
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Nobody: 11:29am On Apr 05, 2018
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BECAUSE YOUR INSANE DADDY ABUSED YOU AND YOUR SISTERS WHEN YOU WERE 2 YEARS OLD, DOESN'T MEAN THAT THE REST OF US SANE MEN WILL DO THAT TO OUR DAUGHTERS. smiley

Was this necessary?
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Nobody: 11:34am On Apr 05, 2018
donstan18:


Did you say 2 years?, Are you normal atall?

So a father shouldn't help his wife bath their 3 years old kid just because of some stupid and evil mindset of yours?

Like, W'dafvq?

You type will come to social media to form holy, while in real, you use to squat like a urinating dog in the bathroom for your boyfriend to bath you.

You couldn't make your point without the unnecessary insults?
Re: Men Shouldn’t Be Allowed To Bathe Their Daughters, We Are All Mad –facebook User by Prognose: 11:43am On Apr 05, 2018
sanpipita:


Read my first comment here, I practically said let people not rule out chances of a possible father daughter relationship be it as a child or adult, and yes I can be pro incest, if GSA and Oedipus complex exists why do we now act oblivious about incest possibilities? do you realize some fathers could groom their kids from young ages even at that do you think people just wake up and decide to go into incest, ever thought about the resultant possibilities of a father and daughter living alone in a one room apartment, I can give you many instances of what such situation leads to? again why do we act oblivious about these things?
I stopped reading at "Yes I can be pro incest..."

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