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Thinking about, that dress is a beautiful design for the scorching heat, the designer should be given credit for that.And the young lady too that looks perfect in it.It is not exposing anything, apart from her shoulders that allows air to seep into her body in the airless, sweaty and smelly confinement of the church.

Very good. But I blame the churches too. When the churches are no longer solemn placces of worship but is turning to disco for christians or comedy halls or social gatherings or markets what do you expect.

The church worker who sent her back did the right thing. But I do remember a church worker who used to do that but her children were worse.

People need to know the chhurch is church - going to meet God and hear from him and speak to him. A holy gathering. Until when people realise this people will continue to come to church dressed as if they are going to disco or going to stand at Allen junction at night or going to a wrestling match.

She will be accepted in another church as she is to come and polute other members but that church has set a standard .. No to rubbish.

Girl , you going to your boyfriends house you can dress like that but not to church please and thank you.

fuckerstard:
I see nothing wrong

She fit go job interview all dressed up like this? We are Africans and we serve God more than the white people that brought it to us.

Amarabae:
Am I the only one who don't see anything wrong with her dressing?
Prove me wrong with facts if you disagree.
That must must be either catholic or all these Methodist,Anglican.
Dogmatic in their Othordox way.

My sister, there is nothing wrong with your attire.

You are doing what we doing at football view centre. A referee blows a whistle for an offence cos he is right at the spot where it occurred and we watching the televised version condemn and argue. Her attire was right in your eyes but she was sent back by those in charge to send such unclad poos out. If a female should cover her breast and vagina very well in all conditions what else can they offer society. Men of these days keep wondering-What has the female folk of this indomie generation got to offer apart from the unclad fallen breast. If you use complete material and sew your clothes tight and complete will that cause you any discomfort. Besides that's Catholic at awada obosi,you gat a probs with that?

MistadeRegal:
Get a jacket.
And go back to church.
GOD is waiting for you.
But instead you went home to sleep.

The warders too on their part shouldn't have make it a shouting stuff. That will embarrass her and make her not want to come back.
Call her aside humbly,
Ask if she has any jacket,
Ask if she has any long scarf,
If she doesn't have, help her out with one.
That's Christianity.
You don't judge and condemn people too quickly.

my guy...over sense is worrying you

demitola:
You are so legalistic... like to the very extreme. That's not the spirit of Christ. If the girl were a murderer but "well covered", that church would surely open its door wide to her. If she were a polithiefcian now, infact the stalwart wardens would even go wait for her at their main gate to receive her and her incoming "blessings". I'm only happy about one thing... the way of God is different from that of men!

I know people who at first to pray that their schemes will work

Amarabae:
Am I the only one who don't see anything wrong with her dressing?
Prove me wrong with facts if you disagree.
That must must be either catholic or all these Methodist,Anglican.
Dogmatic in their Othordox way.

My sister, there is nothing wrong with your attire.

Catholic churches most times don't allow sleeveless without jacket...its just a simple rule...so its wrong..because they must have announced it before acting that way..

donstan18:
Kudos to the church warders that sent her back, they really did well.

Only God knows the number of church members that could have lost their lives because of the gravity of stench and odour that might be coming and oozing out from her open armpit.

They should have locked her up for attempting murder, what nonsense. Any lady dressing to church should dress properly, decent and clean for the betterment of herself and church members, dressing to church mustn't revolve around decency only, but hygiene.

The clergy will tell the church members to raise and wave their hands to God, and when a lady beside you raises her hand, you start breathing in tongues at the sight of an open armpit looking like thick poo

You are trying too hard to be funny

CastedDude:
A lady has been left displeased after she was sent away from a church in Awada area of Onitsha, Anambra state for wearing this outfit. According to Mbanefo Nkiru Angel, she was sent back by the church warders who told her to wear a jacket or a scarf to cover her ''naked'' outfit.

The unhappy lady took to Facebook to share what happened. She wrote;

Today that I decided to go to church. My look to church today in awada onitsha. The church warders sent me back. They refused me entering the church saying I should go and look for a jacket or a scarf to cover my shoulder. Shouting that I'm naked. I didn't even talk to them. I just jejely and happily carry my legs and go back. let me go and sleep biko.

Nonsense and ingredients. Ndi over do...

Below is how Facebook users reacted to after she shared her story online.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/04/lady-sent-away-by-warders-for-wearing-this-outfit-to-church-in-onitsha-photos.html

Dress code for women are usually crafted by misogynistic men who lash out at women for lusting at them

Same way rapists blame their victims

sherlockhush:
Mary M. has no record of dressing indecent in the present of Christ.
During those days, women covers properly ...
Prostitute does not say you should dress indecently.
Dress modest. What is the reason of revealing some part of your body... We are Nigerians and we respect our dressing. What is your reason of revealing your body parts if not an evil motive to entice.

Idiot,
During those days they used to walk or ride animals. Do you still ride animals?

donstan18:
Kudos to the church warders that sent her back, they really did well.

Only God knows the number of church members that could have lost their lives because of the gravity of stench and odour that might be coming and oozing out from her open armpit.

They should have locked her up for attempting murder, what nonsense. Any lady dressing to church should dress properly, decent and clean for the betterment of herself and church members, dressing to church mustn't revolve around decency only, but hygiene.

The clergy will tell the church members to raise and wave their hands to God, and when a lady beside you raises her hand, you start breathing in tongues at the sight of an open armpit looking like thick poo

Chai...wat are u saying....lol

Les:
what she's wearing is a bit revealing, lemme show you. If you see your cat behind a wall corner with only the tail showing, in your eyes you are seeing only the tail, but in your mind you are seeing the complete cat. Trust me, go and ask, seeing part of her chest is trying to make me picture the entire chest but I cover my mind with the blood if Jesus. But then, not all Christian brothers might be strong like I am and it's understandable, so it's our responsibility to make them stronger rather than making things difficult for them.

In essence, scientifically and practically proven, our brain pictures completely the things we see in parts and greater part of her chest is visible. Thankiu globally!

Take your theory further, when we see a woman’s mouth,what’s there to stop us from imagining it sucking our you know what?

Supposing this lady is your sister and you are in church. Would you be distracted by her and start undressing her?

Yours is misogynistic thinking that blame women for your insatiable lust

Here in Moscow, we don't see anything wrong with her outfit

People tend to forget that as much as the church is for sinners it is also a refuge for new converts, former backsliders, baby Christians etc.

When someone who had issues with lust repents, takes refuge in a church and begins to see that there really is no difference between women in the church and the world. He then falls into lust again right there in the church.

All these young ladies will cry and regret when they become old, and their daughters are dressing naked (real nakèd).

Hypocrites we Christians are, what is wrong in what she is wearing? Do we then say it is when we wear turtle neck, long sleeve and Mary amaka that you are a decent Christian? See deceit in religions. Tomorrow they are quick to say Jesus say don't judge.

NoToPile:
People tend to forget that as much as the church is for sinners it is also a refuge for new converts, former backsliders, baby Christians etc.

When someone who had issues with lust repents, takes refuge in a church and begins to see that there really is no difference between women in the church and the world. He then falls into lust again right there in the church.

Hmm.... apparently correct but like most rhings in Christianity it appears contradictory to some teachings and acts of Jesus Christ Himself. That is why true Christianity is not religious legalism but a simple relationship between man and God. What the church did was anything but love. I do not think God Almighty will have been pleased. Jesus Christ died for all. We badly need the Holy Spirit to lead us in everyday decisions.

I remember the time when a previous Reverend father of our parish would drive all those who dressed indecently. several big wigs complained and he left. others did not bother about dressing again. nowadays, if you do not want impure thoughts or an er**t**n, you have to close your eyes all through the service, even married ladies join in this trend, you see tight fitting clothes to the point of looking painted on, cleavage baring clothes,very short skirts with f**k me pumps that with just the slightest of movement you see their under wears. its even worse during harvest, Thanksgiving and other celebration days.

xreal:
Her dressing is not too bad for a sinner.

Don't they welcome sinners in that church? Even Christ does welcomes sinners.

Remember hypocrites can’t recognise their themselves.

dominique:
When in Rome, act like the Romans. Not all churches allow revealing outfits on their premises.

When in Christ, act like Christians. She decided to turn d towards Christ... most likely picked her most modest dress.... as Christians they should be welcoming her... if they think her shoulders needed to be covered...they should do so. No true church should ever turn away one seeking salvation because of their dress. Pagans...not Christians.

wetin concerns

She is now famous on controversial dress?
my own is tht before you come in presence of God you prepare lik His child convincing ya sef you are ready or unless you hav other agenda for going to church.

ohhh

Outofsync:
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Jesus also whipped out people from the temple

Paul also told us not to be unevenly yoked and to dress modestly, decently

it's foolishness to imagine you can change people's perception of a wrong thing after you've seemingly embraced it, The Catholic Church's acceptance of homosexuals into their midst just proves it further.




Way better that there are 10 pious folks in a church than a million filthy souls.

Iranu

Don't misrepresent d Bible. Jesus chased away d money changers n traders because dey were doing wht a lot of pastors r doing today, cheating people. Not because He was interested in female dressing .

Tell her to go to Suleman's church.
Tell the warders Otobo sent you.

Amarabae:
Am I the only one who don't see anything wrong with her dressing?
Prove me wrong with facts if you disagree.
That must must be either catholic or all these Methodist,Anglican.
Dogmatic in their Othordox way.

My sister, there is nothing wrong with your attire.

Even offices have code of dressing.
The fact is that she did n't want to go to church, otherwise Christ Embassy and some other churches will gladly give her a warmed welcome.
Let her look for a church that will allow that her dressing code and stop ranting on facebook.

Christians are the most confused beings on earth. a pastor was preaching on radio yesterday and said people shouldn't marry for height,beauty and money. are you wiser than Prophet Muhammad who said you can marry for beauty and money? the pastor said these qualities will eventually fade or be gone. prophet Muhammad was handsome till his death,a beautiful person gets beautiful for any age he/her is. president Buhari is regarded as an old,tall and handsome man. its very glaring that he's handsome at his age and there is huge difference between him and Obasanjo at their ages. a confused pastor wife,Adeboye's wife was regarding her husband as "too handsome" . I was like why not just say because he's an old man,he's ugly? very confused set of human beings. how come Okoya is rich and his money hasn't vanished amidst his old age? Isyaku Rabiu is over 90 and stinkingly rich,Mike Adenuga will be 70 soon and stinkingly rich and handsome,even richer than ever and I'm sure his wife still sees herself as having good eyes for choosing a man of her choice,you pastors should have advised his wife to marry a poor man with the looks of Tinubu. Warren Buffet is over 80 and stinkingly rich,Donald Trump is over 70 and stingly rich,Danjuma is over 80 and stinkingly rich and handsome for his age.
I will marry a woman for her beauty,background and these good factors whether you like it or not,I want my wife to look like Halle Berry in her 50's,like Iman or Sade Adu In her 60's.

Personally, I do not see anything wrong if the picture shown is correct.



True, what is so difficult in dressing decently to church just for few hours fa?


This her dressing is even better compare to the ones I'm seeing in some churches lately[/quote]

When you have time to go and waste time.

nne it is not ur fault,but that of of our new generation pastors,that don't preach norms and morales,but prosperity and miracles,so u can come to church anyhow,just look at ur dress,what difference from that of amarket or street dressing,so out of all the aboundance God gave to u,that is the best u have to come to HIS presence,can u go to ur governors office like that?

Na wa for all these overzealous pharisees we have in the church today.

Outofsync:
a


Jesus also whipped out people from the temple

Paul also told us not to be unevenly yoked and to dress modestly, decently

it's foolishness to imagine you can change people's perception of a wrong thing after you've seemingly embraced it, The Catholic Church's acceptance of homosexuals into their midst just proves it further.




Way better that there are 10 pious folks in a church than a million filthy souls.

Iranu

To start with, did the O. P state mention the name of the church?
So why should you mention any church the name of a church?

anyways, my advice to you is that u shud not condemn what u are not sure of.