₦airaland Forum

MissRaine69:
And humanity is saved thank you.

BdorianGray:
Gosh!!! Come on now... Rannie... Too much.. Slow down girl, in this jungle called NL...

MissRaine69:

MissRaine69:
1. Amaka is a woman in her 40s. She has been in a conflicted marriage for years. Her husband insists on morning sex, even though he knows it will make her late for work. She gives in to get it over with.

2. Funke is newly married, she is upset because her husband has been having sex with her while she is asleep. She likes sex but doesn’t like to be woken by him penetrating her. He says she agrees in her sleep. She feels violated.

3. Halimah is in her 30s. She feels she has no say about when and where she and her husband will have sex. He often refuses when she initiates. But he’ll get furious if she doesn’t immediately fall into bed (or the bushes) with him when he wants it. She gives in rather than have yet another fight about it.

4. Layefa is 19 years old her husband regularly slaps her around and then forces her to have sex saying that he just knows she loves it. She does love him. She doesn’t want to leave. But she honestly doesn’t love domination as part of sexual intimacy.

These women are all married. Is what their husbands are doing rape? Can a husband rape his wife?

makydebbie:
Rape means..


The act of forcing sexual intercourse upon another person without their consent or against their will; originally coitus forced by a man on a woman, but now any sex act forced by any person upon another person.

Heartbender:
Are you a lawyer? Rape is what the law says it is. From your write ups and definition of rape I find your brand of feminism uncomfortable for the whole populace. If what you term rape is truly what you believe then have been more raped than women butt out of four instances of "marital rape" drawn from the four regions in Nigeria, there is zero mention of men. FYI, a husband cannot rape his wife under Nigerian laws. He can only be charged for assault or wounding. Be guided

makydebbie:
Please next time, if you don't know what to say, just keep scrolling. I stopped reading when you mentioned feminism. I can't recall branding myself a feminist. Be guided.

I defined rape for the op, it doesn't make me a feminist, if this doesnt brand you as lethargic then I don't know what to say again. Once again, be guided.

Heartbender:
Only the blind need braille but what do I know? You forgot that I mentioned your other write ups but what do I know still?

makydebbie:
Please you know nothing because I've also written my take on feminism.

ubunja:
please take your problems to the police NOT social networks. attention - hungry, sympathy-craving women..... and if he's raping you WALK OUT!!!!!

juche:
African men has some animalistic tendencies and orientations though not all. One of the major backward orientations is that of women domination. Is unfortunate that some men still see their wives as acquired objects which they will use whenever they want and however they like without resistance. How can a man even enjoy sex with an unconsenting woman ? Is terrible to still hear of men who beat up their wives and do all manner things for not consenting to sex. Sex should be consensual irrespective of who are involve. I m shocked to read comments here supporting husbands forcing themselves on their wives. These ladies are humans like guys, they have feeling, could be tired, worried, not happy, disturbe etc.

MissRaine69:
Amaka is a woman in her 40s. She has been in a conflicted marriage for years. Her husband insists on morning sex, even though he knows it will make her late for work. She gives in to get it over with.

Funke is newly married, she is upset because her husband has been having sex with her while she is asleep. She likes sex but doesn’t like to be woken by him penetrating her. He says she agrees in her sleep. She feels violated.

Halimah is in her 30s. She feels she has no say about when and where she and her husband will have sex. He often refuses when she initiates. But he’ll get furious if she doesn’t immediately fall into bed (or the bushes) with him when he wants it. She gives in rather than have yet another fight about it.

Layefa is 19 years old her husband regularly slaps her around and then forces her to have sex saying that he just knows she loves it. She does love him. She doesn’t want to leave. But she honestly doesn’t love domination as part of sexual intimacy.

These women are all married. Is what their husbands are doing rape? Can a husband rape his wife?

bukatyne:
@bold:

Marriage gives perpetual consent.

Would a lady be tired sometimes? Yes. However, if she has not been refusing her husband before, he will know she is tired and let her be.

TheUpsetGirl1:
the only way to stop domestic abuse and domestic rape is by eliminating the bride price culture. because Nigerian men think that after paying huge amounts for your bride price, sponsoring the marriage etc you're now their property. therefore after spending so much just to get you, you can't disobey them or deny them sex.

MissRaine69:
Amaka is a woman in her 40s. She has been in a conflicted marriage for years. Her husband insists on morning sex, even though he knows it will make her late for work. She gives in to get it over with.

Funke is newly married, she is upset because her husband has been having sex with her while she is asleep. She likes sex but doesn’t like to be woken by him penetrating her. He says she agrees in her sleep. She feels violated.

Halimah is in her 30s. She feels she has no say about when and where she and her husband will have sex. He often refuses when she initiates. But he’ll get furious if she doesn’t immediately fall into bed (or the bushes) with him when he wants it. She gives in rather than have yet another fight about it.

Layefa is 19 years old her husband regularly slaps her around and then forces her to have sex saying that he just knows she loves it. She does love him. She doesn’t want to leave. But she honestly doesn’t love domination as part of sexual intimacy.

These women are all married. Is what their husbands are doing rape? Can a husband rape his wife?

raumdeuter:
Na you dey always like this kain topic

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/06/style/modern-love-sleeping-with-married-men-infidelity.html

What do you think about this link above you dont have to discuss it here

grandstar:
The primary problem is that this is still a backward and macho society so women take the backseat.

Men dictate when they want to have sex

Imapearl:
and your not happy?
if him go rape person outside
you will call him a cheat
#women

Imapearl:
and your not happy?
if him go rape person outside
you will call him a cheat
#women