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tetula123:
hahaha bro please leave that 100level thing I met mine in my 300l and she was in 200l I planned the usual eat and go but one thing lead to another me fell in love like never before don't know if it was how good the kitten is, even when she cheated( I wasn't a saint too) several times I still didn't mind. reading your story I saw a picture of myself,just graduated and waiting for service at same time hustling to at least feed myself. her family and friends been telling her to leave me she finally yielded( I swear if I get better money now I go marry her). But man got focus I still think of her and still love her but there's nothing I can do. just had to let go. the only thing is we still fu*k but nothing serious.

coldFLARES1:
Young man, it's a well-wisher that'll advise you to find stability before contracting marriage. The wedding bills may appear big but then you may as well find friends and family that would render some assistance, but once married, you are largely on your own and please do note that the demand of balancing a home post-wedding is not beans.

For a 26yr old man whose gf graduated same time as you, chances are slim that you'd be totally ready when her agitation to get settled to procreate starts. If you say yours is love, simply grow out of it however painful it would be for you.

We seen; we've tasted; we've been roasted, but we are still here. .........and that is what qualifies me as an experienced older bruh.

fireback:
guy free this girl naa. at least she don try. for good 6yrs, haba. now she want to settle down and you're not ready, yet still want her to wait for more years. she's even the one begging you to let her go. don't you understand the different BTW school life and real life. both of you were just living a school life for the past 6yrs, which is normal among students. but holding her down after graduation is what I don't like. this is time for hustle. go and make money. and ladies will line up begging you for marriage, then you will be left with choice.

yeyerolling:
better by far dey ur profile, face tanke slang too, ;Dno worry baby gal go soon see ya post

chuksonia:
lol bad guy good thing you're still screwing that pus*y the whole thing Don make me dey feel too old in ma own skin, she's not wanting to leave me as well as she still obviously believes in ma ability to make a good husband but I don't know where it's even a crime to be in love with someone in almost the same age as u! damn if it's in other countries now this matter wouldn't have being a big deal.

tetula123:
the thing makes you feel too old in your own skin..i feel that talk my bro.. these ladies won't kill us.. imagine at 23(last year) I was bothering myself cause I wanted to prove I can get rich overnight, just because of one woman.

chuksonia:
u gigg we gotta stay woke else they'll push into doing something funny to satisfy them at this ma 25years baby boi be feeling old and Co's he's just desperate to meet up to one Yoruba babe expectations

chuksonia:
Hello guys please I only need your advice don't insult me please abeg dakun!!!! I'm presently 25years and I met this lady around when I was 19 was obviously in 100l same as her then we become serious somehow with the relationship around second semester so we continued dating from 100l and around two hundred level we still continued and everything felt like love was really meant for us, around 300l we started living together as couples rented an apartment and we stayed there till finals after graduating we immediately got posted but around when we were still waiting for call up letter her mother called once evening she didn't know I was lying close to her and moreover the phone she was using as at then had a little problem Meaning she must put the phone on speaker for a better conversation, so that was how the other started advising her that she should start thinking of her life we were about 23 years thereabout that once she gets to the camp she should look for sons of Senator or any top politicians to bring home and forget about that boy She's deciving herself with although they spoke in Yoruba language as I'm not a Yoruba indigen but the little years I spent in that varsity has taught me little and trust me I may not he able to speak but I understand almost everything especially when spoken to or about tears filled ma eyes though I almost wanted to reply the woman immediately but I had to hold myself Co's this lady Co's really I love her just about so much, I didn't say after she ended the call,she was the one who started laughing and telling me not to mind her mum,I was just thinking inside of me that the heart of men are evil and the only thing that prompted me into thinking that way was that same woman found out about our relationship around 100l she didn't break it then when it was fresh the said girl wasn't getting any reasonable amount from home when I say reasonable just believe me it was really bad I was practically getting 3times the amount that was sent to her monthly but since She's someone who can manage for Africa she was incharge of ma ATM so practically she never scamed me she was loyal as he'll, never cheated all our stay on campus and to an extent the mother knew that the only reason this girl wasn't into complaining is Co's I was there for her I'm ready to scam the living hell out of ma folks to make sure we're living fine on campus, so I was practically her daddy so that was where ma pain was coming from from for the first time she refered to me as a boy just because school has finished note I'm from the eastern part of this Yeye country, so we finally went for service during the service year na just heart attack they always worry me anytime I think of that conversation or anytime I see her with a picture with another guy probably looking fresher or more cashed then I am, service finished since 2016 We graduated 2015 , and as at year 2018, this same girl as broken up with me disrespectfully 3times on ordinary What's app with no solid reason,thou the break up didn't last more than 4hours(she begged and we continued) now the Almighty problem is that She's obsessed about marriage and She's also 25,I'm not saying She's too small oh but I'm just saying baby boy isn't ready for marriage becos this country is really bad I can't boast of 50k in ma account, and she has giving me from now till December that if I don't make an obvious move about our marriage I should just forget about her, please any YORUBA man or woman who can advice me on the cheapest way I can handle a weeding I mean directions on how I'll go about moves and I won't end up in depts please I've got less than 8Months and truly I love her and She's really I mean dead in love with me but her mom is the one instigating and brainstorming her head with marriage if I've got the means I would have married her long ago and avoid this irrelevant heart attack! please help! mods kindly push to front page!

eezeribe:
The irony of life... Rich guys and eligible bachelors don't give a Bleep about all these relationships and marriage brouhaha...
It's the broke guys who are always under pressure and ultimatums from their poor girlfriends and their impoverished families.
Young man I would advise you to forget about that girl and face your life please,you still have ample time to get rich and attract better girls from more decent families into your life.
Women are so greedy and their daughters inherit this greediness from them...
How will a woman who can hardly afford three triangular meals a day,be advising her daughter to hook up with a senator's son..smh.
ADVICE TO MY FELLOW YOUNG MEN :

(*) MAKE MONEY FIRST BEFORE THINKING OF WOMEN

(*)AVOID ANYTHING(I MEAN WOMAN) THAT WOULD DISTRACT YOU FROM CHASING RICHES.

(*)AVOID FEMALE PARASITES;ALL OF THEM WILL STILL LEAVE YOU WHEN THEY MEET A RICHER GUY.

(1)PLEASE STOP DATING OR MARRYING GIRLS FROM FAMILIES THAT ARE POORER THAN YOURS

(2)IF YOU ARE WORKING CLASS OR BUSINESS CLASS PLEASE STOP DATING STUDENTS AND UNEMPLOYED GRADUATES.

(3)STOP SPONSORING GIRLS IN SCHOOL,GO TO YOUR VILLAGE AND HELP YOUR COUSINS AND RELATIVES.

(4)ONLY STUDENTS SHOULD DATE THEIR FELLOW STUDENTS;ONLY UNEMPLOYED GRADUATES SHOULD DATE AND MARRY THEIR FELLOW UNEMPLOYED FEMALES.

(5)IF A GIRL HAS NO REGULAR JOB OR BUSINESS,PLEASE LEAVE HER FOR YAHOO BOYS AND SUGAR DADDIES;SUCH A GIRL HAS NOTHING TO OFFER.

(6)IF YOU ARE A GRADUATE,YOU HAVE NO BUSINESS EVEN LOOKING AT A GIRL WITH SSCE,NOT TO TALK OF SAYING HI.


(7)DEAR MEN,PLEASE STOP ALLOWING WOMEN SET UNNECESSARY STANDARDS THAT ALL THE MALES PUT TOGETHER IN THEIR OWN FAMILIES CANNOT MEET UP;IT'S TIME TO STEP UP YOUR GAMES.

*summary:stop going for ladies below your social class,take example from the marriages of politicians children and top business executives.