According to the story shared on Facebook, a man who refused to do court and white wedding with his baby mama is now begging to wed her in court after she got an opportunity to relocate abroad with her family. The story is quite interesting.

Read below;
“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason. My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions. He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock. My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a future.

Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me. My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also. His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/man-who-refused-to-marry-his-baby-mama-for-9-years-now-begging-to-wed-her-see-why.html

So men too can become desperate.
But to look at it from another angle, it was his refusal to 'legally' marry you that served as the main driving force for you to become successful in life. Maybe if he had done exactly what you wanted from the beginning (court and church wedding), you'd have just ended up like 99.9% of other women: an ambition-less Nigerian housewife.

Nice one.

His family said that he is old enough to make his decisions.

Now her reply to the husband's family is that ,she is old enough to make her decisions also.


Karma,karma,karma issa bae,issa bitch,legit,like yooo.

Free diick for the woman here for taking such a bold step, anybody know her make una tell am say I go knack her for free

The man is a cvnt

Serves him right

marry him and Divorce iz assss.. na payback time

I love her for this, the husband didnt want court incase of legal proceedings when it comes to divorce, meaning he didnt see them being together for long lol, he was feeling like he was "made" then without thinking of the future ode, this is what i call poetic fvcking justice, let him feel the hurt and pain she went through 9 years ago.

WATFORD must beat or draw Tottenham today, so that Chelsea go go champions League

Power of love, the man sha.
Meanwhile, those quoting me in the other thread, I'm not hating but that is a Confute Statement I made. Besides, I have seen your love for Buhari. But hear this, you think you're Smart? We(Biafrans/Igbos) are SMARTER.

I love diz story...serves d man right...burrh anyway, diaz room for forgiveness

thesicilian:
So men too can become desperate.
But to look at it from another angle, it was his refusal to 'legally' marry you that served as the man driving force for you to become successful in life. Maybe if he had done exactly what you wanted from the beginning (court and church wedding), you'd have just ended up like 99.9% of other women: an ambition-less Nigerian housewife.

What a stupid mentality, how do you know this? you have wh0re yourself through 99.9% of Nigerian women to know which is ambitionless right? nonsense

that woman was destined to be successful regardless of what her husband did, you didnt bother to condemn the man, only to tag him "desperate", if it was a lady supporting her own, y'all would be fast to tag her feminist, irritating menist

Court wedding or not..

woman at the end of the day, ur husband still wins... cuz he's the father of ur 3 kids....

and this shyte happened way bk..
why nt let go and move on.

if the man has been good and caring husband then why not take him along with his kids...
but if the dude has been an A$$hole then SCREW HIM...

if she leaves with out the man then she never loved him at the first place, she jushegot married cuz of the pregnancy...

Hope the man will give consent for the kids to apply for visa sha? The story get as e be. You stayed with him for 9years and had three kids yet u still dey beef the guy? Na wa o

Wait till d children grow.... na there u go hear am y didn't u say no from d onset? U still agreed to marry him, had 3 children with him and now u're claiming as if u're separated as if u're doing him a favour. Aya carry ur children and go abroad na... mind u, he can withhold those children cuz he's their father...
It was simply ur fault from d beginning cuz u were desperate to answer Mrs

I love this

Kpomo man. I love bold women.

The man should chill now, it's not a must to travel allow your children to go and leave a good life why you focus to make something out of your life. Don't allow anyone take you for ransom.

Revenge is a dish served Colllld

cinoedhunter:
Wait till d children grow.... na there u go hear am y didn't u say no from d onset

wetin the children wan do Life na per head o.

rubbish... and what of if I say you are not going to your America with my kid

It doesn't make sense..... Go to Texas Na after 10 to 15 years you go tired and your children go still find their dad even if he don die.
No matter what you go still come back naija.

If I be that man I go just remarry... Life continue.

That man Na onomatopoeia. Infact he is an hyperbole. What a ludacious lacunae. I will not contour in that buhaha.

It is rather unfortunate that the woman is feeling like a god just because she's wealthier than her husband.


The woman has a very ugly and evil unforgiving heart. After 9 years and three kids, she still has the mind to keep a grudge in her heart.

Even if she refused to help the man, it doesn't mean God cannot answer the prayers of the man the way he answered her own. Nobody knows tomorrow.

that guy has a plan, he probably want to abandon his family when he gets to US, because it is the woman dat got the offer so y is he crying more than the lady, let them stay here she should not agree to his pleas he has a plan

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Nwokem rie nsi, Good decision