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Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by linearity: 6:13pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
linearity: northvietnam: The lady also stayed and took up the responsibility of being a mother and even went as far as 3rd baby......my point is, it cut both ways. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by emperormossad(m): 6:17pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
linearity: Good. Good. |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Kinggnicole(f): 6:17pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Adefemiaderoju1: Lol... was it a big deal when she asked the man to marry her legally nine years ago? That man has ulterior motives. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by eyinjuege: 6:17pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
northvietnam: Love is blind, but marriage is an eyeopener. Most marriages still standing strong today is not because of love o. That kind of soul mate love is rare. Nobody forced him into a court wedding then, so why does he want to force her to one now? If he was her soul mate, he would have done a court wedding with her as it was that important to her then. (Its not important to everyone). Your soul mate would go the extra mile for you even without you talking. Its obvious they were both not soul mates, nor crazily in love with each other. He should just apologize to her for hurting her feelings all these years, if the court wedding is that important to him now. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by donnaD(f): 6:20pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Shhhh01:wait sis, is white wedding and court wedding our culture and tradition?we are Africans for christ sake.the man did the most important tin of paying her bride price by removing shame from her face and that of her egostic father.assuming the man abandoned her with the pregnancy?wud she hv hugged transformer?he made her his wife and she is still holding grudges against him,let me tell u the truth if she sees poison she will kill that man becus she is deadly. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by UjuJoan2: 6:21pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
northvietnam: One would also think that after a woman had a child for him he would be moved to make her happy and wed her like she always wanted. But no, he got her pregnant again, and then again . . . And still refused to make her a legal wife. Untill he saw a financial reason to! If he ever cared about her, he would have respected her and her family and wedded her when he should have. He's a wicked and selfish being, and doesn't deserve any forgiveness! 2 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by UjuJoan2: 6:22pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
donnaD: Seriously? I don't get this post . . And made by a woman too? SMH! 3 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by northvietnam(m): 6:26pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
UjuJoan2: u just sounding like a girl i know(Love)... said she must wed in catholic church... when i am penticostal... Replying... U what if financial constraint set in after the having the baby... |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Obason22(m): 6:26pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Had it been that both of u have no children, it could have been a good decision too, on like me I never accept court marriage for any reason, but since it happen this way and ur husband have decide to change mind no option than u to follow his decision he still ur husband but if u say no, then he can still change mind and restrict u traveling with his children, except he is lazy type. |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by UjuJoan2: 6:28pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
fykes: How do you live a woman for 9 years and ignore her pleas and cries and deny her the one thing she greatly wanted? How do you keep getting a woman pregnant knowing that you've refused to do the one thing she begged of you? How do you look your wife's family in the eye after the birth of a new baby and not be filled with shame knwoing you've not done what is right? Honestly the man never showed remorse or even asked for forgiveness. If he did he would have made things right and wedded her. If the wedding wasn't so important why us he pushing for it now? I just don't get the way people reason. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by UjuJoan2: 6:30pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
northvietnam: Actually he never mentioned financial constraints as a reason. He just said no for no reason at all Besides a court marriage costs virtually nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by donnaD(f): 6:31pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
she shud just go to hell,like wise the man was not her God,so is she not also the man's God.for God's sake he paid her bride price,he cud hv denied her and hell will not be let loosed but nope he stood by her then,just that he rufused to do the bidding of her and her parents.do we even know his financial situation as of then?was he bouyant enough for all those xpenses?we are quick to conclude,judge and heap blames.he knows very well the family he was marrying from.the man can automatically ask her to go to hell and travel but she will not travel with his kids let's see who will loose. 1 Like |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Daeylar(f): 6:31pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
The woman's husband is ridiculous, His family is something else. Nice that she is paying him back in his own coin. Let him see how it hurts. She was smart about her life and her father helped her a lot. This woman sha I'm amazed. Enduring all the pain and anger for years and she is till ready to endure it forever Not only from her boyfriend now husband. But from his family also. After he hurt her by refusing to legalize the union. But She swallowed it, married to him, as he wanted, sleep with him and bear 2 more children How did she cope with all that anger. Bitterness and hurt in her? She must have really been unhappy I'm glad that she had a father who loved and supported her all through. Wish she didn't have this mindset of my kids must be born in wedlock and seems she wanted them all to have the same father, which made her endure anger hurt and bitterness for this long especially when she didn't have to, she could have left when he showed her that he didn't care about her needs, but it's her life and it is how she wanted to live it. 1 Like |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:36pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
I love this woman die. Let his azz remain here. What dies he want to travel for? When your father was appealing to him, aheybi he was feeling like a small god. Nansense 2 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by donnaD(f): 6:37pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
[quote author=UjuJoan2 post=67162421] Seriously? I don't get this post . . And made by a woman too? SMH![/quote it's the bitter truth let's stop forming and tell ourselves the candid truth.Am sorry am not a feminist,i can't form to be a white am an African lady all round. |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:41pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Ezemarcel:Move fire. Say no to court marriage abeg. When they were begging him he was feeling like a G 1 Like |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:42pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
northvietnam:He wins how? Stop giving him hope abeg. He is a very big loser. Hahahahha. My sis go and flex your life in US abeg. Leave the loser in naija 4 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:44pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
fnep2smooth:Shuuuu..... Remarry na. Who is holding your preek? She will land herself a better man over there. Las las na she win 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:45pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
stuffs4me:Shwybi when everybody even her own father was begging the man, he was feeling like a god ba? Its her own turn to be a goddess. You men always want to get away with nonsense. Issalie o. What a man sows, he will reap 7 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:47pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Reelmii:She will remarry in the US and have other children 1 Like |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:54pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
AFONJACOW:Ahn! No wahala na. Stay in naija and raise our children. I can be sending upkeep money to you. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 6:56pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
fykes:That's how you men will dole out nonsense day in day out to your wives. And when you're old and sock and fragile, you'll want forgiveness. Fa fa fa.....foul!!! We are not robots. What you sow, you will reap 5 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by stuffs4me(m): 6:58pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Joy1706: Na you sabi. Keep carrying your grudges upandan like gala. I'm not saying what the man did was right but I personally don't believe in keeping grudges and paying evil with evil. If the woman refused to help her husband, she would not only be like him but she would be worse than him and it goes to show she's not even grateful to God for her successes. |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by sunjai(f): 7:00pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
northvietnam:she stated that clearly |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by UjuJoan2: 7:05pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
[quote author=donnaD post=67162917][/quote] This is not about feminism. It's about modernization and everything it stands for. The legal way of getting married was created for a reason, to protect women from the marginalization that paying of bride price will not take care of. You can't select what you want to respect as the laws of the land. As far as the Nigerian law is concerned, that woman is a baby mama. In the eyes of God, she has been living in sin. I want to believe you will have children, if you don't already. I'll like to see you encourage them to shun legality and live we with men because we are Africans and it's only bride price that matters. And yo prove what? That you're not a feminist? I will like to believe you are young and inexperienced and don't really understand what you are saying. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by UjuJoan2: 7:07pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
stuffs4me: Funny enough I agree with you. If it were me I'll help him, but only because of God that found me worthy to be elevated beyond his expectations. Not because he deserves it. But remember forgiveness and forgetting are two completely different things. Trust is like a rope, once it's broken it can never be the same again. 1 Like |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Joy1706(f): 7:07pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
stuffs4me:Its called giving him a taste of his own medicine. That's the way people learn. In his next life he'll learn not to be stone hearted. 4 Likes |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by nma4god(f): 7:19pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
[quote author=northvietnam post=67161425] I think a man that fathered 3 kids with a lady, spent 9years with her in same Roof should be forgiving... women r just teaching we single men Good lessons... 9fvcking years, 9years... that women is Devilish]......... she is devilish but the man isn't, abi? Keep deceiving yasef |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by revolt(m): 7:27pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
AFONJACOW:don't mind the catfish...she thinks she can travel with his kids without his consent. She NVR apply for child visa obviously. Plus she evn has a formal job which makes it very easy to get to her. He even got her the job....mtchwee. Women sha |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by caseynewnn: 7:28pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Ezemarcel:within d nine years he Neva thought also to legalize d marriage but d thought came immediately he heard d word america.plsss let's cut d lady some slack.like u men will take d nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by revolt(m): 7:42pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
caseynewnn:well she shd b willing to travel without the kids or forge death certificate. Visas aren't granted to one parent ...both mum n dad must gv consent n UK only gvs kids 6 months. |
Re: Man Who Refused To Marry His Wife In Court For 9 Years, Now Begs To Wed Her by Adefemiaderoju1: 7:44pm On Apr 30, 2018 |
Kinggnicole:Obviously he has motives and is known to him alone but at the same time who is not selfish in this life? We shouldn't judge man due to his past. |
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