cinoedhunter:
Wait till d children grow.... na there u go hear am y didn't u say no from d onset? U still agreed to marry him, had 3 children with him and now u're claiming as if u're separated as if u're doing him a favour. Aya carry ur children and go abroad na... mind u, he can withhold those children cuz he's their father...
It was simply ur fault from d beginning cuz u were desperate to answer Mrs

Muzanga:
Kpomo man. I love bold women.

northvietnam:


Oya na make u and her come carry the kids travel abroad na...

she will be a kidnapper...
last last na for court the case go land... she will from abroad and come for court case

AFONJACOW:
rubbish... and what of if I say you are not going to your America with my kid

everlymoore86:
If you want her to be legally married to the husband click like , if no share.

donnaD:
y shud she hold a grudge for so long? [b]haba she does not love the man.[/b]What is she trying to prove?two wrongs can never mk a rite.she shud pipe down .

Hormorthorshor:
All things work perfectly for her. I'm sure she wouldn't have attained such heights if she was legally married. Since you guys are married and with three kids; Haba!!!! Forget the past and go to court with him.

Reelmii:
that guy has a plan, he probably want to abandon his family when he gets to US, because it is the woman dat got the offer so y is he crying more than the lady, let them stay here she should not agree to his pleas he has a plan

Muzanga:
lol. See this mumu. Na woman get pikin worldwide. Which marriage cert him go show for court? See you supporting your fellow kpomo gold digging man. because she wan travel out marriage certificate done dey hungry am. Opportunist.

lovelylad:
Beware Reelmii knows you more than yourself.

HeWrites:
According to the story shared on Facebook, a man who refused to do court and white wedding with his baby mama is now begging to wed her in court after she got an opportunity to relocate abroad with her family. The story is quite interesting.

Read below;
“I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason. My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court.

I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions. He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage.

I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock. My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him.

After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a future.

Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name.

We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either.

Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me. My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married.

Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court.

He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also. His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.”

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/04/man-who-refused-to-marry-his-baby-mama-for-9-years-now-begging-to-wed-her-see-why.html

Reelmii:
hahahahahahah, who u wan wicked, na u go take care of them na, afterall the man's business is not strong enough to cater for them

Born2Breed:
The man has bad intentions, probably thinking of marrying another woman and with the court his hands are tied but traditionally he can be polygamous.

Forgive him for the sake of the kids. But pepper am small.

northvietnam:


At least them go still drag am for court first.. dont u knw about customary court.. he will go get marriage cert there.. ASAP.

the kids will grow and still look for their DAD...

Imagine the woman telling her children that she left their papa cuz the man refused occult abi court wedding... and still provided for them, sheltered them...

those kids will so hate her in the future...

stuffs4me:
It is rather unfortunate that the woman is feeling like a god just because she's wealthier than her husband.


The woman has a very ugly and evil unforgiving heart. After 9 years and three kids, she still has the mind to keep a grudge in her heart.

Even if she refused to help the man, it doesn't mean God cannot answer the prayers of the man the way he answered her own. Nobody knows tomorrow.

JeffreyJamez:
I wonder what was stopping him from getting married to her in court. I am very sure it was because he had small change then. Now him eyes don clear.