AFONJACOW:
she can walk away without those kids... as for my kind of person I don't even give a fvck if she work in White house... she not into that marriage because of love... no wonder we have so many single ladies in our society

And it is the man that's into the marriage because of love? Pls don't make me laugh. No wonder we have so many divorced men in our society.

And yes, you give a fvck. E pain you no be small

AFONJACOW:
so if your brother began dey dance to his
in-laws tune u go like am respect her ke ... so the woman is now the head of the family and her word is final ... hehehehe no wonder we have so many unmarried women in our society

Which one is in laws tune. Did his wife not beg him? Couldn't he have put his father in laws pleas into consideration? Don't worry when you marry a woman who does not give a fvck about your family's feelings, you will understand.... Oya as he s the head of the family and his word is final, let it remain like that na. NO COURT MARRIAGE. That's how you people will behave as if you're the only ones in the marriage

Joy1706:

Which one is in laws tune. Did his wife not beg him? Couldn't he have put his father in laws pleas into consideration? Don't worry when you marry a woman who does not give a fvck about your family's feelings, you will understand.... Oya as he s the head of the family and his word is final, let it remain like that na. NO COURT MARRIAGE. That's how you people will behave as if you're the only ones in the marriage

my
in-laws will never have a room in my family and they can never dictate to me how to run my home... which plea... pleas with evil motives, why are they so desperate about this court marriage, u can't agree with me their desperation are bone out of hatred and 3rd plan against this man, a loving wife in her full right senses will never abandon her husband for whatsoever reasons... the woman should choose between her family (husband/children) vs( life/work inAmerica). the man has made mistakes already and ready for restitution.. so why punishment him for nothing , at least for the sake of those children she must consider the man... i don't knw why women are cold hearted, had it been this case is the order way round u will see them saying all kind of poo

Joy1706:

And it is the man that's into the marriage because of love? Pls don't make me laugh. No wonder we have so many divorced men in our society.

And yes, you give a fvck. E pain you no be small

her father should have marry her... if the man is not into the marriage he would have divorce her when things wasn't smother for her, he accommodate her, feed her , and take care of her children. when the tide turn around she remembered an old grudge , oh some women are evil and cold hearted , no wonder most men keep them at bay... desperation of single sugar mummies is getting out of hand in our society

Joy1706:

Is that so? Then why do some children whose father's abandoned them still go back to look for them. Lies will always crumble in the face of truth. When the truth comes out, guess who'll be the big fat loser.
I can also say you tried to murder me so I had to escape to preserve my life. See anybody can lie o

only if she will be alive to hear when the truth is out... but for my kind of person I will keep her at bay

explain

bukatyne:


The woman has heeded your wise advise yet your brothers are crying like a kid whose favorite toy was taken from him.

Joy1706:

You're a dead man walking already. God punish the imbeciles that brought you into this world. To hell with you. Its my child too news flash. You are just a mere man. You will stay in naija and rot. Who are you to grant me permission?

A coward like u with smelling pussy, what are u still doing in Nigeria, better take ur bag and move out, i no u cannot even afford TP to GH talk much of Europe, all ur hope depends on men, stupid.

She should forgive and forget.

Joy1706:

Hahhahaha. Says who? Its not that hard my dear. Have you even condemned the mans is selfishness and wickedness? The man too made a mistake out of selfishness. Let her make hers too

if he doesn't want the woman he would have send her away. Just because he doesn't agree to her demand doesn't make him selfish. He accepted her, they even have two more kids still the woman still have this wicked thinking in her mind. That's very bad, assuming this happened when they ere still resolving the issue at the beginning that would have been another story but they later have two more kids making it three and the woman is feeling like a mini god. That's very wrong

Obason22:
A coward like u with smelling pussy, what are u still doing in Nigeria, better take ur bag and move out, i no u cannot even afford TP to GH talk much of Europe, all ur hope depends on men, stupid.

Hahahhahaha. Come up with better insults. Empty head

AFONJACOW:
only if she will be alive to hear when the truth is out... but for my kind of person I will keep her at bay

Why won't she be alive? Abi you'll assassinate her?

AFONJACOW:
her father should have marry her... if the man is not into the marriage he would have divorce her when things wasn't smother for her, he accommodate her, feed her , and take care of her children. when the tide turn around she remembered an old grudge , oh some women are evil and cold hearted , no wonder most men keep them at bay... desperation of single sugar mummies is getting out of hand in our society

He accommodate her, feed her my azz. My dear, stop talking rubbish. She had a job. She owes him NOTHING. Una never see anything. Our mumu don do

AFONJACOW:
my
in-laws will never have a room in my family and they can never dictate to me how to run my home... which plea... pleas with evil motives, why are they so desperate about this court marriage, u can't agree with me their desperation are bone out of hatred and 3rd plan against this man, a loving wife in her full right senses will never abandon her husband for whatsoever reasons... the woman should choose between her family (husband/children) vs( life/work inAmerica). the man has made mistakes already and ready for restitution.. so why punishment him for nothing , at least for the sake of those children she must consider the man... i don't knw why women are cold hearted, had it been this case is the order way round u will see them saying all kind of poo

So why is her stupid husband desperate for court marriage now? Abi he has evil plans in mind?
He is only sorry because he wants to benefit from her. Why wasn't he sorry 2 years ago? He should go to hell.
You're calling her cold hearted but she and her family begged this man to do the right thing and he refused. Wasn't that being cold hearted. Stop being hypocritical pls

Joy1706:

Hahahhahaha. Come up with better insults. Empty head

Your generations have been coursed already, I pity pig that gave birth to u, continue to languish like dead cow over there thinking that u are human being, waste product.

Joy1706:

Hahahhahaha. Come up with better insults. Empty head

Hey, I just discover that u are one of maggot that exist on earth, someone who cannot make a home, so there is no need to waste my precious time talking with corpse like u.

Joy1706:

So why is her stupid husband desperate for court marriage now? Abi he has evil plans in mind?
He is only sorry because he wants to benefit from her. Why wasn't he sorry 2 years ago? He should go to hell.
You're calling her cold hearted but she and her family begged this man to do the right thing and he refused. Wasn't that being cold hearted. Stop being hypocritical pls

let her carry him papa go America as her husband...

Joy1706:

He accommodate her, feed her my azz. My dear, stop talking rubbish. She had a job. She owes him NOTHING. Una never see anything. Our mumu don do

ingrates everywhere... no wonder men keep them at bay... she got the job under whose roof abeg stop watching too much of telenovela

Joy1706:

Why won't she be alive? Abi you'll assassinate her?

never underestimate the power of a man... she wouldn't have force herself to him if she knw he's not man enough, can you say the same if the case was the other way round ... we shouldn't be fast in passing judgments...

donnaD:

wait sis, is white wedding and court wedding our culture and tradition?we are Africans for christ sake.the man did the most important tin of paying her bride price by removing shame from her face and that of her egostic father.assuming the man abandoned her with the pregnancy?wud she hv hugged transformer?he made her his wife and she is still holding grudges against him,let me tell u the truth if she sees poison she will kill that man becus she is deadly.

it is not our culture but it is important for most things, like in this scenario. and yes we r Africans and do not need court wedding, meaning if u wanna travel out with ur wife then u guys can go as single couples abi or how una wan take do am? to me oooooo it is not important for some couples and men, but why is d man now begging to do d court wedding? oh so abroad sef dey hungry am? y don't he just maintain and stick to his stance of no court wedding and kuku die here for naija. And no her father does not have the above mentioned qualities. Uncle u first born pikin, and then u can make ur own choice, but to me if I were her dad I will do more than this for my child o, to prove that if the man and his family are feeling like gods, then to me too my kids are my gods o. Grudge or not it is not by force to do court wedding again. then he thought she was forcing him. now that the tables turn u guys r blaming the girl's dad for being a dad.

thesicilian:

Personally, I don't think the guy has learned his lesson. He just wants to legalize the marriage so he can relocate abroad with her. He's an opportunist, bu for t how long can she carry a grudge against him? She seems to still be on the fence after 9yrs, she should take a stand: either with him or against him.

Thank you for pointing out this fact and GOD will bless you. He truly is opportunist.

donnaD:

my sister this man paid her bride price by doing so he has removed the most important shame from her and family shame.a couple's qurrel should not last more than a day.

Oh really? ur talking like he did her and her family a favor sha. remember they both made the baby. he decided to impregnate her before marriage. so it is his duty and that of his family to pay her bride price. I'm sure na chop n clean mouth the guy wan do, that's y he use sense decline court marriage. but who is laughing now. lol

emperormossad:


Yes I quite agree with you no doubt.
Listen, no one is innocent, like everyone has said. He messed up real time. And deserves whatever he gets. I'm just saying, if I were the lady, I'd need to ask myself why I'm still bearing a grudge this long also. Did I really forgive him?

Babe it's a coin. It has two sides. To err is human, to forgive is divine. She's got every right to act whichever way though, it's her life, her decisions to make.

Lemme ask you
How long can you hold a grudge?

Answer to question. Not for long but me go do my own back and show am pepper , then forgive ness can come in. lol

northvietnam:


so who will now b doing D Daddy work in Texas...

Being a single mom in America where child rights prevails aint easy Oooo...

Bone that thing, the man sef no kuku get money again, and the woman has a well paid job. She will survive. she is strong.

Must the guy also move to Texas...

The best thing for him to do would be to just stay back in Nigeria and also withhold consent for his kids to relocate

Shhhh01:
Answer to question. Not for long but me go do my own back and show am pepper , then forgive ness can come in. lol

You be wayo woman.
Comot here joor

AFONJACOW:
ingrates everywhere... no wonder men keep them at bay... she got the job under whose roof abeg stop watching too much of telenovela

Did he get her the job? NO. End of discussion. She owes him Nada.

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Hanseel1:


Follow

Stay out of trouble and enjoy your time here.

Oyindidi:
Sorry about that

thanks oyin....

I don't know what's wrong with the guy.. banning people for irrelevant reasons

delete your comment so that he won't see it.

I'll modify my first post