Pls guys help me with your opinion. There is this church member of mine that we don't talk. We never talked! Yesterday, I just got attracted to her somehow. I really can't say how. So I called her n started a conversation. She moved close to me like she's expecting me to talk to her and responded nicely. I ended the conversation n she left. I felt I should move things forward a bit, so I went to her house to borrow a textbook (which I don't need). She went inside and bring it to me at once. Instead of her to just hand over the textbook, she started telling me about the book as if the name wasn't written on it. She said "its new general mathematics o...(that's the book I asked for so why telling me? - my thought sha o)
I returned the book this morning n she was happy to see me. Fast toward to tonight. I wanted to spend time with her so I went to her house n asked her to escort me to buy something (it was around 8:30pm). She looked straight at me for a while, then she said " let me ask my mom first " 'Okay' I replied. She went inside for about 5minutes. Then her mom came out alone and said "Joy is busy, she is doing something for me" That's how I left the house after saying Okay goodnight to the mom.
My questions are these; Did the girl use her mom to chase me off or is it the mom who don't want me around her daughter? What should I do pls? (she's 18)

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nijaomegacode:
Pls guys help me with your opinion. There is this church member of mine that we don't talk. We never talked! Yesterday, I just got attracted to her somehow. I really can't say how. So I called her n started a conversation. She moved close to me like she's expecting me to talk to her and responded nicely. I ended the conversation n she left. I felt I should move things forward a bit, so I went to her house to borrow a textbook (which I don't need). She went inside and bring it to me at once. Instead of her to just hand over the textbook, she started telling me about the book as if the name wasn't written on it. She said "its new general mathematics o...(that's the book I asked for so why telling me? - my thought sha o)
I returned the book this morning n she was happy to see me. Fast toward to tonight. I wanted to spend time with her so I went to her house n asked her to escort me to buy something (it was around 8:30pm). She looked straight at me for a while, then she said " let me ask my mom first " 'Okay' I replied. She went inside for about 5minutes. Then her mom came out alone and said "Joy is busy, she is doing something for me" That's how I left the house after saying Okay goodnight to the mom.
My questions are these; Did the girl use her mom to chase me off or is it the mom who don't want me around her daughter? What should I do pls? (she's 18)

, weac children. Smh

She didn't chase you with her mum... Her mum is just being protective of her knowing fully well that an erect dic.k has no conscience

Hmmmm. Honestly, I will try again.

all this small small children with tiny dick be looking for babes above their power

agbonkamen:
all this small small children with tiny dick be looking for babes above their power

What do you mean? I'm 26 n she's 18.

Op she is 18yrs meaning she is under the strict supervision of her parents . U should be glad the mom was modest in her approach. Some mum could even embarrass u. Having said that, the girls mind in naive and if u plan to continue nursing your love, be prepared for all sort of depressive moments. Best is just be friends with her..and pls stop DAT borrow me this borrow me that formula.. Step up and act elderly and maturely about bn friends with her..

Op u be mu.mu I swear... I don laugh taya here

tenmariner:
Op she is 18yrs meaning she is under the strict supervision of her parents . U should be glad the mom was modest in her approach. Some mum could even embarrass u. Having said that, the girls mind in naive and if u plan to continue nursing your love, be prepared for all sort of depressive moments. Best is just be friends with her..and pls stop DAT borrow me this borrow me that formula.. Step up and act elderly and maturely about bn friends with her..

Depressive moments? This I don't understand. I will man up sire. I thought a little trick will help me get close to her but it's obvious she know what I'm up to right from my first move.

FunnyDude:
Op u be mu.mu I swear... I don laugh taya here

Waiting they make you laugh na? Share with us too na

nijaomegacode:

Depressive moments? This I don't understand. I will man up sire. I thought a little trick will help me get close to her but it's obvious she know what I'm up to right from my first move.

Depressive moments in the sense that today u would be happy she gave a good vibe then next thing she remembers her examination and sees boyfriend as a distraction then she gives u a cold treatment. Or her pastor delivered a hot and strong sermon about eternity and boom, she good so touched and engrossed and then sees u as a devil incarnate . But when u step up your game and act more of a mentor to her than a boyfriend, chances of those moods could be reduced..
All d best bro.

nijaomegacode:
Pls guys help me with your opinion. There is this church member of mine that we don't talk. We never talked! Yesterday, I just got attracted to her somehow. I really can't say how. So I called her n started a conversation. She moved close to me like she's expecting me to talk to her and responded nicely. I ended the conversation n she left. I felt I should move things forward a bit, so I went to her house to borrow a textbook (which I don't need). She went inside and bring it to me at once. Instead of her to just hand over the textbook, she started telling me about the book as if the name wasn't written on it. She said "its new general mathematics o...(that's the book I asked for so why telling me? - my thought sha o)
I returned the book this morning n she was happy to see me. Fast toward to tonight. I wanted to spend time with her so I went to her house n asked her to escort me to buy something (it was around 8:30pm). She looked straight at me for a while, then she said " let me ask my mom first " 'Okay' I replied. She went inside for about 5minutes. Then her mom came out alone and said "Joy is busy, she is doing something for me" That's how I left the house after saying Okay goodnight to the mom.
My questions are these; Did the girl use her mom to chase me off or is it the mom who don't want me around her daughter? What should I do pls? (she's 18)

At age 26, you are still reading New General Mathematics? Love nwantintin. Old school love. Na you o.

Op, u are very lucky, her mother acted maturedly. Some would have embarrassed the devil out of u. Is very wrong of u to have gone to her house at that time to ask her to follow you out. Secondly, at 26, you are far bigger that the textbook approach. please be careful how u go to her house to avoid putting her into trouble or even yourself.

SoapQueen:


At age 26, you are still reading New General Mathematics? Love nwantintin. Old school love. Na you o.

Abi? You know say love dey confuse pesin sha.

juche:
Op, u are very lucky, her mother acted maturedly. Some would have embarrassed the devil out of u. Is very wrong of u to have gone to her house at that time to ask her to follow you out. Secondly, at 26, you are far bigger that the textbook approach. please be careful how u go to her house to avoid putting her into trouble or even yourself.

Noted sir

tenmariner:


Depressive moments in the sense that today u would be happy she gave a good vibe then next thing she remembers her examination and sees boyfriend as a distraction then she gives u a cold treatment. Or her pastor delivered a hot and strong sermon about eternity and boom, she good so touched and engrossed and then sees u as a devil incarnate . But when u step up your game and act more of a mentor to her than a boyfriend, chances of those moods could be reduced..
All d best bro.

True talk. I once dated a girl like that. I'm sure this one won't do like that.