Olalan:
As soon as she starts cheating kick her out.....A cheating wife is capable of killing the husband

mrphysics:
The above method only work for weak men. You don't need to do all that to stop her from cheating.

To mitigate her cheating career/lifestyle, simply initiate the process of making her a baby mama or getting a second wife.

Timagex:
Am I mad? I should turn to wereh because of a slut? I know wat to do in such cases

Olalan:
As soon as she starts cheating kick her out.....A cheating wife is capable of killing the husband

onatisi:
The major problem we have in Africa is that Western culture has blinded our women folk to the fact that this is africa. A man is entitled to as many wives as possible ,secondly nowadays women tend to see themselves as been equal to men. If a woman starts cheating, according to our African culture just kick her out . The moment you start trying to appease a cheating wife ,she will continue doing it . Why must a man die all in the name of love .

monex:


Ignore the advice you are given and opt out of your relationship/marriage if you think that's the best for you.

onatisi:
The major problem we have in Africa is that Western culture has blinded our women folk to the fact that this is africa. A man is entitled to as many wives as possible ,secondly nowadays women tend to see themselves as been equal to men. If a woman starts cheating, according to our African culture just kick her out . The moment you start trying to appease a cheating wife ,she will continue doing it . Why must a man die all in the name of love .

Adamummya:
that's the advice ..they give us women , when our husbands starts cheating.... we all know no man can do that... she's just trying to mock them.....

Olalan:
As soon as she starts cheating kick her out.....A cheating wife is capable of killing the husband

Here77:


A man is not entitled to any number of women. It’s time you get off that african mental slavery way of thinking. No one is entitled anyone. Women are not property to be owned.

Women are very much equal to men. In fact even better. Like a wise man once said and I paraphrase “sorry for a woman who is trying to show that she is equal to a man, for she does not realize that she is greater than him”

The rest of what you wrote is a personal choice. If your wife cheats, whatever action you decide to pursue is your responsibility. But it should never be based on the wrongful idea that you’re superior to her.

Be blessed.

Solstar:
If someone cheats, it is not because the partner is not clean or what ever, it is simply because Humans were not designed to have sex with one partner all through their 120 given years on the physical plane.

Why cant we accept this fact and so we can focus on other important things ?

The sex organs become active from puberty and must be used to generate the required hormones to balance the body biochemistry. Depletion of those hormones and body chemicals brings mood changes and causes most of the mental instabilities and stress in people.

No love means stress, less love means stress, more love means no stress, just hormones and body chemicals. People who have great sex are usually happier.

Marriage is forceful upsetting of these balance, because people loose sexual interest in monotonous relationships. That is the natural reason for cheating. Follow your heart always, not your head. Love happens in the heart, not in the head.

Safiaa:
yeah, are you back to stay for good? Or are you going to disappear again?

Yea..i think I'm back...for good surely. err, is that a subtle way of saying you miss me?

Adamummya:


brother...you can't keep a man that doesn't want to be kept... my points exactly
I know you didn't understand my comment anyway, you wouldn't have said such if you did

monex:


I understood and I say that rather than worrying about what advice you are given why not do your thing?

there are no right or wrong advice as people are advising you from their own perceptions, experiences and values.

Olalan:
As soon as she starts cheating kick her out.....A cheating wife is capable of killing the husband

Adamummya:


and who said I'm not doing my thing......
I do things because it makes me happy and because it feels right doing them......