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In the wake of all the razzmatazz as touching women and their newly found love feminism. It has become expedient that I say a few things about it

Now don't get it twisted, I'm of the opinion that a woman/lady should at all times want the best and go for it, but I'm also of the opinion the a lady who wants the best and/or goes for the best should also be prepared to offer the best.

I had a conversation with a girl/lady/woman a while ago, we talked about dating. She said "if you want to date me, you must be rich and famous", that's nice, I said but if I bring my rich and famous self to the table, what would you also be bring to table? The discussion basically ended at that point.

Ask most girls the kinda guy they want, you'd hear things like: I want a guy who is rich and can take care of me. Ask most guys the kinda girl they want, you will never hear shits like: I want a girl who is rich and can take care of me. Therein lies the difference.

So my people, it is simple, you want something, be ready to give same. If you want a rich spouse, be rich, you want an intelligent one, be intelligent.

Lastly, you are not doing anybody a favour by dating or marrying them, neither are they doing you a favour.


#SayNoToBlindFeminism


cc: anybody who cares.

icelord:
In the wake of all the razzmatazz as touching women and their newly found love feminism. It has become expedient that I say a few things about it

Now don't get it twisted, I'm of the opinion that a woman/lady should at all times want the best and go for it, but I'm also of the opinion the a lady who wants the best and/or goes for the best should also be prepared to offer the best.

I had a conversation with a girl/lady/woman a while ago, we talked about dating. She said "if you want to date me, you must be rich and famous", that's nice, I said but if I bring my rich and famous self to the table, what would you also be bring to table? The discussion basically ended at that point.

Ask most girls the kinda guy they want, you'd hear things like: I want a guy who is rich and can take care of me. Ask most guys the kinda girl they want, you will never hear shits like: I want a girl who is rich and can take care of me. Therein lies the difference.

So my people, it is simple, you want something, be ready to give same. If you want a rich spouse, be rich, you want an intelligent one, be intelligent.

Lastly, you are not doing anybody a favour by dating or marrying them, neither are they doing you a favour.


#SayNoToBlindFeminism


cc: anybody who cares.

@bold: I absolutely agree with you.

As to what a lady can offer a man; the man needs to discover himself, determine the best type of woman who would help him achieve his goals and go for her.

He should also remember that he will change, she will change also.