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Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Nov 20, 2017
Male folks, you are all invited to participate in this conversation.

In all ramifications, this negative trend is quite disheartening, alarming.

After God, your family ought to be a priority.

Let me quickly share a true life story:

Jackson took his fiancee to the village for the purpose of introducing the woman he intends to marry to his parent.

She politely rejected the drinking water his parent served her bcoz it was dirty (instead went to the car to get a bottled water).

Later during the day, due to the unhygienic condition of the toilet, she politely refused to use the toilet, instead held urine in her bladder.

His parents said the lady was rude & not a marriage material.

Diz is a lady who is neat, ambitious, humble, intelligent, & responsible.

She was disappointed in her fiance bcoz he is very rich but failed to transform the lives of his poor parents.

She cut off the affair on the basis of his irresponsibility & wickedness.

Many men fall under this category.

You buy Iphone 8 for girlfriend but can't give your parents N50,000.

MEN, WHY

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by ULSHERLAN(m): 1:59pm On Nov 20, 2017
Because they are womenpleasers

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 20, 2017
Most guys are guilty of this. Their mum would ask for N500 and they'll say they don't have. Meanwhile, they've kept N1,000 aside to give to girlfriend.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Nov 20, 2017
ULSHERLAN:
Because they are womenpleasers
C yah big head

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by pocohantas(f): 2:33pm On Nov 20, 2017
Benita27:
Most guys are guilty of this. Their mum would ask for N500 and they'll say they don't have. Meanwhile, they've kept N1,000 aside to give to girlfriend.

They do it not just to their family, but friends too.
A guy will tell his friend he is broke, same guy will send 10k to a girl for transport to come visit him. All for sex...

Their manhoods and brains are not wired to work at the same time, that's why.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
pocohantas:


They do it not just to their family, but friends too.
A guy will tell his friend he is broke, same guy will send 10k to a girl for transport to come visit him. All for sex...

Their manhood and brain doesn't work at the same time, that's why.
True. grin

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:22pm On Nov 20, 2017
every man has the RIGHT to decide what are his priorities in life, and what is to be done with HIS money. if some prefer to spend on their babes, so be it.... and if others prefer to spend on their family, so be it!
the minute some stranger "thinks" that every man should spend on one over the other, because thats what YOU prefer, is the moment you would have failed in this issue.

at the end of the day, its THEIR money, THEIR life, THEIR choices!

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by ULSHERLAN(m): 4:35pm On Nov 20, 2017
Womanpleaser:

C yah big head

How do you know

Hehehe
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by ULSHERLAN(m): 4:38pm On Nov 20, 2017
pocohantas:


They do it not just to their family, but friends too.
A guy will tell his friend he is broke, same guy will send 10k to a girl for transport to come visit him. All for sex...

Their manhoods and brains are not wired to work at the same time, that's why.

You write like it's from experience

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Safiaa(f): 4:53pm On Nov 20, 2017
Its a very sad situation. Happened with my ex and his brother too. The next story we will hear is naija girls like money too much, not realising it's karma following you.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by DozieInc(m): 4:56pm On Nov 20, 2017
It depends on ones priorities... i believe family comes first.
Most men who are guilty of these may abandon their wives and children later.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by eleojo23: 6:17pm On Nov 20, 2017
MrBrownJay1:
every man has the RIGHT to decide what are his priorities in life, and what is to be done with HIS money. if some prefer to spend on their babes, so be it.... and if others prefer to spend on their family, so be it!
the minute some stranger "thinks" that every man should spend on one over the other, because thats what YOU prefer, is the moment you would have failed in this issue.

at the end of the day, its THEIR money, THEIR life, THEIR choices!

What happened to family? We are talking about parents here o. The people who took care of you before the so called 'sweety' came along.

No matter how you look at it, it is not right to neglect one's parents all in the name of setting priorities.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by wunmi590(m): 6:17pm On Nov 20, 2017
Bros, it is witchcraft, pure witchcraft.

Even Mugabe can confirm it

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by NwaAmaikpe: 6:17pm On Nov 20, 2017
shocked

Most times it is beyond them.

If you've ever dated a girl that was bathed in the Ikpobha river or eaten Idikaikong laced with 'kopnomi' before; trust me you won't know when you'd stop picking your parent's call.

I'm talking from experience.

My friend Mmadukaanaya even steals his mother's 'Hollandis' to give Obehi's mom.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Life4Varnity: 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
Devil @ work


Only irresponsible men do that

they need prayer and advice

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Readwarn(m): 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
Konji na bastard.
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Lexusgs430: 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
The power and pull of the snails and mangoro's .......
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by simplemach(m): 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
Because they r fools

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by captainbell: 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
village people at work
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
It's witchcraft
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Coldfeet(f): 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
Womanpleaser:
Male folks, you are all invited to participate in this conversation.

In all ramifications, this negative trend is quite disheartening, alarming.

After God, your family ought to be a priority.

Let me quickly share a true life story:

Jackson took his fiancee to the village for the purpose of introducing the woman he intends to marry to his parent.

She politely rejected the drinking water his parent served her bcoz it was dirty (instead went to the car to get a bottled water).

Later during the day, due to the unhygienic condition of the toilet, she politely refused to use the toilet, instead held urine in her bladder.

His parents said the lady was rude & not a marriage material.

Diz is a lady who is neat, ambitious, humble, intelligent, & responsible.

She was disappointed in her fiance bcoz he is very rich but failed to transform the lives of his poor parents.

She cut off the affair on the basis of his irresponsibility & wickedness.

Many men fall under this category.

You buy Iphone 8 for girlfriend but can't give your parents N50,000.

MEN, WHY
Why she no wash the toilet and use? Her bladder for tear sef.

She could have been the one to make him more responsible in taking care of his parents! Breaking off isn't the solution, unless she has tried to make him take better care of his parents and he refused.

Still being his wife could have made a difference in his attitude towards them.

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by figure007(m): 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
Na curse sir!!! Simple
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Iamdmentor1(m): 6:18pm On Nov 20, 2017
I've never seen a man, a woman cannot fall. Solomon, Anini etc were fallen by women.

So fear women, and in all thy fearing, fear punna

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Evergreen4(m): 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
It is because their brain is tied to their dickk
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
It's what happens when you don't keep your virginity for your husband....the sons will not take care of their mothers...

Thank God mine did...



tongue

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by Switup: 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
Hi
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by eleojo23: 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
SnakeXenzia:
It's witchcraft
Please leave the innocent village people out of this
sad grin

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by CarlyX8(m): 6:19pm On Nov 20, 2017
marriage matter deep oh!
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by iamleumas: 6:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
A long time ago, there was a huge apple tree. A little boy loved to come and play around it everyday. He climbed to the treetop, ate the apples, took a nap under the shadow.. he loved the tree and the tree loved to play with him. Time went by.. the little boy had grown up and he no longer played around the tree every day.
One day, the boy came back to the tree and he looked sad. ‘Come and play with me’ the tree asked the boy. ‘I am no longer a kid, I do not play around trees any more’ the boy replied. ‘I want toys. I need money to buy them.’ ‘Sorry, but I do not have money.. but you can pick all my apples and sell them. So, you will have money.’ The boy was so excited. He grabbed all the apples on the tree and left happily. The boy never came back after he picked the apples. The tree was sad.

One day, the boy who now turned into a man returned and the tree was excited ‘Come and play with me’ the tree said. ‘I do not have time to play. I have to work for my family. We need a house for shelter. Can you help me?” Sorry, but I do not have any house. But you can chop off my branches to build your house.’ So the man cut all the branches of the tree and left happily. The tree was glad to see him happy but the man never came back since then. The tree was again lonely and sad.

One hot summer day, the man returned and the tree was delighted. ‘Come and play with me!’ the tree said. ‘I am getting old. I want to go sailing to relax myself. Can you give me a boat?’ said the man. ‘Use my trunk to build your boat. You can sail far away and be happy.’ So the man cut the tree trunk to make a boat. He went sailing and never showed up for a long time.

Finally, the man returned after many years. ‘Sorry, my boy. But I do not have anything for you anymore. No more apples for you’ the tree said. ‘No problem, I do not have any teeth to bite’ the man replied. ‘No more trunk for you to climb on’ the tree said. ‘I am too old for that now’ the man said. ‘I really cannot give you anything.. the only thing left is my dying roots’ the tree said with tears. ‘I do not need much now, just a place to rest. I am tired after all these years’ the man replied. ‘Good! Old tree roots are the best place to lean on and rest, Come, come sit down with me and rest.’ The man sat down and the tree was glad and smiled with tears..

Moral: The tree is like our parents. When we were young, we loved to play with our Mum and Dad.. When we grow up, often we leave them.. only coming to them when we need something or when we are in trouble. No matter what, parents will always be there and give everything they could just to make you happy. You may think the boy is cruel to the tree, but too often that is how many of us treat our parents. We take them for granted, we don’t appreciate all they do for us until it’s too late.




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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by grandstar(m): 6:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
It is sad!

It shows the shallowness of a lot of men.

It may also indicate either poor upbringing or parents who might not have shown a good example to their kids.

If you showered love on your parents, your children will most likely do likewise.

It is vital that you inculcate very strong moral beliefs in your child as early as possible and also be an example.(Deuteronomy 6:6-9)

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Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by BruncleZuma: 6:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Some Guys Spend Lavishly On Women But Fail To Take Care Of Their Parents? by sonnie10: 6:20pm On Nov 20, 2017
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