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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 4:37pm On May 22, 2018

Berlyn1:
I honestly don't remember you

I was talking in terms of my first post. I asked everyone to be nice because I cannot honestly deal with any negative energy right now.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 4:57pm On May 22, 2018*

KOPT33:
Why is love so hard? Do you have a heartbreak story?

Worse than yours and I'm over it. In your case you decided to end it

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 4:59pm On May 22, 2018

Oyindidi:
Worse than your and I over it. In your case you decided to end it

Is there a difference?

I think it is all the same because that feeling of loss is real. Too real.

How did you cope? How long were you down?

I estimate I will be okay in about three days. For now, the storm rages hard.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:02pm On May 22, 2018

chiommy123:
its too hard to say good bye. but one day you will remember or see this thread and laugh out so loud.

Goodbyes are hard. You remind me of a Westlife song... I think the title is "Too hard to say goodbye' -- I will dig it up now.

A goodbye is like a needle that punctures the balloon of contentment in a loving heart. Too hard. Too fu..king hard.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 5:03pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
Is there a difference?

I think it is all the same because that feeling of loss is real. Too real.

How did you cope? How long were you down?

I estimate I will be okay in about three days. For now, the storm rages hard.

A lot difference dear, my ex once travelled out of Nigeria without telling me. I can't go into details cos too many eyes are viewing. It was the worst days of my life

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:06pm On May 22, 2018

Oyindidi:
A lot difference dear, my ex once travelled out of Nigeria without telling me. I can't go into details cos too many eyes are viewing. It was the worst days of my life

Jesu -- that's harsh. I cannot imagine the hole that must have been left in your heart... you couldn't have seen that coming. If you're concerned about too "many eyes viewing", does it mean people here on NL know you in real life?

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:07pm On May 22, 2018

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Oyindidi(f): 5:07pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
Jesu -- that's harsh. I cannot imagine the hole that must have been left in your heart... you couldn't have seen that coming. If you're concerned about too "many eyes viewing", does it mean people here on NL know you in real life?

Yes, your case is even better

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:18pm On May 22, 2018

darkenkach:
You are amazing.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:21pm On May 22, 2018

People go through heartbreak everyday. Can you explain again why yours is so different that it warrants a show on social media?

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:25pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
My bro, thanks for telling me how you feel about my coping mechanism. Yeah, I need the attention of strangers.

The attention and well-wishes of strangers is a soothing balm for my frayed nerves.

I am a strong man but anonymity allows us do stuff we will be too embarrassed to do in real life. Tell me about your coping mechanisms. Who knows: perhaps I have another episode of this type of situation coming up in a few months and need your sage advise; what is the best way to reinforce a battered heart?

Tell me, since you're wiser than Solomon.

Big boys cry too grin

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:27pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
UPDATE 1

I just got back from the mall, couldn't watch the movie: all the faces were her face.

I couldn't eat my chicken and rice: it was tasteless. As if she took away my taste buds.

Window shopping didn't do anything for me. I used to enjoy looking at stuff and making up my mind on what to buy for her. Now, there is no such excitement.

But on the upside, the Seagrams whiskey from Shoprite has lifted my spirit and given me a tingly buzz. I am so drunk and don't care.

I made an irresponsible purchase: A Casio watch with a gold-face for more than half of my monthly salary. The watch is a beauty and it feels as though I am trying to replace her beauty with a finely crafted piece of workmanship; I rationalized this buy by telling myself beauty is beauty. Love is love, and within the confines of the watchmaker's love for this Casio, is an almost fitting replacement for the embodiment of beauty which has just slipped out of my grasp.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:39pm On May 22, 2018

5thElement:
People go through heartbreak everyday. Can you explain again why yours is so different that it warrants a show on social media?

Well, excellent question right here... let me dive in!

1- I can write
2- I feel like shi..it
3- I have 4G internet
4- My heart is beating crazily fast
5- I am a big baby
6- I love the well-wishes of strangers
7- This is actually a nice way to kill time
8- I don't care about your judgment
9- I am killing time and occupying my mind
10- I can do whatever my heart prompts me to do to bring it [my heart] respite.

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:40pm On May 22, 2018

This made me giggle,(so thank you) tell me your lying about getting over this in 3 days.I need to know that secret... if I catch feelings I'm down for a month or 2... at least angry

why don't you look at it from this way, you love her unconditionally, and that in itself was a gift. Make it like spiritual growth, it doesn't have to 'end' or be turned into 'rejection', when it obviously isn't.

Send her away with love and thank the most high for letting you experience it/love and look forward to more love in return. Put a fancy spin on it! Don't go down the doom and gloom route... #Love Love

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 22, 2018*

LivingFree:
Big boys cry too

Big boys cry, but I am not a big boy. A big boy would have been out and about getting their sh..it together and not displaying a cloying show of sentimentalism.

But yeah, tears are good. Not necessarily the watery ones, but the one which is shed inside the heart.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:45pm On May 22, 2018

my chief! may days b long, kpokponyi! d gods r wise my nwanne! ur case sounded lik the case of those high ppl Treated at yaba left. too much of telemundu can cause this

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
Well, excellent question right here... let me dive in!

1- I can write
2- I feel like shi..it
3- I have 4G internet
4- My heart is beating crazily fast
5- I am a big baby
6- I love the well-wishes of strangers
7- This is actually a nice way to kill time
8- I don't care about your judgment
9- I am killing time and occupying my mind
10- I can do whatever my heart prompts me to do to bring it [my heart] respite.

Fair enough

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 22, 2018

Eaa247:
my chief! may days b long, kpokponyi!
d gods r wise my nwanne!
ur case sounded lik the case of those high ppl Treated at yaba left.
too much of telemundu can cause this

Nwanne -- iseeeeee!!!

But bia ke ne, I don't watch Telemundo, but I have a large heart.

That's the reason why.

Why do you think I am here on Nairaland currying the affection of strangers?

Well it is because I do not want to end up at Yaba Left. Nairaland at least would give me 'conversational therapy' so thank you for chiming in.

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:56pm On May 22, 2018

5thElement:
Fair enough

Thank heavens you're a reasonable person. Sorry if I rankled you, but I'd honestly thought I was with the 'ONE'

Sad things had to end this way. June was supposed to be our introduction. I don't blame her, I am sure in a few years, if things go according to plan, she would be a greater asset to the country, her community, her family and everyone around her.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Centrallock: 5:56pm On May 22, 2018*

Chances you aren't mad at the person who left you behind, you might be mad that you're left behind and it's doesn't make those people bad

Every one is replaceable the only thing that diffrenciate you from the rest is the amount of time and effort that is required to replace you

People have difrence on opinions and you have to accept that

You'll need to learn that not all emotions you experience are genuine. More than half of them are mere mind-games Learn to distinguish to avoid lots of depression

your heart will be broken multiple times and you'll have to break a couple of hearts yourself, That's life There no right and wrong here

Above all you are in charge of you own happiness

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 5:57pm On May 22, 2018

Oyindidi:
why you break up with her?
Let's start with this question

wia ve u been my angel? I ve missed u my only one

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 6:01pm On May 22, 2018

Eaa247:
wia ve u been my angel?
I ve missed u my only one

Before you proceed, please ensure you heart has enough bandwidth to withstand rebuff and/or loss.

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 6:04pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
Before you proceed, please ensure you heart has enough bandwidth to withstand rebuff and/or loss.

she s my only one

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by biacan(f): 6:08pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
Did I say that? Can't really recall. I don't like comedy. Prefer talking to people and it's working. At least it is not beating as fast. I mean my heart.

God!!! I hate being in love!

Don't stress yourself over irrelevant things you'll be fine trust me just visit the said page it will help you kiss

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Nobody: 6:16pm On May 22, 2018

KOPT33:
Thank heavens you're a reasonable person. Sorry if I rankled you, but I'd honestly thought I was with the 'ONE'

Sad things had to end this way. June was supposed to be our introduction. I don't blame her, I am sure in a few years, if things go according to plan, she would be a greater asset to the country, her community, her family and everyone around her.

No offence taken.

Life and love is all about compromise.

It's easy for anyone to say the words "I Love You" but actually SHOWING it is where the challenge is.

You had the opportunity to show her that you love her and would have her back no matter what. Something she'd remember all her life. Something that money couldn't buy. Something that when you quarrelled in future she'd remember and be assured that you love her.

Sometimes you do unbelievable things for the ones you love.

If you could watch her go then maybe it isn't true love after all.

Relocating is a small price to pay for being with the one one you love. Women do it for their guys all the time.

Who says you can't relocate back after a while, say 10years time? The exact same time she wants to be away.

It's your decision though but life gives some opportunities only once and soulmates are very hard to come across.

All the best.

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Rawani: 6:25pm On May 22, 2018*

KOPT33:
Pragmatic wisdom right there brother... I feel you, but not really on the rebound chick thing. I am more of a one-man-one-woman type of person.

I am currently taking a break from work. I resume next week Friday, but in the intervening time, I need to pour it all out so that I can have it behind me when I resume work next week. Do you have a heartbreak story?

Yeah but it always turns from a heartbreak story to a funny one.

My last ex was with me for three years until all the rosiness eroded when we returned to Nigeria after Uni (where we met) and entered the terrifying, perilous and unpredictable Nigerian labour market. Instead of standing by me, she became rude, disrespectful, cold etc and actually suggested a break (she emphasised not break up, but until we find our feet and 'twas long distance cos I'm at home working for my dad in the North).

I on the other hand wasn't having it cos I interpreted it as pure disloyalty and immaturity unfit for marriage because this happened after I introduced her to my family soon as I landed. What if I'd gotten a job immediately I arrived, we got married and then lost it (God forbid), would she have also asked for a break from marriage? Interestingly im still comfortable and have satisfied all her financial needs from personal ventures and fam support but it seems until I can resume the luxury lifestyle of designer bag b'day presents and fancy dinners we were used to in England which I can only get by securing a good job/major Biz breakthrough over here, she'd rather have a break so I simply told her to forget it and move on.

Long story short I had a rebound chick I had in the cooler since I started sensing ex's disloyalty, and she was extra ready to accept my marriage proposal. She treats like like an absolute KING, loves like kilode, extremely prettier and curvier than ex, 10 years younger and tear rubber ( wink

). Only after I had broken off did I realise in laughter and gratitude to God for the silver bullet man had dodged. Now she's trying to play the victim card after realising I've really moved on and has been posting cryptic messages on social media but trust man to ignore cool

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Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by Diamond23(f): 6:38pm On May 22, 2018

just try nd luk for another of ur guy to snatch his babe, I guarantee u, u will feel beta

Re: My Heart Is About To Explode: Just Ended A Relationship by anonymuz(m): 6:41pm On May 22, 2018

Rawani:
Yeah but it always turns from a heartbreak story to a funny one.

My last ex was with me for three years until all the rosiness eroded when we returned to Nigeria after Uni (where we met) and entered the terrifying, perilous and unpredictable Nigerian labour market. Instead of standing by me, she became rude, disrespectful, cold etc and actually suggested a break (she emphasised not break up, but until we find our feet and 'twas long distance cos I'm at home working for my dad in the North).

I on the other hand wasn't having it cos I interpreted it as pure disloyalty and immaturity unfit for marriage because this happened after I introduced her to my family soon as I landed. What if I'd gotten a job immediately I arrived, we got married and then lost it (God forbid), would she have also asked for a break from marriage? Interestingly im still comfortable and have satisfied all her financial needs from personal ventures and fam support but it seems until I can resume the luxury lifestyle of designer bag b'day presents and fancy dinners we were used to in England which I can only get by securing a good job/major Biz breakthrough over here, she'd rather have a break so I simply told her to forget it and move on.

Long story short I had a rebound chick I had in the cooler since I started sensing ex's disloyalty, and she was extra ready to accept my marriage proposal. She treats like like an absolute KING, loves like kilode, extremely prettier and curvier than ex, 10 years younger and tear rubber ( ). Only after I had broken off did I realise in laughter and gratitude to God for the silver bullet man had dodged. Now she's trying to play the victim card after realising I've really moved on and have been posting cryptic messages on Social media but trust man to ignore

A real man spotted

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