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As d topic suggest, part problem is I don't v anyone in mind and secondly, I just finishef servin not quite long. Income flow 10k a week frm my business not much I know. but I really wanna mk ds work.
I'll b 27 by next year June BTW.


ur candid advise will go a long way.

Get married then

40k per month?
really?you sure wanna be fed by your family members when you eventually have kids.

Sincerely I will strongly recommend you do ASAP. Life itself is a challenge that you would not encounter problems is surely a mirage but the more you overcome the better you are for it. So all in all please do

Don't rush into marriage before you rush out.

#NoLateKomer.

Add two years extra.
By then, you should be sure of what you want. For now, focus on your hustle.

In as much as you'd love to settle early, please Focus on having total financial stability. Marriage shouldn't be on your mind for now. You're quite young. Cheers.

What do I advice? I advice you save up money which you'll pay me after your eventual divorce.
You're only 26 and hoping for marriage, not knowing by 29 thereabout girls will drool at the very presence of your grown man looks. My friend you better find a good job, buy or rent a house and buy a car before thinking of marriage if not na unnecessary headache you go dash yourself.

Your mates for north don marry two wives born 12 children, u dey here dey ask us questions.

The fact that you're seeking for advice based on a very personal decision like marriage proves that you're not ready for it.

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Go And Make Enough Money First

Why do you want to get married at the age of 27?


Do you think you can raise a family with 10k?


By the time baby's pampers chop a huge chunk of your salary nobody will tell you before you know you've made a mistake.


Because I don't want you to come and start begging on Nairaland I'll advice you to maintain your yourself until you can earn better.


Don't ask for a girl's hand in marriage from her parents if you aren't capable of taking care of her.

Do what you wanna do phuck everything else....

Thnk u guys...The responses so far r awesome...I wish ds could make fp. While ds thought/decision is highly informed by my Daddy who wished he dd marry early. D truth is I dont v anyone in mind yet and Marrying early is one of my Agender. I dnt want to wait until 30 clocks me...Well, What Do I know?
lalasticlala

Trust me, marrying at a young age is a beautiful thing

10K per week is a big constraint, but then, it's an indication that you can make more!

What do you do? What (is) are your revenue driver(s)? Can you generate more revenue- selling more products or getting more client or creating more value that commands higher pay? Can you do anything to increase your inflow? Is it possible to create another stream of income?

You don't have to answer these questions here. Just think about them; pen down the answers and think about them


Your standard of living after marriage will be a function of (cost of living, inflows).

Cutting you cost of living would not be advisable here for obvious reasons. The option that seems feasible is boosting your inflow. Errrrrrrrrm, if your "to be wife" has her own source of inflow that could complement yours, that might be helpful...howbeit, you dnt wanna count on that.

Impossible is nothing!

Please think about the possibilities around increasing your inflow.


Personally, I wouldn't marry with 40k/ month.

I perceive that you are hard working. Give yourself a time line, engage your mind and find ways to increase you inflow before embarking on that beautiful journey...please don't bring that lovely damsel in to a life of struggle

Marrying young and rich is a beautiful something

Stycon:
Trust me, marrying at a young age is a beautiful thing

10K per week is a big constraint, but then, it's an indication that you can make more!

What do you do? What (is) are your revenue driver(s)? Can you generate more revenue- selling more products or getting more client or creating more value that commands higher pay? Can you do anything to increase your inflow? Is it possible to create another stream of income?

You don't have to answer these questions here. Just think about them; pen down the answers and think about them


Your standard of living after marriage will be a function of (cost of living, inflows).

Cutting you cost of living would not be advisable here for obvious reasons. The option that seems feasible is boosting your inflow. Errrrrrrrrm, if your "to be wife" has her own source of inflow that could complement yours, that might be helpful...howbeit, you dnt wanna count on that.

Impossible is nothing!

Please think about the possibilities around increasing your inflow.


Personally, I wouldn't marry with 40k/ month.

I perceive that you are hard working. Give yourself a time line, engage your mind and find ways to increase you inflow before embarking on that beautiful journey...please don't bring that lovely damsel in to a life of struggle

Marrying young and rich is a beautiful something

Beautiful perspective. Thank u

wizzyrich:
Your mates for north don marry two wives born 12 children, u dey here dey ask us questions.

sharaap

OneCorner:
sharaap

Tell your father


Thats if u have one

wizzyrich:
Tell your father


Thats if u have one

I should tell ur fada if I don’t have?
Ewure

OneCorner:
I should tell ur fada if I don’t have?
Ewure

Make sure you remove your simcard and return your mother's phone when you are done.



Goat

Phinity318:
As d topic suggest, part problem is I don't v anyone in mind and secondly, I just finishef servin not quite long. Income flow 10k a week frm my business not much I know. but I really wanna mk ds work.
I'll b 27 by next year June BTW.


ur candid advise will go a long way.

Before you take an action think of the aftermath