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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by ibinaboonline: 8:05am On Jun 03, 2018
Nbote:
Logical and Biblical are two very different things.. We see nothing wrong in single moms these days becos it's becoming a norm. Their's an adage dat says "When u commit abomination for too long, it begins to feel like it's part of culture ". It is morally wrong for a woman to raise a child without a father. It defeats d purpose of marriage.. D fact dat d sanctity of marriage has been bastardised still doesn't justify d new trend
It's morally wrong for a woman to raise a child without a father? Think things through before you say them. My grandfather died while my dad was a toddler . So this made my grandma a single mom. Similar scenarios are everywhere and you've just condemned those in such situations.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by peacengine(m): 8:05am On Jun 03, 2018
For Catholics IVF is wrong whether married or single. The church states the following reasons
1) Such fertilization is contrary to the unity of marriage
2) Such fertilization is contrary to the dignity of the spouses since the sperm or egg may not come from them
3) Such fertilization is contrary to the proper vocation to parents in which they don't cooperate with God in the natural creation of human life
4) Such fertilization is contrary to child's right to be brought into the world in marriage and through marriage, deprived of maternal shelter and gestation
5) The sperm used is obtained through masturbation which is a sin
6) It does not fully respect human life since several human embryos are destroyed in the process or are indefinitely frozen for later implantation or used for further research

Argue with your ancestors
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by RuthlessLeader(m): 8:06am On Jun 03, 2018
bixton:


Jesus, really?

It's either you're not a Christian

It's either you're NOT educated/learned properly and enough


Please go check the meaning of that word again via google.
Jesus was born out of wedlock so he is a bastard.
I am learned. I even know your bible pass you.
Don't go to church again because you are surely a bastard's descendant

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by peacengine(m): 8:09am On Jun 03, 2018
Nbote:
Logical and Biblical are two very different things.. We see nothing wrong in single moms these days becos it's becoming a norm. Their's an adage dat says "When u commit abomination for too long, it begins to feel like it's part of culture ". It is morally wrong for a woman to raise a child without a father. It defeats d purpose of marriage.. D fact dat d sanctity of marriage has been bastardised still doesn't justify d new trend

Bro, go and think about this statement and edit it if small sense enter your brain
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Proudlyngwa(m): 8:10am On Jun 03, 2018
Hier:


What is and where are your proofs

If you are a Christian, it is not right.

Let us stop diluting Christianity to our taste.

The essence of Christianity is to be Christ Like, not to make mockery of God.

In Christianity Man and Woman are Created in the image of God.
When they marry, they become Godlike and become creators, IVF is meant to assist married people, who can't give birth.

So if an unmarried Christian woman decides to get pregnant, it is wrong because child bearing is a blessing to two people that have decided to become one.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Nobody: 8:11am On Jun 03, 2018
There's absolutely nothing wrong in getting an IVF. Unmarried or married, its nobody's business. It's actually hilarious of how much it is criticised by the same people who sin everyday. Look at how quick they are to quote some verses in their bible, which they can't even explain properly.

How the hell is this even fornication?

Fornication is generally consensual sexual intercourse between two people not married to each other.

The time we live in now is completely different to that of Jesus. Things have changed! Especially when it comes to science.




Thinking about it now though, maybe Mary had an IVF too grin

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Proudlyngwa(m): 8:12am On Jun 03, 2018
lovelygurl:






WHY?!


Proudlyngwa:


If you are a Christian, it is not right.

Let us stop diluting Christianity to our taste.

The essence of Christianity is to be Christ Like, not to make mockery of God.

In Christianity Man and Woman are Created in the image of God.
When they marry, they become Godlike and become creators, IVF is meant to assist married people, who can't give birth.

So if an unmarried Christian woman decides to get pregnant, it is wrong because child bearing is a blessing to two people that have decided to become one.
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Nobody: 8:14am On Jun 03, 2018
Nbote:
Logical and Biblical are two very different things.. We see nothing wrong in single moms these days becos it's becoming a norm. Their's an adage dat says "When u commit abomination for too long, it begins to feel like it's part of culture ". It is morally wrong for a woman to raise a child without a father. It defeats d purpose of marriage.. D fact dat d sanctity of marriage has been bastardised still doesn't justify d new trend
Exactly!
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by adisababa1234: 8:15am On Jun 03, 2018
He is saying rubbish
A full deviation from Bible and moral values.
If you have child through ivf who will you point to is the father for the child?
Such mother might end up being killed by such child.
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by ibinaboonline: 8:16am On Jun 03, 2018
I haven't watched the video but from the comments below it appears the pastor said it was okay for an unmarried Christian woman to get IVF. NO it's wrong. I think that we fail to understand that God is not against premarital sex because it's sex and enjoyable. In fact, the contact and exchange of fluids and blood is at the core of God's warning to stay clear of sexual perversion. So, just because a woman didn't have fun (sex) to conceive does not make it any different from what it is. That question can be paraphrased as, ' is it wrong for an unmarried woman to conceive without enjoying sex?' It's not our fun that God is after. Remember that the semen introduced into the woman for IVF is a man's seed... a man who is not her husband. This is wrong. The Bible did warn that people will think up new ways to commit evil. Christians should let the word dwell in them richly because the days are evil.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Daboomb: 8:16am On Jun 03, 2018
Sanchez01:

And to think you called some folks lazy but you failed to understand the topic yourself before commenting. And I sure believe you also failed to see the video.

'Unmarried' here, contextually and in the video refers to ladies who don't want to get tied to a man but are willing to raise children on their own. It's a Christian topic, so let's treat it as such and not give a hundred and one reasons on why Nigeria won't win the World Cup.

You obviously read only half of what l wrote and jumped to make a reply!

Read it slowly, especially the last paragrapgh where l said "I do not support....".

That paragrapgh is enough to deal with your mis-yarns above.

Again, what is a "Christian topic" or when did IVF become a Christian topic for God's sake?
- IVF is a medical procedure and a medical terminoly.
- It is available and intended for Chiristians, Muslims, Atheist, Traditional worshipers and just about anyone who wanst it and can afford it or where did you get your own idea from?
Do l also need to refer you to a Textbook and get someone to explain it to you in a Language you understand? - Ex President Obasanjo.

That you are looking at the issue from a 'religiously myopic' view-point (reason we have all these crass comments up there) or that one Pastor decides he is the 'decider' of what anyone can do, does not mean we all have to sleep, facing the same direction.

My comments was basically to point out that there is not need to "generally castigate" anyone for opting to go for IVF, on the assumption that they are wayward and dont want to settle down with a husband, .....the reasons behind such decisions are varied and important to the individual.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Cutehector(m): 8:17am On Jun 03, 2018
What a mortal thinks is not what the lord thinks..


The lord says, for this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to the wife, and they two shall become one.

The lord created marriage with a father figure.. Mary didn't raise Jesus without a father figure, the lord deemed it right for Mary to be bethrothed to Joseph.

Modernity and Satan have come together to mock and spoil what the lord has instituted by creating division.


Jesus said, I am the way, the truth and the life.. Bearing much emphasis on the truth. So whatever the lord has instituted right from the Genesis of the world is true and solid.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Nobody: 8:19am On Jun 03, 2018
webincomeplus:

It's not "biasness". Scroll up and down to see how this thread has remained clean and avoided by Muslims. But if it were a Muslim topic, it would have been polluted and derailed by hate-filled Christians and other non-Muslims. Seun is smart enough to have noticed that.

And BTW, why should non-Muslims bother about commenting on strictly-Muslim topics? If you're not ready to go through the attestation, simply create a thread in section for your religion and open whatever discussion you want about Islam. You shouldn't feel embittered that you're not allowed to bash Islam without going through an attestation.

PS. Nobody should bother quoting me for any reason. If you disagree with me, just pass. If you agree, simply nod. Thanks.
I disagree with you. There are many thread were Muslims comment on topics relating to Christianity. It will be fair if what is applied to A be applied to B. But as it is, seun and his group are not fair. They have not given a good reason for their actions.
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Nobody: 8:20am On Jun 03, 2018
Proudlyngwa:


If you are a Christian, it is not right.

Let us stop diluting Christianity to our taste.

The essence of Christianity is to be Christ Like, not to make mockery of God.

In Christianity Man and Woman are Created in the image of God.
When they marry, they become Godlike and become creators, IVF is meant to assist married people, who can't give birth.

So if an unmarried Christian woman decides to get pregnant, it is wrong because child bearing is a blessing to two people that have decided to become one.

Man and woman were created in the image of God, but it's only when they marry they become godlike? This is paradox.

A marriage is a blessing from God to married couples, but if somehow they 'skipped' their blessings, let's ask science for help?

But if an unmarried lady decides to use that same science, it's wrong because it's just a blessing for couples? Well, obviously not or else she wouldn't be able to be carrying her blessing 9 months later.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by procky(f): 8:23am On Jun 03, 2018
Nbote:
Logical and Biblical are two very different things.. We see nothing wrong in single moms these days becos it's becoming a norm. Their's an adage dat says "When u commit abomination for too long, it begins to feel like it's part of culture ". It is morally wrong for a woman to raise a child without a father. It defeats d purpose of marriage.. D fact dat d sanctity of marriage has been bastardised still doesn't justify d new trend

What about the widows raising children without their fathers.. and stop making it look like the single women are only pregnant through IVF.. it is the men who pregnant them and run away.. besides there is currently high level of lazy men and wife beaters making the women scared of marriage. the list goes on.. IT IS NOT WRONG FOR A WOMAN TO RAISE A CHILD WITHOUT A FATHER..

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Nobody: 8:23am On Jun 03, 2018
Cutehector:
What a mortal thinks is not what the lord thinks..


The lord says, for this reason, a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to the wife, and they two shall become one.

The lord created marriage with a father figure.. Mary didn't raise Jesus without a father figure, the lord deemed it right for Mary to be bethrothed to Joseph.

Modernity and Satan have come together to mock and spoil what the lord has instituted by creating division.


Jesus said, I am the way, the truth and the life.. Bearing much emphasis on the truth. So whatever the lord has instituted right from the Genesis of the world is true and solid.

So what about the women who had to raise their children without a father figure because

1) They had been raped
2) The father died
3) He ran from his responsibilities

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Pentools(m): 8:25am On Jun 03, 2018
webincomeplus:

It's not "biasness". Scroll up and down to see how this thread has remained clean and avoided by Muslims. But if it were a Muslim topic, it would have been polluted and derailed by hate-filled Christians and other non-Muslims. Seun is smart enough to have noticed that.

And BTW, why should non-Muslims bother about commenting on strictly-Muslim topics? If you're not ready to go through the attestation, simply create a thread in section for your religion and open whatever discussion you want about Islam. You shouldn't feel embittered that you're not allowed to bash Islam without going through an attestation.

PS. Nobody should bother quoting me for any reason. If you disagree with me, just pass. If you agree, simply nod. Thanks.

Quit casting baseless aspersions, I'm not against whatsoever religion any adult chooses to be part of and most times I've went there trying to ask non derogatory questions regarding issues of concern yet I can't gain access, even so, most Christian threads are being attacked mostly by non Christians especially those against pastors(even without knowing a dime about pastorship) make your thorough research before coming to justify a segregating act or defending what ever you have as your religion. You are yet to see them probably because of their fasting.

Call a spade, spade!!!
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Daboomb: 8:25am On Jun 03, 2018
RuthlessLeader:

Jesus was born out of wedlock so he is a bastard.
I am learned. I even know your bible pass you.
Don't go to church again because you are surely a bastard's descendant

I beg sharrap there joor, is this all your parents taught you!
Which Bible do you know?
The one they taught you in your Quranic Almanjeri School or what?

While it may not have any 'immdiate physical consequence' for you to utter the imbecilic statement you made up there (as bolded) because you are referring to a Jesus of the "Peace-loving" Christians who are so forgiving and accomodating of even the most foolish trogodlite, l am sure you know what the result would have been, if someone had said the same thing about the Muhammed of your own faith.

Since you are not a Christian, stick to what you know and stop esposuing idiocy, on the WWW.
Half knowledge is not only dangerous, it is a danger to the person who has it.

Stay safe and dont commit suicide.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by procky(f): 8:26am On Jun 03, 2018
ednut1:
Instead of IVF y not allow men marry more wives grin. After all the average nigerian married man has lik 2 side chicks

Polygamy that destroy the world from the beginning in Abraham and Sarah's life.. Polygamy that has birthed Hatred, jealousy, envy, fights and killings..

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by procky(f): 8:27am On Jun 03, 2018
BiafranDel:
the fact that you are a product of a failed or heartbreak marriage does not mean everybody else will suffer the same unfortunate fate you suffered. if you knew you had nothing morally sound to contribute, you could have just shut up.


Your way of reasoning is the reason women do IVF...

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by belloay(m): 8:28am On Jun 03, 2018
This would be an abuse of the IVF procedure. IVF is to assist people who cannot conceive naturally. If she really wants a child, she should get married or adopt....

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Cutehector(m): 8:30am On Jun 03, 2018
lovelygurl:


So what about the women who had to raise their children without a father figure because

1) They had been raped
2) The father died
3) He ran from his responsibilities
number one isn't the end of the world, even if a woman was a victim of rape, I believe time heals and she can grow up emotionally strong and find another person who will heal her wounds ..

2. The father died, well, the vows were clear, till death dk us part

3. He ran away from responsibilities, the bible says a man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel and the bible also says that a woman can divorce her husband on the grounds of infidelity. She may choose to find another man or remain single if she chooses to be, but if she is someone with a lot of faith, she can get another good man
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by procky(f): 8:32am On Jun 03, 2018
Proudlyngwa:

If you are a Christian, it is not right.

Let us stop diluting Christianity to our taste.

The essence of Christianity is to be Christ Like, not to make mockery of God.

In Christianity Man and Woman are Created in the image of God.
When they marry, they become Godlike and become creators, IVF is meant to assist married people, who can't give birth.

So if an unmarried Christian woman decides to get pregnant, it is wrong because child bearing is a blessing to two people that have decided to become one.


If we should conclude as Christians
Then Married Barren women should not do IVF.. They should wait, fast and pray like Sarah and Hannah..
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Daboomb: 8:34am On Jun 03, 2018
procky:


What about the widows raising children without their fathers.. and stop making it look like the single women are only pregnant through IVF.. it is the men who pregnant them and run away.. besides there is currently high level of[b] lazy men and wife beaters[/b] making the women scared of marriage. the list goes on.. IT IS NOT WRONG FOR A WOMAN TO RAISE A CHILD WITHOUT A FATHER..

And "Money-car" and "Husband killers" to that list of what is chasing even Men away from amrriage. grin grin

and YES, it is fundamentally wrong for a woman to INTENTIONALLY raise a child without a Father, just as it is for a man to "intentionally" raise one without a Mother!

What most of you dont know (and l am speaking generally for both Men and Women) is that Each Parent contributes a Unique and Specific quality to the nature and psychological balance of a growing child.

The woman maybe the best mother in the world, just as the Man may be the best father in the world but each can never provide what the other Parent is supposed to provide (not money or material things), to the complete, balanced, wellbeing of a growing child.

You need to look at statictics of Prisons to see what single parentage (mostly mothers), have done to the life of Youths (mostly Young men!)
If you have the time, just Google it and read it up.
It will open the eyes of those of you who think once l spoil my children with the best things of life, they dont need a father.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by ibinaboonline: 8:36am On Jun 03, 2018
dionysus7:
its probably against your bible ethics, but speaking of the bible, its not like you follow it verbatim... hell you can't follow it verbatim, hence you end up in jail. could it just be that anything unconventional, that happens to also bring joy and gratifications in this modern age gives you people heart aches or what? the bible gave out guidelines as to handling of slaves...SLAVES!! but in this age it is a crime to own a slave. if you're so concerned about the bible ethics, why not advocate for bringing back slavery and watch how you fare in prison, but no, it is the harmless, non violent culture of the modern era that is of utmost concern to you that you pillage the bible to condemn...could it just be that you guys are just too bitter to enjoy the good things of this world for the fear of hurting the feelings of some supposedly merciful guy all because we are using our brains to give ourselves a better life?
When Adam sinned, God made him clothes and continues to help mankind. Since you're so intelligent, does this mean to you that God condoned Adams disobedience? Because Jesus encouraged slaves and slave masters on how to fare with each other does not mean He supported it. Jesus didn't support citizens paying taxes in those days but He paid anyway and I won't bother explaining why if you cant connect the dots since you're so intelligent. Some people think they're wise when in fact they are fools. In case you don't know, oh smart fellow, sex outside marriage is not condemned in the Bible because it's fun. It's God Himself who designed all those nerve endings at the tip of your genitals for ultimate pleasure only in the blanket of marriage. Swapping blood with everyone you meet is disastrous both spiritually and physically but you can't connect the dots because you're so smart.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Proudlyngwa(m): 8:37am On Jun 03, 2018
procky:



If we should conclude as Christians
Then Married Barren women should not do IVF.. They should wait, fast and pray like Sarah and Hannah..

Some doctrines don't permit it.

Most technology was delivered to help certain cases but is being abused.

Left for me, I support IVF for married women.
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by bixton(m): 8:39am On Jun 03, 2018
RuthlessLeader:

Jesus was born out of wedlock so he is a bastard.
I am learned. I even know your bible pass you.
Don't go to church again because you are surely a bastard's descendant


I can see a bastard , who is just not learned and not educated because he feels he can't use the dictionary or google to help his use of english.

I can also see a bastard who claims to know the Bible more when he does not truly understand english and its usage.

You clearly don't understand the Bible and clearly the simplest verses because you can't comprehend even the simplest forms of english usage.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Daboomb: 8:41am On Jun 03, 2018
procky:



If we should conclude as Christians
Then Married Barren women should not do IVF.. They should wait, fast and pray like Sarah and Hannah..

It is "over-sabi Christianity" that is worrying people who would dare say that.
All good knowledge is from God.
If he wants to prevent us from using IVF, He can 'blind us' to such knowledge afterall, we are 'still blinded' on trying to know where God actually resides. undecided undecided

Knowledge can be used for Evil or for Good.
where a family is experiencung challenges in concieving, there is nothing wrong for them to go through the iVF route.

What we should condemn is those who use it to circumvent the natural arraingement of marriage, to their own selfish end.

There are Men who want to marry another Man ...and still want to have children.
It is these type of dysfuntional and mentally unhinged people that shoudl not be allowed anywhere near IVF because Science has made it possible to implant Placenta in one of them or for them to supply evil seeds that would fertilize a female Egg, resulting in a child.

Generally, the world is getting more and more phucked-up in the name of advancement...... and the end will just be like a Sci-Fi movie, one day.
Just look at what is happening in the field of Artificial Intelligence.
We may eventually self-destruct, mistakenly or intentionally, one of these days.
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Daboomb: 8:50am On Jun 03, 2018
procky:


Polygamy that destroy the world from the beginning in Abraham and Sarah's life.. Polygamy that has birthed Hatred, jealousy, envy, fights and killings..

The above is a FALLACY!

Everything you said up there can be found in monogamous marriages...... otherwise, there wont be DIVORCE.

The most cheating - Monogamous marriages
The most jealousy - Monogamous marriages
The most envy - Monogamous marriages
The most fights (with spouse) - Monogamous marriages
The most spousal murders - Monogamous marriages

This is not an endorsement of Polygamy but to show you that Polygamy itself, is not the cause of what you have up there, it is the individuals and their evil traits, that lead to such outcomes.

I have seen lots of polygamous families that are fit to be called "models" of family life.... and l have seen thousands of monogamous marriages that are best described as "marriage from hell'.

I am sure we all have seen these as well.

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Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by dionysus7: 8:51am On Jun 03, 2018
ibinaboonline:
When Adam sinned, God made him clothes and continues to help mankind. Since you're so intelligent, does this mean to you that God condoned Adams disobedience? Because Jesus encouraged slaves and slave masters on how to fare with each other does not mean He supported it. Jesus didn't support citizens paying taxes in those days but He paid anyway and I won't bother explaining why if you cant connect the dots since you're so intelligent. Some people think they're wise when in fact they are fools. In case you don't know, oh smart fellow, sex outside marriage is not condemned in the Bible because it's fun. It's God Himself who designed all those nerve endings at the tip of your genitals for ultimate pleasure only in the blanket of marriage. Swapping blood with everyone you meet is disastrous both spiritually and physically but you can't connect the dots because you're so smart.

lol wise one, I was going to explain to you in details what i meant then i got to where you said "Jesus encouraged slaves and slave masters on how to fare with each other does not mean He supported it." then i realized you have comprehension issues and I'd rather not waste my time with you. if advise you to read more of the bible but as you've demonstrated that you're incompetent on that front it's a kind of a tough one as i am inclined to believe you're not born a complete and utter waste of time. read more, read again, ask questions, then read again then come back and mention me again.
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by RuthlessLeader(m): 9:01am On Jun 03, 2018
Daboomb:


I beg sharrap there joor, is this all your parents taught you!
Which Bible do you know?
The one they taught you in your Quranic Almanjeri School or what?

While it may not have any 'immdiate physical consequence' for you to utter the imbecilic statement you made up there (as bolded) because you are referring to a Jesus of the "Peace-loving" Christians who are so forgiving and accomodating of even the most foolish trogodlite, l am sure you know what the result would have been, if someone had said the same thing about the Muhammed of your own faith.

Since you are not a Christian, stick to what you know and stop esposuing idiocy, on the WWW.
Half knowledge is not only dangerous, it is a danger to the person who has it.

Stay safe and dont commit suicide.
I am not a muslim at all.Is it not the same bible that rewards rape? Deutonomy 22:28-29. So if you have a daughter....
Re: Is It Right For Unmarried Christian Woman To Get Pregnant Through IVF by Nobody: 9:01am On Jun 03, 2018
Cutehector:
number one isn't the end of the world, even if a woman was a victim of rape, I believe time heals and she can grow up emotionally strong and find another person who will heal her wounds ..

2. The father died, well, the vows were clear, till death dk us part

3. He ran away from responsibilities, the bible says a man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel and the bible also says that a woman can divorce her husband on the grounds of infidelity. She may choose to find another man or remain single if she chooses to be, but if she is someone with a lot of faith, she can get another good man

I was tempted to stop reading at number 1, which is by the way such an insult to rape victims out there, but that's another topic for another day.
It's impossible for another person to heal your wounds. The only person capable of doing that is YOU. An "other person" might be able to help heal her wounds by supporting her etc., however the only person who is able to do healing itself, is her. Besides, this other person supporting her doesn't have to be a man. It could be her mum, sister, friend etc.

That a woman doesn't necessarily need a man to raise her kids has been proven times without number throughout history, starting from the women who had no other option than to do so during the wars, to the modern women today, who might for some reason be a single mum. Yet, they had been able to raise strong men and women, who were able to contribute positively to the society. But I'm guessing you're of the opinion, of them not being worth it because according to your bible, God forbid! Being raised by a single mum is by far one of the worst things that can happen to you! In fact, it is an "insult" to God, a slap in the face!

The fact that a woman is capable of choosing and saying yes to marriage, means she's also capable of saying "no". And the only people I expect to critize this and point hands and whine about hoq wrong this is, are those who have never sinned before and in fact aren't born sinners or living a sinful life!

Those who wouldn't survive something as little as an infection or malaria and therefore use science to prolong their lives. Those who I expect not to do a blood transfusion even if their lives depend on it. Those who do not support fornication and aren't into adultery.

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