Nigerian woman in Nigeria and a Nigerian woman abroad are the same. The only difference is, in Nigeria...you can threaten her with "I will send you back to your father's house". Over there, you can't.

It's nice seeing some Naija men, get a taste of their own medicine. After all, na where some of una dey find submissive wife, una land for trouble. I only pity the kids that get caught up in such mess.

thebosstrevor:
if you want to live long as a man in the west never marry another hustler called Nigerian women.

Nigerian women abroad can never be trusted basically even Nigerian women back home,our value system basically has changed with time

Wives betraying husband once abroad.

After they complain Nigerian men mentality or African men mentality of having a family.anything African is inferior to the so called Nigerian women abroad.

i never see Asians behaving like that,they come with the sense of family,husband and wife,submissive wife and supporting husband,the family life is always intact.

African women are quick to say African men mentality because of STATE WELFARE,forgetting that a child without a father will become burden to the society.

you will hear them say tell our Nigerian men, leave your African men mentality in Africa before coming abroad.very sad in my opinion.it shows inferiority complex.

What about the women,they bring their African mentality to america and cause havoc because they think the law will support them.what a betrayal.

In my opinion,Nigerian women are just for sex not marriage,i have researched why our men die young and are hypertensive and i came to the conclusion our women are the cause.

AVOID NIGERIAN WOMEN WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH

THEY ARE DESTINY DESTROYERS

PLS FIND YOURSELF ANOTHER AFRICAN TO MARRY FROM,THEY KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF US ESPECIALLY THE HARD-WORKING NIGERIAN MEN.

Are you minding them! The inferiority complex is huge. How can a dog behave like a cat. Why should an African man behave like a western man. Same goes for African women. Even western men are running away from western women because feminism has destroyed the family system. This is what our women are copying. They ignore the strong family values we have in Africa and start copying stupidity. The Asians or even the Indians will never succumb to such stupidity it is only black people.

It’s not just Nigerian women. African women in general. I watched on YouTube where a Zimbabwean man did a live YouTube video where he drank poison because his wife destroyed his life. The man died. Later some Zimbabweans were saying he used to beat the wife. A wife he took to London at age 16 accused him of domestic violence and injuries she inflicted on herself. Karma is watching and waiting for all you wicked African women

thebosstrevor:
if you want to live long as a man in the west never marry another hustler called Nigerian women.

Nigerian women abroad can never be trusted basically even Nigerian women back home,our value system basically has changed with time

Wives betraying husband once abroad.

After they complain Nigerian men mentality or African men mentality of having a family.anything African is inferior to the so called Nigerian women abroad.

i never see Asians behaving like that,they come with the sense of family,husband and wife,submissive wife and supporting husband,the family life is always intact.

African women are quick to say African men mentality because of STATE WELFARE,forgetting that a child without a father will become burden to the society.

you will hear them say tell our Nigerian men, leave your African men mentality in Africa before coming abroad.very sad in my opinion.it shows inferiority complex.

What about the women,they bring their African mentality to america and cause havoc because they think the law will support them.what a betrayal.

In my opinion,Nigerian women are just for sex not marriage,i have researched why our men die young and are hypertensive and i came to the conclusion our women are the cause.

AVOID NIGERIAN WOMEN WITH ALL YOUR STRENGTH

THEY ARE DESTINY DESTROYERS

PLS FIND YOURSELF ANOTHER AFRICAN TO MARRY FROM,THEY KNOW HOW TO TAKE CARE OF US ESPECIALLY THE HARD-WORKING NIGERIAN MEN.

it is not inferiority complex to demand a woman be submissive to You but it is inferiority complex when she says you should leave the African misogyny behind! Na so !

Nigerian men won’t marry oyinbo or western oriented Nigerian women because they are looking for a mugun they would cheat just like how they cheat women in Nigeria ! They should stop marrying Home girls and stick to the oyinbo ones !

Pataricatering:
it is not inferiority complex to demand a woman be submissive to You but it is inferiority complex when she says you should leave the African misogyny behind! Na so !

Misorgyny is common everywhere and not prone to Africans,what about the indians,pakistans,europeans and americans

i hate it when i hear leave your African mentality at home,it is not right.it shows inferiority complex.

there are many good African men here in Africa,taking care of their families.Our women are problematic,i have seen this with friends sisters and every women i encounter,the mentality of entitlement is just alarming.we blame the men for all problems forgetting that our mum train the men,what about the women,are they saint big No,they are the cause of most domestic violence,that is why many Nigerian men will prefer foreigners than Nigerian women

This is a problem also in the African-american community.Many black men prefer marrying the other race than a black woman,i think,our women also need to check themselves.

Pataricatering:
Nigerian men won’t marry oyinbo or western oriented Nigerian women because they are looking for a mugun they would cheat just like how they cheat women in Nigeria ! They should stop marrying Home girls and stick to the oyinbo ones !

Mugu aka submissive wife

Go mgtow

Pataricatering:
it is not inferiority complex to demand a woman be submissive to You but it is inferiority complex when she says you should leave the African misogyny behind! Na so !

You are very very stupid. Let me give you some history lessons. Right up to 30s, white women were not allowed to work. They were house wives or even trophy wives. The workplace in the West was predominantly men. Later, during the civil right match and in order not to create too many distortions and to water down the black movement, congress signed the equal right bill to allow reduce wage disparity between men and women in the workplace. The next thing white women came up again with domestic violence issues. Now it is sexual harassment. The question is why is the white woman fighting their men - they lack culture or custom. They do not understand their role as women. They are confused.

If you like continue to be influenced by people without culture, identity or custom and lose your own identity. It is not a demand for a woman to respect the husband, it is an African tradition and even found in the Bible, that you people revered so much.

If you look at every successful home or marriage, you would see where both parties understood their role. There was no power struggle. The woman understands her husband, respects the husband and in turn the man shows love to the wife, provides for the family and protect the family. On the other hand, look at broken homes, most of the time, the women are the instigators. They want to be the man in the home. They disrespect their husband. They don’t know their role in their home. Ironically, these women are incapable of acting the same way at the workplace. It’s quite unfortunate that many african women want to be equals with their husband. You cannot have two captains in a ship. You are definitely going to have a shipwreck.

lastmessenger:
The united state has a way of making women forget where they are coming from. I'm not in any way condoning killing buy at the same time it is hard to just stay and watch your hard earned wealth taking away from you because of a biased legal system designed to favour women.
Any sensible man should forget about bringing a woman over to the united states as the uncertainties are much. A lot can go wrong especially if the woman is the selfish type. Some of them are so promiscuous neglecting the man that brought them to US. Imagine your wife jumping from one club to another,calling police to come arrest you just because of a simple argument.
The worst you can do to man is to take away his pride and expect him not to take action. This is the root cause of the killing. In every situation a man wants to be in control of his family and be in charge and be accorded his place.
For me it is not advisable to marry a woman with the hope of bringing her over cos in tbe long run you will be in a very delicate situation.

..........eveey naija gal is selfish nd almost all are lazy to work but good at spending, from even relationship, they see guyz are a way out of financial misery....

What a crazy world we live in... The same men would be the ones encourages these girls to abandon their boyfriends and fiance all in the name of America and Yankee. Kaiii, That is how one emeka is now using America to drag babe with me ooooooo Jesus

sassysure:
The problem is that our men carry naija mentality go obodo oyibo.
In nigeria, it's very common to see a wife that goes to work at the same time with husband ( let's forget children for now),once they are back from work, husband will retire and leave the super human to cook, clean and wash.
Some will boil water too and set for his bath. After this, if she is unlucky to have married a beast in the bedroom that's how he will arrange her body in the name of love making.
That is the qualification of good wife. Once u protest, the exposure has corrupted your mind.
I wonder why they don't marry Nigerians born there.
Cos they know they can't meet up as nobody is ready to worship anybody.
Go to nigeria and see how men abuse their wives. More than 50% of the ever smiling ladies u see in churches are living in marital abuse.
The system is so patriarchal.

our shawarma and every weekend icm ladies are abused our women in naija are pampered depends on where u are on the social circle

At least, 10 Nigerian women – eight of them nurses – have been bumped off in the US by their partners between 2006 and 2016. They were either shot, stabbed or bludgeoned to death, according to US-based reports.

I don't wish to sound insensitive but 10 women killed in a space of 10 years with millions of Nigerian families in the USA is hardly of any statistical significance.
This is being over flogged bikonu
What reasons will they give for the tens of thousands of women that are maimed in various ways including acid pouring in Nigeria and the thousands bludgeoned to death in the same time period by their husbands right there in Nigeria?

i talk am! western society is decadent.

thebosstrevor:


Misorgyny is common everywhere and not prone to Africans,what about the indians,pakistans

i hate it when i hear leave your African mentality at home,it is not right.it shows inferiority complex.

there are many good African men here in Africa,taking care of their family.Our women are problematic,i have seen this with friends sisters and every women i encounter,the mentality of entitlement is just alarming.we blame the men for all problems forgetting that our mum train the men,what about the women,are they saint big No,they are the cause of most domentic violence,that is why many Nigerian men will prefer foreigners than Nigerian women

This is a problem also in the African-american community.Many black men prefer marrying the other race than a black women,i think,our women also need to check themselves.

You have spoken well Brother. I met an Asian colleague who told me she is married to an African. She is from Thailand. This lady commutes by train for over an hour, comes back home and still cook for the husband. She complained with a smile,laughed said she is a proper wife. She was complaining about commuting to work and not the husband. She had to be with the husband because he is schooling and that automatically means she is footing the bills at home. Apparently, it seems she enjoys being a wife and that’s the Asian culture. Also, the Indians are known for this. My other Indian colleague said she wants to learn Salsa but the husband is not interested so she cannot proceed unless the husband gives her permission.

Back to our African sisters - very quick to copy bad things. The west have not culture so you can permit them to act wayward. However, when someone ditches their culture and copy people without culture, is that person not mad! This is what our African women are doing now. There is a total break down of family values in America and this is as a result of the State determining what happens in the family. Other communities in America are thriving. The Chinese are thriving, the Indians are thriving, same with the Pakistanis, because they maintain their customs and culture. Nigerians and Africans are busy trying to throw away their identity and seek commendation from the white man.

In cases where infidelity is established, the woman reserves the right to file for divorce.

But some women are so deep in poverty, both of the mind and otherwise that they see marriage as a poverty alleviation programme. Marrying any woman is a risk in itself, foreign or from home. If you're in the USA, you know the law is skewed in her favour, you need to wise up. Invest some money back home, as much as you can, bring members from your own family over. Most times it's the absence of family to talk sense before the issue escalates that leads to ugly divorce cases.

I think finance plays a role in all this.

The lesson whether in Nigeria or America is this

Women please keep away from underachieving men with violent tendencies.
They are a ticking time bomb
A man without his "nma nwoke" has low esteem,anything can set him off

Yankee101:
Free service notice...
1. Don't take any Nigerian lady to the United States.
2. Naija men don suffer for naija women hand.
3. You train them, take them to school, take student loans for them and run credit card debts but they end up running away
4. They sometimes set naija men up by lying you hit them. 
5. The court here respects children, women, old people and men come last.
6. She'll take your house, car(s) and alimony/child support (till kids become 18)
7. Naija women here instigate new comer naija women on how to clean you out. Especially the naija community in Texas. These women sleep around and leave you in debt
8. If you must bring a woman let her have as much money as yourself (or more). Ensure her assets are within US jurisdiction not in naija so that if she goes to court, worse case everybody go hold im money. Simple

Marry African girls like Kenyans. They will worship you. Naija women never, ever appreciate anything. A man does not mind taking care of his wife and all the bills for 10 years. But if a naija woman pays the bills for just 6months you don become lazy man.

There are exceptions. But because they are rare I no fit advice you to try am. Even if she claim say she born again no trust am. That's just her word.

Save yourself from had I known abeg. 

If you fit marry white lady. She go clean you if una separate but she go contribute equally. So no lele.

The naija women here just dey dey wait for who to advice on how to clean their man....especially all these nurses.

Bro thank you for this lecture. Abeg If u dey naija I fit buy u 3beers next weekend? U too gbaski

No wonder oyinbo men no dey like work,they rather baby sit,honestly I think now I understand,dont know why a man will work hard for his money only to loose it to one stupid,greedy Nigerian babe...I think most guys always see the signs but rather ignore..how can a man of 45 marry a lady of 23 and you expect her to stay with you when she get oversees...
A friend told me that his dad wants to remarry,I asked how old is the girl,he said 25 ,I then asked how old is your dad,he said 55 ,I laughed and was like is he planning to take her overseas when they marry?he said yes...I told him your dad is on his own,the babe is only loyal because she is looking for every opportunity to leave the country. Which Nigerian babe will marry an old man? I saidbetter advice your dad...my dear if I tell u guys what happned last month between them overseas u will be amused..

Boss13:


The problem actually is the men. The men refuse to organize and ensure fairness. There is a silent gender war going on in the West. Feminist are slowing suppressing men and they would succeed because Western men are weak.

Thank you my friend. you just said the perfect truth. I could remember one time a man posted online about his babe destroying his new Audi car screen because he dumped her. The nigga was busy laughing and video-taping the babe. He later joked that he does not know that his dick is damned good for a lady to break his new car screen. The idiot forgot that, the said lady committed a violent act. We men overlooks a lot of things and it will seriously hunt us back either this our generation or next. Just check the rate of cheating married women know and judge for yourself. I remember when the females were crying on us about this cheating thing but we were forming alpha males. Now, they don't even feel guilty or remorse anymore no matter the kind of crime they committed. We need to retract our step before we all fall off the cliff. Just conduct DNA test now and close your eyes with shame. In America now, you cheat on your wife, you leave the house for her. She still cheats on you, you will be the one to leave your house also for her. I just don't understand again.

Boss13:


You have spoken well Brother. I met an Asian colleague who told me she is married to an African. She is from Thailand. This lady commutes by train for over a hour, comes back home and still cook for the husband. She complained with a smile,laughed said she is a proper wife. She was complaining about commuting to work and not the husband. She had to be with the husband because he is schooling and that automatically means she is footing the bills at home. Apparently, it seems she enjoys being a wife and that’s the Asian culture. Also, the Indians are known for this. My other Indian colleague said she wants to learn Salsa but the husband is not interested so she cannot proceed unless the husband gives her permission.

Back to our African sisters - very quick to copy bad things. The west have not culture so you can permit them to act wayward. However, when someone ditches their culture and copy people without culture, is that person not mad! This is what our African women are doing now.

i like what you wrote down but me personally i wont encourage a woman of any race footing my bills,it brings disrespect after.i believe in supporting each other.Anyway,i love being the provider.

Boss13:


You are very very stupid. Let me give you some history lessons. Right up to 30s, white women were not allowed to work. They were house wives or even trophy wives. The workplace in the West was predominantly men. Later, during the civil right match and in order not to create too many distortions and to water down the black movement, congress signed the equal right bill to allow reduce wage disparity between men and women in the workplace. The next thing white women came up again with domestic violence issues. Now it is sexual harassment. The question is why is the white woman fighting their men - they lack culture or custom. They do not understand their role as women. They are confused.

If you like continue to be influenced by people without culture, identity or custom and lose your own identity. It is not a demand for a woman to respect the husband, it is an African tradition and even found in the Bible, that you people revered so much.

If you look at every successful home or marriage, you would see where both parties understood their role. There was no power struggle. The woman understands her husband, respects the husband and in turn the man shows love to the wife, provides for the family and protect the family. On the other hand, look at broken homes, most of the time, the women are the instigators. They want to be the man in the home. They disrespect their husband. They don’t know their role in their home. Ironically, these women are incapable of acting the same way at the workplace. It’s quite unfortunate that many african women want to be equals with their husband. You cannot have two captains in a ship. You are definitely going to have a shipwreck.

I understand you, but, I live outside nigeria too, not in the US but Gabon, many brothers put money and ego first in everything, that is why, Jesus said if you humble yourself, God will elevate you, but if you do high skin, you will be thrown down, brothers who push wheel barrow in The market will tell their prospective bride in Nigeria that they are working in one big company in Gabon, then marry the girl bring her over then she will discover that she was lied to. Do you think the love will still be there? No! By humbling themselves they will be weeding out the wheat from the chaff. This is what these brothers do not know.

Boss13:


Are you minding them! The inferiority complex is huge. How can a dog behave like a cat. Why should an African man behave like a western man. Same goes for African women. Even western men are running away from western women because feminism has destroyed the family system. This is what our women are copying. They ignore the strong family values we have in Africa and start copying stupidity. The Asians or even the Indians will never succumb to such stupidity it is only black people.

Western men are running away from Western women? Only a minority of all marriages in the West are inter-racial. It is miniscule.

It’s not just Nigerian women. African women in general. I watched on YouTube where a Zimbabwean man did a live YouTube video where he drank poison because his wife destroyed his life. The man died. Later some Zimbabweans were saying he used to beat the wife. A wife he took to London at age 16 accused him of domestic violence and injuries she inflicted on herself. Karma is watching and waiting for all you wicked African women

Can you prove it?

I love this type of thread.

Wonderful discussions going on.

Don't be silly. If you must marry a woman, sign a pre nup! You can decide what kind of life you want to live with her and basis for separation.

Yankee101:
Free service notice...
1. Don't take any Nigerian lady to the United States.
2. Naija men don suffer for naija women hand.
3. You train them, take them to school, take student loans for them and run credit card debts but they end up running away
4. They sometimes set naija men up by lying you hit them. 
5. The court here respects children, women, old people and men come last.
6. She'll take your house, car(s) and alimony/child support (till kids become 18)
7. Naija women here instigate new comer naija women on how to clean you out. Especially the naija community in Texas. These women sleep around and leave you in debt
8. If you must bring a woman let her have as much money as yourself (or more). Ensure her assets are within US jurisdiction not in naija so that if she goes to court, worse case everybody go hold im money. Simple

Marry African girls like Kenyans. They will worship you. Naija women never, ever appreciate anything. A man does not mind taking care of his wife and all the bills for 10 years. But if a naija woman pays the bills for just 6months you don become lazy man.

There are exceptions. But because they are rare I no fit advice you to try am. Even if she claim say she born again no trust am. That's just her word.

Save yourself from had I known abeg. 

If you fit marry white lady. She go clean you if una separate but she go contribute equally. So no lele.

The naija women here just dey dey wait for who to advice on how to clean their man....especially all these nurses.

I know of a guy 20years + in America who's wife wrecked him. She took everything. The guy said it was small thing left that her lawyer almost asked him for his dreams that they wanted that too.

The guy relocated back to naija and is happy.for it

sassysure:

What is the meaning of this.
Thousands,no,millions rape their wives daily.
Fear factor and tradition shut them up.
Men believe that once u are married to them u have no right over your body. I blame the bible for this stupid ideology.
A woman's body and mechanism is so differently wired than men. No matter how a woman love sex and has a high libido, nature has made it that sometimes she will not be ready for action or too tired as lovemaking is an art to women. But most of our guys don't respect such time. If u insist u don't want, u will be forced. Some do beat their wives to submission.

Rape of the wife. I find it hard to comprehend bit it's true. I've heard an uncle one day who was high and said right in front of me that his wife says he raped her.

I was flabbergasted. He was a traditional man so I get where he was coming from but these days I also understand the way the world works.

Only two types of men rape thier wives The religiously pious men and the broke men.

C.c dreality

lonelydora:
No place like home. Whether good or bad, we will survive in Nigeria

abi... I must to make it in naija

sassysure:
The problem is that our men carry naija mentality go obodo oyibo.
In nigeria, it's very common to see a wife that goes to work at the same time with husband ( let's forget children for now),once they are back from work, husband will retire and leave the super human to cook, clean and wash.
Some will boil water too and set for his bath. After this, if she is unlucky to have married a beast in the bedroom that's how he will arrange her body in the name of love making.
That is the qualification of good wife. Once u protest, the exposure has corrupted your mind.
I wonder why they don't marry Nigerians born there.
Cos they know they can't meet up as nobody is ready to worship anybody.
Go to nigeria and see how men abuse their wives. More than 50% of the ever smiling ladies u see in churches are living in marital abuse.
The system is so patriarchal.

Yeah right. Yet they are many wives living on Island that do no work. All they do is sit at home all day and take care of the baby. Can they do that in the U. S. Or the ones that wait for their husband to make money so he can buy them the latest Toyota. Yet you Nigerians see all those behaviors as normal and don't complain of patriarchy then. The opposite of patriarchy is that all women will become like Chimamanda who is gradually losing it. Just say you want to do anything that involves too much stress and see how the women in the group will step behind and say "that is a man's job" or "let the men do it"

GogobiriLalas:
Moral of the story, if you don't want to eff up your life, don't wed a Westernized woman of any race and NEVER move your African wife/family into a Western country...you are guaranteed to regret it....hypergamy floats

So how do you want the Naija guy in Yankee to marry? If he can't marry a westernize person or bring a woman abroad.. be like say too muh masturbation dey disturb your brain

GogobiriLalas:
If they have become one flesh...how is it possible to rape her...can a man rape himself?

till date am still confused on this topic

How can material things or broken heart justify taking a life? By doing so the man completely destroys himself, the victim and the children if they have any. The problem sometimes boils down to arranged marriages, men leaving their place of abode to go and marry women they don't know anything. Mostly timid but aspiring women that capitalize on the ample opportunities in their new found world to better their lives and as soon as they do so, their choices in life changes. Which is understandable and if you are not able to keep up as the alpha male, you become a bore to them. Smart guys get the message and move on, instead of letting it destroy them.No woman is worth dying, except, of course, a good mother or sister.

You are better off marrying a stripper you met in a strip club than marrying a woman for the sake of obedience or for the need for the proper housewife that cooks and cleans like a servant.

HsLBroker:
I will read after church

I finished it thank you lord