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generalbush:
You haven't countered any of my points. You are asking further questions.

Establish an argument, turn it into a fact with points.

But to ride on your own lane.

Conditional or unconditional, you said there was nothing like TRUE LOVE.

From my stories, the recipients of such love never got a chance to pay them back - good or bad.

Now answer your question.

Conditional or unconditional Love?

Conditional.

IamD18:
Below.



I supposed you mean love of Mother-Child.

They are conditions surrounding her act of saving her child.

The love of parents to their kids v'got to do with conditions. A mother won't sacrifice for a son who once attempted to kill her.

A Mother won't love a bad child, no matter what.

Love of most parents depends on the behavior of their kids.

Truth is; Don't see it that your Aunt loves her child because there are behaviors the very child will start exhibiting, she'll never sacrifice for her.




This boils down to my initial explanations.

He will never do that, if he was a bad child.




Self-love is selfishness.

Right or wrong?

If he was a bad child... . So the child was perfect?

Now you are bringing your own mentality into play.

So what if I told you that the boy was stubborn and a criminal, yet the father chose not to give up his son's location? - conditional love right? . Let me guess, cus he would enjoy the money in his grave.


Our only problem is that you are using words without placing them correctly.

IamD18:
Conditional.

Support with points.

Has any action ever been carried out without a reason?

Just answer the bolded - nothing much.

generalbush:
You know Google search is actually free.

I LOVE you and I did it for you unconditionally - without expecting rewards.

Read the image below.

Goodnight.

Definition without backups.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fighting-fear/201405/unconditionalconditional-love


https://www.parentingforsocialchange.com/conditional-love-html/

Read and learn, do your searching well.

Smh!

generalbush:
If he was a bad child... . So the child was perfect?

Now you are bringing your own mentality into play.

So what if I told you that the boy was stubborn and a criminal, yet the father chose not to give up his son's location? - conditional love right? . Let me guess, cus he would enjoy the money in his grave.


Our only problem is that you are using words without placing them correctly.

I still maintain my statement. Unconditionally love doesn't exist.

No, tell me the boy shot his dad and threatened to kill her and she still sacrificed for him.

How about that?

IamD18:
Definition without backups.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fighting-fear/201405/unconditionalconditional-love


https://www.parentingforsocialchange.com/conditional-love-html/

Read and learn, do your searching well.

Smh!

Drop points and explain them. It isn't difficult. You said Unconditional love isn't true love, I disputed with a clear definition of unconditional love.

Now what is the link for?

Explain your points - that is how to stake your claims.

Now go back and do it.

IamD18:
I still maintain my statement. Unconditionally love doesn't exist.

No, tell me the boy shot his dad and threatened to kill her and she still sacrificed for him.

How about that?

Yes he has done it before, because it was a normal scenario in the environment.

What do you have to say?

generalbush:
Support with points.
Has any action ever been carried out without a reason?
Just answer the bolded - nothing much.

You asked about "Self-Love".
I gave a simple statement, and you are yet to agree or counter it


Self-Love is selfishness. Right or wrong?

IamD18:
You don't even have a real love for yourself, let alone another person.

This was your post. You said I don't love myself, and I said "Prove to me"

Is that difficult?

IamD18:
You asked about "Self-Love".

I gave a simple statement, and you are yet to agree or counter it



Self-Love is selfishness. Right or wrong?

Prove to me "I don't love myself"

Hmmm...these kinds of stuff lead to heartbreak. All 6 are basic points covered by a player...and I can add even more ehmmm...player basics that a babe will interpret as true love....guy is never rude...always understanding...never gets angry... always be calling to make sure babe is ok and letting her know she is always on his mind.... until after a few romps and the guy is moving on....everything changes...in fact the guy is always busy...unavailable! These points may work for ehmmm...other people...not Blacks period.

smh. I hope you don't fill up my mentions when I am already asleep.

Guten nate

generalbush:
Drop points and explain them. It isn't difficult. You said Unconditional love isn't true love, I disputed with a clear definition of unconditional love.

Now what is the link for?

Explain your points - that is how to stake your claims.

Now go back and do it.

You can play fools, not me.

You first disputed my statement with "Getting a babe". Right or wrong?

You now deflected to Mother-Child Yha smart.

Until you prove unconditional love to me with a general illustrations and example just like that Google definition, I won't prove shiiiit to you.

The link- I wanted you to read a statement there, but you couldn't attempt reading it out of your ignorance.

The statement ; But there is a point beyond which even the most committed parent cannot go.


Furthermore; God's love is conditional.

generalbush:
This was your post. You said I don't love myself, and I said "Prove to me"
Is that difficult?



Prove to me "I don't love myself"

Self-love is selfishness, not true love.

Get that.

IamD18:
You can play fools, not me.

You first disputed my statement with "Getting a babe". Right or wrong?

You now deflected to Mother-Child Yha smart.

Until you prove unconditional love to me with a general illustrations and example just like that Google definition, I won't prove shiiiit to you.

The link- I wanted you to read a statement there, but you couldn't attempt reading it out of your ignorance.

The statement ; But there is a point beyond which even the most committed parent cannot go.


Furthermore; God's love is conditional.

Someone thinks unconditional love is love shown without thinking or reasoning.

English sef!!!

Have you ever done anything without a thinking or without a reason?

I think yes - because probably you don't think.

Goodnight.

IamD18:
Self-love is selfishness, not true love.


Get that.

Un conditional Love = Love without conditions or negotiations. (In a lay man's term)

Meaning there might be a purpose, but I won't give him conditions.

So when I see you have an accident and I don't know you.

I pick you up, take you to the hospital, pay your bills and you get well.

I did it without conditions. People have done it and will keep doing it.

generalbush:
Someone thinks unconditional love is love shown without thinking.

English sef!!!

Have you ever done anything without a reason?

I think yes - because probably you don't think.

Goodnight.

The truth is bitter, it's hard to ignore.

How many times have you typed "Good night"

Yet my truth keep dragging you out.


God don't even love you unconditionally, who are you to love yourself unconditionally? Do you even know yourself?


Smh! Keep deceiving yourself with love.

We know wia una type de end

generalbush:
Someone thinks unconditional love is love shown without thinking or reasoning.

English sef!!!

Have you ever done anything without a thinking or without a reason?

I think yes - because probably you don't think.

Goodnight.

Keep modifying
Keep struggling to make a point
Keep up with your illusions



Smh.

IamD18:
[s]The truth is bitter, it's hard to ignore.[/s]

How many times have you typed "Good night"

Yet my truth keep dragging you out.


God don't even love you unconditionally, who are you to love yourself unconditionally? Do you even know yourself?


Smh! Keep deceiving yourself with love.

We know wia una type de end

Trying to sound smart wen you aren't making sense is conditional love to yourself.

It is called self-deceit.

generalbush:
Un conditional Love = Love without conditions or negotiations. (In a lay man's term)

Meaning there might be a purpose, but I won't give him conditions.

So when I see you have an accident and I don't know you.

I pick you up, take you to the hospital, pay your bills and you get well.

I did it without conditions. People have done it and will keep doing it.

Self-love is selfishness. Prove it wrong and stop deflecting.



Do it.

IamD18:
Keep modifying
Keep struggling to make a point
Keep up with your illusions



Smh.

Explaining how to derive "Almighty Formula" in Maths to a layman is harder than having sex with a flaccid dick.

Reason for my many modifications. - just to make you understand.

generalbush:
Trying to sound smart wen you aren't making sense is conditional love to yourself.

It is called self-deceit.

>God's love isn't unconditional and for that, you are a nobody to pretend loving unconditionally.

generalbush:
[s] Explaining how to derive "Almighty Formula" in Maths to a layman is harder than having sex with a flaccid dick.

Reason for my many modifications. - just to make you understand. [/s]

When you are yet to understand a simple statement.

IamD18:
Self-love is selfishness. Prove it wrong and stop deflecting.



Do it.

So I love myself, bath, buy clothes for myself, buy a nice ride, get a good house.

Is it selfishness?

Meanwhile, I give money to beggars, support people, teach people English - like I am doing now instead of sleeping ,

Train my younger ones, employ people to work and pay them

I wonder if we are having English tutorials here or you don't know the meaning of selfishness.

It baffles me!

generalbush:
So I love myself, bath, buy clothes for myself, buy a nice ride, get a good house.

Is it selfishness?

Meanwhile, I give money to beggars, support people, teach people English - like I am doing now instead of sleeping ,

Train my younger ones, employ people to work and pay them

I wonder if we are having English tutorials here or you don't know the meaning of selfishness.

It baffles me!

You are gradually making a fool out of yourself.

You bath yourself, buy goods clothes, buy cars and all.

They are all conditional, you did it to benefit.


Oboy, try get sense abeg

Train your young ones, employ workers, gift beggars.

They are all conditional.


Which can soiled brain be dis abeg

IamD18:
>God's love isn't unconditional and for that, you are a nobody to pretend loving unconditionally.

For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son. That whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life.

Christ died so that you won't go to hell (His reason)

Hell is a place you fear and dread (Which God gave you an escape route)

So if his love was conditional, it would imply that (He died for us just to make sure that we keep paying him monthly)

What if the condition for the love favours you?

Think bro!

If you have an accident, and I save your life. (The reason for saving you is to make sure that you complete school and be useful in life)

Is that a conditional love?

This guy sef!!

IamD18:
You are gradually making a fool out of yourself.

You bath yourself, buy goods clothes, buy cars and all.

They are all conditional, you did it to benefit.


Oboy, try get sense abeg

Train your young ones, employ workers, gift beggars.

They are all conditional.


Which can soiled brain be dis abeg

English is actually difficult.

If the condition of an action is for the benefit of the recipient, then should you call it a conditional love?

If I give a beggar money - what conditions am I attaching to it?

English isn't our language sha. I pardon you.

generalbush:
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son. That whoever believes in him should not perish but have everlasting life.

Christ died so that you won't go to hell (His reason)

Hell is a place you fear and dread (Which God gave you an escape route)

So if his love was conditional, it would imply that (He died for us just to make sure that we keep paying him monthly)

What if the condition for the love favours you?

Think bro!

If you have an accident, and I save your life. (The reason for saving you is to make sure that you complete school and be useful in life)

Is that a conditional love?

This guy sef!!

A man who gave you rules to get his love don't love you unconditionally.

Stop deceiving yourself with bible verses. Can you even backup that claim without referencing the bible

IamD18:
A man who gave you rules to get his love don't love you unconditionally.

Stop deceiving yourself with bible verses. Can you even backup that claim without referencing the bible

Joke on you. You brought the Bible. Did Jesus die to give you rules? . Bible you no sabi too...

If I gift a beggar money, is it conditional or unconditional?

If I see a little boy begging for food, and I feed him, what is it called?

Last time I helped a woman push her car out of the ditch in the rain, and rejected her money, what kinda love is that? probably I want to fvck her. . I didn't also collect her number.

Emancipate yourself from your romance section shackles. It makes you a joke sometimes.

Kweenuwa:
Love is blind, love is sweet, love is beautiful but a lot of us keep our guard up until we’re sure he feels a certain way in order to keep from getting hurt. As the saying goes, before you fall in love make sure there is someone there to catch you. A lot of us have ideas of what love should be and how it should feel but most times these ideas are wrong, because of that some of us might not realize the real thing when it comes our way, the point is love is a tricky thing.

How do you know if a guy really loves you?lets find out.


1. THE WAY HE LOOKS AT YOU.

He looks at you like he can’t believe you really exist. He may even come out to tell you,”i can’t believe someone like you exists”,its marked by a certain serenity,and inner calm. i bet you this one its really sure.

2.YOUR HAPPINESS IS AS IMPORTANT TO HIM AS HIS.

When you really love someone their happiness is your priority, its especially true for guys who think they can make a lady happy.A guy who loves you will always avoid the things that make you unhappy, if you tell him that something make you unhappy and he keeps doing it then this is not a sign that he loves you.

3.HE JUST LOVE GIVING YOU.

Real love is about giving not taking, when you love someone, you want to give that person everything you have. This isn’t about material possessions. You want to do things for them that will make them happy.

[s]4. HE TREATS YOU LIKE A PRIORITY.

When a guy loves you, he will make spending time with you a priority. And if he really doesn’t have time, He will make sure to let you know when he will. When a guy loves you,you are the most important person in his life and he make to carve out a place for you.[/s]

5.HE REALLY SEES YOU.

He notices things about you that other don’t, maybe he even sees things that you don’t. he notices how you control your emotions, how you interact with others, how your mind works, how you express yourself .He pays attention to all the little details and he remembers them.[the good and bad].

6. HE MISSES YOU WHEN YOU ARE APART



http://medfort.com.ng/how-do-you-know-if-a-guy-really-loves-youlets-find-out/

No intelligent man will make a woman his priority.

Think straight before typing like a villager.

generalbush:
English is actually difficult.

If the condition of an action is for the benefit of the recipient, then should you call it a conditional love?

If I give a beggar money - what conditions am I attaching to it?

English isn't our language sha. I pardon you.

This guy dn finish finally?

Yes! You did to benefit, so it's conditional.

How about fornication? You did to benefit yourself. Is that unconditionally love aswell?


Gifting a beggar is care.

generalbush:
[s] Joke on you. You brought the Bible. Did Jesus die to give you rules? . Bible you no sabi too...

If I gift a beggar money, is it conditional or unconditional?

If I see a little boy begging for food, and I feed him, what is it called?

Last time I helped a woman push her car out of the ditch in the rain, and rejected her money, what kinda love is that? probably I want to fvck her. . I didn't also collect her number.

Emancipate yourself from your romance section shackles. It makes you a joke sometimes.
[/s]

All I see is someone trying to deflect

Epistle with zero point.


God gave you rules to make heaven. True or False?


Answer that.

IamD18:
This guy dn finish finally?

Yes! You did to benefit, so it's conditional.

[s]How about fornication? You did to benefit yourself. Is that unconditionally love aswell?[/s] Not a valid point.


Gifting a beggars is care.

Benefit who? - reason I said we are struggling with your proficiency in English here.

conditional love is when you try to show love for your own benefit!!!

so you can give unconditional care but can't love unconditionally?

So how do you defend the term that love is in the action?