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Space for me

If you like do more than this
A man that will stay, will stay
A man that will cheat, will cheat.

Commitment is very very important.

1. Understanding 2. Understanding 3. Understanding 4. Understanding 5. Understanding
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ubunja:
cook, kneel to serve food and respect me im good.
oh and better you open those legs. no excuses or you'll get fired.

100% respect abi

No sex ?? Ha! This list is not complete

So he wants attention and space... and they say women are confused

We desire all that too

F.v.ck and respect

U think men don't desire SEX?

Tallesty1:
The topic is marriage oga not master/slave arrangement.

You must be new here, you have missed all the misogynistic threads of incels keeping it real

so on point

But most men are disrespectful...
How do you cheat on a girlfriend and still expect respect in return?

Mine: Godly, faithful n given attention..

Mennh I hate woman dat lies. My most turning point.

jessca048:
for real you mean you are going to watch your woman kneel while serving you food,that's modern day slavery biko

u are too fat

Understanding, selflessness and True love are the keys







































Make sure you have money for these things to work.








P.S- I mean money enough to give you and your family comfortable lives. Don't come and tell me about Churchill vs Tonto or Teebillz vs Tiwa and co

Respect Issa sure thing

Ivanmykel:
We desire all that too

Noo women do not desire anything, they were created to fulfill the desires of men both eediots and sane.
As long as he has a penis don't expect Nada from him.

Uniquetani1:
If you like do more than this A man that will stay, will stay A man that will cheat, will cheat.

only if u have a bad attitude....
A bad attitude trumps almost all of ur oda virtues..
dnt b using dis excuse to b lazy..

Loyalty, Respect. From these come fidelity. A man who sees these gets rest of mind, and has time to love you.

Tallesty1:
The topic is marriage oga not master/slave arrangement.

or bondage sex

Good points......

In my own case currently, i noticed abit of non-commitment from her, i just reduced my own commitment level while looking out for alternative.....My observation shows something strong is distracting her and i'm not interesting in long stories

millionboi2:
u are too fat

one man's meat is another poison.... she looks beautiful

Tallesty1:
The topic is marriage oga not master/slave arrangement.

Abeg make I no piss for body because of laughter.

yeyerolling:
Humans dont know wat they want abeg. i used to date students i got tired of them taxing me, i said na working class go better. i enter working class i saw mostly strong willed women who dont tax me but would not say yes every time to me unlike the students, i pick race again. abeg we dont know wat we want

You do know there are serial killers right? That doesn't mean every human is one. Jus cuz ur clueless with what you want doesn't mean everyone is

But wait, how can one person want attention and space?
Mood swing much?

harrwix:
one man's meat is another poison.... she looks beautiful

from far

Get close and see

Mowunmiaf:
Do you know men desire some key things in a relationship. Most times, women love to be at the receiving end, they always crave attention, love and all the most unimaginable things you think of. But the truth is this; men desire love, they desire everything ladies also crave.

Men often find it tasking voicing out and they pretend it’s all cool till they are caught cheating. Let’s get things straight in our relationships, put an end to pointless dramas and give all our best to the man we claim to love.

Here are 5 Key things men desire in a relationship

RESPECT
Men seek respect, regardless of the age, status, financial capability, height or whatever. Men believe strongly in their ego; they don’t want a lady to trample on their rights as men. A man sees a rude lady as a

COMMITMENT
As long as your mind is made up to go into any relationship, your commitment level should be high. Men want to feel you are interested in all that concerns them, the moment a man feels his lady is not committed, he starts to have doubts in her and get distracted. Men love commitment over any factor. They want you committed to the relationship like it means so much to you.

ATTENTION
This has been the bone of contention in many relationships, men don’t really care if you are busy or not, they just need attention from you. It gives them a sense of belonging. Men assume a lot, so it I best you give them your time. Your work or business should not be the reason for lack of attention, create time for your man and make him feel loved.

SPACE
Men hate to feel monitored, disturbed or suffocated. No matter how much a man likes you, he doesn’t want you sniffing around him. Yes, give him attention, love and care, but space is also needed. Men feel unsecured when you try to be all over them, especially when they are with friends. Let your man live, breathe, move around, have fun peacefully. Don’t ever try to make him feel you don’t trust him enough; men get irritated when a lady becomes unnecessarily nosy. Give him space when it is needed, he is a man, not some kind of police dog.

Source: http://aftrending.com/5-key-things-men-desire-in-a-relationship/

Yes, on paper, this looks like what men need. But sorry, this doesn't apply in the real sense. Most men will have all these and still want more.

I don't think it's a question of what the generality of men want. Individual difference comes in here. I think the basic thing, which most people no longer believe in is the KEY. Love. When you love a woman, you will be patient to teach her your ways. And it must be reciprocative in nature because if she loves you in return, she would respectfully do your bidding with love.
All that the list create is confusion because you tend to engrave that in your mind as you search (or screen as the case may be) for that woman to treat you well. There are very bad women, just as we have bad men and if everyone begin to go around with a list of ''Must have qualities'', marriage as an institution may cease to be.
Love her, respect her and treat her well. Not all the bad ones will change right away but gradually, you'd see improvement.
That's just my opinion, not necessarily correct.

What I want is a pretty b!tch with an attitude, break them down and they usually worth having, I'm not the type to get scared by a little fire, I play with it.

[quote author=ubunja post=68451899]it is.
if she cant kneel to serve food then i cant defend her with my life against evil men. if she cant be my slave then i cant be her Sacrificial Lamb. if robbers enter house i fold my hands. no one is dying for anyone.
i cant die for someone too proud to kneel and serve me food.[/quote
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