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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fatiah(f): 8:51pm On Jun 20, 2018
Rukitop:

Thanks dearie, that's what the doctor told me, however my HSG result shows everything is normal.
I'm just worried, it's been 18months already. embarassed

Uw! That's good! Thank God the result is normal. From your history, the fact that u cycle is regular and u usually have d signs of ovulation, I doubt u have any issues with ovulating but notwithstanding, have u done any hormonal profile test and/or Day 21 Progesterone test? If all the above are normal, then ur hubby should go for SFA test if he hasn't done so. In d meantime u can get supplement that contains folic acid, zinc, Vit Bco, Vit E and omega3 which are known to boosts fertility

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulchristy: 8:51pm On Jun 20, 2018
omalichay:
How does one cope with being jealous of others pregnancy or baby.or cope with inferiority complex when in d midst of women with children.being ttc for 4 years

omalichay:
How does one cope with being jealous of others pregnancy or baby.or cope with inferiority complex when in d midst of women with children.being ttc for 4 years

Hello mama, I understand the feel, especially if you are the only one ttcing among your friends.

I remember my former place of work, every lady that got married after me already had at least a kid and when we have cause to sit together, they don't talk about anything else apart from their kids; I just sit their and smile and say 'wow', 'really' 'did your baby actually say that?, 'that's serious! ' etc. And then they go "don't worry, when you have yours, you'll understand" and I just roll my eyes inwardly. At a point, I felt they were doing it on purpose but I had to tell myself not to think like that and just assume they are just being insensitive and immature. What I do is to avoid sitting for long in a group with them so as not to get caught up in the kids' gist to avoid any awkward moment. I don't envy them or feel inferior to them. Initially, I was feeling intimidated but I sat myself down one day and lectured myself. My journey is different from theirs and the fact that they have kids before me doesn't mean I'll not have mine or that their kids will be better than mine. Far from it!

In fact, one day I was very disturbed about ttc and was thinking about all I've gone through. Do you know what came to my heart? When a palm tree is planted, it doesn't start producing fruits immediately, it goes deeper into the ground until it is firmly established and by the time it starts producing, it's generational. So if God is dealing with me as a palm tree, then so be it cos when I start bringing forth my fruits, they definitely will be might generations.

So my sister, just be happy for them and have faith that God that is cooking is still in the kitchen and He will bring out golden children from your womb. Don't feel intimidated or inferior by their motherhood status. They have theirs and you definitely will have yours too.

Sooooo sorry for the long post

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulchristy: 8:59pm On Jun 20, 2018
Hello mama, I understand the feel, especially if you are the only one ttcing among your friends.

I remember my former place of work, every lady that got married after me already had at least a kid and when we have cause to sit together, they don't talk about anything else apart from their kids; I just sit their and smile and say 'wow', 'really' 'did your baby actually say that?, 'that's serious! ' etc. And then they go "don't worry, when you have yours, you'll understand" and I just roll my eyes inwardly. At a point, I felt they were doing it on purpose but I had to tell myself not to think like that and just assume they are just being insensitive and immature. What I do is to avoid sitting for long in a group with them so as not to get caught up in the kids' gist to avoid any awkward moment. I don't envy them or feel inferior to them. Initially, I was feeling intimidated but I sat myself down one day and lectured myself. My journey is different from theirs and the fact that they have kids before me doesn't mean I'll not have mine or that their kids will be better than mine. Far from it!

In fact, one day I was very disturbed about ttc and was thinking about all I've gone through. Do you know what came to my heart? When a palm tree is planted, it doesn't start producing fruits immediately, it goes deeper into the ground until it is firmly established and by the time it starts producing, it's generational. So if God is dealing with me as a palm tree, then so be it cos when I start bringing forth my fruits, they definitely will be might generations.

So my sister, just be happy for them and have faith that God that is cooking is still in the kitchen and He will bring out golden children from your womb. Don't feel intimidated or inferior by their motherhood status. They have theirs and you definitely will have yours too.

Sooooo sorry for the long post

omalichay:
How does one cope with being jealous of others pregnancy or baby.or cope with inferiority complex when in d midst of women with children.being ttc for 4 years

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by miraclebaby: 7:56am On Jun 21, 2018
ananne:


Pleas is Lap...... Laparoscopy? If yes how much does it cost? Where can we do one?


I believe that if her tubes are free.... That all we need do is bring down the prolactin and try. I believe that if she is ovulating she will get pregnant.

Her fibroid don't give any symptoms. Aside the bulky part of her lower abdomen.... You won't know she has it.
The sizes are big from what your wrote. Even if she manage to take it, the fibroids may not allow baby stay. Go ahead to LUTH as you wish and decide with your doctor in the best step. Yes, I mean Laparoscopy. Cost depends on hospital and location. I paid 50k 2yrs ago when I did mine in the East. Don't know how much now.

I don't know how your doc said he could not see tubes from scan. No one can visualize fallopian tube on an ultrasound scan. That's why I asked if it was lap.

If HSG says both tubes are patent, then I'd go with it.

So in my opinion, meet another doctor before you conclude on surgery. But that doesn't stop her from taking her meds for the prolactin.

May God direct your steps to the right track

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by miraclebaby: 8:13am On Jun 21, 2018
Tripletwins222:


Thanks a lot mama. Did u use d drugs for fibroids or something else? Hope they worked for u? Learnt serra can be combined wt guifei bao also for effective results but guifei bao is too expensive. U also suggested to use with ACV and BSM, pls which of them is cost effective?
I used for a blocked tube which is free now after I confirmed with HSG early this year. Though I had small fibroids then but I cannot say if it worked or not as I still had one of roughly 3cm which has been same size before and after treatment but no small ones again as at my last scan. I was taking ACV and BSM for the fibroids, then added castor oil massage. At least no more menstrual pain ever since. I read good and bad of guifei bao. I got some but didn't use more than 2. I used about 3 clean point. Can't say if it worked as I didn't feel anything apart from the whitish discharge. I'd say if money is issue, go with ACV with castor oil massage.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by miraclebaby: 8:20am On Jun 21, 2018
Bossaanu:

Tanks for ur reply, d last scan i did b4 using serrap,vitex and guife bao it was 15mm
That's too small and can't hinder conception. It should not even cause any symptoms. You may stop vitex and continue with others
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by AjiDrey: 9:52am On Jun 21, 2018
i am sorry about what you and every other person going through this and i hope GOD meet you at the point of your needs. well incase anyone is still having this challenge, i might have a way to help, i am not saying i have the 100% solution but i think its worth the try. please call 07058150867

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by laurelbae(f): 10:35am On Jun 21, 2018
Geesucc:
Good morning everyone.. The Lord has finally remembered me oo.. Its a BFP. Join me to thank the Lord.. I will like to say dt this ttc journey is more spiritual than physical. Pls y'all should take your prayers seriously ooo it wasn't a small battle. But Satan lost . Go for deliverance (did mine at mfm prayer city) if u v not.. last month I started this fasting and prayer for 21days.. I prayed like never before (Mid night).. Ad rounded up this month.. The week I finished was the week I got my BFP. . Also I saw a post here on omega 369.. so I got a pack swissgrade product then added vit E, vit C, B6,folic acid, B12,Apple cider vinegar (I had abdominal fat and always felt blotted).. And I had huge tones of EWCM.. Bd only on day 12,13,14.. and that was all o.. Pls guys pray for me to carry to full term IJN.. Amen.. I pray that God will visit everyone here soonest with your various heart desires IJN Amennn.
Congratulations. U shall carry ur babies in Jesus mighty name Amen.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by fruitfulnathia(f): 10:48am On Jun 21, 2018
AjiDrey:
i am sorry about what you and every other person going through this and i hope GOD meet you at the point of your needs. well incase anyone is still having this challenge, i might have a way to help, i am not saying i have the 100% solution but i think its worth the try. please call 07058150867

bia mr man or Mrs woman pls if you HV any solution for us here pls spill it instead of this calling you privately. at least before we can call you privately tell us y we should. thanks.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by laurelbae(f): 10:58am On Jun 21, 2018
miraclebaby:
I used for a blocked tube which is free now after I confirmed with HSG early this year. Though I had small fibroids then but I cannot say if it worked or not as I still had one of roughly 3cm which has been same size before and after treatment but no small ones again as at my last scan. I was taking ACV and BSM for the fibroids, then added castor oil massage. At least no more menstrual pain ever since. I read good and bad of guifei bao. I got some but didn't use more than 2. I used about 3 clean point. Can't say if it worked as I didn't feel anything apart from the whitish discharge. I'd say if money is issue, go with ACV with castor oil massage.
Gudmorning ma
I appreciate your kind response.
Pls how can I use the ACV? A glass morning & night?
What's the procedure for castor oil massage?
Can Serapaptase be used in case of scar tissues?
Pls what's BSM?
Thank you.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Roseey0(f): 2:35pm On Jun 21, 2018
Bossaanu:

@ Rossey0 pls i need reply on dis.
Chat me up for BSM
For ACv

http://talesofakitchen.com/raw/homemade-organic-raw-apple-cider-vinegar/

Use handkerchief and rubber band to hold it firmly over the glass jar

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Roseey0(f): 2:44pm On Jun 21, 2018
Rukitop:

Thanks dearie, that's what the doctor told me, however my HSG result shows everything is normal.
I'm just worried, it's been 18months already. embarassed
Congratulations.
Just do your routine, add omega 3,6,9 and PRAYER
You will be fine Sis
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Roseey0(f): 2:56pm On Jun 21, 2018
laurelbae:
Gudmorning ma
I appreciate your kind response.
Pls how can I use the ACV? A glass morning & night?
What's the procedure for castor oil massage?
Can Serapaptase be used in case of scar tissues?
Pls what's BSM?
Thank you.
A teaspoon each of AcV and BsM in a glass of warm water 2-3times daily. First thing in the morning, last thing at night.

Search Castor oil massage on nairaland search engine. We have said alot about it and the procedure.

Serrapeptase chief work is to eat up scars and tumors.

BsM is blackstrap molasses

I hope this helps..

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Roseey0(f): 3:30pm On Jun 21, 2018
Roseey0:

Everything is fine.
For castor oil massage
Apply After AF till ovulation
You will bed during O so no need to do afterwards as you will be on your 2ww.I always massaged with CleanPoint herbal tampon inserted


As for how it is done.
In order not to waste your oil
Just take enough quantity and massage generously on your lower abdomen.
Cover with a flannel( Any absorbable light material)
Place a nylon over the flannel
Place a towel next is the hotness of the bottle is much. You can remove when the heat comes down a bit.
Then Place your Water bottle over( you must have filled your water bottle with hot water before now)Water bottle are sold in maternity shops , I bought mine in lagos traffic then.
Cover with a towel.
Careful so you don't burn yourself. Check the cover of water bottle well, ensure its not dropping any water when you lay it down.

I usually do mine towards bed time. It has a soothing effect. You may likely sleep off while at it.


I have been here since 2012
Baby Dust to everyone here
Amen



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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by omalichay: 4:14pm On Jun 21, 2018
@ fruitfulchristy thanks so much for ur kind response
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Tripletwins222: 7:11pm On Jun 21, 2018
miraclebaby:
I used for a blocked tube which is free now after I confirmed with HSG early this year. Though I had small fibroids then but I cannot say if it worked or not as I still had one of roughly 3cm which has been same size before and after treatment but no small ones again as at my last scan. I was taking ACV and BSM for the fibroids, then added castor oil massage. At least no more menstrual pain ever since. I read good and bad of guifei bao. I got some but didn't use more than 2. I used about 3 clean point. Can't say if it worked as I didn't feel anything apart from the whitish discharge. I'd say if money is issue, go with ACV with castor oil massage.

Thanks a lot for your detailed explanations dear. May God crown all our efforts to conceive with lovely children soonest in Jesus name, amen.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Mercy4us: 7:38pm On Jun 21, 2018
Geesucc:
Thanks dearie God will visit u sonnest.. I wasn't ovulating.. As for MFM, they run a deliverance programme week to week at prayer city.. Then they also have the weekend deliverance program for those working.. but this is just once in a month... if you r interested in the weekend deliverance u can contact me so I can tell u wen they fix the date for next month

Hello mama, I hope you bubbling with life in your new God-given state. I tried to contact you regarding the MFM prayer days but got no response. I have checked their website but I feel I still need some direction /information. Please contact me on mercy4us@yahoo.com. Thank you.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by MumJJJ(f): 8:03pm On Jun 21, 2018
nneejima:

Mama ori mma kpa, u still dey owe us WIDD
Sorry for the delay please, everyone.
So, my case was secondary infertility as I have a son. So, after a year of waiting to conceive every month when my son turned a year five months.
I decided to go seek medical help and also started researching about what might be wrong with us.
I went to FMC. the first test was hsg which came out fine, scan was also fine, no fibroid etc. then my husband went for sperm count and it was also OK. then I was sent to do hormonal profile and it came out that I wasn't ovulating I was surprised because I still have ovulation pain every month, though I noticed reduction in the amount of mucous I see during ovulation, unlike before.
I was placed on folic acid, and vitamin e( I have forgotten the unit) my husband was also placed on vitamin e. We took it for one month. Then was given clomid to start on day two of my period for five days and start follicular tracking on day10 (wrong advice ).
I went to Everight and booked my tracking on day1 since they said they can't do it at the FMC.
So, on the day10, I went for the first one, the guy after the tracking asked why I chose to start on day10 instead of day6 or day7 since some people have short cycle which I am among. He showed me two matured eggs that may pop within 12hours. I was lost, I asked him what I should do (because the ignorant doctor told me to come back on the fifth day of tracking and we shouldn't bd) ,he said my doctor should answer better. I asked for the result, he refused to print it because they don't release it till they are through. Rather, he gave me a note on what he observed.
I rushed to the hospital luckily it was my clinic day. I went to the consultant and explained everything and showed him the note. He said there is no need to continue with the tracking which I should have started earlier , they gave me 5000iu of hcg injection, he asked me to go home, start bd immediately and pray!
I went to the chapel pray and sowed seed with the amount of money it will take me to redo the tracking because I concluded with faith that it's over!
I missed my period, did home PT and got BFP. went for a scan and I saw two sacs!!!
I delivered my twin boys on 16th of July last year.
That God who saw me through and changed my name to mama Ejima , will do it for you reading my story!


I can never advice anybody to use govt hospital, unless there is financial issue because these tests are not cheap. Private is less stressful.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by awesomemrs: 8:32pm On Jun 21, 2018
Kindly help me look at this hormonal analysis result..

God bless you mamas

Cc: 2ballz

Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Cuppymummy: 2:02am On Jun 22, 2018
Geesucc:
Good morning everyone.. The Lord has finally remembered me oo.. Its a BFP. Join me to thank the Lord.. I will like to say dt this ttc journey is more spiritual than physical. Pls y'all should take your prayers seriously ooo it wasn't a small battle. But Satan lost . Go for deliverance (did mine at mfm prayer city) if u v not.. last month I started this fasting and prayer for 21days.. I prayed like never before (Mid night).. Ad rounded up this month.. The week I finished was the week I got my BFP. . Also I saw a post here on omega 369.. so I got a pack swissgrade product then added vit E, vit C, B6,folic acid, B12,Apple cider vinegar (I had abdominal fat and always felt blotted).. And I had huge tones of EWCM.. Bd only on day 12,13,14.. and that was all o.. Pls guys pray for me to carry to full term IJN.. Amen.. I pray that God will visit everyone here soonest with your various heart desires IJN Amennn.
Congratulations our dear Mama. God who began this good work in your life will bring it to perfection in Jesus's Name. Amen. Healthy and happy pregnancy and delivery to you!
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by shithapuns: 7:09am On Jun 22, 2018
Geesucc:
Good morning everyone.. The Lord has finally remembered me oo.. Its a BFP. Join me to thank the Lord.. I will like to say dt this ttc journey is more spiritual than physical. Pls y'all should take your prayers seriously ooo it wasn't a small battle. But Satan lost . Go for deliverance (did mine at mfm prayer city) if u v not.. last month I started this fasting and prayer for 21days.. I prayed like never before (Mid night).. Ad rounded up this month.. The week I finished was the week I got my BFP. . Also I saw a post here on omega 369.. so I got a pack swissgrade product then added vit E, vit C, B6,folic acid, B12,Apple cider vinegar (I had abdominal fat and always felt blotted).. And I had huge tones of EWCM.. Bd only on day 12,13,14.. and that was all o.. Pls guys pray for me to carry to full term IJN.. Amen.. I pray that God will visit everyone here soonest with your various heart desires IJN Amennn.

Gods name be praised!, congrats on your bfp.
did you take the omega 369 throut your cycle or you stoped at ovu?.
1tab a day or 2 tabs daily?

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by ananne: 8:17am On Jun 22, 2018
miraclebaby:

The sizes are big from what your wrote. Even if she manage to take it, the fibroids may not allow baby stay. Go ahead to LUTH as you wish and decide with your doctor in the best step. Yes, I mean Laparoscopy. Cost depends on hospital and location. I paid 50k 2yrs ago when I did mine in the East. Don't know how much now.

I don't know how your doc said he could not see tubes from scan. No one can visualize fallopian tube on an ultrasound scan. That's why I asked if it was lap.

Thanks for your response. She will see another gynaecologist at the luth. If they recommend surgery...


We will do it. I want it to be done by August so we can get over it.

If HSG says both tubes are patent, then I'd go with it.

So in my opinion, meet another doctor before you conclude on surgery. But that doesn't stop her from taking her meds for the prolactin.

May God direct your steps to the right track
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Starrybella: 9:21am On Jun 22, 2018
Congratulations MumJJJ on the birth of your twin boys, God is indeed wonderful. And thanks for sharing widd with us.
A big congratulations to Geesucc on your Bfp wishing you a healthy and happy nine months.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by lapagegirl(f): 11:40am On Jun 22, 2018
Good morning family. Mamas for some months now I feel pressure on my pelvic region down to my jajaina. It starts as from 7dpo, this come with painful breast pain. The pressure is like something is pulling it. Also I I experience increase in body temperature. I have explain to my Dr but he said is no problem but I am worried.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Geesucc: 4:54pm On Jun 22, 2018
Thanks dear.. u will testify soonest
Tripletwins222:


Congratulations dear. May u carry to full term and deliver safely in Jesus name, amen.

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Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Geesucc: 4:55pm On Jun 22, 2018
Amen.. God bless u
Thehomemaker:

Congrats mama, thank God for the new addition. May God keep you and your family in good health throughout the period and beyond.

Happy bumping




Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Geesucc: 4:57pm On Jun 22, 2018
Amen.. God bless u maam
Sweetnesstwins:


Congratulations, the Good God who started this will see you to the end.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Geesucc: 4:57pm On Jun 22, 2018
Amenn.. Thanks so much mam
Roseey0:
Geesucc
Congratulations.
U will carry to terms IJN.
What God has started, he is faithful to finish it.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Geesucc: 5:02pm On Jun 22, 2018
Thanks dear.. Ur shall testify soonest.. They r yet to post the date for July.. I will keep u guys posted however
Starmummy:



Congratulations mama,happy bumping and safe delivery, please,we need the prayer routine for d working class o,pls,post here,God bless u.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Geesucc: 5:03pm On Jun 22, 2018
Thanks dear.. God bless uuu
dbeauty:


Congratulations Mama. May you carry to term in Jesus name.
Re: Trying To Conceive A Child? TTC by Geesucc: 5:05pm On Jun 22, 2018
Amennnn... God bless u dear
happymummy:


Congratulations mama
You shall carry to terms and deliver safely in Jesus name Amen

More bfps to come in this month of June
Halleluyah

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