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Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Nobody: 11:32am On Jun 26, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:

BECAUSE IT'S THE STORY OF A MAN NOT A WOMAN.. SO IT'LL NEVER MAKE SENSE TO PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
No. It has nothing to do with the sex involved. Just find it hard to believe grown ladies would do such to a 9 year old, when there are grown matured men begging to b touched. undecided
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by lilfreezy: 11:32am On Jun 26, 2018
A lot of us guys has been victims of sexual assault from ladies in our childhood. My elder sisters friends which were also my neighbours had sex with me when I was 8. I thought it was fun at the time so I told my sister and she went furious. My mum got the young lady arrested at the time and later released
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by fr3do(m): 11:33am On Jun 26, 2018
Na wa o
This rubbish might actually be common
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Nukualofa: 11:39am On Jun 26, 2018
The guy is an Idiot and a freakin gay.


I was a victim of such growing up but it never altered my sex life nor make me to demean ladies.


I repeat once again that the guy is an Idiot
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Odey1997(m):
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Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Nobody: 11:41am On Jun 26, 2018
your anus, your hiv, your bussiness
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by holluphemydavid(m): 11:41am On Jun 26, 2018
Story
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Nobody: 11:47am On Jun 26, 2018
khalhokage:
If you don't know something don't talk like you do, I was 8 when our 16yo house help started having sex with me, not touching or playing but actual sex.
you all are miserable bunch of kids grin , no wonder we get plenty sissy for dis era
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by mamuzoOMAH(m): 11:52am On Jun 26, 2018
you guys are taking naija class captain story serious? lol. na just story e Be. it never really happens
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Constie(f): 12:04pm On Jun 26, 2018
Hmmm...
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by DeeMain(m):
For you all saying it can't happen just shut up already! When you are sexually abused at an early age it might affect the part of your mid-brain responsible for sexual development and result in changes in sexual behaviour or even sexuality.

So yes, it's possible these horrible early experiences turned him gay.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Zoe99(f): 12:22pm On Jun 26, 2018
At the age of 9,I already knew alot. I read 'Every woman' then inside out, without 'them' knowing of course. Used to go through mumcy's med books then.There was no way one would try to abuse me or do something stupid then and then I would be clueless.My parents too gave me good sex education. That's where people get it all wrong. They ignore that part.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jun 26, 2018
That didnt turn u gay.. Abuse doesnt change sexualty, it jist makes u hornrrry absurdly
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by sanpipita(m): 12:39pm On Jun 26, 2018
iPopAlomo:
Shit is real... but the story up there is fake...


getting abused by a female doesn't make one gay... overly high libido... yeah... but gay... nah...


I know... because... I was *borrowing the word* sexually molested/abused... but to be honest... I forgive you Aunty Ngozi...
It could, when ppl start sexual activity early they can find it easy to explore many fantasies
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by sanpipita(m): 12:40pm On Jun 26, 2018
DeeMain:
For you all saying it can't happen just shut up already! When you are abused at an early age it might affect the part of your mid-brain responsible for sexual development and result in changes in sexual behaviour or even sexuality.

So yes, it's possible these horrible early experiences turned him gay.
You are right on point, just hope he doesn't feel bad about it.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by vicardino(m): 12:43pm On Jun 26, 2018
Zoe99:
At the age of 9,I already knew alot. I read 'Every woman' then inside out, without 'them' knowing of course. Used to go through mumcy's med books then.There was no way one would try to abuse me or do something stupid then and then I would be clueless.My parents too gave me good sex education. That's where people get it all wrong. They ignore that part.
You still look 9
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by sanpipita(m): 12:46pm On Jun 26, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No. It has nothing to do with the sex involved. Just find it hard to believe grown ladies would do such to a 9 year old, when there are grown matured men begging to b touched. undecided
Only reason you disbelief is cases like these are under reported, and moreso a male child is expected to enjoy and even brag by sex no matter at what age he is getting it, female pedos exist in Nigeria.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by ImaIma1(f): 1:02pm On Jun 26, 2018
Sick woman.

It is not only little girls that parents should be mindful of. Both girls and boys should be protected.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by khalhokage(m): 1:10pm On Jun 26, 2018
Jiang:
you all are miserable bunch of kids grin , no wonder we get plenty sissy for dis era
lol, wetin be this thing? abeg excuse me, too many children on nairaland.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by chiedozie198100: 1:42pm On Jun 26, 2018
story for the gods
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by CAPSLOCKED: 1:59pm On Jun 26, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No. It has nothing to do with the sex involved. Just find it hard to believe grown ladies would do such to a 9 year old, when there are grown matured men begging to b touched. undecided

BUT YOU CAN BELIEVE GROWN MEN CAN DO THAT TO A 9 YEAR OLD GIRL, WHERE THERE ARE GROWN MATURED WOMEN BEGGING TO BE TOUCHED...

AND YOU SAY IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX INVOLVED.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jun 26, 2018
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BUT YOU CAN BELIEVE GROWN MEN CAN DO THAT TO A 9 YEAR OLD GIRL, WHERE THERE ARE GROWN MATURED WOMEN BEGGING TO BE TOUCHED...

AND YOU SAY IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX INVOLVED.
Well, we read such news everyday. What's this argument about?
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by CAPSLOCKED: 2:04pm On Jun 26, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Well, we read such news everyday. What's this argument about?

YOU WANT ME TO TELL YOU WHAT YOU'RE TRYING TO ARGUE ABOUT... BECAUSE YOU CANNOT SEE THE ERROR IN YOUR RECENT POSTS.

YOU'RE CLAIMING THAT IT'S NOT POSSIBLE FOR A WOMAN TO BE A PEDOPHILE.

MAYBE I'VE HAD ENOUGH CONVERSATION WITH YOU FOR TODAY.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by OPUBO7(m): 2:07pm On Jun 26, 2018
pyyxxaro:
........ ........
SHAAATAAAAP all lies need a video evidence or better still ur all grown up charge her to court, liar just to gain traffic
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Nobody: 2:08pm On Jun 26, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:

YOU WANT ME TO TELL YOU WHAT YOU'RE TRYING TO ARGUE ABOUT... BECAUSE YOU CANNOT SEE THE ERROR IN YOUR RECENT POSTS.

YOU'RE CLAIMING THAT IT'S NOT POSSIBLE FOR A WOMAN TO BE A PEDOPHILE.

MAYBE I'VE HAD ENOUGH CONVERSATION WITH YOU FOR TODAY.
I understand you probably experienced such. I never said we have no female pedophiles just that something is off about the story. Perhaps it's hard grasping such reality.
Sorry OK.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by LadyJasper: 2:13pm On Jun 26, 2018
Most of these comments are the reasons victims of different forms of sexual abuse usually don't speak up. I pray the brokenhearted find relief some day, you're beyond your bad experiences.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by CAPSLOCKED: 2:13pm On Jun 26, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
I understand you probably experienced such. I never said we have no female pedophiles just that something is off about the story. Perhaps it's hard grasping such reality.
Sorry OK.

Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by LadyJasper: 2:14pm On Jun 26, 2018
Jiang:
you all are miserable bunch of kids grin , no wonder we get plenty sissy for dis era
You're the only miserable lot here. You should know better.
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Zoe99(f): 2:20pm On Jun 26, 2018
vicardino:
You still look 9
Okay
Re: "I Was Sexually Abused By Older Women As A Child And Now I'm Gay" by Sardonicus:
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
No. It has nothing to do with the sex involved. Just find it hard to believe grown ladies would do such to a 9 year old, when there are grown matured men begging to b touched. undecided
That is like saying why will anyone want to eat apple when there are many oranges waiting to be eaten.
Some people like apples, some like oranges, others want both.
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